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Flushing the toilet after every wee.

262 replies

Squirrelchops1 · 08/02/2026 20:24

10 litres per flush is a huge amount of water per wee (that's what I believe our cistern holds).
I don't think it's necessary to flush after every wee. My friend thinks I'm tight and unhygienic.
What's your view...
Are you a 'if it's yellow let it mellow'...I am reasonable
Or...'eww you filthy sod'..I am unreasonable

OP posts:
Ninerainbows · 08/02/2026 22:11

For those asking how to get rid of the brown-stained limescale under the waterline - pumice stone on a stick is the only way.

LazySusannes · 08/02/2026 22:12

If it's just you at home during the day I think you can do whatever you feel is right.

No one else knows or sees it.

It isn't unhygienic although you might get a bit more staining in the loo if it's there for a long time.

Bepo77 · 08/02/2026 22:12

Wow you really just never know what's going on in peoples homes

UnhappyHobbit · 08/02/2026 22:12

Ninerainbows · 08/02/2026 20:29

If I don't flush it clings to the limescale and we get a lovely grey cementy coating forming under the waterline so yes, we flush!

Yes this! It might be great at saving water but becomes a nightmare trying to remove uric acid in the loo!

LazySusannes · 08/02/2026 22:12

Ninerainbows · 08/02/2026 22:11

For those asking how to get rid of the brown-stained limescale under the waterline - pumice stone on a stick is the only way.

But won't that take the glaze off the ceramic?

I think it will and you will be down to the brown, unglazed pan.

I've scrubbed our brown line with everything known to man (except harsh pumice) and nothing removes it.

Where on earth does one buy a pumice on a stick?

FunnyOrca · 08/02/2026 22:14

NoArmaniNoPunani · 08/02/2026 20:31

Isn't that why the buttons now have 2 sides to them, the big part for poo and the small part for wee?

My small button doesn’t get rid of anything!

We always flush except during the night. It’s usually only me that goes in the night. I’ll always be first in morning so I flush then.

Deadringer · 08/02/2026 22:15

I think the toilet gets stinky if its not flushed every time. If you want to save water put something into the tank so it fills up with less water. My mum used to put an old plastic milk carton full of water in, or a plastic bag full of water will do the job.

Balloonhearts · 08/02/2026 22:18

That is absolutely rank. Your house must smell of piss. Can always smell when the kids haven't flushed.

waitinginwonderland · 08/02/2026 22:19

Sorry but I think not flushing is dirty, we are 100% flush and spray/wipe down bowl if needed after every use.

LazySusannes · 08/02/2026 22:21

waitinginwonderland · 08/02/2026 22:19

Sorry but I think not flushing is dirty, we are 100% flush and spray/wipe down bowl if needed after every use.

What, after a wee?

Honestly, there seems to be so much fear or stigma attached to a simple pee!

It's not that long ago that bedrooms had chamber pots under the bed and outside toilets, and no one came to any harm.

LazySusannes · 08/02/2026 22:21

Balloonhearts · 08/02/2026 22:18

That is absolutely rank. Your house must smell of piss. Can always smell when the kids haven't flushed.

You put the lid down and close the door.

Any smell comes from splashes on the floor - as in men's loos.

Brandyb · 08/02/2026 22:23

Alwaysontherun · 08/02/2026 20:29

I’m sorry but I have to agree with your friend. Who wants to use a toilet that has pee in it from the last person who used it!

Like, me? I got bigger fish to fry. Not gonna get upset at yellow toilet water.

randomchap · 08/02/2026 22:24

I want a clean bowl. Not someone else's piss

You don't want Neptune's kiss from a dirty toilet

Whyhaveibeencutoutofmamsnot · 08/02/2026 22:25

If it is just the two of us I will miss flushes especially at night. Any visitors and we will flush. Have the duel size cistern.

99pwithaflake · 08/02/2026 22:25

Unflushed urine stinks 😷

SlayBelle · 08/02/2026 22:25

We used to do the no flush thing when the kids were small. But now they’re teenagers and the girls have periods and the boys wee really stinks of grown up man piss, so I’m now enforcing mandatory flushing.

I’ve made a rod for my own back though because they’re all trying to break a habit of a lifetime of no flushing. So I wish we’d just trained them to flush from the beginning!

Jamesblonde2 · 08/02/2026 22:27

It sounds a bit 1973 not flushing the loo.

Hear stories of parents moaning and being woken up by kids flushing in the night. That’s not me, I’m clear to my DC that they flush and if I wake up then I just go back to sleep. No problem.

We flush every time. Who wants to smell urine? And it does smell.

Perhaps those who don’t smell it are nose blind like those who can’t smell their own dog.

SpaceRaccoon · 08/02/2026 22:32

I feel sick 🤢

LizzieLazzie · 08/02/2026 22:32

We flush every time but we’re not on a water meter. We pay a fixed amount per year though we are aware of being careful for the environment. The reason this payment system was rolled out across the country after WW2 was to make sure everyone could keep clean to minimise germs and disease and for people to have unlimited safe drinking water. It was argued that charging on a meter would penalise larger families and those with extra water needs such as disabled and elderly people with incontinence.

gototogo · 08/02/2026 22:33

We have dual flush toilets, yes every time but the mini flush uses 1/3 of the water

ChattyCatty25 · 08/02/2026 22:33

I don’t flush for wees at home, it’s a waste. I would also then have to clean the toilet seat because it spits toilet water back up when it’s flushed.

I do flush if there’s visitors over, and in public loos and other people’s houses.

You save exponentially more water eating a plant based diet anyway, so I don’t worry too much about it but do my bit.

sleepwouldbenice · 08/02/2026 22:33

Given what you've said since about largely wfh alone and obviously flushing pre guests. Then fine
I dont flushing at night, I do in the day every time but thats habit
But the main point is to get a water hippo thing to cut water usage. Which is much more practical 🤔

LeDix · 08/02/2026 22:35

You use a tumble dryer but have a bowl of stinking piss in your house to ‘save the planet’ Shock

PeloMom · 08/02/2026 22:36

Occasionally I used to leave it if went during the night (so that I don’t wake up DC) but omg the smell first thing in the morning was making me so nauseous! So I always flush.

ClairDeLaLune · 08/02/2026 22:38

Always flush. I don’t understand the concept of wasting water. Surely it just goes into the sewage system, purified, and then reused?