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'Taxes are the price we pay for a civilised society'

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Bargepole45 · 26/01/2026 09:17

Having just paid an enormous tax bill, I frankly am fed up with hearing this. There are lots of civilised countries that have a far lower tax burden than the UK. It's just a form of blackmail designed to make contributors believe that there is no other way other than to pay sky high taxes to subsidise people's crap life choices.

Have too many kids and can't afford them? No problem, the state steps in. Have a terrible lifestyle and don't look after your health at all? No problem, the NHS will treat you. Spent all your money with wild abandon and have nothing left to pay for your care when you get old? Don't fret, the state will fund the same care home as someone that has saved all their life.

Don't people understand that these 'safety nets' just facilitate reckless behaviour? We can have a civilised society where people aren't cushioned from all of their bad decision making. I say this as someone from a background where I didn't have much money and I am so fed up with people pretending that poor people don't know that an apple is healthier than a chocolate bar or that it's a good idea to actually attend school. It's insulting and disempowering to keep making excuses for people that simply aren't incentivised to make different, better choices.

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bushproblems · 26/01/2026 11:25

bathsmat · 26/01/2026 10:14

A big part of the problem is that we haven’t paid enough tax to support the below.

  • the population size & profile of uk (eg 60+ million people, lots of elderly
  • universal healthcare free at point of use

But surely the majority of those elderly people have paid their taxes and national insurance over their working lives, so why shouldn’t they receive what they were promised?

I hope to god the state pension is still going in 20 years because I’ll have paid 50 years worth of those contributions and I bloody well want what I’ve been paying for.

MidnightMeltdown · 26/01/2026 11:25

I agree to some extent. For some reason, in the UK, there seems to be a massive sense of entitlement around benefits that you just don’t see in other countries. There are a lot of people who seem to think that everyone else owes them a living, despite the fact that they contribute fuck all to society.

Badbadbunny · 26/01/2026 11:26

EasternStandard · 26/01/2026 11:19

And if everyone steps back who picks up their tax bill?

Yet that's exactly what's happening. Lots of people are "CHOOSING" not to work or to work part time so as not to pay income tax/NIC. That's contributing to the every increased public borrowing (now three TRILLION and still growing), causing the UK to spend more on debt interest than on education. We need to revolutionise the tax/nic system to remove ALL the disincentives, i.e. ALL the cliff edges, scrap NIC and increase income tax, scrap the tax free personal allowance and re-introduce a very low starting tax rate such as 10% on the first £12.5k of income.

At the moment our "tax graph" is more like a mountain range with stupid peaks and troughs whereas it should be a gently upward sloping graph with taxes rising smoothly as income rises.

Fearfulsaints · 26/01/2026 11:28

Araminta1003 · 26/01/2026 11:12

I do not think some of you understand what it is like to pay the 60%.

I paid the 60% per cent for 24/25. But now they want us to pay on account for 25/26 so we are trapped into having to work that much next year too, because we won’t get an adjustment until past January 2027. So we are forward paying now and again in July.

The trapped ones are us.
Other jurisdictions do not do this.
There really is no point working if you get to keep less for yourself than they take off you.

I agree. Its bonkers.

I understand on one level you have more money than me and therefore you are still better off than me. But I dont understand why people dont see that its not motivating to earn money you dont get to keep 'for the greater good' especially when you see the end result is isnt functioning well. We all need to chip in for a civilised society and we all need to support those unable to support themselves, but its not motivating enough on its own for most people. . You need to feel a benefit for yourself too and the system needs to recognise that to work well.

Giving over half your earnings for a specific band of earnings is damaging.

I know there are ways round it with pension contributions but whats the point of a tax everyone avoids.

pointythings · 26/01/2026 11:28

Bargepole45 · 26/01/2026 11:20

Ok let me simplify:

  1. You can't apply burden of proof to opinions. Opinions by their nature can't be proven. They are not hypothesis.
  1. I never said other tax systems were fairer so that isn't my opinion/hypothesis anyway.

You literally said in your OP that there are lies of civilised countries which have fairer tax systems than the UK.

So Mumsnet applied Hitchens' razor: that which is stated without evidence may be dismissed without evidence. Until you present evidence, we can legitimately call bullshit on your OP.

Badbadbunny · 26/01/2026 11:28

bushproblems · 26/01/2026 11:25

But surely the majority of those elderly people have paid their taxes and national insurance over their working lives, so why shouldn’t they receive what they were promised?

I hope to god the state pension is still going in 20 years because I’ll have paid 50 years worth of those contributions and I bloody well want what I’ve been paying for.

You've been paying tax and NIC but it's never been a "savings scheme" towards your state pension. Your taxes/NIC have been paying for a whole raft of state costs, from the NHS to policing to schools to social services to prisons and benefit claimants. Unless you're a relatively high earner, your taxes won't have covered the costs of all the services you've benefitted from over your lifetime.

Chobinsdobins · 26/01/2026 11:29

Here’s an interesting infographic - the biggest burden on tax payers is actually pensions. Last I checked, becoming elderly wasn’t a lifestyle choice or ‘reckless behaviour’: wheredoesitallgo.org

Happysallie · 26/01/2026 11:29

bushproblems · 26/01/2026 11:25

But surely the majority of those elderly people have paid their taxes and national insurance over their working lives, so why shouldn’t they receive what they were promised?

I hope to god the state pension is still going in 20 years because I’ll have paid 50 years worth of those contributions and I bloody well want what I’ve been paying for.

The problem is that the mandate of universal healthcare free at point of use has drifted far from its original purpose.

It wasn’t designed to support very elderly people with multiple ongoing co-morbidities, for 10+ years of poor health.

FancyEagle · 26/01/2026 11:30

Weetabixw · 26/01/2026 11:02

A good tax system? It’s one where everyone is incentivised to pay in because everyone sees the benefit in doing so. Namely:

We need to remove marginal rates.

We need to make childcare hours and child benefit and other taxes universal. Means testing benefits disincentivises working.

We need to reduce benefit payments to those who have never worked.

We need to increase benefit payments to those who have a good work history. So if you have worked all of your working life and are made redundant you should get far, far more than those that have never worked. Full time voluntary work should count towards your work history.

Under 25s living at home shouldn’t get any unemployment benefit etc. it’s just free pocket money to them.

The triple lock should be scrapped. It’s totally unaffordable.

The tax on the lower earners should be increased and the personal allowance should be decreased. If employers need to pay more as a result so be it.

National insurance should be rolled into Income tax.

The NHS funding model should be scrapped, and employers should pay the NHS for their employees healthcare, as they do in most of Europe.

The Disability payment system of amounts and qualifying disabilities needs to be scrapped. We need to start again, with a system of meeting real, verifiable costs of serious long term disabilities only.

Essentially our tax system should reflect that used in most other European countries. Those that work should have good public services in return. Those that don’t should find life much tougher.

100% support PIP reform.

Should be means tested for a start and based on what is was supposed to be, additional costs of having a functional disability.

It's become a compensation scheme for having some kind of disability under the equality act and it wasn't designed for that and shouldn't be.

ChurchWindows · 26/01/2026 11:31

Happysallie · 26/01/2026 11:29

The problem is that the mandate of universal healthcare free at point of use has drifted far from its original purpose.

It wasn’t designed to support very elderly people with multiple ongoing co-morbidities, for 10+ years of poor health.

Or provide millions with ongoing interventions like statins, HRT and WLI.

plsdontlookatme · 26/01/2026 11:32

Some of the main issues with the UK system are quite nonpartisan (i.e. it doesn't serve either side well to acknowledge them):

  • wealth is highly concentrated in the pension-aged population, a large group in receipt of a triple-locked, non-means-tested benefit. Whilst the real value of salaries and working-age benefits has fallen, pensions are protected.
  • the income tax burden is borne disproportionately by high earners. Depending on your beliefs this isn't morally undesirable, but it does result in compensatory behaviours already discussed above such as working and earning less rather than falling into a "tax trap".
Ablondiebutagoody · 26/01/2026 11:32

EquinoxQueen · 26/01/2026 11:08

So the best alternative is that every person over the age of 18 no matter what their income gets a basic state income for life. Each person can actively choose what to do with that amount but there would be nothing more forthcoming. Super high earners could be exempt from receiving that payment, but I consider a fairness that everyone gets it.

people still pay tax on that they earn about that amount and there would still be education and health services provided as part of the tax.

this would not be a benefit and there would be no further benefits or top ups (exception for those truly unable to work for disabilities). You want to have more children, then you either budget or go out to work. Want a better house, the same applies.

there should be a move to controlled rents and that renting, as in Europe is not seen as a practical and positive approach to housing and safeguards put in place against irresponsible landlords (possibly ownership/control going to local authorities in cases where landlords are not fulfilling the ability to provide a decent home).

i believe this approach has been considered / implemented elsewhere. It removes the stigma of welfare, encourages people to improve themselves if they so wish but if they are happy living on a basic state income that is also acceptable.

will never happen, but is probably the fairest approach for all citizens.

It will never happen because it doesn't make sense. Where does the money come from?

Badbadbunny · 26/01/2026 11:33

FancyEagle · 26/01/2026 11:30

100% support PIP reform.

Should be means tested for a start and based on what is was supposed to be, additional costs of having a functional disability.

It's become a compensation scheme for having some kind of disability under the equality act and it wasn't designed for that and shouldn't be.

I'd go further and say that the "extras" required by disabled people should be provided directly free of charge. I.e. provide the wheelchair or car, provide the home improvements to be disability accessible, provide free bus/taxis as required, special foods etc etc etc. We shouldn't be handing out disability money that "may" or may not be spent on the additional costs of the disability, may or may not be required. People with disabilities will have VERY different needs so it's a bit bonkers to give them all the same level of benefits when their needs (and costs of those needs) will be very different.

plsdontlookatme · 26/01/2026 11:33

FancyEagle · 26/01/2026 11:30

100% support PIP reform.

Should be means tested for a start and based on what is was supposed to be, additional costs of having a functional disability.

It's become a compensation scheme for having some kind of disability under the equality act and it wasn't designed for that and shouldn't be.

Disagree with this - the assessment process for PIP isn't about having a diagnosis of anything. It's assessed based on tangible difficulties in completing specific daily living tasks

Weetabixw · 26/01/2026 11:33

FancyEagle · 26/01/2026 11:30

100% support PIP reform.

Should be means tested for a start and based on what is was supposed to be, additional costs of having a functional disability.

It's become a compensation scheme for having some kind of disability under the equality act and it wasn't designed for that and shouldn't be.

Means testing in itself is damaging though and needs to be used sparingly.

People don’t mind paying high taxes if they get something back. In means testing anything you are giving to perhaps those who have chosen not to work or not to save, and taking away from those who have worked and have saved to do so, disincentivising behaviour that you want to encourage. See the childcare hours / £100k threshold, and all those affected stuffing money in pensions or dropping their hours, both of which actions harm the tax take.

Happysallie · 26/01/2026 11:34

FancyEagle · 26/01/2026 11:30

100% support PIP reform.

Should be means tested for a start and based on what is was supposed to be, additional costs of having a functional disability.

It's become a compensation scheme for having some kind of disability under the equality act and it wasn't designed for that and shouldn't be.

I agree. We should support those with severe disability - but some of the reasons people are getting it don’t really call for more money IMO.

I have often seen posters here say that you shouldn’t be any worse off as a result of any disability, and so the money tops this up. Ditto on things like motability.

I’m not sure that’s the purpose.

Around 4 million people claim PIP - and 85% aren’t in work. That is a number that is growing - 1,000 new claimants a day. It’s unsustainable, someone needs to work out what exactly is going wrong.

The worst outcome of course is the whole system collapses under the weight - which will have serious consequences for those truly in need.

Bargepole45 · 26/01/2026 11:35

pointythings · 26/01/2026 11:28

You literally said in your OP that there are lies of civilised countries which have fairer tax systems than the UK.

So Mumsnet applied Hitchens' razor: that which is stated without evidence may be dismissed without evidence. Until you present evidence, we can legitimately call bullshit on your OP.

Quote the part of my OP where I say that there are countries with a fairer tax system. For someone that seems so keen on evidence you should find this easy. Unless of course I never actually wrote that.

Fairness is fundamentally subjective anyway and therefore impossible to prove or evidence. Hitchen's theory was never meant to apply to opinion on subjective matters.

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Playingtowin · 26/01/2026 11:35

Weetabixw · 26/01/2026 11:33

Means testing in itself is damaging though and needs to be used sparingly.

People don’t mind paying high taxes if they get something back. In means testing anything you are giving to perhaps those who have chosen not to work or not to save, and taking away from those who have worked and have saved to do so, disincentivising behaviour that you want to encourage. See the childcare hours / £100k threshold, and all those affected stuffing money in pensions or dropping their hours, both of which actions harm the tax take.

Yes. Best answer is to raise the qualifying threshold.

Badbadbunny · 26/01/2026 11:38

Ablondiebutagoody · 26/01/2026 11:32

It will never happen because it doesn't make sense. Where does the money come from?

I keep saying this. Two major flaws with UBI.

Firstly, the cost will be ruinous - paying literally everyone a huge sum of money every year has to come from somewhere. So inevitably taxes will have to rise on those who are working - a big disincentive to work. Almost certainly that means scrapping the tax free personal allowance and raising tax rates. Not many people are going to give up their free time and work if they have to pay something like 50% of every pound they earn back in tax!

Secondly, it won't be a fixed rate for all. Some people will need more, i.e. those having to rent properties still need "top ups" to pay their rent. Disabled still need "top ups" to cover their additional living costs. There'd probably also need to be "top ups" for those with lots of children. So we won't end up with an equal amount for everyone which is the basic pillar of the idea. If it was set at say £15k, there's no way a large family of say 5 children, one with a disability, could live on it! It would have to be a lot more, say £30k, but it's utter madness to pay £30k to everyone, even single people living at home and would bankrupt the country!

plsdontlookatme · 26/01/2026 11:39

Remember that Universal Credit is an umbrella benefit with lots of different components, including what used to be ESA - the old out of work sickness benefit, for which you really do have to be quite measurably unwell to qualify. "Being on Universal Credit" could mean anything from receiving £4 a month in Council Tax support whilst working a 40 hour week, or being on what used to be called Jobseekers, or being on full out of work disability benefits. It doesn't make sense to generalise or to panic about what percentage of claimiants are or aren't in work - it's such a huge and varied group. UC exists in part to supplement the unliveable wages paid by employers - even full-time workers in my area can qualify for HB if theyre in private rentals because costs are so high relative to wages.

Cosyfriendship · 26/01/2026 11:39

SteelMaiden · 26/01/2026 10:19

believe it or not, not everyone has ready access to a supermarket. Many people do not have access to a car and would rely on public transport to get there. Imagine a single mother, working while her children are at school, uses public transport to get to work etc. the only time she can get to
the supermarket is at the weekend but the actions costs of all of them on public transport make it unaffordable coupled with the fact that even if she did go to the supermarket she can’t carry back enough food for the week for them all so she’s forced to rely on the local convenience store which has limited choice, as well as being overpriced

so..... Supermarkets deliver now, for a minimal amount. This is a crappy argument that "she has to go to the local shop"

Such a sad story, if you add a soundtrack it will sell well at Labour Conference.
Whatever you say it comes back to people being feckless. It probably starts with not being good parents, not inspiring their children to work at school. Then worst of all 'Liberal' 'do gooders' making excuses for their failures and low standards.

Avantiagain · 26/01/2026 11:41

"People with disabilities will have VERY different needs so it's a bit bonkers to give them all the same level of benefits when their needs (and costs of those needs) will be very different."

Very different needs means that it makes more sense to provide monetary benefits than have an expensive system where others with little knowledge have to try to work out what each individual needs to be provided with.

Playingtowin · 26/01/2026 11:41

Badbadbunny · 26/01/2026 11:38

I keep saying this. Two major flaws with UBI.

Firstly, the cost will be ruinous - paying literally everyone a huge sum of money every year has to come from somewhere. So inevitably taxes will have to rise on those who are working - a big disincentive to work. Almost certainly that means scrapping the tax free personal allowance and raising tax rates. Not many people are going to give up their free time and work if they have to pay something like 50% of every pound they earn back in tax!

Secondly, it won't be a fixed rate for all. Some people will need more, i.e. those having to rent properties still need "top ups" to pay their rent. Disabled still need "top ups" to cover their additional living costs. There'd probably also need to be "top ups" for those with lots of children. So we won't end up with an equal amount for everyone which is the basic pillar of the idea. If it was set at say £15k, there's no way a large family of say 5 children, one with a disability, could live on it! It would have to be a lot more, say £30k, but it's utter madness to pay £30k to everyone, even single people living at home and would bankrupt the country!

Isn't the point it would be for everyone and there would be no extras such as housing. Thus still encouraging people to work.

Badbadbunny · 26/01/2026 11:42

Playingtowin · 26/01/2026 11:35

Yes. Best answer is to raise the qualifying threshold.

No, best answer is to scrap the cliff edge thresholds completely and introduce a gently sloping upward graph of tax rates according to income. No reason at all why we can't have multiple tax rates rather than just 3- everything is now computerised, so we don't need a simple 20/40 system anymore. It needs to be 10, 20, 30, 40, 50, for income tax, scrap NIC, and the 50% limit encompassing everything, so also includes student loan repayments. No one should lose more than 50% of every extra pound they work for. Likewise, at the bottom end, benefit loss should never be more than 50% too, so someone on UC "loses" a maximum of 50p for every £1 they work for - including ALL benefits, so to encompass loss of other benefits such as free prescriptions, rent, council tax relief, etc etc. Once you lose over 50% of the "extra" whether you earn £15k per year or £150k per year, the disincentives and behavioural aspects kick in. The 50% needs to be a hard red line at ALL income levels, high and low.

Badbadbunny · 26/01/2026 11:43

Playingtowin · 26/01/2026 11:41

Isn't the point it would be for everyone and there would be no extras such as housing. Thus still encouraging people to work.

Then UBI would have to be stupidly high to cover housing, extra children, disabilities, etc., which it can't be.

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