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Unfriending right wing friends

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nondrinker1985 · 16/02/2026 16:53

One of my school mum friends of around 10 years has started sharing loads of Restore Britain/Rupert Lowe posts.

I’m actually really shocked as she’s an Irish immigrant herself.

I’ve unfriended her which is a shame as day to day she’s ok. Also another mum who has been liking and commenting on the Restore Britain posts, they’ll probably tell me they’re not racist but I can’t be arsed calling them out.

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Somerford · 19/02/2026 19:15

NoisyViewer · 19/02/2026 17:43

Give examples, I did. Like the convicted terrorist that is now running for a Birmingham seat, like the mosque that banned women from joining in an organised run, how sharia law courts work, how a teacher is in hiding in this country for showing an image of Muhammad, how a mom sitting next to police chiefs had to apologise to the Muslim community because her autistic son accidentally scuffed the Quran, how protests happen outside schools when they try and teach lgbtq lessons. Give an example that reform/restore are worse than the shit we’re already dealing with & will become more widespread.

Also The UAE has cut financial support to students wanting to come to the UK to study, for fear of them being radicalised here by Islamic extremists.

This is very much a boiled frog scenario at this point, only this time the frog has the benefit of lots of people telling it that the water is boiling. Instead of listening, the frog calls vehemently denies that its happening and calls you a Nazi.

Twoboysandabengal · 19/02/2026 19:17

Miggledyhiggledy · 19/02/2026 15:41

The majority of people is a worthless turn of phrase unless you can quantify it with facts and stats. What you hope and presume to be the case doesn't make it necessarily so.

Well.. the elections speak for themselves! So I think your comment is a worthless turn of phrase 🙃

NoisyViewer · 19/02/2026 19:20

Somerford · 19/02/2026 19:15

Also The UAE has cut financial support to students wanting to come to the UK to study, for fear of them being radicalised here by Islamic extremists.

This is very much a boiled frog scenario at this point, only this time the frog has the benefit of lots of people telling it that the water is boiling. Instead of listening, the frog calls vehemently denies that its happening and calls you a Nazi.

They’ve banned the Muslim brotherhood and have warned us time and again to do the same.

Somerford · 19/02/2026 19:31

NoisyViewer · 19/02/2026 19:20

They’ve banned the Muslim brotherhood and have warned us time and again to do the same.

Tricky one for us isn't it, we've permitted so much immigration that certain parties are now totally dependent on securing and retaining The Muslim Vote. Which is something else that was strenuously denied on MN recently. Its racist to say that Muslims in this country vote as a bloc and its not true apparently. Well, Labour are in trouble with the Electoral Commission for holding a banquet for the Muslim community in Gorton and Denton and giving out free food in exchange for votes. "Hold up your signs if you want to get fed" was the cry ahead of the photo op. But its not happening. Even though it's now got a fucking website which tells you in no uncertain terms that it is most definitely happening.

ImWearingPantaloons · 19/02/2026 19:47

I don’t need to unfriend. They seem to work themselves into a Reformy froth and unfriend me thus relieving me of the task.

JustSomeWaferThinHam · 19/02/2026 19:48

dreamiesformolly · 19/02/2026 17:20

It's all right there in the manifesto if you pay attention to how things are worded.

And re your other points - like other pps, you're talking as if Reform/Restore type parties are somehow going to be able to 'fix' the problems you highlighted. On what basis do you think this?

And how would you define 'undeserving or unnecessary payouts', out of interest?

you're talking as if Reform/Restore type parties are somehow going to be able to 'fix' the problems you highlighted. On what basis do you think this?

No, I am responding to points you presented as if they were ‘bad things’ Reform are doing and asking you questions about them (which you haven’t answered).

And how would you define 'undeserving or unnecessary payouts', out of interest?

Just what I say. Benefits should be a safety net not a disincentive to work which is becoming a bit of a problem.

JustSomeWaferThinHam · 19/02/2026 19:49

dreamiesformolly · 19/02/2026 17:20

What are you basing this conjecture on?

Observation.

Scramado · 19/02/2026 19:54

@dreamiesformollydo you really not see that exponential welfare bill is unsustainable? Do you really think that we don’t have a problem with economic migrants in the UK entering without visas?

These aren’t far right views. They’re not even right wing views. They’re the views of ordinary centrist-voting UK citizens. Labours failure to address these issues are driving centrists ever further to the right wing parties that will. That’s why Reform has risen in popularity.

NoisyViewer · 19/02/2026 19:59

Somerford · 19/02/2026 19:31

Tricky one for us isn't it, we've permitted so much immigration that certain parties are now totally dependent on securing and retaining The Muslim Vote. Which is something else that was strenuously denied on MN recently. Its racist to say that Muslims in this country vote as a bloc and its not true apparently. Well, Labour are in trouble with the Electoral Commission for holding a banquet for the Muslim community in Gorton and Denton and giving out free food in exchange for votes. "Hold up your signs if you want to get fed" was the cry ahead of the photo op. But its not happening. Even though it's now got a fucking website which tells you in no uncertain terms that it is most definitely happening.

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You know what’s really perverse are those shouting about women’s rights whilst applauding Labour & criticising reform. Jess Phillips just about scraping through a victory talked about the harassment & misogyny her staff endured whilst canvassing & when asked to elaborate on who was doing it she refused to say obviously not wanting to upset her major & most important voting base to then be given a role of women safety and voting down a grooming gang inquiry & then getting accused of trying to water it down where victims where quitting in large numbers. To having a pm who couldn’t even tell you what a woman is & the issue is other parties. To have people on here telling us where the problem is without providing any reason for the worry. instead calling you names & making out we have faux outrage 🤣

JustSomeWaferThinHam · 19/02/2026 20:07

Somerford · 19/02/2026 19:31

Tricky one for us isn't it, we've permitted so much immigration that certain parties are now totally dependent on securing and retaining The Muslim Vote. Which is something else that was strenuously denied on MN recently. Its racist to say that Muslims in this country vote as a bloc and its not true apparently. Well, Labour are in trouble with the Electoral Commission for holding a banquet for the Muslim community in Gorton and Denton and giving out free food in exchange for votes. "Hold up your signs if you want to get fed" was the cry ahead of the photo op. But its not happening. Even though it's now got a fucking website which tells you in no uncertain terms that it is most definitely happening.

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Quite. I think the extent of this issue is far more serious than we realise.

Apparently 80% of Muslims voted for Labour in the last election. That is either a ‘block’ - or just a wild coincidence?

It certainly gives them great power over the Labour Party if they made up nearly 1/3 of Labours total vote.

Recent events make the decision to allow mosques to be polling stations very bad for democracy. The terrorist attacks and threats against Jews make it very unlikely for a Jew ti feel safe walking into a mosque to vote.

I am aware that other places of worship are used as polling stations but as far as I’m aware, no members of those religions have recently carried out terror attacks or have been caught planning further terror attacks on any other group.

Miggledyhiggledy · 19/02/2026 21:30

Twoboysandabengal · 19/02/2026 19:17

Well.. the elections speak for themselves! So I think your comment is a worthless turn of phrase 🙃

What elections, you mean the last one? Well I hope you're not relying on the next one!!

Garlandedmantle · 19/02/2026 22:10

dreamiesformolly · 19/02/2026 12:14

I don't disagree for a moment that these issues are real and problematic. Of course they are. But the pp appeared to be suggesting that the entire country could somehow end up under Sharia law and this is what I was questioning.

Look at countries that have recently become majority Muslim. Look at how that happened. Thats how it happens.

Twoboysandabengal · 19/02/2026 22:45

Miggledyhiggledy · 19/02/2026 21:30

What elections, you mean the last one? Well I hope you're not relying on the next one!!

Again the racist bigots won’t win! They never have and never will 😊

Twoboysandabengal · 19/02/2026 22:51

Miggledyhiggledy · 19/02/2026 21:30

What elections, you mean the last one? Well I hope you're not relying on the next one!!

You asked for proof and it seems you are living in la la land not knowing who is ruling your own country. Fortunately, the people you support won’t ever win, so yes I am relying on the next one. So maybe cry a river or even two?! Have good evening and life 👋🏻

Miggledyhiggledy · 19/02/2026 22:56

Twoboysandabengal · 19/02/2026 22:45

Again the racist bigots won’t win! They never have and never will 😊

So more dramatic triggered overkill language. Luckily none of that applies to voting legitimate governments in.

Miggledyhiggledy · 19/02/2026 22:59

Twoboysandabengal · 19/02/2026 22:51

You asked for proof and it seems you are living in la la land not knowing who is ruling your own country. Fortunately, the people you support won’t ever win, so yes I am relying on the next one. So maybe cry a river or even two?! Have good evening and life 👋🏻

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I refer you to my previous post.

Somerford · 19/02/2026 23:50

Twoboysandabengal · 19/02/2026 22:45

Again the racist bigots won’t win! They never have and never will 😊

Wasn't Brexit because of racist bigots? All we've heard from the left for nearly 10 years now is that we left the EU because of racist bigots, so they won the most important referendum of your lifetime didn't they?

Vanderbilts · 20/02/2026 10:02

Somerford · 19/02/2026 23:50

Wasn't Brexit because of racist bigots? All we've heard from the left for nearly 10 years now is that we left the EU because of racist bigots, so they won the most important referendum of your lifetime didn't they?

Brexit actually meant EU and non-EU migration was treated fairly and equally. Non-EU migration skyrocketed after.

Somerford · 20/02/2026 10:29

Vanderbilts · 20/02/2026 10:02

Brexit actually meant EU and non-EU migration was treated fairly and equally. Non-EU migration skyrocketed after.

That's not a rebuttal to my post, was it meant to be?

Vanderbilts · 20/02/2026 10:30

Somerford · 20/02/2026 10:29

That's not a rebuttal to my post, was it meant to be?

No sorry.

Pineneedlesincarpet · 20/02/2026 10:51

Vanderbilts · 20/02/2026 10:02

Brexit actually meant EU and non-EU migration was treated fairly and equally. Non-EU migration skyrocketed after.

I think you meant before Brexit there? Not Brexit itself.

Boris opened the doors to non EU migration as a deliberate policy.

GaIadriel · 20/02/2026 11:05

Somerford · 19/02/2026 23:50

Wasn't Brexit because of racist bigots? All we've heard from the left for nearly 10 years now is that we left the EU because of racist bigots, so they won the most important referendum of your lifetime didn't they?

Yeah, I think people are in denial.

First Brexit, then Trump winning twice, now Reform leading the polls. ICE are literally executing lefties!

dreamiesformolly · 20/02/2026 13:26

Vanderbilts · 19/02/2026 16:56

I'm fine with the first two. We can and do have our own domestic laws to prevent torture in this country. We don't need to be beholden to a foreign courts.

Benefits should be limited. Who has a right to live off the taxpayer.

Judicial overreach should be limited and government should be allowed to conduct its business.

I'm fine with the first two. We can and do have our own domestic laws to prevent torture in this country. We don't need to be beholden to a foreign courts.

What's to stop Reform, or any party for that matter, revoking those laws if they get in? Where would we be then?

Benefits should be limited. Who has a right to live off the taxpayer.

Where in your opinion should the limits be imposed?

Judicial overreach should be limited and government should be allowed to conduct its business.

Even if said goverment is corrupt/not acting in the best interest of its people? You seriously think that if Reform get in they're going to give a shit about ordinary people?

Pineneedlesincarpet · 20/02/2026 13:34

dreamiesformolly · 20/02/2026 13:26

I'm fine with the first two. We can and do have our own domestic laws to prevent torture in this country. We don't need to be beholden to a foreign courts.

What's to stop Reform, or any party for that matter, revoking those laws if they get in? Where would we be then?

Benefits should be limited. Who has a right to live off the taxpayer.

Where in your opinion should the limits be imposed?

Judicial overreach should be limited and government should be allowed to conduct its business.

Even if said goverment is corrupt/not acting in the best interest of its people? You seriously think that if Reform get in they're going to give a shit about ordinary people?

Any party can revoke any law. And international law is effectively voluntary anyway if a country is ok with the repercussions such as sanctions etc. If we started torturing people as a country theres not a vast amount international law can do to stop it anyway. Its just unlikely to happen in the UK because we wrote most of the international law in the first place to curb the bad impulses of other countries. Not us.

dreamiesformolly · 20/02/2026 13:35

Scramado · 19/02/2026 19:54

@dreamiesformollydo you really not see that exponential welfare bill is unsustainable? Do you really think that we don’t have a problem with economic migrants in the UK entering without visas?

These aren’t far right views. They’re not even right wing views. They’re the views of ordinary centrist-voting UK citizens. Labours failure to address these issues are driving centrists ever further to the right wing parties that will. That’s why Reform has risen in popularity.

Where did I say it was sustainable, or that unchecked immigration wasn't a problem? Nowhere, because that's not what I think.

My argument is that the policies and ethos being proposed by parties like Reform and Restore are potentially dangerous. I've expanded on some of the reasons for my opinion elsewhere on the thread. If from that you've drawn the inference that I think things are hunky dory as they are right now, you're mistaken. I just think we need to be very careful about trusting anyone that claims to have some sort of magic pill to 'fix' Britain.

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