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To ask for words and phrases you no longer say?

213 replies

namezchangez · 21/02/2026 11:24

Not really an AIBU, but I wanted a good list! DH and I were talking about words and phrases we used to say frequently as children in the 80s and which now we rarely use or hear. Some of these refer to things that no longer exist, or which have become rare, some have fallen out of fashion, some now seem tasteless or prejudicial. Would love to hear some more! (And doesn’t need to be from the 80s.)

ozone layer
polystyrene
crybaby
wicked (as a term of approval)
teacake
space race
Indian summer
gooseberries

OP posts:
Sahara123 · 21/02/2026 14:23

I’ve become a bit obsessed with Call the Midwife and have started all over. I notice they never say someone is pregnant , but are “ in the family way “ . Currently in 1962!

CloudPop · 21/02/2026 14:24

Skyping - ie making a video call - not that long ago really, and now completely obsolete

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 21/02/2026 14:24

Phonograph
Doodlebug
Horseless carriage
Telegram

HeartyBlueRobin · 21/02/2026 14:27

My.mum used to say you're either in or out, you're like a wandering *. 😱. Definitely not PC and not something I'd ever say.

Eiderdown
Continental quilt

Nosejobnelly · 21/02/2026 14:32

mogtheexcellent · 21/02/2026 13:37

Piss off and naff off are the ones I miss most.

I still say ‘piss off’

Nosejobnelly · 21/02/2026 14:33

Ladette!

Nosejobnelly · 21/02/2026 14:34

Gooseberry is ‘third wheel’ now!

Nosejobnelly · 21/02/2026 14:36

Someone being described as ‘a vegetable’ when they’re in a vegetative state.

StrongLikeMamma · 21/02/2026 14:37

Wally
Yuppie
Walkman
Wicked (meaning good)

StopThePigeonNow · 21/02/2026 14:39

DreamingOfGeneHunt · 21/02/2026 13:43

I still say Piss Off, Teacake, Polystyrene, Wazzock, Twonk. I still have a CD player and Dvd player!
Plenty of bouncy castles here (S Yorkshire)

One I haven't heard in years is coursey- pavement. That could be regional though.

Also SY and I still say most of the things on listed so far. I never use coursey but I do say coursey edge for kerb.

Sayings I haven’t heard in ages are things like get stuffed, stuff off, shut your neck, stop mithering, tonguing/frenching for snogging, cock of whichever place you lived in for someone that was good at fighting, manking (always used to get asked by grandparents if I was manking yet 😂.

GrannyAchingsShepherdsHut · 21/02/2026 14:42

I tell the cat to naff off regularly! 😂

Tryagain26 · 21/02/2026 14:42

namezchangez · 21/02/2026 11:24

Not really an AIBU, but I wanted a good list! DH and I were talking about words and phrases we used to say frequently as children in the 80s and which now we rarely use or hear. Some of these refer to things that no longer exist, or which have become rare, some have fallen out of fashion, some now seem tasteless or prejudicial. Would love to hear some more! (And doesn’t need to be from the 80s.)

ozone layer
polystyrene
crybaby
wicked (as a term of approval)
teacake
space race
Indian summer
gooseberries

Why don't you say gooseberry or teacakes anymore?
Gooseberry crumble is delicious as are toasted teacakes I had one yesterday! I don't think either are particular words from the 90s.

ChuckJacksonIvegottheNeedNSoul · 21/02/2026 14:44

GrannyAchingsShepherdsHut · 21/02/2026 14:42

I tell the cat to naff off regularly! 😂

Naff off reminds me of Norman Stanley Fletcher of porridge.
Naff off Godber.

MasterBeth · 21/02/2026 14:45

StopThePigeonNow · 21/02/2026 14:39

Also SY and I still say most of the things on listed so far. I never use coursey but I do say coursey edge for kerb.

Sayings I haven’t heard in ages are things like get stuffed, stuff off, shut your neck, stop mithering, tonguing/frenching for snogging, cock of whichever place you lived in for someone that was good at fighting, manking (always used to get asked by grandparents if I was manking yet 😂.

What's manking?

CremeEggThief · 21/02/2026 14:46

LittleMissLateForWorkAgain · 21/02/2026 12:26

Also Provy (loan lady)
Div/divvy (stupid person)
Tuck shop (school break cafe thing that sold coke cans and chocolate and crisps)
"Video it for me" (tape a programme off tv to watch on a video tape later)
Be kind. Rewind. (On all blockbuster video tapes hired out)

Really bizarre and maybe just my school but if you wanted to threaten someone you d say
" you're dead. 20 to 4" referring to the time school ended. Presumably the victim would be beaten up outside school.

Ankle swingers. Flares that didn't reach the shoes so a lot of sock was visible.

Divvy is still used all the time in the northeast! 😂

MasterBeth · 21/02/2026 14:46

HeartyBlueRobin · 21/02/2026 14:27

My.mum used to say you're either in or out, you're like a wandering *. 😱. Definitely not PC and not something I'd ever say.

Eiderdown
Continental quilt

Like wandering what? Never heard this.

StopThePigeonNow · 21/02/2026 14:52

MasterBeth · 21/02/2026 14:45

What's manking?

Edited

I always presumed it meant heavy petting. 🤣🤣🤣 I never clarified. I’d usually get asked if I was manking yet, I’d say what and look confused and then they would ask if I had a boyfriend yet. They were 60 years older than me so I was never actually certain what it involved. 🤷🏼‍♀️😂

StopThePigeonNow · 21/02/2026 14:53

MasterBeth · 21/02/2026 14:46

Like wandering what? Never heard this.

It’s a Jewish slur I think.

EmeraldGlade · 21/02/2026 14:55

Tomboy to describe little 'non-girly' girls

A reverse one, queer was like a swear word/insult but seems to have been revived with a positive meaning

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 21/02/2026 15:10

EmeraldGlade · 21/02/2026 14:55

Tomboy to describe little 'non-girly' girls

A reverse one, queer was like a swear word/insult but seems to have been revived with a positive meaning

Queer is still a slur for a lot of gay men who lived through the era of gaybashing and paranoia over AIDS. It's by no means universally accepted as a positive word.

My Mum uses queer in its original sense of not quite right, bit odd or unexpected. I doubt many people nowadays use the old phrase 'queer the pitch'.

Friendlygingercat · 21/02/2026 15:26

Spinster - unmarried woman
Old maid - unmarried woman
Scallywag badly behaved
Hobbledehoy - clumsy
Ragamuffin - someone in ragged clothes
Ingrate - ungrateful person
Any Tom Dick or Harry - a random
Two fingers the same length - dishonest

ballroompink · 21/02/2026 15:29

Words we all used a lot when I was a kid/teenager but I never hear my teen say:

Manky
Skanky/skank
Scabby
Snog
Gross
Talking about 'fancying' someone
Boffin
Frigid
Mega
Wicked
Townie
Grunger
Minger/minging
Calling someone who was uncool/badly dressed/smelly a 'bin digger' (never heard anyone else mention this so perhaps that was a local thing)

Cyclistmumgrandma · 21/02/2026 16:14

Counterpane
carpet sweeper
mangle

Silverbirchleaf · 21/02/2026 16:27

Do people still say ‘divvy’ it out, as in divide it up and hand it out. .

cardibach · 21/02/2026 16:36

losttheplot25 · 21/02/2026 13:02

A bit none PC and I apologise but when i'd ask where mum was as a child the response would be "she's run off with a black man" 🤦‍♀️😯

Round my way the running off was quite specifically to London too!