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Benefits explosion- where will it end?

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TheBlueKoala · 30/01/2026 11:37

"PIP benefits explosion: Anxiety and depression handouts have nearly TRIPLED to £4.3bn since Covid - with autism and ADHD bill hitting £2.2bn and 'back pain' £1.6bn"

Something is not right here. When I have written before on here telling about people I know who claim for anxiety although they have rich social lives (funded by 440£ extra per month from PIP) I've had many people telling me that it's not possible etc. It sure is. How many 16 year olds are claiming PIP for anxiety?

Instead of benefits why not pay for therapy- invest massively in the NHS mental health support so that people with anxiety, adhd and autism can see a therapist regularly to help them. This would make a difference for tje individual and the society. Throwing out money won't.

AINBU- I agree with about
AIBU- No, extra money is always useful

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15510221/PIP-benefits-anxiety-depression-austism-ADHD-pain-Covid-Labour.html

PIP anxiety and depression benefits near TRIPLE to £4.3bn after Covid

The grim picture emerged in a breakdown of how much Personal Independence Payment (PIP) is being paid out for specific conditions.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15510221/PIP-benefits-anxiety-depression-austism-ADHD-pain-Covid-Labour.html

OP posts:
LostGlassesAgain · 30/01/2026 14:33

TheGrimSqueakersFlea · 30/01/2026 11:43

Therapy isn't a cure. I've had years of therapy and I'm still autistic

This. Stop lumping Autism in with anxiety, people can have both but Autism is a lifelong disability

TheActualQueen · 30/01/2026 14:34

Forgive me if this is a stupid question but why do people get PIP for having ADHD?

HelloCr0w · 30/01/2026 14:34

Shrinkhole · 30/01/2026 14:33

The government would have to invest in training more.

It’s not mega hard to do for a manualised therapy like CBT that can be delivered in a group and/ or online. You don’t need to be a highly qualified expensive psychologist.

The government might be persuaded to do that if the cost: benefit saving off the benefit bill made it worthwhile. If it doesn’t then they won’t bother.

CBT does not help everyone

scottishgirl69 · 30/01/2026 14:35

Everlore · 30/01/2026 14:23

Well I am severely physically disabled, born without eyes and with multiple joint deformities. I am in receipt of higher rate PIP and also work full time, though I'm currently on maternity leave. Without the extra equipment, adaptive technology, specialist resources and personal support PIP helps me to pay for I would, however, be unable to work, so, in my case, removing PIP would have the opposite effect to the one you are suggesting. PIP by no means covers all of the extra expenses associated with my disability, much of which I have to cover from my wages. This means I will always be worse off than someone without my disability earning the same income. I hope this puts your mind, and the minds of other posters on here, convinced that all PIP-claimants are living a tax-payer funded life of luxury, at rest.
Sorry I don't fit into your sweeping generalisation.

When I had my assessment for adult disability payment the assessor told me that it helps a lot of people with disabilities stay in work.

BeGreenBiscuit · 30/01/2026 14:35

Everlore · 30/01/2026 14:23

Well I am severely physically disabled, born without eyes and with multiple joint deformities. I am in receipt of higher rate PIP and also work full time, though I'm currently on maternity leave. Without the extra equipment, adaptive technology, specialist resources and personal support PIP helps me to pay for I would, however, be unable to work, so, in my case, removing PIP would have the opposite effect to the one you are suggesting. PIP by no means covers all of the extra expenses associated with my disability, much of which I have to cover from my wages. This means I will always be worse off than someone without my disability earning the same income. I hope this puts your mind, and the minds of other posters on here, convinced that all PIP-claimants are living a tax-payer funded life of luxury, at rest.
Sorry I don't fit into your sweeping generalisation.

This thread isn't aimed at you don't let it get to you. You genuinely need it or else you would struggle to live your life.

I think the issue is people who are claiming choose to do very little when they could do more. I don't blame them for claiming if it's there and they are happy to pay it why not take it. The issue is the benefit system needs updating to continue only helping those in genuine need.

anniegun · 30/01/2026 14:35

PIP is not allocated according to your clinial condition. It depends on what you can (or cant ) do. Many people with anxiety get PIP for other conditions , the anxiety is just part of their health conditions. Having one leg will probably make you depressed, and you will now be added to the number of people with depression who get PIP

Badbadbunny · 30/01/2026 14:36

Fullmoan · 30/01/2026 14:30

I think we need lots more visibility of the fact that there are plenty of people out there working with often quite profound disabilities and not claiming benefits. I am one and I know of many others

I think there has become a perception that I do have even a slightest bit of struggle in life that the government ought to chuck load of resources at you.

When you add onto that the fact that for some people they are actually going to make a lot more money claiming benefits than they would do working then I can see why we've ended up with a country where so many people choose to take rather than give

It's hugely demotivating working hard with a disability and seeing other people feel that they should just squeeze the system for everything they can possibly get

I agree. My DH has incurable cancer, first diagnosed 8 years ago, and slowly deteriorating. He still works, has only had the odd day off work for chemotherapy, hospital appointments and the very odd day after the end of a chemotherapy cycle where he couldn't physically get out of bad due to the side effects of multiple infusions over a couple of weeks. He has very bad bone and muscle pain every single day. Can't walk far anymore, can't do anything physical anymore like cycling, golf, skiing, etc. He's constantly either sick, diarrhoea or bunged up due to the cocktail of drugs he has to take daily. When we tell people of his condition and they look at him, hobbling along, they can't believe he's still working. His oncologist and the cancer nurses can't believe it either and are constantly "reminding" him that he should be on disability benefits and be giving up work. He just doesn't want to give it up as it gives him a purpose in life, a reason to get up in the morning, etc.

Sartre · 30/01/2026 14:36

Haven’t read it yet but it’s sitting on my NTR pile… The Anxious Generation, I’ve heard it goes a long way to explaining why Gen Z’s are so anxious. As I say, haven’t read yet but my own armchair psychiatry would link it to screen usage. I’m part of the last generation to remember a life without everyone staring at a phone 24/7, they’ve never known any different. Plus Covid lockdowns amplified lots of MH issues.

Fullmoan · 30/01/2026 14:37

BeGreenBiscuit · 30/01/2026 14:35

This thread isn't aimed at you don't let it get to you. You genuinely need it or else you would struggle to live your life.

I think the issue is people who are claiming choose to do very little when they could do more. I don't blame them for claiming if it's there and they are happy to pay it why not take it. The issue is the benefit system needs updating to continue only helping those in genuine need.

Exactly. Those of us with genuine profound disabilities ought to be angry at others who are clearly exploiting the system

x2boys · 30/01/2026 14:37

JudgeJ · 30/01/2026 14:25

Years of chronic conning doctors by knowing the buzzwords to get signed off work for 'anxiety' and 'stress'. There are people with genuine illnesses but I think we all know the words that will work a treat for those not wanting to work. They've become the bad back of the 21st century.

Loads of people get signed off work for anxiety and stress it doesnt mean they will be eligible for disability benefits.

VimesandhisCardboardBoots · 30/01/2026 14:38

Badbadbunny · 30/01/2026 14:28

But there are also "high functioning" people with autism who are highly educated and hold down very demanding jobs.

At one of the first accounting firms I worked in, our tax manager was one such person. Literally none of the staff ever saw him except him arriving and leaving each day. He never attended meetings, never spoke to clients or other staff in any way, and basically never left his own office (which was at the back of the building at the end of a quiet corridor!). But he had a brilliant tax mind! The only people he seemed to deal with were the three partners who'd give him files and he'd "do his bit" and hand them back to the partners with "crib sheets" about what to say in meetings, what questions to ask, what advice to give, etc. He was about the most "back room" member of staff you could imagine. When I worked there, he was probably in his mid to late 60s and from what I could gather, he'd been there all his working life. He'd basically just found himself a "niche" that suited him and the rest of the staff/partner just worked around him.

He never attended meetings, never spoke to clients or other staff in any way, and basically never left his own office (which was at the back of the building at the end of a quiet corridor!).

This is kind've what I mean though. Do you reckon he'd still be allowed to do that today? Just be allowed to get on with what he's good at with no distractions?

I'm not saying that all autistic people need a quiet life. DPs best friend is autistic and thrives on being the most social person in the world. But she's not the one struggling.

It's not even just about neurodiversity, or anxiety or whatever, there's plenty of neurotypical people out there who struggle with big crowds or distractions who'd much rather have a quiet life, and a job that facilitates that.

The problem is that those jobs exist less and less these days, and an entire subset of people are struggling as a result.

Unhappyitis · 30/01/2026 14:38

TheActualQueen · 30/01/2026 14:34

Forgive me if this is a stupid question but why do people get PIP for having ADHD?

It will be due to severity of the disability and the impact on function.

I don't claim, I work in a full time job and don't need it. People don't realise that autism and ADHD have a lot of overlap, lots of very similar traits. Differences also but it is a spectrum.

So when ADHD affects function, it's a spectrum of needs and help. I don't like to use the term high functioning but I guess I'd be described as that, even though it kicks my arse sometimes but I can hold down a full time job Etc.

So other people with more severe ADHD than me, might not be able to function like I do due to having additional needs.

I genuinely think people think it's just ooh look a squirrel type shit. There is so much more to it than people realise. I have to organise myself to the hilt or my life goes to shit.

Shrinkhole · 30/01/2026 14:38

TheAutumnCrow · 30/01/2026 14:31

Yes, exactly, what then?

Pain Management Programmes in my NHS area are for patients who have no other treatment options left. They are programmes to try to help you live with the pain better so you don’t keep thinking about Dignitas.

Well at least they’d have had the opportunity to try an evidence based intervention. If having given it a good try and it was not enough to make them well enough for any kind of work then at that point they should be granted that LCWRA long term or indefinite. Or if at initial assessment the health professional deemed there were already no interventions to offer the straight to the LCWRA.

Chronic symptoms of pain and depression are sometimes things that cannot be cured and have to be managed. Some people can manage well enough to be able to work with them however.

PatchouliPrincess · 30/01/2026 14:39

LakieLady · 30/01/2026 14:21

It's great that you've found a medication that works well for you.

Sadly, that's not the case for everyone.

So then you try something else until you find something that does work.

Ask me how I know.

Badbadbunny · 30/01/2026 14:39

Fullmoan · 30/01/2026 14:37

Exactly. Those of us with genuine profound disabilities ought to be angry at others who are clearly exploiting the system

Nail on the head. Genuine claimants should be angry and campaigning to stop the abuse as it does reflect badly on everyone when so many chancers are claiming.

Time and time again, women on here are complaining that the "good men" don't call out the "bad" men and make out it's their responsibility to "police" other men who abuse women.

Funny how that doesn't seem to work with benefit claimants! Double standards in play again!

Jimmyneutronsforehead · 30/01/2026 14:39

TheActualQueen · 30/01/2026 14:34

Forgive me if this is a stupid question but why do people get PIP for having ADHD?

There's a fab post a few pages back I think it was by @scottishgirl forgive me if its another poster.

Explaining just some of the things ADHD can do, meaning you need a lot of prompting, reminding and supervision and how executive dysfunction is catastrophically disabling in ADHD.

Please don't be fooled though, it's extremely hard to claim PIP for ADHD without any other comorbidities. It isn't very well understood as a disability due to the extensive vilification in the media, and it stereotypically being the "naughty boy" condition and people forming their own uneducated decisions about it.

NeverSeenThatColourBlue · 30/01/2026 14:41

Kirbert2 · 30/01/2026 14:30

I claim DLA for my son and can't afford trips like Disneyland. Not sure how she is managing that.

Because she has next to no additional costs for her disability. I know why she got DLA to begin with. She had to go private for her diagnosis and treatment and it cost a fortune. I filled out the forms. At 10, prior to being medicated, she was quite expensive, she broke and lost things regularly, she had to be practically man-handled into the bath, she was on a constant mission to get sugar hits and if there was anything sweet in the house she would hunt it down but take about 2 hours to eat a meal. Absolutely lovely kid but she required constant supervision + the costs of treatment. I was still shocked to be told that she was entitled to £350 a month, that was way over the cost of the additional expenses.

However, the medication has been a huge success for her, she gets some adjustments at school, she has developed strategies to help her and outgrown some of her behaviours. Yet she still gets it, and seems confident she will get PIP.

I'm not saying her life isn't a bit harder than an NT child but none of the things which are hard are helped by money.

If it's still the same amount she gets £4200 a year which is a very good chunk of a family holiday to Disney, which they do every year now.

Nosleepforthismum · 30/01/2026 14:41

organisedadmin · 30/01/2026 12:02

Plus for younger people there is a fair bit to be anxious and depressed about!

Is there? Much less anxiety than wondering if you were going to be bombed during the war or if you’d ever see family members and loved ones again.

scottishgirl69 · 30/01/2026 14:43

Some of the most negative comments from people on here are from people who haven't been through the process of trying to get lwrca

I personally won't put myself through the process of trying to get it for mental health ever again. It's a pretty gruelling process even if the assessors are nice which some people arent. You are asked questions such as are you suicidal and do you have a suicide plan (and I understand the reasons why they need to ask).

As I said earlier the first time I went through the process it I was very unwell - but my GP was overruled twice

And then you are put in the position of being told you are fit for work - when you know you aren't - which makes your mental health deteriorate further

Of course in an ideal world everyone would be supported to get into and stay in work - but sometimes life changing things happen to people that mean they need extra support - most of the criticism on here is coming from people who haven't been through the process themselves - it's not easy.

HelloCr0w · 30/01/2026 14:43

Shrinkhole · 30/01/2026 14:38

Well at least they’d have had the opportunity to try an evidence based intervention. If having given it a good try and it was not enough to make them well enough for any kind of work then at that point they should be granted that LCWRA long term or indefinite. Or if at initial assessment the health professional deemed there were already no interventions to offer the straight to the LCWRA.

Chronic symptoms of pain and depression are sometimes things that cannot be cured and have to be managed. Some people can manage well enough to be able to work with them however.

When I was first awarded LCWRA I had already done CBT and also other therapies multiple times.
If you go to your GP with depression or anxiety it is the first thing they suggest anyway and then you have to wait 6 months to access it anyway.

Shrinkhole · 30/01/2026 14:44

scottishgirl69 · 30/01/2026 14:35

When I had my assessment for adult disability payment the assessor told me that it helps a lot of people with disabilities stay in work.

Not terrifically effectively well though as only 10% of them actually are in work but I do not begrudge in the slightest Everlore or many other people in a similar position. I have said a lot on this thread and others that it really really isn’t PIP that is the issue

Badbadbunny · 30/01/2026 14:44

VimesandhisCardboardBoots · 30/01/2026 14:38

He never attended meetings, never spoke to clients or other staff in any way, and basically never left his own office (which was at the back of the building at the end of a quiet corridor!).

This is kind've what I mean though. Do you reckon he'd still be allowed to do that today? Just be allowed to get on with what he's good at with no distractions?

I'm not saying that all autistic people need a quiet life. DPs best friend is autistic and thrives on being the most social person in the world. But she's not the one struggling.

It's not even just about neurodiversity, or anxiety or whatever, there's plenty of neurotypical people out there who struggle with big crowds or distractions who'd much rather have a quiet life, and a job that facilitates that.

The problem is that those jobs exist less and less these days, and an entire subset of people are struggling as a result.

I think there are plenty of "jobs" that can be done like that today, especially with the internet. I am ND and run my own small accountancy practice. I can go, literally, weeks without speaking on the phone or face to face with a single client. In fact, I can't remember the last time - probably November! Everything I do is online via email or software/portals. The only clients I talk to in person or on the phone are more elderly clients. As I've said upthread, there needs to be more support for self employment for the people for whom a "typical" workplace doesn't suit them, but they can still "work" if they have more control, i.e. self employment where they can choose clients, working hours, location, type of work, etc. Likewise, if not self employment, employers could be more amenable to disabilities other than physical disabilities and make themselves and other staff aware of the issues around ADHD, Autism, Aspergers and being ND generally, i.e. to avoid the "one size fits all" crap of modern workplaces (and schools!).

Fullmoan · 30/01/2026 14:45

Badbadbunny · 30/01/2026 14:39

Nail on the head. Genuine claimants should be angry and campaigning to stop the abuse as it does reflect badly on everyone when so many chancers are claiming.

Time and time again, women on here are complaining that the "good men" don't call out the "bad" men and make out it's their responsibility to "police" other men who abuse women.

Funny how that doesn't seem to work with benefit claimants! Double standards in play again!

Exactly and we see and hear it in the advice given by advisors. I was told to base my condition (which is hugely fluctuating) on my "very worst day". I was told to embellish and exaggerate.

If that kind of advice is being multiplied up and down the country it's no wonder some people actually take it up and weave a benefits claim out of a fiction

x2boys · 30/01/2026 14:45

Kirbert2 · 30/01/2026 14:30

I claim DLA for my son and can't afford trips like Disneyland. Not sure how she is managing that.

Indeed, my son gets the highest rates of DLA only had one holiday in 8 years and that was a week in a caravan.

Badbadbunny · 30/01/2026 14:45

Nosleepforthismum · 30/01/2026 14:41

Is there? Much less anxiety than wondering if you were going to be bombed during the war or if you’d ever see family members and loved ones again.

Did that stop you from going to work??

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