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The Traitors is both racist & ageist?

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TrademarkBrooklynBeckham · 22/01/2026 07:01

I’ve been saying this for some time, and now the Times has analyzed the data.

Are The Traitors players prejudiced? Here’s what the data says:

https://www.thetimes.com/article/20eccb12-a919-4d59-8ce5-1e9925f9e948?shareToken=3e4f0566057b480a152802f21f97c26c

Spoiler alert - all white winners and just one non white person in the finals of the UK general traitors show.

YABU - It’s an evidence based show. Nothing to see here.
YANBU - The players are displaying unconscious bias against race, sex & age

Are The Traitors players prejudiced? Here’s what the data says

Since the hit show began some viewers have complained that older contestants and those from ethnic minorities are more likely to be murdered or banished

https://www.thetimes.com/article/20eccb12-a919-4d59-8ce5-1e9925f9e948?shareToken=3e4f0566057b480a152802f21f97c26c

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Womaninhouse17 · 22/01/2026 13:18

Bobbinog · 22/01/2026 12:24

So many people on this thread equate unconscious bias with race but it is so much more.

It's also bias for/against others based on height, weight, age, sex, education or lack of, accent, job, sexuality, political views, appearance, clothes etc etc etc.
Literally anything can mark someone else as 'other'.

IMO it is impossible to remove unconscious bias from the human psyche.

Plus, they've got to murder or banish somebody! It doesn't have to be a sign of bias.

Whatafustercluck · 22/01/2026 13:20

I think if anything it disadvantages contestants most markedly based on age. There's not a single player left over the age of 42. And that task last night was far too intense for, say, a healthy 70+ year old - had there been any remaining. A lot of the tasks are quite physically demanding.

I think unconscious bias is present in all reality shows - as it is in real life. What makes Traitors interesting is that we see how our perceptions of others influence our actions towards them. Too quiet/ reserved? Traitor. Too loud/ outgoing? Traitor. It's a master class in the human species being completely unable to solely trust their instincts without evidence. It's absolutely all about unconscious bias, not just on the basis of protected characteristics though. We make our minds up about other people within seconds of meeting them and then fall victim to confirmation bias.

It's fascinating as a study of human flaws.

Franpie · 22/01/2026 13:57

Shedmistress · 22/01/2026 12:31

So people are voting off the competition in....competitions? Crikey, what a surprise!

What I meant was that I don’t agree that it’s ageism, it’s just strategy.

TrademarkBrooklynBeckham · 22/01/2026 14:18

DeftGoldHedgehog · 22/01/2026 08:02

The programme isn't, but yes it does show unconscious bias among the contestants. However I think that's a good thing to show this up in a way that no other programme has. Are you saying it should be banned, OP @TrademarkBrooklynBeckham ?

Not at all, just a trend I’d noticed and it’s shocking when asked why they are voted it’s - I’m trusting my gut - well your guy is racist.

They’re not in the least bit curious as to why it’s a minority group first.

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DeftGoldHedgehog · 22/01/2026 14:42

TrademarkBrooklynBeckham · 22/01/2026 14:18

Not at all, just a trend I’d noticed and it’s shocking when asked why they are voted it’s - I’m trusting my gut - well your guy is racist.

They’re not in the least bit curious as to why it’s a minority group first.

Certainly voting out Ross, Netty and Judy early doors did feel like racism. But then minority groups make up almost half of the final 7.

ThatCyanCat · 22/01/2026 14:46

We really can't know about Ross; he was overcompensating so badly for knowing that other person, I think he sealed his own doom.

TrademarkBrooklynBeckham · 22/01/2026 14:50

DeftGoldHedgehog · 22/01/2026 14:42

Certainly voting out Ross, Netty and Judy early doors did feel like racism. But then minority groups make up almost half of the final 7.

Which is fair now they’ve been in there a while and have built trust and camaraderie etc.

But it’s now very ageist!

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ZeldaFighter · 22/01/2026 14:53

I think more education is the key to tackling unconscious bias. I did once stumble across a programme about a devout Jewish woman's daily life, which was really interesting. More stuff like that on how different groups of people tend to express themselves, their culture, fashions etc. Can be done really well via drama and comedy - Shameless, Desmonds etc

DeftGoldHedgehog · 22/01/2026 14:55

TrademarkBrooklynBeckham · 22/01/2026 14:50

Which is fair now they’ve been in there a while and have built trust and camaraderie etc.

But it’s now very ageist!

True, but I think they need half the people to be over 45 to start with so it's less a bunch of 35 year old men and four older people. They probably don't get that many older people applying though.

Wildbushlady · 22/01/2026 14:59

So what would be the solution exactly, to too many white people winning the show?

No white people allowed to go on the show?

Handicaps for white players only?

You're only allowed to eliminate white people?

All this focus on skin colour being the main reason any person fails/succeeds at anything is terrible for societal cohesion. White people are a minority in this globalist world and the craziness is getting ridiculous.

I wonder if there is similar hand wringing around south african game shows about too many black people winning.

Keepoffmyartichokes · 22/01/2026 15:03

TrademarkBrooklynBeckham · 22/01/2026 14:50

Which is fair now they’ve been in there a while and have built trust and camaraderie etc.

But it’s now very ageist!

It's not ageist the older people were banished for reasons other than their age.

Onesipmore · 22/01/2026 15:07

This type of post drives me nuts. Its a game. The winners don't go through on either age or color, they are successful because of the tactics they use to play the game. I very much doubt that the contestants think to themselves oh I will vote for them as they are older than me or a different color! Why does it always have to resort to this?

Theonebutnotonly · 22/01/2026 15:28

Onesipmore · 22/01/2026 15:07

This type of post drives me nuts. Its a game. The winners don't go through on either age or color, they are successful because of the tactics they use to play the game. I very much doubt that the contestants think to themselves oh I will vote for them as they are older than me or a different color! Why does it always have to resort to this?

I don’t think you understand what unconscious racism or ageism is. Of course the contestants aren’t thinking "I will vote for them because they’re older than me or a different colour"! No-one is suggesting that’s what happens. The point is that people (maybe understandably) tend to identify more with those who share their own characteristics.

EverythingGolden · 22/01/2026 15:29

Onesipmore · 22/01/2026 15:07

This type of post drives me nuts. Its a game. The winners don't go through on either age or color, they are successful because of the tactics they use to play the game. I very much doubt that the contestants think to themselves oh I will vote for them as they are older than me or a different color! Why does it always have to resort to this?

It’s not tactics at the beginning. They don’t consciously think it, I’m sure they’d be horrified. If it’s happening it’s unconscious.

TheBirthdayBall · 22/01/2026 15:33

Onesipmore · 22/01/2026 15:07

This type of post drives me nuts. Its a game. The winners don't go through on either age or color, they are successful because of the tactics they use to play the game. I very much doubt that the contestants think to themselves oh I will vote for them as they are older than me or a different color! Why does it always have to resort to this?

I take it you’ve never watched the show. There’s no tactics involved, it’s:
’I don’t trust him’
‘gut feeling’
‘she’s acting traitorous’.

Shedmistress · 22/01/2026 15:35

Theonebutnotonly · 22/01/2026 15:28

I don’t think you understand what unconscious racism or ageism is. Of course the contestants aren’t thinking "I will vote for them because they’re older than me or a different colour"! No-one is suggesting that’s what happens. The point is that people (maybe understandably) tend to identify more with those who share their own characteristics.

Is this why Netty voted for Judy?

I repeat that if you go into a game called Traitors and turn your head when the host says 'Traitors' people might think you are a Traitor.

If you run up to a contestant and mount them in the first few seconds, you will draw attention to yourself.

If you tell people what your plan for the person that mounted you was, people will see you as having a pre-determined plan.

If the others hadn't voted for them it would have looked suspicious.

Any unconscious bias is in the selection not in the people trying to work out who is lying.

sunsetss · 22/01/2026 15:36

In this show the traitors tend to leave the weaker players to last because they are not a threat to the traitors and they are not so obviously faithful that they get a lot of support from others.

So you could argue that if they left minorities to last then it would be racist because they are viewing them as weak and unpopular. Conversely by getting them out early you could say they are seeing them as the strongest and most popular players.

Personally I think people should stop completely overthinking these things. If you look hard enough you can find 'proof' of anything.

Ross was my fave ever, he looked like he was in a constant state of complete disbelief. His friendship with Netty was what did him in though, not his race.

Keepoffmyartichokes · 22/01/2026 15:44

Theonebutnotonly · 22/01/2026 15:28

I don’t think you understand what unconscious racism or ageism is. Of course the contestants aren’t thinking "I will vote for them because they’re older than me or a different colour"! No-one is suggesting that’s what happens. The point is that people (maybe understandably) tend to identify more with those who share their own characteristics.

But how do we know it's unconscious bias or they are been voted for for specific reasons.
Just for example was voted off for acting suspiciously and was voted for by both white and people of colour, mixed race.
Ross was voted off because the Netty thing made him look suspicious in some people's eyes.
Jade is under suspicion and always has been as she looked awkward and uncomfortable at the first round table and a few maintain that.
Fiona was voted off because she went full on for Rachel and Rachel played the game
Harriet got herself voted off by going all guns blazing and being rude at breakfast
None of these people of colour or older people were voted off for no reason.
Some will say they are trusting their gut because they are jumping in the bandwagon of voting for someone to be tactical

Theonebutnotonly · 22/01/2026 15:45

Shedmistress · 22/01/2026 15:35

Is this why Netty voted for Judy?

I repeat that if you go into a game called Traitors and turn your head when the host says 'Traitors' people might think you are a Traitor.

If you run up to a contestant and mount them in the first few seconds, you will draw attention to yourself.

If you tell people what your plan for the person that mounted you was, people will see you as having a pre-determined plan.

If the others hadn't voted for them it would have looked suspicious.

Any unconscious bias is in the selection not in the people trying to work out who is lying.

Is this why Netty voted for Judy?

I don’t think you understand the words "tend to", either. No-one is saying it happens with every player in every vote.

You're viewing it as though it’s an accusation of moral failure, rather than an observation of human nature.

lenaperkins · 22/01/2026 15:45

CocoPlum · 22/01/2026 09:33

Whichever way it works - distrusting people of colour OR trusting people who look like you - it remains that that IS unconscious bias.

Yes, as I said 'I don't disagree with the unconscious bias thing in general and in The Traitors'.

TrademarkBrooklynBeckham · 22/01/2026 15:46

Onesipmore · 22/01/2026 15:07

This type of post drives me nuts. Its a game. The winners don't go through on either age or color, they are successful because of the tactics they use to play the game. I very much doubt that the contestants think to themselves oh I will vote for them as they are older than me or a different color! Why does it always have to resort to this?

Because the article shows high levels of unconscious bias in first few banishments.

Statistics....

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Shedmistress · 22/01/2026 15:51

TrademarkBrooklynBeckham · 22/01/2026 15:46

Because the article shows high levels of unconscious bias in first few banishments.

Statistics....

Who was the second banishment again?

Lightwell · 22/01/2026 15:54

It's not 100% of the reason for any one contestant or vote, but it's a pattern discernable across all the series as the numbers mount up.

Personally I do find that the awareness of my likely bias helps me do it less. And I consciously think now, if I have a gut feeling that someone is a bit meh, especially at work, whatever their background, I do a little inner test - what if they just feel different from me? How can I review their behaviour in the most positive light I can? If theres something they do or say that I really cannot get past, that quickly becomes apparent.

And I sometimes think what's the worst that can happen if I over compensate on typically minoritised qualities? I had 2 candidates once for a senior role in my team, they were both appointable, I thought the older white guy was the more credible to me, other members of my team thought the same as me, some others preferred the younger black woman. It was a clear decision to be made. I thought if I go with the woman and she's not quite as good as the guy would have been - so what? I was sure she'd do a good job, she was over the threshold. What's the worst that could have happened? With her, we bring a different voice and set of experiences into our senior team, we provide a greater diversity of role models, yet perhaps some parts of the role are technically not done to as high standard as they would be with the other dude. That's not a bad outcome so let's go with that. Appointing the guy would have meant I lost those other benefits. Who's to say what brings greater success to the team ultimately. Plenty of posh mediocre white people have done jobs that they're not the best candidates for and the world hasn't ended.

Shedmistress · 22/01/2026 15:55

Theonebutnotonly · 22/01/2026 15:45

Is this why Netty voted for Judy?

I don’t think you understand the words "tend to", either. No-one is saying it happens with every player in every vote.

You're viewing it as though it’s an accusation of moral failure, rather than an observation of human nature.

In a different thread the suggestion was to not allow POC to be kicked out at all.

EverythingGolden · 22/01/2026 15:57

We all surely know by now that it’s not just straightforward people working out who is lying from the ‘evidence’. It’s all about who has social capital and who is listening to and believing who. Jazatha Christie for instance had some things right but nobody would listen to him because he didn’t have the social respect. It’s not a massive leap to think that some of these decisions are made with unconscious bias.