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Reform wants women barefoot and pregnant

829 replies

Sweetiedarling7 · 14/02/2026 07:57

Reform candidate Matt Goodwin wants women to have children early in life and introduce extra taxes as punishment for anyone who chooses not to have children.

Misogyny in plain sight.

How long till they ban abortion too?

Women voting Reform may want to consider if they are turkeys voting for christmas.

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DrCoconut · 14/02/2026 16:15

NarnianQueen · 14/02/2026 08:12

I think Rupert Lowe’s new Restore Britain party is going to wipe the floor with Reform tbh

He's a hateful individual too. We need a real alternative that people can get behind without ruining everyone's lives.

DiySteve · 14/02/2026 16:16

Pineneedlesincarpet · 14/02/2026 15:57

Trump was elected in the US fairly. You just don't like him.

If Reform get elected here it will mean that they won the election. You presumably wont vote for them and you don't like them and you are entitled to.

I didnt vote for Labour. I think they are the worst government we have ever had. I think people who voted for them naive as I remembered the actions of Keir Starmer before he was PM. But thats my opinion and Im entitled to have it. Thats the beauty of democracy. We all have one vote each.

I agree with you.

Labour won the 24 GE simply as a function of a protest vote against the Tories. Ironic that Labour will be carried out in similar fashion.

What an abomination of a government this has been - utterly awful.

PeppyCoralTiger · 14/02/2026 16:16

I haven't been able to find anything to verify the representation that this is a Reform policy. I'm not sure how Labour think this type of Guardian hyperbole plays out over the longer term for them with information now easily available.

I went to X and Reform's Matt Goodwin - has a true/false and this is more Labour desperation:

"I wrote a blog which summarised the ideas of Dr Paul Morland, a leading expert on demography. Paul set out many policy ideas to try and tackle our demographic crisis. We are not having enough children. I did not advocate specific policies but said we should debate all his ideas. The Left misrepresented this to make it appear I was personally demanding a specific policy. They are trying to mislead you."

https://x.com/GoodwinMJ/status/2022699970759999716

Matt Goodwin (@GoodwinMJ) on X

🚨TRUE or FALSE with Matt Goodwin🚨 Q: "did you say you don’t like Manchester?" ❌ FALSE. I said I didn’t enjoy being at the Tory conference in Manchester. Labour selectively edited a speech to make it look like it was about Manchester. Q: "is it...

https://x.com/GoodwinMJ/status/2022699970759999716

Pineneedlesincarpet · 14/02/2026 16:26

PeppyCoralTiger · 14/02/2026 16:16

I haven't been able to find anything to verify the representation that this is a Reform policy. I'm not sure how Labour think this type of Guardian hyperbole plays out over the longer term for them with information now easily available.

I went to X and Reform's Matt Goodwin - has a true/false and this is more Labour desperation:

"I wrote a blog which summarised the ideas of Dr Paul Morland, a leading expert on demography. Paul set out many policy ideas to try and tackle our demographic crisis. We are not having enough children. I did not advocate specific policies but said we should debate all his ideas. The Left misrepresented this to make it appear I was personally demanding a specific policy. They are trying to mislead you."

https://x.com/GoodwinMJ/status/2022699970759999716

Thats useful. It does annoy me when people try and persuade people to their own way of thinking about politics by making things up. I thought the fact that the electorate was fed up of lies and spin was well known.

Allisnotlost1 · 14/02/2026 16:29

Owlbookend · 14/02/2026 15:13

As I have illustrated in the link above, Reform have chosen an advisor who has links to the Christian right in the US. Their views and values are not those that centre women's reproductive freedom. It is naive to ignore such links.

Edited

A large proportion of the Christian right also hold views counter to our current laws or customs. Using Anglican as a proxy for conservative Christian:

Almost half of Anglicans oppose same sex marriage
https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/england-church-of-england-yougov-christian-b2026218.html

Anglicans are less likely to believe income disparity is an issue in Britain, or to be in favour of migration. Non practising Anglicans particularly so:

https://www.theosthinktank.co.uk/research/2024/06/13/religion-counts-what-do-the-religious-think-about-key-election-issues

And the we all know about the issues with women in the Anglican Church.

I think Anglican attitudes to women and equality are about on a par with Muslims, which only tells me religion must be kept well out of politics and anyone using sky men as a political tool is to be avoided like the plague.

Religion Counts: What do the religious think about key election issues?

The Religion Counts team explore how religious people in Britain feel about the most important issues facing the UK at this time. 12/06/2024

https://www.theosthinktank.co.uk/research/2024/06/13/religion-counts-what-do-the-religious-think-about-key-election-issues

JoyOfSpecs · 14/02/2026 16:32

@PeppyCoralTiger Did Goodwin put up a link to the original blog? A link to the original would remove all doubt....otherwise it's a bit 'well he would say that, wouldn't he.'

PeppyCoralTiger · 14/02/2026 16:33

Trouble is Labour are in hot water trying to align a comment made by someone in a campagin team to Reform policy or a particular candidate.

We have all seen the wall to wall news that Labour and their activists and also their "friends" are knee deep in convicted paedophiles. See any mainstream newspaper for further details.

Labour's desperation is really on full display and it's a bit sad that a lot of their trusted easy to win votes will move to Greens. I don't blame those voters in G&D moving to Greens or Reform for sure, I wouldn't vote for a party where the local MP had a whatsapp group with nasty comments about the constituents. Labour are consigned to history I'd say.

Cello63 · 14/02/2026 16:34

I am deeply concerned that the removal of the Human Rights Act, will be a threat to us all. Laws protect us. It is not certain rights I am concerned losing but the entirety. I think it is naive to trust a Government, any government I may add, to not abuse the removal of those rights. Expediency in attacking people Reform don’t like, is why they don’t want the Act. That’s obvious. That expediency of attack would soon be extended to other groups not deemed to be worthy. It would be naive to think they wouldn’t do this. Pastor Neimöller comes to mind. I have answered your fair question. May I ask if and why you want the Act removed?

BlueJuniper94 · 14/02/2026 16:35

DrCoconut · 14/02/2026 16:15

He's a hateful individual too. We need a real alternative that people can get behind without ruining everyone's lives.

What would that look like? Genuinely asking

Pineneedlesincarpet · 14/02/2026 16:38

Cello63 · 14/02/2026 16:34

I am deeply concerned that the removal of the Human Rights Act, will be a threat to us all. Laws protect us. It is not certain rights I am concerned losing but the entirety. I think it is naive to trust a Government, any government I may add, to not abuse the removal of those rights. Expediency in attacking people Reform don’t like, is why they don’t want the Act. That’s obvious. That expediency of attack would soon be extended to other groups not deemed to be worthy. It would be naive to think they wouldn’t do this. Pastor Neimöller comes to mind. I have answered your fair question. May I ask if and why you want the Act removed?

Any government can change domestic legislation, which is what the Human Rights Act is. Your rights aren't protected from the government by the Human Rights Act if the government repeals it. It would simply go back to how it was before Blair. Which seemed to work.

Again, what rights are you particularly worried about losing?

Imdunfer · 14/02/2026 16:40

Cello63 · 14/02/2026 16:34

I am deeply concerned that the removal of the Human Rights Act, will be a threat to us all. Laws protect us. It is not certain rights I am concerned losing but the entirety. I think it is naive to trust a Government, any government I may add, to not abuse the removal of those rights. Expediency in attacking people Reform don’t like, is why they don’t want the Act. That’s obvious. That expediency of attack would soon be extended to other groups not deemed to be worthy. It would be naive to think they wouldn’t do this. Pastor Neimöller comes to mind. I have answered your fair question. May I ask if and why you want the Act removed?

Save me reading the thread to find this, please, it's so long now.

Who is talking about removing the Human Rights Act?

Dragonfruitini · 14/02/2026 16:43

Usernamenotav · 14/02/2026 16:05

If you mean it's a myth that it stops developing at 25, then sure. It continues to develop beyond that. But the prefrontal cortex does not develop fully until around 25. Thats not a myth. The prefrontal cortex is responsible for decision making and behaviour, so pretty important for it to be developed before having children!!

lol 24 with a 6 month old baby and an 8 year old here wonder if I’ll realise how I fucked up on my birthday 😂

Cello63 · 14/02/2026 16:44

It’s on the Reform website as a stated aim of theirs, as well as removing Equality and Inclusion.

Pineneedlesincarpet · 14/02/2026 16:47

Cello63 · 14/02/2026 16:44

It’s on the Reform website as a stated aim of theirs, as well as removing Equality and Inclusion.

What rights are you worried about losing?

I think its more relating to immigration and preventing people objecting to being deported if the state wants to deport you. So the HRA enshrines the ECHR in UK law which is what Reform and the Conservatives think is problematic. Are you worried about that in particular?

Cello63 · 14/02/2026 16:47

Imdunfer · 14/02/2026 16:40

Save me reading the thread to find this, please, it's so long now.

Who is talking about removing the Human Rights Act?

It’s on the Reform website as a stated aim of theirs, as well as removing Equality and Inclusion

dottiehens · 14/02/2026 16:49

So should we vote conservative next because Labour is doing a shit job?

StandFirm · 14/02/2026 16:51

Why should we be worried about abolishing the HRA and exiting the ECHR?... because if they come for THEM they'll come for YOU.

Everyone should watch this beautiful monologue:
https://youtube.com/shorts/O7fAxCjZnIU?si=bF6wV9CSKHPOV13y

Before you continue to YouTube

https://youtube.com/shorts/O7fAxCjZnIU?si=bF6wV9CSKHPOV13y

Allisnotlost1 · 14/02/2026 16:52

PeppyCoralTiger · 14/02/2026 16:16

I haven't been able to find anything to verify the representation that this is a Reform policy. I'm not sure how Labour think this type of Guardian hyperbole plays out over the longer term for them with information now easily available.

I went to X and Reform's Matt Goodwin - has a true/false and this is more Labour desperation:

"I wrote a blog which summarised the ideas of Dr Paul Morland, a leading expert on demography. Paul set out many policy ideas to try and tackle our demographic crisis. We are not having enough children. I did not advocate specific policies but said we should debate all his ideas. The Left misrepresented this to make it appear I was personally demanding a specific policy. They are trying to mislead you."

https://x.com/GoodwinMJ/status/2022699970759999716

The blog in question is paywalled but I signed up for a free trial so I could read myself. Screenshotted the relevant parts. He refers to Morland but his enthusiasm for these ideas is self evident. He doesn’t say they are Reform policy - how could he? - but it’s clear he views marriage and three or more children as a goal. Which is ironic when he himself hasn’t ‘achieved’ that. It’s also clear from the full blog posts that the birth rate per se is not the issue, it’s the birth rate of white people that concerns him.

Reform wants women barefoot and pregnant
Reform wants women barefoot and pregnant
Reform wants women barefoot and pregnant
Reform wants women barefoot and pregnant
bemoresloth · 14/02/2026 16:53

Pineneedlesincarpet · 14/02/2026 16:47

What rights are you worried about losing?

I think its more relating to immigration and preventing people objecting to being deported if the state wants to deport you. So the HRA enshrines the ECHR in UK law which is what Reform and the Conservatives think is problematic. Are you worried about that in particular?

what has the ECHR ever done for us?
Snorlaxo · 14/02/2026 16:54

This is not news.

Fact: Farage believes that maternity leave is currently overly generous.

Fact: Farage believes that the NHS should be privatised.

Fact: Farage is friends with US Conservatives like Trump and would be in his good books if he opened the door to US insurance companies making money from the NHS.

Trump is writing the playbook for what will happen here if Farage gets into power imo and scarily there’s a lot of people who will hand him the keys when they will be the ones shafted by the rich white men in power.

ObsessiveGoogler · 14/02/2026 16:54

dottiehens · 14/02/2026 16:49

So should we vote conservative next because Labour is doing a shit job?

While I am deeply disappointed in some aspects of this Labour government I'm always amazed at the national amnesia that forgets the complete shitshow that went before and left the country in such an appalling state that Labour were basically handed a poisoned chalice.

Allisnotlost1 · 14/02/2026 16:55

Pineneedlesincarpet · 14/02/2026 16:47

What rights are you worried about losing?

I think its more relating to immigration and preventing people objecting to being deported if the state wants to deport you. So the HRA enshrines the ECHR in UK law which is what Reform and the Conservatives think is problematic. Are you worried about that in particular?

The HRA allows citizens to uphold their rights against the state. In theory those rights could be written into alternative law but none of the actors who want to abolish the HRA are making noises about citizens having more rights, are they?

placemats · 14/02/2026 16:57

womendeserveequalhumanrights · 14/02/2026 14:16

Firstly, your title and the actual text don't match. Suggesting women have children earlier is not the same as wanting them all 'barefoot and pregnant'. I think there's a reasonable argument in either direction (and also for not having children at all).

But Secondly, how do you explain Laila Cunningham as Reform party's mayoral candidate?

Or Sarah Pochin as MP? Suella Braverman?

Obviously they're not opposed to women making a career out of politics, which rather precludes being 'barefoot and pregnant' all the time.

As usual pretty lazy attempt to smear Reform.

I'm not saying they're good but at least address real things in depth and not some made up monster that doesn't pass the sniff test. By doing this you're only sending more people their way, because one thing the UK populace in general wants, it's fairness.

I feel the 'Reform are the baddies' schtick is getting rather tired these days.

american soldiers GIF

Are we the baddies?

Allisnotlost1 · 14/02/2026 16:58

dottiehens · 14/02/2026 16:49

So should we vote conservative next because Labour is doing a shit job?

Let’s think about a failing company, and now imagine that you take over. It’s in huge debt, workforce morale is at an all time low, loads of unauthorised absence and long term sick leave. The company doesn’t really make any products the market wants any more and it cut ties to its biggest market under a previous leadership.

Now fix it. I’ll give you 18 months.