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To ask for words and phrases you no longer say?

213 replies

namezchangez · 21/02/2026 11:24

Not really an AIBU, but I wanted a good list! DH and I were talking about words and phrases we used to say frequently as children in the 80s and which now we rarely use or hear. Some of these refer to things that no longer exist, or which have become rare, some have fallen out of fashion, some now seem tasteless or prejudicial. Would love to hear some more! (And doesn’t need to be from the 80s.)

ozone layer
polystyrene
crybaby
wicked (as a term of approval)
teacake
space race
Indian summer
gooseberries

OP posts:
IsThistheMiddleofNowhere · 23/02/2026 15:59

'What the Dickins' and 'smashing', although those were probably from the 60s/70s rather than the 80s.

VivienneDelacroix · 23/02/2026 16:04

"The pictures" I say cinema now, but I still prefer "the pictures".

ChuckJacksonIvegottheNeedNSoul · 23/02/2026 17:53

A record being 100mph or a stomper
Northern soul lingo

Tickyandtackyandjackiethebackie · 23/02/2026 20:46

'Div' and 'Eggy' - meaning moody/stroppy in the '80's 😂

OSupergran · 23/02/2026 21:40

Droppit · 22/02/2026 21:27

Big Jessie
Scuzzie
Wonga
Spod

I'd forgotten spod!

queenofthebongo · 23/02/2026 21:55

namezchangez · 21/02/2026 11:24

Not really an AIBU, but I wanted a good list! DH and I were talking about words and phrases we used to say frequently as children in the 80s and which now we rarely use or hear. Some of these refer to things that no longer exist, or which have become rare, some have fallen out of fashion, some now seem tasteless or prejudicial. Would love to hear some more! (And doesn’t need to be from the 80s.)

ozone layer
polystyrene
crybaby
wicked (as a term of approval)
teacake
space race
Indian summer
gooseberries

I still use all of these! Except for Indian summer I think. 🤔

Glaspeated · 23/02/2026 22:01

We no longer say “Chinese wall”. It’s now an “Information barrier”. I never viewed Chinese wall as being derogatory or offensive - I thought it was just a reference to the Great Wall of China.

pompomtiddly · 25/02/2026 01:06

things I remember my Nan (born 1912 in the Black Country)saying
She’s no better than she ought to be (it always referred to a woman)
they’re neither use nor ornament
you’re like a fart in a colander
Are you courting?
’avin a nozzack (being nosy)
sterra(sterilised milk)
In response to being asked what was for tea she always said shit n herrings - without the ‘errings

Wordsmithery · 25/02/2026 08:33

LittleMissLateForWorkAgain · 21/02/2026 12:30

Oh and just remembered other ones

"Going too far" sex or nearly having sex. Often written in by readers of Jackie magazine to the Cathy and Claire problem pages which we devoured as 13 year old.

"Going steady" proper boyfriend and girlfriend exclusively " Louise and Steve have been going steady for 3 months. Why is Julie trying it on with him? " said in scandalised shock

And also from Jackie, "heavy petting". 😂

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 25/02/2026 08:35

VictoriaEra · 21/02/2026 12:49

I definitely say tea cake. I’ve just eaten one.

I bought some yesterday. Warburton’s Fruity Teacakes 😋.

MissAdvantage · 25/02/2026 08:36

haven't said the word ‘Joey’ since a child in the 80s

DappledThings · 25/02/2026 09:09

Silverbirchleaf · 23/02/2026 13:36

Baker days - for Inset days

I say inset day now so everyone knows what I mean but in my head they are still Baker days.

Very confused about polystyrene. Does it have a new name now? I was complaining only this week about the number of bin bags I've filled purely with polystyrene from all the flat packing furniture I've been building.

And I have a teacake in a cafe at least once a week. Sometimes with jam and butter, sometimes just butter. The one in town I go to most often provides 4 pats of butter per teacake which is an excellent ratio.

Silverbirchleaf · 25/02/2026 09:21

Partly as a direct response to this thread, discussed ‘spending a penny’ with two young adult colleagues of mine (under thirty), after someone happened to say it. Although they both knew it referred to going to the toilet, and one mentioned her grandad used to say it a lot, neither realised it meant that you had to pay a penny to use a toilet facility.

NotMeAtAll · 25/02/2026 09:31

Living in sin.
Unmarried mother.
Common law wife/husband.
Illegitimate.

ginnitonic · 25/02/2026 09:33

CrayonCritic5 · 22/02/2026 18:54

Well I’d say that public discussion has shifted to talk about “climate change” and “global warming” more generally and so not specifically referencing the ozone layer.

Probably because the initial panic back then was about depletion of the ozone layer causing more UV radiation reaching the Earth's surface causing skin cancer etc. rather than the affect on heat being trapped by the atmosphere by CO2 as well

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 25/02/2026 09:42

losttheplot25 · 21/02/2026 12:58

Going to the Pictures
now everyone seems to say cinema. My dad mid 70s used to call it the Flicks.

As long as Brits don’t call it a ‘movie theatre’, I don’t care.

In my long ago, miss-spent youth, we went to the pictures.

ChuckJacksonIvegottheNeedNSoul · 25/02/2026 12:12

Wordsmithery · 25/02/2026 08:33

And also from Jackie, "heavy petting". 😂

And swimming pool rules poster..no bombing ,no heavy petting as a kid learning to swim at the local baths no idea what that meant

Zanatdy · 25/02/2026 12:16

Gordon Bennett!

StopThePigeonNow · 25/02/2026 14:04

NotMeAtAll · 25/02/2026 09:31

Living in sin.
Unmarried mother.
Common law wife/husband.
Illegitimate.

Living over the brush.
Being a kept woman.
In the family way.
Not being ladylike.

StopThePigeonNow · 25/02/2026 14:09

I always used to hear my nan call someone titty fellore (or something very similar). I’ve heard other people of her generation say it but I haven’t heard it since about the 90’s.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 25/02/2026 14:44

StopThePigeonNow · 25/02/2026 14:09

I always used to hear my nan call someone titty fellore (or something very similar). I’ve heard other people of her generation say it but I haven’t heard it since about the 90’s.

Could it have been Titty Flo? For obvious reasons, this is a tricky one to google, but I found this. https://english.stackexchange.com/questions/366823/origins-of-the-phrase-titty-flo#:~:text=Ask%20Question,flo%2C%20lets%20go%20now..

Silverbirchleaf · 25/02/2026 14:59

I wondered whether it was a Ken Dodd saying. I quick search found he used to say ‘tattyfilarious’ meaning funny.

DreamingOfGeneHunt · 25/02/2026 15:46

Tittyfaloo? I've heard that one before. No idea how it's spelt!

OSupergran · 25/02/2026 16:09

DreamingOfGeneHunt · 25/02/2026 15:46

Tittyfaloo? I've heard that one before. No idea how it's spelt!

Are you sure you weren't mishearing Petits Filous?!

DreamingOfGeneHunt · 25/02/2026 18:56

OSupergran · 25/02/2026 16:09

Are you sure you weren't mishearing Petits Filous?!

Nope! It was in connection to actual titsGrin

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