Are we dating the same guy?

[captainturbet]

Been dating a man for a month or so, early days. But been speaking for a few months. He asked if we could be exclusive, which I agreed to.

My friend has sent me a screenshot- his picture has popped up on our local “Are we dating the same guy?” Facebook page. Someone stating they are meeting him next week and asking about him…

He swears he is only dating me, and this must be someone he has previously dated, bitter and out for revenge.

He does have a lot of women commenting on his Facebook posts, being cheeky/calling attractive etc.

AIBU to keep dating him? I’ve no experience with these groups.

Jesus Mary and joseph....
you have an off- feeling because.... IT'S OFF

I look forward to your future post where you are "blindsided" and his cheating "came out of nowhere".

If you do nothing else stay on contraception.

At a minimum id be joining the group and looking to talk to that women directly myself/ see some screen grabs.

He's a player.

I’m a member in a couple of those groups and I’m thankful that I am.Was getting to know someone on one occasion and we had plans to meet for a date,got on really well,lots of talking.After a couple of weeks an anonymous poster,posted him!.Apparently she had been dating him and was suspicious.I had no idea,then lots more women came out the woodwork.There’s too many men now who aren’t honest and chat/meet multiple whilst offering monogamy & commitment.My honest opinion to you OP is it isn’t a bitter ex and you should run for the hills,hope I’m wrong of course x

This is SUCH a good point! And very true.