@1000StrawberryLollies yes mine struggles with exactly that - making things up. its incredibly frustrating as im telling her theyre asking for a reply not the literal truth - they dont know how old your siblings are or what film you like.!!
There clearly is huge amounts of overdiagnosis. Particularly asd. And these are not even always kids that would previously have been aspergers.
i dont in our case even understand why the parents thought the kids were autistic. They have no social issues and were in pact relatively popular. In some cases i think its related to possible adhd signs or dyslexia.
Our y6 is now at least at 10% diagnosed asd.
I think the misdiagnosis comes from not really asking about the other asd issues (things like sleep or food or independence)
Some dyslexic kids may have poor understanding of social cues or could irritate other kids through misunderstandings.
An aspergers child would likely have a very different life outlook from a non verbal child. So its important to understand the level of disability.
if you watch child genius it looks like several of the kids would now be diagnosed autistic.
Obviously an element of social contagion in terms of going for diagnosis.
But also how much are the asd type behaviours spreading through a class. (And adhd). If kids cant socialise well then its harder for kids in a small class to make friends. In our case reception was very poor in terms of helping kids socialise as well as playground staff not ever intervening. Fewer collaborative games on the playground to my generation. And in homes most kids have their own screens. Effectively removing need for compromise.
Although i would expect more contagion of adhd behavour vs asd. (That does seem to happen at secondary).
I think one of my youngest’s friends may be asd. He never eats the food anywhere. Never had the FSM. Plays with the girls over the boys. Dislikes sport. Plays computer games a lot. Likewise another girl in class would get very anxious at parties, have to be in charge - prone to tears etc etc. And so whilst these kids arent struggling at school, i wouldnt personally say they fall into typical either, but wouldnt be in any of the stats.
I think the whole Merlin saga shows the more accurate picture of asd/adhd diagnosis. The numbers /% has to be very high to get this level of backlash. And for the numbers of RAP to be making a difference on a say 60min queue.
Clearly there is an inventive to get diagnosed
extra exam time
DLA
possibly extra help at school
EHCP and picking a school
removal of benefit cap.
To be honest the 5+ year wait in our area is hugely frustrating as we dont give a crap about any of that but our dc is very severe with sensory issues and some behaviour and i think working is going to be very tricky.
The list for prioritisation is ridiculous as its lack of speech, school or family breakdown. but means a kid could be 2 and unable to speak because of age but anyway others stuck on the waitlist from before the kid was born…
Also seems they cant actually differentiate asd vs fasd so how does everyone feel the costs of sen if in future say half of asd cases were actually from alcohol?