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“Everybody thought the EU was about people coming into the country … no-one told of us the benefits”.

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MrsMurphyIWish · 18/02/2026 07:00

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cm2136jnjx1o

And the response to this very now deprived community is to vote Reform.

“Brexit has removed a key source of funding, which the area desperately needs. County Durham received £154m of EU funding between 2014 and 2020, about £22m a year. Since the UK left the European Union, it receives about half that amount, £12m annually, under the UK Shared Prosperity Fund.”

The story is sad (and typical of deprived areas - I know, I live in one). Towns feeling forgotten and never recovering from closed industry but why can they not see history will repeat itself?

A row of red-brick houses with almost every window and door boarded up

Inside Horden, the County Durham town failed by politics

In Horden, County Durham, Westminster slogans have long been left unmet as the population has plummeted.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cm2136jnjx1o

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SerendipityJane · 18/02/2026 17:56

Needlenardlenoo · 18/02/2026 17:23

Are people thick or was it a predictable consequence of making a political issue out of an economic matter and then deciding on emotional grounds?

People answer the easier question: how do I feel about this, if they aren't equipped to answer the harder one.

No. People really are thick. read the Darwin awards.

Needlenardlenoo · 18/02/2026 17:59

SerendipityJane · 18/02/2026 17:52

When you belong to a club (which is what the EU is, with quite a large membership fee), you don't get to say exactly how the club spends its funds though? Although Thatcher certainly had a good go. Nor do we (taxpayers, local areas, whoever) get to mandate how our own government spends its money.

Thatchers beef with the EEC was that it wasn't really as much about frictionless trade as she felt it should be. Which is why the UKs entry really shook it up and with the UKs very firm insistence, the single market was born. Very much to the complaints from France and Germany.

The single market is fundamentally a British invention. And now it works the EU cant get enough.

Yes, I found it useful to read some of her speeches rather than go on what people said she said.

I also found it really interesting to talk to a guy at a party who described the atmosphere around the time of the 1975 referendum. I hadn't really realised (being a toddler at that point) that the EEC/EU was far from being a done deal. It was always treated as a fact of life when I was at school.

Needlenardlenoo · 18/02/2026 18:01

SerendipityJane · 18/02/2026 17:56

No. People really are thick. read the Darwin awards.

But how can you attempt to persuade anyone of anything if you start from the premise that they're stupid if they don't agree with you?

SerendipityJane · 18/02/2026 18:02

Needlenardlenoo · 18/02/2026 17:59

Yes, I found it useful to read some of her speeches rather than go on what people said she said.

I also found it really interesting to talk to a guy at a party who described the atmosphere around the time of the 1975 referendum. I hadn't really realised (being a toddler at that point) that the EEC/EU was far from being a done deal. It was always treated as a fact of life when I was at school.

Mrs Thatcher hated Europe. But as a non thick person, she was able to be pragmatic and put her needs behind those of the country (the country in this case being the UK not Russia).

There are several instances where she put fact and science ahead of her own prejudices. The UKs ground breaking tacking of AIDS being another example.

Womaninhouse17 · 18/02/2026 19:09

Imdunfer · 18/02/2026 16:47

They were everywhere.

It is a condition of taking EU funds that the notices are used.

The tiny cafe opened by friends of ours on a sheep farm had one. Farm gates had them on. Civic buildings had them on.

Everywhere you turned they were there. That's probably why nobody noticed them.

And yet I never saw any. Maybe my local area didn't receive any funds. I certainly noticed them when I travelled elsewhere so I would have noticed them at home if there had been any. So they weren't 'everywhere'.
Edited because posted before finished.

MasterBeth · 18/02/2026 19:23

The structural problem for the ex-mining town mentioned is that it is geographically remote. That didn't matter when its wealth was connected to what was sitting under the ground. Now it is a long way from the economic heart of the country and the continent.

EU regional policy was to subsidise poorer areas, so Wales, Cornwall, the NE got funds to help those areas economies. Our government could do the same but chooses not to.

Brexit is not the only reason these towns are suffering but it's a drag on our national economy. We are poorer as a nation that we would have been had we stayed in the EU. I understand why people voted for change when they voted for Brexit but it was still a fucking stupid national decision and our political class should be ashamed they led us to it.

Imdunfer · 18/02/2026 19:30

SerendipityJane · 18/02/2026 18:02

Mrs Thatcher hated Europe. But as a non thick person, she was able to be pragmatic and put her needs behind those of the country (the country in this case being the UK not Russia).

There are several instances where she put fact and science ahead of her own prejudices. The UKs ground breaking tacking of AIDS being another example.

She agreed with joining the European economic community , but she would not have agreed with joining the political union that it morphed into without any of us having any say about that.

Do people remember the fight over agreeing the Maastricht treaty?

Does anyone know that the EU is now double borrowed against the same assets? Each county has is own eye watering national debt borrowed against its own ability to pay the interest. But on top of that the European Central Bank has borrowed again against those same countries abilities to pay the interest.

God help the EU when the first lender to either one of those countries (France being top
of that list) or the ECB, decides they want their capital back and nobody else wants to buy it).

Strumpetpumpet · 18/02/2026 19:36

Everyone with half a brain told you the risks of Brexit. It was all dismissed as project fear. Unfortunately, some people are thicker than a submarine door…

Needlenardlenoo · 18/02/2026 19:37

Imdunfer · 18/02/2026 19:30

She agreed with joining the European economic community , but she would not have agreed with joining the political union that it morphed into without any of us having any say about that.

Do people remember the fight over agreeing the Maastricht treaty?

Does anyone know that the EU is now double borrowed against the same assets? Each county has is own eye watering national debt borrowed against its own ability to pay the interest. But on top of that the European Central Bank has borrowed again against those same countries abilities to pay the interest.

God help the EU when the first lender to either one of those countries (France being top
of that list) or the ECB, decides they want their capital back and nobody else wants to buy it).

I didn't know that about their borrowing and that is v interesting info - thanks for sharing it.

Imdunfer · 18/02/2026 19:54

Strumpetpumpet · 18/02/2026 19:36

Everyone with half a brain told you the risks of Brexit. It was all dismissed as project fear. Unfortunately, some people are thicker than a submarine door…

To be fair, a lot of it was "Project Fear". Have people forgotten Gordon Brown's threat of a "punishment budget"? Obama's veiled threats?

If the Remain campaign had explained how much more difficult it would be to take your dog on holiday they might have got somewhere. Ditto how it was going to affect Northern Ireland.

But they ran a lazy campaign from a liberal elite position of "surely everyone can see how good being in the EU is for us?" and accused people of bigotry and racism instead of listening to their concerns and acting on them.

Brexit didn't win, Remain never got off the starting blocks.

BreakingBroken · 18/02/2026 20:06

i checked out some of the house prices, many auction 5-10K a real opportunity for someone. even 100k for a solid 2 bed with no sign of water/moisture.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 18/02/2026 21:03

Imdunfer · 18/02/2026 17:10

They couldn't "educate people as to the loss of funding in poorer areas" because that loss of funding was entirely the decision of our own goverment. It was not a result of Brexit itself, but a result of different spending decisions for the same money by the people we elected to make those decisions.

We gave the EU that money in the first place which they then chose to give us some back. It wasn't some marvellous act of generosity by the EU.

That argument would stand up if the economy as a whole hadn't been negatively affected by Brexit.

But if the overall pie is significantly smaller, then people will inevitably get smaller slices of pie.

StMarie4me · 18/02/2026 21:06

Many people told them. But they chose the lies due to racism. Brexit was a xenophobic, racist referendum. And those same people are going to do it again, and wreck things for my children, grandchildren, and every decent person in the U.K. I despair. I am also very, very angry.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 18/02/2026 21:08

Imdunfer · 18/02/2026 19:54

To be fair, a lot of it was "Project Fear". Have people forgotten Gordon Brown's threat of a "punishment budget"? Obama's veiled threats?

If the Remain campaign had explained how much more difficult it would be to take your dog on holiday they might have got somewhere. Ditto how it was going to affect Northern Ireland.

But they ran a lazy campaign from a liberal elite position of "surely everyone can see how good being in the EU is for us?" and accused people of bigotry and racism instead of listening to their concerns and acting on them.

Brexit didn't win, Remain never got off the starting blocks.

The Remain campaign did highlight many of the issues that subsequently transpired, including the hit to the economy, the Northern Ireland issues and the increased barriers to travel.

The problem wasn't that people weren't warned, it was that they put their fingers in their ears and chose not to listen.

The Remain campaign was undoubtedly too complacent. They were operating from the assumption that the electorate wouldn't be stupid enough to vote for Brexit, and obviously that was wrong. But it absolutely isn't true to say that the big issues weren't talked about

Unfortunately, Michael Gove told people that they had had enough of experts and they chose to believe him.

Needlenardlenoo · 18/02/2026 21:10

The message might have been correct but it was coming from people they distrusted.

Imdunfer · 18/02/2026 21:17

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 18/02/2026 21:03

That argument would stand up if the economy as a whole hadn't been negatively affected by Brexit.

But if the overall pie is significantly smaller, then people will inevitably get smaller slices of pie.

Our GDP is not smaller than it was at Brexit, it is smaller than some people think that it might have been if we had not Brexited (in spite of the fact that other major EU countries are in worse economic positions).,

There is no reason for smaller than previous regional payments than that our own elected government has other priorities for the money.

Imdunfer · 18/02/2026 21:19

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 18/02/2026 21:08

The Remain campaign did highlight many of the issues that subsequently transpired, including the hit to the economy, the Northern Ireland issues and the increased barriers to travel.

The problem wasn't that people weren't warned, it was that they put their fingers in their ears and chose not to listen.

The Remain campaign was undoubtedly too complacent. They were operating from the assumption that the electorate wouldn't be stupid enough to vote for Brexit, and obviously that was wrong. But it absolutely isn't true to say that the big issues weren't talked about

Unfortunately, Michael Gove told people that they had had enough of experts and they chose to believe him.

The Remain campaign did highlight many of the issues that subsequently transpired, including the hit to the economy, the Northern Ireland issues

I learned about the NI issues from posters on another forum, I have no recollection of it featuring in the Remain campaign.

Imdunfer · 18/02/2026 21:20

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 18/02/2026 21:03

That argument would stand up if the economy as a whole hadn't been negatively affected by Brexit.

But if the overall pie is significantly smaller, then people will inevitably get smaller slices of pie.

It isn't smaller. It's smaller than some people think it might have been without Brexit.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 19/02/2026 00:55

Imdunfer · 18/02/2026 21:19

The Remain campaign did highlight many of the issues that subsequently transpired, including the hit to the economy, the Northern Ireland issues

I learned about the NI issues from posters on another forum, I have no recollection of it featuring in the Remain campaign.

Your poor memory and/or lack of engagement during the referendum campaign doesn't mean that the issue wasn't highlighted at the time. It was.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 19/02/2026 01:08

Imdunfer · 18/02/2026 21:17

Our GDP is not smaller than it was at Brexit, it is smaller than some people think that it might have been if we had not Brexited (in spite of the fact that other major EU countries are in worse economic positions).,

There is no reason for smaller than previous regional payments than that our own elected government has other priorities for the money.

Edited

It isn't about raw numbers, it is about purchasing power. Costs have gone up across the board, and a vast amount of money is spent on servicing our debt interest - a lot of which links back to covid and all of the support measures that were implemented during the pandemic. That isn't the fault of Brexit of course, but it would have been easier to pay for it if the overall economy had grown as economists think it would have had we stayed.

I'm not sure where exactly you think all the extra money has gone or what these other government priorities might be. ..it isn't as if anything in the country is well resourced any more. But we are paying billions in interest on our national debt.

MaidOfSteel · 19/02/2026 01:46

MrsMurphyIWish · 18/02/2026 07:08

Absolutely and time can not be reversed. However it’s the same ideology. In this community Brexit was seen as a solution to their deprivation, now Reform is and these decisions are being made based on social media slogans and not research.

I’m from a very deprived part of the north-east. All we’ve ever known, really, is being let down by successive governments. The decline started in the late 70s and now it’s getting harder & harder to access the few public services that are left. I don’t like Reform at all and know they don’t have all the answers, but I think I can understand the draw to some people; they’re talking about the things that people in these areas are experiencing and, simply, Reform are something different to try. All the other parties have done next to nothing for them, so why not.

Strngerthings · 19/02/2026 01:47

@MrsMurphyIWish everyone had google or wikipedia or books from the library etc

caringcarer · 19/02/2026 03:07

I recall David Cameron sending out leaflets extolling the virtues of staying in the EU before Brexit referendum.

Alexandra2001 · 19/02/2026 06:26

Winter2020 · 18/02/2026 13:12

A lot of "we" didn't. A lot of "we" voted to control our borders. You might have supported this but a lot of the population did not as evidenced by the Brexit vote and the rise of Reform - and the fact that any political party not talking about reducing immigration now is making themselves unelectable.

I didn't say migrants given EU citizenship would "all" come here. I said if they wanted to then (without Brexit) they would be free to come here under free movement. Which they would.

Its fairly obvious, if you read the post, i was referring to the UK.

On Reform, 24% of the vote atm?? so 3/4 don't support the far right.

We have carried on taking HCPs from any country that will allow us to do so, we voted back in, Govt s that did this, we are still doing it.

Net migration might well be lower but thats in no small measure to people leaving, inc around 70,000 EU citizens last year, the UK is no longer quite so attractive to our European neighbours as it once was or you think it still is.

A migrant from Somalia is going to take many years to obtain EU citizenship, if he/she ever does.

Why do you think migrants didn't cross the channel in boats pre 2020?

KimberleyClark · 19/02/2026 06:58

Someone I know had a property in Spain and had plans to retire there. Still voted for Brexit. That’s just being thick.

Wales voted for Brexit in the most deprived areas despite benefitting hugely from EU funding. There is no way the Welsh Parliament can make up for that funding loss.