The equality act defines a disability as a long term impairment that significantly impacts on physical, cognitive or mental health. About 24% of UK population classifies as this according to statistics.
If you think of the huge variety of disabilities, ill health wtc then I would say 20% of children having some kind of need for additional support isnt a suprise.
Especially given the education system and what used to be standard has been cut to the bone. My friends child is 18 and in a complex needs provision. Very verbal and can present as able but actually has significant learning disability as well as autism, pda.
When he was a toddler he had portage, speech and language therapy wtc. Then when he started school they had a meeting and at that point he didnt have a statement as it then was. The school STILL provided a 1:1 and he was held back a year so did reception twice, then year one twice before then getting a statement and a specialist placement. The system was more flexible, there was more support available.
By contrast my own child age 9 has some very similar needs, autism, pda, also tourettes, absence type seizures and other needs (trying not to go in to too much detail) but he had no support at all until I battled for an ehcp in year 2. By which time he was unable to access the toilet all day in school, was not accessing curriculum or much learning at all. But he wasnt 'too disruptive ' so he was left. I said he was not going to manage in yr 3 without much more support. And within weeks of transferring to junior school placement started to fall apart. By the January he was on a part time timetable, unable to eat or use toilet. Not accessing any learning and getting so overwhelmed it was unsafe. But LA said mainstream was fine despite EP and OT reports detailing overwhelm. He cant cope with being around that many people his current provision is at home EOTAS as no school in county to meet needs.
But he had to completely fail in mainstream first, then had a year with NO provision at all whilst I battled the local authority to get support. Had he have had the opportunity to be held back a year (I asked..no) but if he had been born ONE day later I legally could have insisted he was held back a year. If he had had smaller class sizes, some TA support, adapted curriculum. Staff trained in PDA he could have managed primary school I think. As it was there was no support at all. Even basic sensory accomodations I had to fight for.
His education is now expensive 9hours a week is all he currently gets, we will be increasing it in line with capacity and ability but that alone is costing £40,000 a year. Its 2:1 at home and the LA are also stating (illegally) that I have to supervise it. This means I can no longer work as a solo parent (court ordered no contact with other parent for safety)
Yes I am following appropriate complaints procedures and at point of having to go to Judicial review. An independent officer has investigated and found failings, non legal practice by LA... they dont care. Its cheaper to ignore findings, drag it out to judicial review. In the meantime I am on unpaid parental leave and reliant on benefits.
For context my elder 3 children all adults, working, living independently etc 2 of them also autistic and one has health needs too but he got some support with a statement or ehcp.
I also have 14 and 17 yr old autistic/adhd managing fine with a bit of support. One at college, the other needing some adjustment at high school and leaving one academy chain because they are being awful but I dont have the energy to fight. They are a top set, cognitively able child.. not that anyones cognitive ability defines them or their worth. But the fact that a mainstream high school environment wont make simple adaptations when in years gone by there was more flexibility, is partly why SO many parents end up battling for EHCP.
Investing in early support, having state owned specialist schools, making mainstream more adaptive and inclusive would all help.
But we would need to fundamentally look at structure of schools, class sizes, curriculum. I worked in mainstream and left because I couldn't cope with how many children were being failed. I work in complex needs now (or did) which is better but even there funding, staffing etc are all suffering.
Thank you to those on this thread who have taken the time to explain repeatedly and advicate for our vulnerable. Some of the attitudes shown are awful but not surprising.