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Solicitor completely effed up!

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JessicaRabbit23 · 21/02/2026 14:24

Can anybody let me know if this is ok to send to a solicitor for a complaint? Am I being unreasonable?
thanks

Dear [Solicitor’s Name or Firm],

I am writing to formally lodge a complaint regarding serious errors during the probate process of [Deceased’s Name]. Two wills were provided to your firm: a revoked will and the most recent valid will. Despite clear communication, the revoked will was initially sent to probate, delaying the process by several months. While I was understanding, the situation escalated when HMRC granted probate, but then uploaded the revoked will to the public registry. This has resulted in the previous beneficiary being aware of their inclusion in a superseded will, creating significant concern.

Although I contacted your office immediately upon discovering this error, and you acted swiftly to correct it, the fact remains that this mistake has jeopardized the integrity of the probate process and caused undue stress. Given these circumstances, I request that your firm cover any legal costs I now incur due to potential contestation of the will. I would also like a written clarification confirming whether this incident constitutes legal malpractice or gross misconduct. Should I not receive satisfactory resolution, I will have no choice but to escalate this matter.

I look forward to your prompt response.

Yours sincerely,
[Your Name]
[Your Contact Information]

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JessicaRabbit23 · 21/02/2026 16:57

WTAFIsWrongWithPeople · 21/02/2026 16:55

She clearly thinks she is your sister.

Hell of a coincidence, no?

Who?

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JessicaRabbit23 · 21/02/2026 16:58

lessglittermoremud · 21/02/2026 16:10

I would just ignore her, if she wants to waste her time and energy contesting what sounds like a legitimate will, let her crack on!
As she’s not a blood relative I assume you don’t have to have any contact with her/risk of bumping into her at family events so block her, the solicitor has explained to her why/what has happened.
I wouldn’t send the letter to the solicitor, they rectified the mistake as soon as the were made aware of it.

Thank you 🫶

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Seelybe · 21/02/2026 16:58

@JessicaRabbit23 could I offer a different suggestion?

If you make a complaint against the solicitor it would need to be to get compensation for any direct

loss you suffered because of their mistake e.g. because of probate delay. You would need to ask for a specific sum to cover it.
If there is no financial loss I would instead write to them and ask them to

  1. take all necessary action with HMRC to delete the revoked will and upload the valid one and
  2. write to the aggrieved party apologising for the issue but stating that Legal probate has been granted, the will administered in full accordance with the deceased 's wishes, and to please refrain from any further contact with you on this matter.

Said relative will have no.joy with the will as it was valid and they are not a dependant. But they can go ahead and complain about the solicitor and/or HMRC if they wish!

DeftWasp · 21/02/2026 16:58

JessicaRabbit23 · 21/02/2026 16:50

They didn’t. They asked the solicitor for the correct will probate granted everyone distributed but ended up uploading the revoked copy on the probate registry search.

This really shows you have nothing to worry about, the probate office have accepted and granted probate on the final will - the previous one is therefore confirmed to have been superseded.

The ex partners daughter has not a fractal of a chance in hell of winning a contest - your dad revised his will, years ago, and the current version has been ratified, approved and probate granted.

She was not a dependant, and the change was so long ago she will have no chance of proving an issue with coercion or testamentary capacity. Please don't worry.

Don't complain to the solicitors, but you could ask them to draft a reply to her to get her to stop contacting you, outlining the position - I would hope they might do that FOC due to the mix up, that letter would be worth more than compensation.

Alpacajigsaw · 21/02/2026 16:58

The solicitors mistake is quite minor then, as PP said I think a claim against them will fail on causation as the real reason for the problem is the wrong document being uploaded in error, which the solicitor was not responsible for.

Tell the CF to fuck off and don’t give them another thought.

JessicaRabbit23 · 21/02/2026 17:01

Alpacajigsaw · 21/02/2026 16:58

The solicitors mistake is quite minor then, as PP said I think a claim against them will fail on causation as the real reason for the problem is the wrong document being uploaded in error, which the solicitor was not responsible for.

Tell the CF to fuck off and don’t give them another thought.

Thank you 🫶

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Ljzjta · 21/02/2026 17:03

Mistakes happen, no one can contest a will when it has been revoked by a valid will. The Probate Registry will progress granting probate on the correct Will, it is just time that you will lose, the solicitor wouldn’t/shouldn’t charge you for extra work carried out following their mistakes. We are all human and threatening emails will not help you; only make you look like an unreasonable person!

WTAFIsWrongWithPeople · 21/02/2026 17:04

JessicaRabbit23 · 21/02/2026 16:57

Who?

The author of the other thread.

JessicaRabbit23 · 21/02/2026 17:04

DeftWasp · 21/02/2026 16:58

This really shows you have nothing to worry about, the probate office have accepted and granted probate on the final will - the previous one is therefore confirmed to have been superseded.

The ex partners daughter has not a fractal of a chance in hell of winning a contest - your dad revised his will, years ago, and the current version has been ratified, approved and probate granted.

She was not a dependant, and the change was so long ago she will have no chance of proving an issue with coercion or testamentary capacity. Please don't worry.

Don't complain to the solicitors, but you could ask them to draft a reply to her to get her to stop contacting you, outlining the position - I would hope they might do that FOC due to the mix up, that letter would be worth more than compensation.

Thank you ever so much for your reply. I feel like the solicitors did what they could and I wouldn’t want to get the solicitor I had in trouble. I just had scenarios of her contesting and me loosing everything. I don’t know why. I just think like this.

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JessicaRabbit23 · 21/02/2026 17:06

Ljzjta · 21/02/2026 17:03

Mistakes happen, no one can contest a will when it has been revoked by a valid will. The Probate Registry will progress granting probate on the correct Will, it is just time that you will lose, the solicitor wouldn’t/shouldn’t charge you for extra work carried out following their mistakes. We are all human and threatening emails will not help you; only make you look like an unreasonable person!

Edited

Thank you. Probate was granted last month and I have already started dipping into it paying debts off. It was a mistake it’s been corrected but that doesn’t stop me worrying about the awkward situation x

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JessicaRabbit23 · 21/02/2026 17:10

DeftWasp · 21/02/2026 16:21

This response nailed it.

Yes your solicitor made an error, but, there is no real chance of the ex beneficiary challenging - just ignore them and move on.

Too late for you now, but for anyone else named executor, as I have been - stop, take a breath and allow yourself time to grieve - you don't have to do everything fast, no one official will chase you for a long time - set the task to one side for a couple of months to get a clear head.

Thank you. 🙏🫶

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JessicaRabbit23 · 21/02/2026 17:11

AldiLidlDeeDee · 21/02/2026 16:04

I’m so sorry for your loss.

Although you’re clearly distressed, I think you need to hold fire for now as the ex beneficiary doesn't appear to have any real chance of succeeding with contesting the will. Feeling aggrieved that they’d been left out of the revised will isn’t grounds by itself to contest a will, especially given that they weren’t even financially dependent on the deceased at the time of his death.

A solicitors firm might agree to take on their case after advising them of the futility of their claim but only because they expect to be paid by this person regardless of the outcome of any court case. It doesn’t mean the solicitors think the person actually has a good case!

Some people throw £££££ into legal fees on completely hopeless litigation hoping that by being pushy, they’ll get something out of it. They’re complete chancers!

If this person is repeatedly bothering you directly and asking for money, ignore them or write to them and tell them that you’ll report them to the police for harassment. You do not need to engage with them at all.

Edited

Thank you 🫶🙏

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JessicaRabbit23 · 21/02/2026 17:13

lessglittermoremud · 21/02/2026 16:10

I would just ignore her, if she wants to waste her time and energy contesting what sounds like a legitimate will, let her crack on!
As she’s not a blood relative I assume you don’t have to have any contact with her/risk of bumping into her at family events so block her, the solicitor has explained to her why/what has happened.
I wouldn’t send the letter to the solicitor, they rectified the mistake as soon as the were made aware of it.

No not at all. My family have nothing to do with her. The situation was odd. I have tried to be nice but feel like after this I need to disengage

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JessicaRabbit23 · 21/02/2026 17:14

WTAFIsWrongWithPeople · 21/02/2026 17:04

The author of the other thread.

Oh really I read that and she was talking about care needs and a partner looking after parents

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Sgreenpy · 21/02/2026 17:33

As other PP have said - the solicitor didn't really make the mistake, it was the probate registry.

Don't send the letter you have written it's complete nonsense. You could ask your solicitor to send a letter, free of charge, to the ex beneficiary outlining what has happened and that probate was granted.
Its so difficult to challenge a will - even actual children aren't always successful, never mind adult children of ex partners! You have to prove reasonable financial dependence to the deceased - child under 18/wife/child with disabilities etc, if you are 'left out of someone's will', not just unfairness/i was in the previous will. Its also a costly affair to challenge a long standing will - you mentioned it was written in 2016.

Don't give this anymore brain space, use the money you have been left wisely (or spend it all!). I'm sorry for the loss of your father xxx

letmebetheone · 21/02/2026 17:48

Is it possible that when her parent died they left their money to your dad instead of her so you are getting what would have been her inheritance and that is why she feels like she does?

MissMoneyFairy · 21/02/2026 18:30

letmebetheone · 21/02/2026 17:48

Is it possible that when her parent died they left their money to your dad instead of her so you are getting what would have been her inheritance and that is why she feels like she does?

Possibly but if her parent left it to op dad then it wouldn't have been her inheritance, op doesn't need the added stress of trying to figure out the past and motives.

TradFemWifeMaterial · 21/02/2026 19:54

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Jc2001 · 21/02/2026 19:57

TheBeaTgoeson1 · 21/02/2026 14:29

Jeopardised unless you’re in America.
The letter reads like an AI offering.

Why does it matter if it's AI? They're not applying for a job or submitting some coursework for a degree.

Arlanymor · 21/02/2026 20:15

WTAFIsWrongWithPeople · 21/02/2026 16:55

She clearly thinks she is your sister.

Hell of a coincidence, no?

You’ve quote a thread where a blood family member is getting £10k, not remotely what this thread is talking about. Because this is about disinheritance.

MissMoneyFairy · 21/02/2026 20:28

Jc2001 · 21/02/2026 19:57

Why does it matter if it's AI? They're not applying for a job or submitting some coursework for a degree.

Because it's incorrect and doesn't make any sense

JessicaRabbit23 · 21/02/2026 22:56

letmebetheone · 21/02/2026 17:48

Is it possible that when her parent died they left their money to your dad instead of her so you are getting what would have been her inheritance and that is why she feels like she does?

Absolutely not the case x

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MissMoneyFairy · 22/02/2026 09:29

JessicaRabbit23 · 21/02/2026 22:56

Absolutely not the case x

Of course not, if it was then she would have contested her mums will. This is not for you to worry about, you've enough to deal with.

cowandplough · 22/02/2026 17:41

I would refer to the LAW SOCIETY.

NeedSomeHeadspace · 22/02/2026 17:46

Please tell me, it’s not a Hampshire-based solicitor by any chance? I’m having to act similarly because of malpractice, though not a probate issue.