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AIBU to refuse to pay cash in hand?

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Dontasksillyquestions · 28/01/2026 20:29

This recently came up in conversation with a friend and she disagreed with me.

I generally avoid hiring anyone who asks to be paid cash in hand. I don’t see how cash is more convenient these days unless it’s to avoid tax, benefits rules, etc., and I don’t want to be involved. I also rarely carry cash and getting to a cash machine is inconvenient.

Last year I stopped using a regular gardener when he suddenly asked for cash only, despite there being no payment issues (I always transferred the money on the day he’d done the work). My friend thinks I’m being ridiculous and that it’s none of my concern how people run their business. AIBU?

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JLou08 · 28/01/2026 21:25

It could be tax dodging. Or it could be due to fear of losing cash because it isn't used enough. There are some theories, which some would call conspiracies, that once cash has gone we can be completely under the control of the state. There are also people who want to hold on to cash for the nostalgia of it, remembering how nice it was to get a £10 note in a birthday card, save change in a piggy bank etc. Cash can be a great way to teach maths skills. Some people budget better with cash.
I'm not a tax dodger, even if I wanted to I couldn't as I'm employed by the local authority so it all goes through payroll. I do try and use cash sometimes though as I don't want us to lose it.

Candlestickinthediningroom · 28/01/2026 21:25

Motomum23 · 28/01/2026 21:24

I'm a childminder and I ask for payment in cash, too many people over the years have said I've sent the bank transfer or I'll do it later, it all goes through the books correctly. It's hard for a self employed person to chase a payment if its not forthcoming.

Could you not ask for payment in advance or monthly standing order?

SarahAndQuack · 28/01/2026 21:30

SabrinaThwaite · 28/01/2026 21:19

Must be a PTA because you have to physically bank it and account for it.

It's the accounting, not the banking - for me it's amounts of £75 or £100 and I just spend it. But I like being able to match up my invoices to my bank statement and not stress about it. Also, weirdly, some people do not like it if they pay you cash and you send them an invoice with 'paid' on it - I think they like to imagine paying cash is some kind of friendly conspiracy they've got going on with you.

fizzyroselemonade · 28/01/2026 21:31

Notasbigasithink · 28/01/2026 21:07

A lot of SE/small businesses prefer cash as it means they get to keep 100% of the profits. Using card machines or doing bank transfers means that they have to pay charges on any transaction made thus reducing their margins.
Asking for cash payment also ensures you are paid at the time of service and not when the client remembers to pay you. Most SE people cannot afford to bank roll all their late payers! Just because you always pay on time, its their business, their terms. It also avoids unnecessary admin by constantly having to check to see if people have paid. This eats into a massive amount of time and someone will need to be paid for that time spent too.
Just because someone is asking for cash, doesn't mean they are automatically fiddling the books; its just their preferred method of payment. If you're worried about a transaction history, then just ask for a receipt!

Exactly this ☝️

Greedybilly · 28/01/2026 21:34

If you want to look at/judge real tax avoidance look at Amazon, Boots and most millionaires!

Deralip · 28/01/2026 21:34

Our handyman used to accept payment in cash only. He said he'd had too many customers whose cheques bounced, or who forgot to do a bank transfer, so he made it a rule only to accept cash.

He was a very upstanding kind of person, and I'd be amazed if he was doing anything dodgy with tax evasion etc.

Having said that, we eventually stopped using him, and the cash payments were one of the reasons for that. It was just a massive pain to get all the cash out. I did suggest bank transfers on the spot, so that he could see the money going in on his banking app, but he was an older gentleman and I don't think he necessarily had a banking app on his phone.

Anyway. People are not unreasonable to ask for cash payments only. But you are also not unreasonable to say no and employ someone else.

Cyclingmummy1 · 28/01/2026 21:35

VeterinaryCareAssistant · 28/01/2026 20:48

Cash jobs don't always go through the books but I think it's fair as self employed people don't get paid for annual leave or for being sick. If they don't work they don't get paid. It can also be complicated for households with a self employed earner to claim Universal Credit as a top up as earnings vary so much.
Sometimes doing a few cash in hand jobs are a little fuck you to the government.

And to the rest of us.

SleepingisanArt · 28/01/2026 21:35

Cash is not cheaper if you pay it into a business account in many of the banks. We found that bank transfers in had no charges, card payments incurred a charge (around 1.5%) but cash was horrendously expensive - the banks don't want it so make it expensive to use.

socialdilemmawhattodo · 28/01/2026 21:35

VeterinaryCareAssistant · 28/01/2026 20:48

Cash jobs don't always go through the books but I think it's fair as self employed people don't get paid for annual leave or for being sick. If they don't work they don't get paid. It can also be complicated for households with a self employed earner to claim Universal Credit as a top up as earnings vary so much.
Sometimes doing a few cash in hand jobs are a little fuck you to the government.

A fuck you to the govt? NO, it's a fuck you to tax payers. And that's why I object to cash in hand. Inevitably no tax, VAT, NI or insurance is paid. Which impacts CMS and benefits. And often a shit job without accountability.

MarshaMarshaMarsha · 28/01/2026 21:38

VeterinaryCareAssistant · 28/01/2026 20:48

Cash jobs don't always go through the books but I think it's fair as self employed people don't get paid for annual leave or for being sick. If they don't work they don't get paid. It can also be complicated for households with a self employed earner to claim Universal Credit as a top up as earnings vary so much.
Sometimes doing a few cash in hand jobs are a little fuck you to the government.

And a “fuck you” to everyone legitimately paying their taxes too! 🙄

ChocolateCinderToffee · 28/01/2026 21:42

Candlestickinthediningroom · 28/01/2026 20:48

For what other reason would a tradesman want to be paid in cash? Genuine question?

Exactly. A tradie I gave a lot of work to started asking me to pay in cash because he was near the threshold for VAT registration.

A lot of people think working cash in hand makes paying tax and NI optional. It's not.

YourKhakiViper · 28/01/2026 21:43

I don’t usually carry a large amount of cash either but lots of small businesses prefer it. There is a cafe on the beach near me which doesn’t accept card payments so I always make sure I have a few pounds in my pocket when walking the dog there. I’ve seen one of the beauty salons in my town turn people away or charge them a higher price to pay by card, I assume to cover their costs and my corner shop also has a £5.00 minimum payment for card so I use cash there to save myself spending needlessly. To be fair to them, I think there’s a bit of a use it or lose it attitude to cash at the moment.

justasking111 · 28/01/2026 21:43

Hairdresser, cleaner, window cleaner I pay cash on the day. My cleaners had a lot of trouble chasing clients who do BACS transfer. She sacks them off now. My neighbour is a tutor he's had issues getting paid, so he gets cash.

We have a retired decorator who does the odd job when the spirit moves him. His work is excellent we've paid him cash.

The local Chinese is cash only.

Since the government change there's a lot more cash being used again apparently. It's a way of budgeting

Newusername0 · 28/01/2026 21:43

Motheranddaughter · 28/01/2026 20:59

Bank charges, credit control, cash flow
To Name 3

How are credit control and cash flow improved through cash receipts?

TheDenimPoet · 28/01/2026 21:44

It's up to you how you'd like to pay. You need to find someone who accepts your preferred payment method. However you pay, you need to do so in good faith, assuming that all cash will be declared. I declare ALL cash that my business earns.

SabrinaThwaite · 28/01/2026 21:46

justasking111 · 28/01/2026 21:43

Hairdresser, cleaner, window cleaner I pay cash on the day. My cleaners had a lot of trouble chasing clients who do BACS transfer. She sacks them off now. My neighbour is a tutor he's had issues getting paid, so he gets cash.

We have a retired decorator who does the odd job when the spirit moves him. His work is excellent we've paid him cash.

The local Chinese is cash only.

Since the government change there's a lot more cash being used again apparently. It's a way of budgeting

How would a change in government be responsible for people budgeting? It’s not like there wasn’t a cost of living crisis under the last government.

ChrisMartinsKisskam · 28/01/2026 21:46

I generally try to pay cash wherever possible and rarely have a problem with doing so
having been in huge debt years ago I find cash much easier to account for I know exactly what I’m spending

tomorrow I’m taking my sons car to the garage for a gearbox service. 350

asked if I could pay cash. - yep no problem
i paid for some work to be done on it last year
It was 1300

both places gave me a receipt and were happy to take cash

i generally book my Botox on line with a 20 deposit but pay the balance in cash

when I had new carpets put in I paid cash to the shop and to the fitters

I pay my nail salon in cash and my hairdresser as well but they also accept cards

if I’m going out for a meal I generally pay in cash and tip the waiters in cash

if I go to a restaurant or a shop and they won’t take cash then I won’t spend my money with them

business ate perfectly entitled not to want to take cash
and people are perfectly entitled to say I won’t use you if you don’t

2 big well known chain restaurants went cashless only for around 2 years
but I notice that in the in the past year they now accept cash.
but they only accept the correct amount and won’t give you change which is fine with me

OfCourseIDidMyResearch · 28/01/2026 21:49

Candlestickinthediningroom · 28/01/2026 20:49

Or to their own children.

Exactly this- A number of times over the years I have seen complaints from estranged spouses of self employed individuals that their spouses dodge child support by under-declaring their income and doing a lot of work cash in hand. However, this same tax dodging activity was seemingly acceptable when the spouse and children were benefitting and the tax-man was not.

As taxes pay disability benefits, nurses wages etc this type of double-standard is hypocritical and I think it’s reasonable to make a stand against tax evasion in all its forms including cash in hand payments.

user1471453601 · 28/01/2026 21:50

@FuzzyWolf and if I pay by bank transfer,which I usually do, what does it cost the business, which I usually do, is that a cost for the business too? If so, thanks for the information, I wasn't aware of this.

AfraidToRun · 28/01/2026 21:50

YANBU and don't even get me started on VAT... Youre a roofer, don't tell me you don't earn enough to register for VAT when your Facebook is full of all the new roofs you've laid...

Newusername0 · 28/01/2026 21:50

The most common reason on this thread is bank charges. The bank doesn’t charge for a bank transfer and that how we have always paid. Anyone insisting on cash and not accepting a transfer is defrauding the taxpayer/CMS/benefit system.

Coffeeisnecessary · 28/01/2026 21:50

When you set up a bank account as a small business you usually have a choice to pay higher fees for cash deposits (normally free for a fixed period but will eventually be charged) or electronic deposits. Most forward thinking businesses would choose lower fees on electronic payments as the majority of payments are done that way. Most card readers charge much smaller amounts per transaction than cash deposits, and are far safer. You don't have to cash up or send someone to the bank with the cash which takes extra time. There is a cafe near us that claims they get charged 'extortionate' fees and trys to promote cash but I'm certain this is all just not put through the books properly to avoid the VAT threshold. Ultimately we all pay for that as tax payers. I can see their card reader, it's not an expensive one.

Happyjoe · 28/01/2026 21:52

Some people, esp when I was growing up, would think paying cash in hand meant you paid less because the worker was passing on banking savings etc to you or charged less because presumed was off the books. Either way, am sure that cash in hand attitude to a bargain lives on.

Flicktick · 28/01/2026 21:54

Choosing to pay cash when you get a receipt and it goes through the books is one thing, but cash with a discount is only because it's not being declared. Tax evasion is theft. Theft from everyone.
I pay my gardener, window cleaner and hairdresser by bank transfer and it costs them nothing. I won't go into a cafe that says cash only because I won't help them evade tax.

canisquaeso · 28/01/2026 21:54

Most takeaways in my street are cash only and I always wonder how they get away with it, to be honest.

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