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Is living on the state pension really that bad?

717 replies

cateringday · 21/02/2026 09:07

I mean, if you own your home then you’re getting around £250 a week just for bills and spends.
i have a tiny pension and DH has none. I am always worrying about this but then realised that we will have no rent or mortgage to pay.
im just wondering if it would be as awful as people make out? I hear stuff saying you need £300000 in pension pot to have a comfortable retirement, why would you need that much?

OP posts:
arethereanyleftatall · 21/02/2026 09:35

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 21/02/2026 09:25

I’m not disagreeing with you. Your grandma does have support from you though. If she didn’t have helpful family and was paying for someone to take her to the shop etc, it wouldn’t go as far.

The cost of getting someone in to help with jobs you can’t manage yourself- changing the bed, doing laundry, retuning your TV (and personal care when the time comes) is surprisingly high.

People with family input also tend to share things between them- someone buys a new phone and gives the old one to Grandad, for example.

Day to day expenses may well be covered, but one offs like the washing machine needing to be replaced, or the boiler dying, are hard to cover.

Good point re her help from my mum and aunties.

WelcometomyUnderworld · 21/02/2026 09:36

Why don’t you live that way for 6 months and decide?

Work out how much your mortgage costs, add £250 a week and then put the rest of your pay into your pension. You’ll know how doable it feels for you then.

Merlin23 · 21/02/2026 09:36

CoralOP · 21/02/2026 09:28

My aunty lives on state pension and she does absolutely fine.
She have always lived a simple life, no holidays etc so she didn't suddenly have the desire to do all these things.
Her bills and food are around £550 a month, she goes out everyday to local cities for a walk around, tea and cake.
I get baffled by these guides saying couples need circa 40k a year to survive when people aren't even getting that in younger life with kids and mortgages!

I find the 40k for a couple baffling too. I work with people in their 20s who are paying extortionate mortgages on about 50k total wages. If you don't have rent or mortgage you don't need 40k to live a basic retirement life!

Mum2Fergus · 21/02/2026 09:36

Well first off, not all retirees own their own home.

Everything else comes down to lifestyle and choices in general. Add up every penny you spend over the course of a month and tally that against your state pension entitlement…are you in debit or credit.

The 300k pot you’ve read about is likely following the 4% rule (take your expected outgoings at retirement, multiply by 25 and that gives you the ‘pot’ you are expected to need (bearing in mind it’s invested and assumes pot is growing each year through investment gains).

My current state pension allowance is £12,014pa, using the 4% rule that’s £300,350 over my 25yrs. And not everyone has made sufficient contributions so may not be entitled to the full amount.

Also need to factor in the unexpected-if one of you dies then unless you are in the earlier SP scheme there is no widow/er pension…how do you pay for a new roof if needed, just examples.

Topbobble · 21/02/2026 09:36

It depends doesnt it, if you wont have to pay mortgage/rent and have assets such as a home you own then your experience will be different to someone who doesnt. Weirdly someone who has all of their stamps isnt eligible for pension credit and similar, so a lot of the 'freebies' are cut off at a low level. Being at the mercy of state funded care if you have no property is also a lot different than having options should it be needed.

thedevilinablackdress · 21/02/2026 09:37

converseandjeans · 21/02/2026 09:26

@thedevilinablackdressbut you say she gets pension credit top ups so that’s more than a state pension.

Pension credit is to top up to a minimum weekly income e.g. if state pension was your only income

www.ageuk.org.uk/information-advice/money-legal/benefits-entitlements/pension-credit/

Kpo58 · 21/02/2026 09:37

CoralOP · 21/02/2026 09:28

My aunty lives on state pension and she does absolutely fine.
She have always lived a simple life, no holidays etc so she didn't suddenly have the desire to do all these things.
Her bills and food are around £550 a month, she goes out everyday to local cities for a walk around, tea and cake.
I get baffled by these guides saying couples need circa 40k a year to survive when people aren't even getting that in younger life with kids and mortgages!

I wonder if they say that you need 40k to live on is due to taking in account of inflation.

Hiptothisjive · 21/02/2026 09:37

I think for me considering the state of the country and the lack of money going toward the pension pot due to us paying a lot for iIt parents generation and the huge amount of people not paying toward it I would be surprised if we got that when I retire. They can say triple lock all they like but money doesn’t grow on trees.

1apenny2apenny · 21/02/2026 09:38

Frankly if you only have the state pension and are nearing or within a few years of retiring you’re probably better off not saving any more as you’ll get pension credit and all the stuff that goes along with that. You’ll also have any care home fees paid, ok you don’t get a choice of home but it’ll be free!

rosie1959 · 21/02/2026 09:38

We have recently retired and although the state pension covers basic cost relying on it totally would require very careful budgeting. There would be little spare to cover much else For instance one big bill could cause problems last month I had some dental work our state pension would struggle to cover that. Holidays and the things that make our retirement enjoyable would be a definite no.

lazyarse123 · 21/02/2026 09:39

We downsized to a park home when I retired. Can't go any further down unless I get a tent.
We are managing but no eating out unless you count greggs. We do have National Trust memberships so go to nearest ones about once a month and have coffee and in summer we have food there because we don't need to buy a gas bottle.

I'd seen on here where people were going on Entitledto to see if they could get anything so I went on and it said we could get a council tax reduction. I did it and we got £20 a month off so even the government know pensions are not enough to live on. I did tell dh to get dd to apply for pension credit for him if I die first because financially that will be hell. As a pp said the only bill that reduce will be food.

Meadowfinch · 21/02/2026 09:39

Op, YABVU. Remember not everyone gets £240 a week.

My dm was lucky & lived in a 20yo bungalow so reasonably well insulated. Her monthly bills were
£160 Council tax
£120 groceries/ toiletries
£80 gas/ electric
£20 house & contents insurance
£15 TV licence
£30 water
£30 comms
£40 travel
£20 boiler care plan
£20 basic maintenance - pruning, clearing gutters etc
Then add in buying a new fridge/ cooker, repairs to blown down fences, redecorating (one room per year), replacing plumbing, roof flashing etc. (things seem to wear out after 20 years). Probably another £100 a month

That left her with about £300 a month for clothes, shoes, socialising, birthdays/Christmas, emergencies and an annual week's holiday by coach to somewhere like York or Edinburgh.

She was very proud that over 26 years retirement she managed to save enough for her own funeral.
The state pension provides an existence. Nothing more.

ByQuaintAzureWasp · 21/02/2026 09:40

Do a list of all the essentials and what they cost. Im retired with an income after tax of £3500 pm with no mortgage and do not live an extravagant lifestyle. I cant wait to get state pensions. It will make a world of difference instead of spending savings all the time.

I would not want to live on just state pension, I'd be miserable.

matresense · 21/02/2026 09:40

It might be possible as two. But the big issue is what happens if your partner dies? You don’t pay half as much heating or electricity. It really is very insecure and I wouldn’t recommend it at all.

properidiot · 21/02/2026 09:40

I think it really depends on your age and mobility really. For a 67 year old who is fit and active, yet wants to be retired, it's not much. It won't pay for holidays or significant car repairs/replacement or if the washing machine breaks down etc. It'll be difficult to live a full life on that little money. But if it's like a PP explained and an elderly person who doesn't go out or spend but lives in a council flat etc then it'll probably be fine.

That's why you should have a private pension or one from your employer if you want to retire at 67 and enjoy yourself.

CelticSilver · 21/02/2026 09:41

MatildaTheCat · 21/02/2026 09:11

I imagine it depends on whether you want to survive or actually enjoy life?

'It is no bad thing to celebrate a simple life.' 🙂

WTAFIsWrongWithPeople · 21/02/2026 09:41

Donttellempike · 21/02/2026 09:15

Is it? People have paid into this all their lives. What an attitude 😵‍💫

Putting aside that not everybody “pays in their whole lives”, it’s not a pot. Today’s workers are funding today’s pensioners. NI buys you the right (hopefully) to get the same from future workers.

FuzzyWolf · 21/02/2026 09:41

It wouldn’t be enough for a lifestyle I’d enjoy and I’m not frivolous but I do currently enjoy my lifestyle.

As well as all the basic bills and outgoings, I’m always paying out a lump sum for things to do with my car, my pets, household things like boiler repairs or replacements and decorating, and replacing things that have broken like my washing machine etc.

BringonSpringnowplease · 21/02/2026 09:41

Owning your house doesn't mean nothing to pay toward it though - you're liable for all repairs obviously, so if the boiler breaks or the roof needs repairs etc, you have to pay for that, there's no landlord doing it.

AttachmentFTW · 21/02/2026 09:41

Ballondoor · 21/02/2026 09:14

Gosh yes because old people only really need food and shelter. Everything else that makes life worth living is just wasted on them.

But why should the state pay for people to have a nice life? As others have said state pension should be for keeping people out of poverty and to have food and shelter for the rest of your life. If you want the extras that make life more enjoyable but are not totally necessary then people should have their own savings/pension for that. You know, like working people have to.

arethereanyleftatall · 21/02/2026 09:42

BMW6 · 21/02/2026 09:33

I find the free bus travel an absolute boon. Amazing that I can travel on buses to anywhere in England without paying a penny!

My mum and her friends are living their dream atm. Group of about 10. Pack a picnic, get a free bus somewhere different every day. Walk.

Imdunfer · 21/02/2026 09:43

Dearover · 21/02/2026 09:12

There is also the issue of future care needs. If you can't afford private provision, you have minimal choice available.

The choice may be less but you'll end up in the same home as people around you paying privately. Only the extremely rich can afford the homes that are private only.

Nocameltoeleggingsplease · 21/02/2026 09:44

I think a lot depends on how well you are, which obviously you don’t know until you are old enough to retire and then it’s too late. My parents are not together. My mum is fit and active; goes out regularly to theatre, cinema, music etc, drives, volunteers and goes on regular holidays including long haul. She would struggle on just a state pension. My dad has a chronic condition and can’t really do anything. Both own their own homes and have full state and some private pension. Dads is bigger than mums but mum uses hers to the max!

Pddn · 21/02/2026 09:45

Which is why when you work you have a private pension?

godmum56 · 21/02/2026 09:45

Indianajet · 21/02/2026 09:13

I am living on my state pension and a proportion of my late husband's private pension. My mortgage is paid off.
I only have myself and my dog to support, and can pay all bills with a bit left over for socialising.
There isn't a lot to spare, but it is certainly doable.

yes but you also have somthing from your late husband's private pension. Could you do it without that?

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