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To think people over 80 should not drive

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TorridAntelope · 30/01/2026 00:14

I don't care how bright and sparky they are, the stats show they are dangerous

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Jackoutthebox · 30/01/2026 12:23

Most villages around here no longer have a regular or reliable bus service. Lots of villages no longer have a village shop or post office. An outright ban at 80 would mean many people would be totally isolated.

BoredZelda · 30/01/2026 12:25

TorridAntelope · 30/01/2026 00:14

I don't care how bright and sparky they are, the stats show they are dangerous

The stats also show under 25s are dangerous, in far higher numbers. Should we stop anyone under 25 driving?

CactusSwoonedEnding · 30/01/2026 12:27

Yabu. There would be way more harm and suffering if you isolate otherwise-healthy 80+yos from their wider community by limiting them to what they can walk to.

There should be more testing as age encroaches and even before then. People's driving skills deteriorate as they forget their driving instructor. Eye tests aren't enough there need to be tests of reaction time and cognitive decision-making because someone with perfectly good eyesight could still become a danger as they get more and more frail and start losing marbles.

I would have the tests being every decade starting from the day you get your driving licence, moving to every 5 years once you are 55+, every 2 years from 70+ and every year from 80+

Periperi2025 · 30/01/2026 12:29

I think it should be compulsory for every driver to have their sight tested as prescribed intervals, particuluarly elderly, professional and any driver using any additional category on their licence above just driving a car (towing, C1, D1 etc).

There should be lower tolerance of medical conditions the older people get.

There should be a lot more retesting going on, not just for elderly, I'd do away with the fines system as it is now and just have any one hitting 6 points then has 3 months to pass a retest or you loose your license. It makes the punishment more even across the wealth divide as the level of inconvience and stress is high for everyone, it makes better drivers (I've done multiple courses, tests and assessments over the years and they do make a difference - C1, D1, bluelight, then bluelight refreshers), it also makes a much stronger insentive to anyone speeding to slow down if you have a driving test hanging over you.

I'd also have elderly people retested at 70, 75, 78, 80, 81, 82 etc etc. It wouldn't necesarily need to be a full test, just a mini practical and theory assessment.

Driving is a privelage not a right.

Luckyingame · 30/01/2026 13:00

"I want people to be allowed to start driving at 30.
AIBU? "
Ageism is frowned upon, I believe.

Londontown12 · 30/01/2026 13:01

BishyBarnyBee · 30/01/2026 09:11

The problem is, needing independence is not a reason to carry on driving if people are unsafe. Your MIL is fine now. My mum was fine until her mid 80s. But then started having more near misses and it became clear she needed to stop. Nobody has the right to carry on driving once their ability starts to decline, and currently there is no effective system to assess driving competence.

My mother in law would stop if she had to she drives because she is safe and has good eyesight in fact she is very fit and able !
If she can't do something she would stop ! my father in law( now passed) ! Was a different story he was a very bad driver and in the end mother in law sold his car ! And reported him to DVLA to say he wasn't fit to drive !
I can see where your coming from and unfortunately the law needs to be updated to stop people who shouldn't be driving slipping through the net !
But there are laws for no mobiles while driving people still do it
Speeding but people still do it and Drink driving ect ect the government don't do enough to keep safe drivers safe from careless drivers on our roads !
And this goes across the board not just driving but everything that should keep us safe the government ain't doing !!!
And that is scary !

CrochetMadRosie · 30/01/2026 13:05

My mum is nearly 81 and still driving. I’m happy that she’s safe still and she’s happy too. She still drives the children and there’s no way that would be happening if we weren’t happy!

We have had the conversation about knowing when it’s time to stop (my Dad who is only late 70s has already decided to stop driving) but for now she’s still a good driver and why should she have to stop just because she’s gone 80?

I do think that there should be something more to maybe prove that she’s still ok to drive as you do see some elderly people who you think really shouldn’t be driving, but I don’t think it should be an automatic age thing.

ladygindiva · 30/01/2026 13:09

SPQRomanus · 30/01/2026 01:09

The age group with the most killed and seriously injured while driving is 17 to 24.

The ability to drive safely over 80 very much depends on the person. My mother is 88 and still drives, as do all her friends of a similar age. She is fully compos mentis, very good eyesight and perfectly safe to drive. However she has chosen to no longer do long drives( over 2 hours) as she feels tired, and prefers not to drive in the night because of glare.

She is very sociable, has lots of friends and goes to lots of activities such as language classes, book clubs etc, as well as doing grocery shopping etc. She lives in a village with poor public transport and her life would be diminished if she had to stop driving. She is fully aware that may happen at some point though.

My mother is 81 and in exactly the same situation. I envisage and hope she will be driving for a few more years. Op is BU

Runninghappy1 · 30/01/2026 13:15

Thoseslippers · 30/01/2026 01:09

I'd be with you if you suggested they should retake a mini driving test.
But just straight up banned? No. 80 year olds are all different and there will be many who are perfectly fine drivers.
I do agree though that people who have been driving a certain amount of time should be forced legally to take a refresher test every so often. And over 60s should have health and sight checks for driving every 5 years or so.

My mum is an absolute terror for this. There's no way she can safely drive yet shes very focused on it.
I thought there'd be some mechanism by which the dvla would prevent it as she has multiple health issues. Well no they just gave her her licence back with nothing.. no test no evidence of anything

She immediately crashed and totalled a car she had just bought. Luckily just in her own courtyard abd luckily she wasn't hurt

She starting up about it again now and im honestly going to ring them and start shouting at people if she does.
Biggles the mind who's just being allowed on the roads.
My mum can't even see out of the car. She has scoliosis. She also has MS and no upper body strength. She uses an electric wheelchair. She's also elderly with sight problems and hadn't driven fir 20 years (as my dad prevented her but he's since died and this is when she decided she would get her licence renewed)
I just cannot believe the ease with which she got it.

MS is a reportable condition to the DVLA and requires a DR assessment/note every 3 years.

CactusSwoonedEnding · 30/01/2026 13:16

People who can't drive safely shouldn't drive. It's ridiculous to have an age-based cutoff for when this happens. It will happen for some earlier than others. Some drivers in their 20s are crap at driving and should never have passed in the first place. It's equally ridiculous to trust the driving of someone who passed their test 13 years ago or 33 years ago or 53 years ago. Driving is a privilege not a right and people would be less blasé about letting their standards slip back into laziness after they pass if they knew they would have to retake the test every few years. The shortage of tests needs to be addressed by doubling the test fee in order to have the resources to make the job of driving test examiner more appealing and recruit a whole lot more of them and introduce a system of regular retesting for everyone.

JamesClyman · 30/01/2026 13:17

If we are banning people based on statistics of age and fatal accidents, that's most under 25s fucked.

YABU.

Dillydollydingdong · 30/01/2026 13:20

How ridiculous and discriminatory. And 80 is a bit arbitrary. If it was 90 I could understand it (maybe). Regular eye tests and health checks would be acceptable.

Netcurtainnelly · 30/01/2026 13:26

Not this one again?
Get the popcorn.?

Why 80 and not 79 0r 81?

I know several good drivers who are 80 and 81 they are better drivers than younger people and they have actually more manners than some younger people.

Plenty of older people would become socially isolated if they couldn't drive and that would cause another problem.

The ones I know use their cars to go to the leisure centre to do exercise and active ageing sport. It keeps them fit and they meet others.
How grim and selfish that you think that should end.
You'd have them sit at home being inactive and missing out and putting on weight and becoming boring old farts.

Thank God the decision isn't down to you.

ginasevern · 30/01/2026 13:46

I personally think young males should be banned from driving. They're the group most likely to cause accidents and are over-represented in serious and fatal collisions. Young male drivers cause the most deaths and carnage basically. Accidents involving the over 80's are miniscule in comparison and not out of proportion to any other group of drivers on the road.

I8toys · 30/01/2026 13:46

YANBU - they are terrifying. Had to remove in laws car due to them being dangerous. The issue with young vs old is that older drivers have years of experience but are still dangerous.

Brefugee · 30/01/2026 13:49

tbh i think young men shouldn't be allowed to drive.

And people who are experiencing any kind of cognitive decline (not just age-related) should have to undergo assessment or lose their licence.

But mostly young men shouldn't be allowed to drive.

sociallydistained · 30/01/2026 14:01

No. My Nan is 82 and driving is her lifeline. The accepts that this won't last much longer but right now she's a competent driver why should people be stopped the moment they turn 80?! As pp said the young drivers starting out are also a high risk group .

UltimateSloth · 30/01/2026 15:13

It would be more useful to require everyone to take eye tests every couple of years and the optician supplies the test results straight to the DVLA. I've known young people with eye conditions told they shouldn't drive, but they were supposed to self report and didn't, carried on driving anyway.

DemonsandMosquitoes · 30/01/2026 15:51

My mum and another woman was killed by a pensioner drifting into oncoming traffic. He also badly injured two others. He couldn’t remember a thing about it. Got a suspended sentence.
Banning seems harsh but there should certainly be some form of regular testing past the age of 70.

MsGreying · 30/01/2026 16:26

As we can't get guarantee that the people taking the tests are the people who hold the licence I think a lot more needs to be done to make the roads safer.

Report with dashcam evidence the poor drivers. Some police forces are happy to consider this sort of evidence and act on it.

FreeKitkat · 30/01/2026 16:47

The law changed this year
Anyone over 70 before could tick boxes to renew their driving licence every 3 years.

Now they will need to provide proof of an eye test & possibly a fitness test from a doctor.

Sharptonguedwoman · 30/01/2026 16:49

EndlessCupsofSugaryTea · 30/01/2026 00:51

Don’t over 80s have to regularly get their licences renewed anyway?

As someone who tried to learn to drive and failed miserably, I can safely say that age is only one factor in whether people should be on the road or not. I certainly shouldn’t be and I’m a long way off 80!

Over 70, I think.

JustAnotherWhinger · 30/01/2026 17:09

My late DF was one such. He was a truly appalling driver. He passed his test on his 6th attempt, I can only think that the examiner passed him just in case he ever had to test him again. He once managed to crash into a petrol pump when leaving a petrol station. He claimed he "forgot" that his wheels weren't straight when pulling away, ffs.

He never should have been given a licence imo. He gave up driving at 70, and I don't know how he kept his licence so long. He'd had several traffic offences, including at least 2 for driving without due care and attention, and more accidents than I could count.

The reason I feel so strongly about this is that I worked with a woman who passed her test on the 14th attempt. She was an appalling driver yet people were all "yay! Well done you!"

She damaged four cars in the staff car park in the first year of having her license, had three near misses with pedestrians that she was adamant just "appeared" in the middle of the road and then wrote off her car because she didn't like to stop at roundabouts in case she stalled.

I think driving test standards should be higher - there should be limits on what you can do in the first couple of years of driving (it's madness that shortly after passing my test I could have legally taken my 9 month old twins onto the motorway without a second of motorway experience) - and there should be periodical re-testing of people.

Medical and eye exams should also be regular and mandatory.

I also think there should be harsher penalties - if you lose your license a second time (for example) you shouldn't get it back.
Driving is a privilege, not a right. And I say that as someone with a disabled daughter who would be screwed without her car so I know how valuable it is.

UniquePinkSwan · 30/01/2026 17:09

I’d rather thhem than 18 year olds

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