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Limiting MH support to certain cultural areas?

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Mindcultural · 17/02/2026 18:48

I have today received this message below from a mental health support service for young people.

AIBU to think it’s completely wrong to offer support based on cultural diversity and would like to know how they decide who fits this criteria?

Hi,

I’m getting touch as you have recently made a referral to our Youth In Mind services on behalf of a child or young person.

Unfortunately, we are having to reduce the size of the team for funding reasons, so we now only have funding to support young people from culturally diverse communities, if this is relevant for the individual you referred to us, please can I ask that you complete this form forms.office.com and we will be back in touch accordingly.

If we are now no longer able to offer support to the individual you have made a referral for, please accept our apologies for this. Please feel free to keep an eye on our website for updated information regarding available services as we are always looking for new funding opportunities to allow us to reach more children and young people.

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Cucumberino · 17/02/2026 21:48

And we as charitable givers can choose which charities to fund too. My goodness I had no idea Mind were so unethical. Never getting a penny of my money again. Thanks for this thread OP. Really useful to know.

MrsChristmasHasResigned · 17/02/2026 21:50

Cucumberino · 17/02/2026 21:47

And I’m saying it’s unethical to do it on a group level, no matter how the group is comprised. Medical need. Urgency. These should be the only qualifiers.

Where is your ethical concern when it comes to systemic inequality and poorer health outcomes for certain ethnic groups?

Str0ganoff · 17/02/2026 21:50

Cucumberino · 17/02/2026 21:48

And we as charitable givers can choose which charities to fund too. My goodness I had no idea Mind were so unethical. Never getting a penny of my money again. Thanks for this thread OP. Really useful to know.

Yes Thankyou op it is really useful to know.

Itsmetheflamingo · 17/02/2026 21:51

Cucumberino · 17/02/2026 21:48

And we as charitable givers can choose which charities to fund too. My goodness I had no idea Mind were so unethical. Never getting a penny of my money again. Thanks for this thread OP. Really useful to know.

Suspect you donate next to nothing anyway. They won’t care

marcyhermit · 17/02/2026 21:51

Cucumberino · 17/02/2026 21:45

good. Then we’re at a starting point of all funding should be ethical. I don’t think that too high an expectation. Would you expect a charity to take funding from Tommy Robinson if it’s only for white kids? I didn’t think so. I know the charity sector is neck deep in DEI nonsense but this thread really is eye opening! Leave your echo chamber and learn some basic ethics.

No, but I'd expect a charity to take funding to run a specific project to support mothers with PND, or refugee children, or young carers.
Even if they don't also get funded or commissioned to run specific projects for other groups.

MrsChristmasHasResigned · 17/02/2026 21:52

wrongthinker · 17/02/2026 21:48

It would seem from the OP's example that it's actually the other way round.

Personally I think that denying services to people based on their skin colour is fucking disgusting. It's racism and I'm surprised anyone at all finds it acceptable.

And yet that is the experience of a sizable portion of the population. It is just done by stealth.

Anyahyacinth · 17/02/2026 21:52

Cucumberino · 17/02/2026 21:42

What on earth are you on about? How do you know whether the white kids is less ill than the BAME kid when you don’t even respond to their email? You can’t. You are just using racist stereotyping. Are you ok with that? Seriously?

Its not racist stereotyping to have regard for the statistics about mental ill health in particular communities within the UK…it is problematic to demand charities bend to your will when money has been given to them for specific purposes though…because the majority race demand it…which seems to be your argument = racism

Alwaysontherun · 17/02/2026 21:52

My goodness can you imagine if they only supported white British children! Everyone would be up in arms about how discriminatory it was! No one should be discriminated against based on their cultural background when it comes to receiving support.

nearlylovemyusername · 17/02/2026 21:53

nomas · 17/02/2026 21:07

So no fact checking, just blindly believing what your told?

well, you asked about proof. Several posters gave you the links. But you still insist it's not true?

Cucumberino · 17/02/2026 21:54

ExtraOnions · 17/02/2026 21:48

I donate to the Autistic Girls Network, they support Autistic Girls. The research they do, the groups the set up, the placements they organise are for Autistic Girls …. I don’t see any “equality warriors” frothing about that. People only have an issue when it’s about Race - specifically Black & Brown people.
I would expect Farage and his Cronies to jump on stuff like this, as they love nothing more that stiring up some racial tension.
There are groups more specifically focussed on working class groups, we had the Dalligio Foundation in recently, keeping boys out of gangs .. anyone want to complain or that they didn’t also go to our local Private School?

Autistic girls network should help autistic girls. Mind - a mental health charity - should help people with mental health issues. If they said it was a mental health charity for BAME kids we’d know where we stand, but they don’t say that. They make out it’s for everyone and are happy to take funding that discriminates against one race.

Anyahyacinth · 17/02/2026 21:54

MrsChristmasHasResigned · 17/02/2026 21:52

And yet that is the experience of a sizable portion of the population. It is just done by stealth.

…..and EXACTLY why specialist services are needed for culturally diverse communities 🤦‍♀️

Anyway the funders for this project decide OP they set the criteria and they are not public bodies

Ablondiebutagoody · 17/02/2026 21:55

MrsChristmasHasResigned · 17/02/2026 21:50

Where is your ethical concern when it comes to systemic inequality and poorer health outcomes for certain ethnic groups?

That poorer health outcomes for white people (due to banning them from accessing services) isn't a sensible way to level the playing field?

Str0ganoff · 17/02/2026 21:55

Itsmetheflamingo · 17/02/2026 21:51

Suspect you donate next to nothing anyway. They won’t care

They will care when it becomes widely known and a whole section of society are alienated from donating to them.

Anyahyacinth · 17/02/2026 21:56

Alwaysontherun · 17/02/2026 21:52

My goodness can you imagine if they only supported white British children! Everyone would be up in arms about how discriminatory it was! No one should be discriminated against based on their cultural background when it comes to receiving support.

They aren’t. The evidence for descrimation is that it operates against culturally diverse communities which is WHY this particular project exists

Itsmetheflamingo · 17/02/2026 21:56

Str0ganoff · 17/02/2026 21:55

They will care when it becomes widely known and a whole section of society are alienated from donating to them.

I think most people already realise there are grants that fund different types of charity work?

Cucumberino · 17/02/2026 21:56

Anyahyacinth · 17/02/2026 21:52

Its not racist stereotyping to have regard for the statistics about mental ill health in particular communities within the UK…it is problematic to demand charities bend to your will when money has been given to them for specific purposes though…because the majority race demand it…which seems to be your argument = racism

It is. You’re not looking at the information provided by the patient, but looking at the statistical chances of x, y, z instead. As I’ve said before, if Mind had any ethics they’d tell the funder that their funding conditions were immoral.

nomas · 17/02/2026 21:56

nearlylovemyusername · 17/02/2026 21:53

well, you asked about proof. Several posters gave you the links. But you still insist it's not true?

What are you talking about?

Minnie2012 · 17/02/2026 21:56

Cucumberino · 17/02/2026 21:54

Autistic girls network should help autistic girls. Mind - a mental health charity - should help people with mental health issues. If they said it was a mental health charity for BAME kids we’d know where we stand, but they don’t say that. They make out it’s for everyone and are happy to take funding that discriminates against one race.

This is the Leeds local branch of Mind. The OP has referred a young person to ONE project that they run - they have lots of other projects that support other groups, including a project that supports EVERYONE over 18.

Cucumberino · 17/02/2026 21:57

Itsmetheflamingo · 17/02/2026 21:56

I think most people already realise there are grants that fund different types of charity work?

I think most of us thought it would be based on need not race. How naive we were!

Str0ganoff · 17/02/2026 21:58

Anyahyacinth · 17/02/2026 21:54

…..and EXACTLY why specialist services are needed for culturally diverse communities 🤦‍♀️

Anyway the funders for this project decide OP they set the criteria and they are not public bodies

The charity has an obligation to support all children and should move money from other areas to ensure all children can be catered for. I’ve had to rely on charities, I can’t imagine how devastating it must be to be struggling with a very ill child and having the door to your only chance of help openly and firmly slammed in your face.

MrsChristmasHasResigned · 17/02/2026 21:58

Ablondiebutagoody · 17/02/2026 21:55

That poorer health outcomes for white people (due to banning them from accessing services) isn't a sensible way to level the playing field?

You might want to look into the difference between equity and equality.

MrsChristmasHasResigned · 17/02/2026 22:00

Str0ganoff · 17/02/2026 21:58

The charity has an obligation to support all children and should move money from other areas to ensure all children can be catered for. I’ve had to rely on charities, I can’t imagine how devastating it must be to be struggling with a very ill child and having the door to your only chance of help openly and firmly slammed in your face.

And where exactly are they supposed to move the money from? The magical money tree? They get money through grants. They bid for the grants out there and win the ones they win. They cannot take money given for one grant to fund out of scope activities. Its not a hard concept.

Ablondiebutagoody · 17/02/2026 22:00

MrsChristmasHasResigned · 17/02/2026 21:58

You might want to look into the difference between equity and equality.

I am aware of it. Bullshit semantics to justify discrimination. I'm not buying it.

Str0ganoff · 17/02/2026 22:00

Itsmetheflamingo · 17/02/2026 21:56

I think most people already realise there are grants that fund different types of charity work?

Didn’t realise that grants could discriminate according to skin colour and some charities are too weak to stand up to it.

nomas · 17/02/2026 22:00

Str0ganoff · 17/02/2026 21:27

BAME children are 10 times more likely to be referred to CAMHS via education , social services and youth justice schemes!

Referrals are like gold dust.

Wow that is some of the worst deliberate misquoting I’ve seen on MN. Here is the actual situation:

Black children are 10 times more likely to be referred to CAMHS via social services and youth justice teams rather than through the GP compared with White British children

The “stark” discrimination and inequalities Black and minority ethnic adults face in mental health service are reproduced in children’s services, the review of race inequalities in healthcare concluded.

The Rapid Race Review called for critical action from NHS England and NHS Digital to address the discrimination.

Evidence reviewed by the team showed Black people and other minority ethnic groups face harsher treatment, including being more likely restrained in a prone position or put in seclusion when detained on psychiatric wards.

People from Black and other ethnic groups were also less likely to seek help from mental health services for fear of discriminatory treatment. And their GP is less likely to refer them for psychological therapies.

Discrimination is mirrored in children’s mental health services.

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