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Is living on the state pension really that bad?

717 replies

cateringday · 21/02/2026 09:07

I mean, if you own your home then you’re getting around £250 a week just for bills and spends.
i have a tiny pension and DH has none. I am always worrying about this but then realised that we will have no rent or mortgage to pay.
im just wondering if it would be as awful as people make out? I hear stuff saying you need £300000 in pension pot to have a comfortable retirement, why would you need that much?

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DisplayPurposesOnly · 21/02/2026 09:45

Just beware that if youre getting the full state pension £230pw, you dont also get pension credit. PC is to top up income thats below £223pw:
https://www.gov.uk/pension-credit/eligibility

Pension Credit

Pension Credit is extra money for pensioners to bring your weekly income up to a minimum amount - what you'll get, apply, eligibility.

https://www.gov.uk/pension-credit/eligibility

Meadowfinch · 21/02/2026 09:45

arethereanyleftatall · 21/02/2026 09:42

My mum and her friends are living their dream atm. Group of about 10. Pack a picnic, get a free bus somewhere different every day. Walk.

And for the six months a year that it's cold or wet and they need to run their heating all day?
Or the days when rheumatism is playing up and walking is a misery?

Freeasabreeze · 21/02/2026 09:46

Dearover · 21/02/2026 09:12

There is also the issue of future care needs. If you can't afford private provision, you have minimal choice available.

I agree, you need a huge amount of money to pay for elder care needs these days, way beyond a standard private pension pot.

My mum has advanced dementia and currently pays £4000 per month for 3 X carer visits per day. My parents are fortunate to have inheritance which was invested wisely but with the cost of living going up and issues such as DC living at home later in life (so downsizing and investing not as easy as with last generations) many people going forward into older age are going to have to rely on state funded care if they are living simply on a basic pension.

And as someone who is currently spending time viewing private care homes (most £6k+ per month), I find the prospect of ending up in a state funded care home absolutely terrifying tbh (We have also viewed many that except state funded care and lets just say I'm glad my mum has sayings).

Enrichetta · 21/02/2026 09:46

AttachmentFTW · 21/02/2026 09:41

But why should the state pay for people to have a nice life? As others have said state pension should be for keeping people out of poverty and to have food and shelter for the rest of your life. If you want the extras that make life more enjoyable but are not totally necessary then people should have their own savings/pension for that. You know, like working people have to.

Nobody is saying that the state should pay for luxuries. People are pointing out that if one does want more than the basics in retirement one needs to make additional provision through pensions and/or investments.

Ricospeed · 21/02/2026 09:46

arethereanyleftatall · 21/02/2026 09:19

I don’t know any pensioner in real life who actually struggles. Including those who only have state pension. Every single one I know, own family, neighbours etc are living a very lovely life. I’m not saying pension poverty doesn’t exist, but I am saying that I personally don’t know any pensioner who is struggling.
my own grandmother is 90, gets everything paid for by the state, and doesn’t know what to do with it all every week. Her life is her little security council flat paid for, my mum takes her to withdraw her £250 every week, takes her shopping (she doesn’t eat much), pays her energy bill for her and then grandma doesn’t know what to do with the remaining. It’s not like she’s active enough to go travelling or skydiving with it.

Not everyone gets the £250 if you were born before 53 it’s the old rate which isn’t that amount it’s less than £200
so how could the 90 year old draw £250 every week and get everything paid for as well rubbish just an assumption

Mcdhotchoc · 21/02/2026 09:46

Prob doable
Biggest issue though is lack of resilience. Car repairs, house repairs, boiler etc.

Vartden · 21/02/2026 09:46

AttachmentFTW · 21/02/2026 09:41

But why should the state pay for people to have a nice life? As others have said state pension should be for keeping people out of poverty and to have food and shelter for the rest of your life. If you want the extras that make life more enjoyable but are not totally necessary then people should have their own savings/pension for that. You know, like working people have to.

I think people should take responsibility for their own pensions if they can.
However what you have written is plain nasty.

arethereanyleftatall · 21/02/2026 09:46

Meadowfinch · 21/02/2026 09:45

And for the six months a year that it's cold or wet and they need to run their heating all day?
Or the days when rheumatism is playing up and walking is a misery?

Then she wears a woolly hat and a raincoat.

Imdunfer · 21/02/2026 09:47

matresense · 21/02/2026 09:40

It might be possible as two. But the big issue is what happens if your partner dies? You don’t pay half as much heating or electricity. It really is very insecure and I wouldn’t recommend it at all.

Very good point!

Rainbow1901 · 21/02/2026 09:48

Think it depends on your circumstances. My exMIL has never really worked when FIL died she started with widows allowance and rent paid on council house. Thirty plus years on she is still on benefits but now in rent paid assisted flat with so much money in the bank - exDH and his wife have to keep drawing cash out so she doesn't exceed limit that will affect her benefits!! So obviously some people can manage it!
But I imagine if rent/mortgage are not a factor then a couple of hundred quid a week should be a reasonable amount to live on.

WutheringTights · 21/02/2026 09:49

Catlady03 · 21/02/2026 09:24

Yes, they’ve paid into it, but just like today their taxes funded pensioners then. We don’t have our own individual state pension pot.

And when they were working and paying into it, state pensions were much less generous than they are now, and they were supporting far fewer pensioners. (No triple lock back then.) Now that they’re drawing state pensions, they want today’s workers to support far more pensioners, much more generously. Doesn’t seem quite fair to me.

Dearover · 21/02/2026 09:49

Imdunfer · 21/02/2026 09:43

The choice may be less but you'll end up in the same home as people around you paying privately. Only the extremely rich can afford the homes that are private only.

You don't though, as the state won't fund high quality care. Groups such as Barchester will only take residents if you can prove you have liquid assets of approx £150 - £200k. Local authorities will not pay in the region of £6k per month. Family run care homes may take a mix of state & self funded residents, but others simply don't need to. That is what I mean by choice.

arethereanyleftatall · 21/02/2026 09:49

Ricospeed · 21/02/2026 09:46

Not everyone gets the £250 if you were born before 53 it’s the old rate which isn’t that amount it’s less than £200
so how could the 90 year old draw £250 every week and get everything paid for as well rubbish just an assumption

I don’t know what amount it is, I just copied the op, I just know she buys pointless trinkets and stuffs all the leftover notes under her mattress every week. My only point was she is not struggling.

converseandjeans · 21/02/2026 09:49

thedevilinablackdress · 21/02/2026 09:37

Pension credit is to top up to a minimum weekly income e.g. if state pension was your only income

www.ageuk.org.uk/information-advice/money-legal/benefits-entitlements/pension-credit/

@thedevilinablackdress yes I realise what pension credit is - but it means that it’s more than the state pension. Top up payments plus access to free things mean she is getting more than the basic pension amount. That’s what makes it possible to live off.

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 21/02/2026 09:49

arethereanyleftatall · 21/02/2026 09:35

Good point re her help from my mum and aunties.

I live at a distance to my mum, and am faced every day with small issues she can’t manage alone. Her phone, WiFi, printer… if a visitor or workman leaves a window open, she can’t close it. She can’t reach anything stored above her head. She’s 86 and in excellent health but every day brings challenges.

UnhappyHobbit · 21/02/2026 09:51

Donttellempike · 21/02/2026 09:15

Is it? People have paid into this all their lives. What an attitude 😵‍💫

Through national insurance contributions but it’s not an exclusive pension pot. Some people haven’t paid and will get the equivalent on pension credit.

Gallowayan · 21/02/2026 09:51

You may want to retire before 67, or not be able to work up to that age. It also depends on your situation in life. A state pension income of around 12 K would not support a middle class lifestyle, even if you own your home. A pension fund of 300k, if cautiously invested, might bring an an annual return of 20k or so, over time to supplement your income. HTH.

Imdunfer · 21/02/2026 09:51

Dearover · 21/02/2026 09:49

You don't though, as the state won't fund high quality care. Groups such as Barchester will only take residents if you can prove you have liquid assets of approx £150 - £200k. Local authorities will not pay in the region of £6k per month. Family run care homes may take a mix of state & self funded residents, but others simply don't need to. That is what I mean by choice.

Edited

That's what I said.

Only the very rich can afford to be in care homes that don't t take any state funded people.

The vast majority end up side by side with people paying privately until their funds run out and the state takes over.

Lower cost care does not mean low quality care.

Vartden · 21/02/2026 09:51

arethereanyleftatall · 21/02/2026 09:46

Then she wears a woolly hat and a raincoat.

Says someone who obviously hasn't a clue about rheumatism. ( Not just a disease of the elderly either if it was that age group you wanted to pop at)

Kendodd · 21/02/2026 09:51

arethereanyleftatall · 21/02/2026 09:19

I don’t know any pensioner in real life who actually struggles. Including those who only have state pension. Every single one I know, own family, neighbours etc are living a very lovely life. I’m not saying pension poverty doesn’t exist, but I am saying that I personally don’t know any pensioner who is struggling.
my own grandmother is 90, gets everything paid for by the state, and doesn’t know what to do with it all every week. Her life is her little security council flat paid for, my mum takes her to withdraw her £250 every week, takes her shopping (she doesn’t eat much), pays her energy bill for her and then grandma doesn’t know what to do with the remaining. It’s not like she’s active enough to go travelling or skydiving with it.

I grew up very poor and so the people around me growing up were all poor. They're now pensioners living in council properties on state pensions and top up benefits. They have more spare money now than they ever had in their working age lives when on minimum wage jobs and state benefits. I bet they'd be described in the media as the pensioners living in poverty but they knew much worse poverty when they were actually working and with children to look after.
This isn't a criticism btw, I'm glad they're not living in such poverty anymore.

CoralOP · 21/02/2026 09:52

arethereanyleftatall · 21/02/2026 09:46

Then she wears a woolly hat and a raincoat.

Love it. There was no keeping my grandma in until the day she died.
Snow, get the snow boots out, rain, get one of her 300 brollies out, bad back, get the wheelchair out!

HappyFace2025 · 21/02/2026 09:54

Indianajet · 21/02/2026 09:19

I am enjoying life, it all depends on what sort of life you want/are used to.
My social life consists mainly of meeting friends for coffee/lunch, occasional visits to the theatre etc. I am happy with that, other people want exotic holidays etc.
I am happy with a simple life.

That all depends on where you live, to an extent. In London I can't afford the theatre except on very rare occasions and holidays are a complete non starter. I do go out for coffee with friends and belong to a book club and bridge classes (which are free) but I live on a tight budget. As a result I spend a lot of days at home.

TinkerTailorLadyThinker · 21/02/2026 09:55

cateringday · 21/02/2026 09:07

I mean, if you own your home then you’re getting around £250 a week just for bills and spends.
i have a tiny pension and DH has none. I am always worrying about this but then realised that we will have no rent or mortgage to pay.
im just wondering if it would be as awful as people make out? I hear stuff saying you need £300000 in pension pot to have a comfortable retirement, why would you need that much?

It depends on your age.
And you're talking about TWO state pensions = £25K.

If you are in your 90s, don't drive, don't go on holidays, don't buy many clothes etc, then you could JUST about manage.

But AS A SINGLE PERSON out of the £12K state pension, £3K could go on council tax, £1.5K on utilities. £1K on water rates, then there is house insurance, car running costs, food, clothes, gifts for family, etc etc.

I think you're confusing things when you talk about a £300,000K pension pot. That equates to a monthly income, although some people take it as a lump sum.

For example, a pension pot of £1.2million might give an annual pension of £40-60K, with or without taking a lump sum up to £250K.

If as a couple you will have 2 state pensions = £25K a year you could survive but it would be tight.

The issue will be if you are widowed and have only your own pensions.

Boolabus · 21/02/2026 09:55

Gallowayan · 21/02/2026 09:51

You may want to retire before 67, or not be able to work up to that age. It also depends on your situation in life. A state pension income of around 12 K would not support a middle class lifestyle, even if you own your home. A pension fund of 300k, if cautiously invested, might bring an an annual return of 20k or so, over time to supplement your income. HTH.

Edited

You won't get the state pension until you reach pension age so if that's all you've got early retirement isn't an option. There's been an issue in Ireland where some jobs have 65 as retirement age but state pension doesn't kick in until 66 leaving people having to go on job seekers allowance to bridge the gab and also means they have to prove they're actively seeking work in that year as well.

arethereanyleftatall · 21/02/2026 09:56

Kendodd · 21/02/2026 09:51

I grew up very poor and so the people around me growing up were all poor. They're now pensioners living in council properties on state pensions and top up benefits. They have more spare money now than they ever had in their working age lives when on minimum wage jobs and state benefits. I bet they'd be described in the media as the pensioners living in poverty but they knew much worse poverty when they were actually working and with children to look after.
This isn't a criticism btw, I'm glad they're not living in such poverty anymore.

Spot on. This is my experience too.