to expect DH to cook me something nice for supper?

[NigellaTheUndomesticGoddess]

My third AIBU of the evening

background.
I don't do cooking. DH does the shopping, the planning, the cooking.

DH went out yesterday evening and is feeling a bit tender today.
I'm hungry.
he hasn't provided me with a nice meal.
I can't cook so can't produce anything.
don't wan't nstant stuff (soup/beans/bread)
AIBU to expect DH (who feels a little fragile) to get up abd cook me something nice? (even though it is fathers day)
I did take him to a stately home today.

Is it your time of the month ??

YABVU - if you don't / won't cook, you get what you're given - or get a takeaway

You are pathetic.

Umm personally I think you are being unreasonable, if he's not feeling at his best, and on Father's Day too, then I think you should be prepared to eat something instant.
Beans on toast isn't going to kill you now is it?

(Am slightly at your term of phrase "he hasn't provided me with a nice meal." you are obviously a well kept woman!)

YABU

Sorry but YABU. I'm the cook in this household and I sometimes fail to deliver a meal. Hangover isn't usually the reason but work, busyness, or disinclination can be. On those occasions everybody has to do their own thing (usually "thing on toast" - beans, cheese, eggs etc) Occasionally takeaway.

YAB Totally U

Can't you order a take away?

maybe this is your punishment for taking him to a stately home. Well deserved.

YABU - cook something yourself or get a takeaway.

why didn't you eat at the stately hone?don't you have a wee man/woman to "provide" for you. you sound the type. seeing you don't cook n all that

Unbelievable!!!!!!!!!!

YANBU
Honestly, it's like feminisn never happened on MN sometimes
If you have an arrangement whereby he provides the meals then he cannot pick and choose which days he fancies it
I would insist he whipped me something up immediately

ha ha

you must have cooked before though?

well
i have had to have some toast!
no. i don't cook. am much better at other stuff.
he has apologised and promised me that he will try harder.. I sincerely hope tomorrow evening he does or else i will ahve to be rethinking his position within this family.

lol - you go girl, tell him to get thst pinny on!

get him back to that staely hom eto train as a butler. Pronto

and i love the idea of sounding the type to have a wee man to do these things for me. I am you know.

take tips from paul burrell, the convivial manservant, sycophant, serial liar. knock you up and the dinner too

lol glad you likey the wee man, not too wee one hope's

I hope your joking thats all i can say

this has to be a wind up.
otherwise i feel sorry for how pathetic you are

"Please dont say that either of them have actually 'earned' their wealth"

could you please tell me how they didn't?

sorry for some reasin that appeared in the wrong thread