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Can I wear this Satin Dress to a Wedding. Husband says no. I feel stunning in it, and think it is ok to wear.

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MegsyLondon · 16/01/2026 06:21

Opinion needed. I got gifted this dress for Christmas it's a bit tight as it is my pre baby size, but it somehow makes me look smaller than I am.

https://www.iconleva.com/collections/best-sellers/products/adel

It is cinched on my waist and then flows into a fitted skirt. I feel confident in it. I feel like me again. I have been desperate to wear it since I got it but we never go out.

It's my husband's best friend's wedding in February. He is one of the best men. I am not in the wedding so I wont be in any of the pictures or anything like that.

Husband isn't happy about me wearing it. Is it reasonable to wear it? I never go out and I think we will be having another baby by the end of the year so I wont get another chance to wear this beautiful dress. I also dont want to go out and buy another dress when I have been gifted this one and it is sitting in my wardrobe.

It is white at the bottom but clearly with the black lace top it is not a wedding dress. Be honest please.

ADEL

Classic. Commanding. Effortless. The ADEL Lace and Satin Halter Gown is an ode to contrast. Delicate lace meets liquid satin in a silhouette that celebrates form. A plunging halter neckline frames the décolletage, its stretchy lace bodice tied effortle...

https://www.iconleva.com/collections/best-sellers/products/adel

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Soashamed60 · 16/01/2026 14:05

No. As pp have said too exposing for a wedding & long white skirt is not good for a wedding either.

outerspacepotato · 16/01/2026 14:07

If you do go ahead and wear that, you will likely have red wine spilled on you.

What a weird gift from your MIL.

Whatwerewetalkingabout · 16/01/2026 14:16

MegsyLondon · 16/01/2026 08:37

The bride is extremely glamorous. She wore a long cut out dress to my wedding, it was light yellow. It is not a church wedding either. Many of the guests will be wearing dresses like this to the wedding as she is very glamorous and works in social media so her friends are also glamorous. I have been to weddings where women have worn black and white before. Someone wore a white dress to my wedding, I did not mind. I was asking whether the white skirt is ok which was the only issue my husband had with it, clearly it is not.

If you think its the sort of dress alot of guests will be wearing maybe ask the MoH her opinion. She's closest to the bride so hopefully will have a good idea of what she'd care about or not. :)

IngridBurger · 16/01/2026 14:16

outerspacepotato · 16/01/2026 14:07

If you do go ahead and wear that, you will likely have red wine spilled on you.

What a weird gift from your MIL.

Mine gave me a nice book about gardening. I'd have been gobsmacked to open a wedding dress 😂

Alpacajigsaw · 16/01/2026 14:17

HollyGolightly4 · 16/01/2026 06:27

No- too revealing and too white

(If you're going to reveal it's only a glitzy evening affair in a city centre cocktail bar I think it would be more suitable, but for a standard wedding - no)

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TheJoyousHiker · 16/01/2026 14:17

The dress isn’t suitable tor a wedding. I have been to all sorts of weddings over the years and never once, no matter how glamorous the wedding have I ever seen anyone in a backless dress. The white skirt wouldn’t bother me though I am never a fan of a black/white colour combination in a dress.

I’m baffled why your MIL bought the dress for you in a size too small and in a style that’s not easy to wear. You say it’s too tight but yet are going to wear it. But you want to wear the dress, so wear it, you’re not really bothered by posters saying it’s not suitable.

museumum · 16/01/2026 14:27

You will have to put something over your shoulders to arrive and are going to look like the bride with a coat/shrug/cape over a wedding dress. If it were in a very warm country in summer maybe it wouldn't be such an issue but you can't arrive at a wedding just like that, even if you have a private driver.

outerspacepotato · 16/01/2026 14:54

IngridBurger · 16/01/2026 14:16

Mine gave me a nice book about gardening. I'd have been gobsmacked to open a wedding dress 😂

Edited

"Did you forget we already got married, Betty? Or are you just trying?"

I would have enjoyed a nice gardening book.

Emmz1510 · 16/01/2026 18:40

No it’s not suitable for a wedding. I’m also not sure I like it. I don’t think it would be flattering around the waist for anyone with any bulk in that area. But lucky you if you look great in it! Not for a wedding though x

BareNecessitiesofLife · 16/01/2026 18:46

This is the kind of dress that will be talked about in years to come by the bride and her friends: ‘ do you remember that woman who turned up half naked yet also managed to be wearing half a wedding dress at the same time.’

Sophue · 16/01/2026 18:46

It's awful!

EnormousGinplease · 16/01/2026 18:49

No .. it's a beautiful dress but definitely not suitable for a wedding. Find somewhere posh and formal to wear it instead.

Justthethingsthatyoudointhisgarden · 16/01/2026 18:54

Screams attention seeking. It's the bride's day, you've had your wedding.

Littlegreenbauble · 16/01/2026 18:56

I mean... If you're super hot and the bride is super hotter and you wore something else over the top until the party then maybe... It's a bit wedding dressy tho

TiredMummma · 16/01/2026 19:02

So your description sounded completely different 100% no and you absolutely cannot wear white!!

itsallrosy · 16/01/2026 19:06

With the white skirt, my initial reaction is to say no, but why don’t you just ask the bride, OP? I think that’s the most respectful thing you can do, and then you either get to wear it and feel comfortable, or wear something else and avoid feeling awkward or self conscious.

CeeCee702 · 16/01/2026 19:11

Tell hubby you’ll wear something else if he plans a lovely date night for you to wear it. Win win!

Newbie8918 · 16/01/2026 19:13

MegsyLondon · 16/01/2026 06:32

Edit: it was gifted at Christmas. I was told it was to make me feel good which it does. It's perfect for my body shape. I feel confident in it which I havent for a while.

Edit: my husband loves the dress on me, just thinks the white skirt is not allowed for weddings.

He’s right I’m afraid! White satin is even worse than white in general. Plan a special night out to wear it. Bet it’s fabulous on you

BuildbyNumbere · 16/01/2026 19:14

No, white at the bottom like a wedding dress and far to revealing

Kittyloulou · 16/01/2026 19:18

Personally I think it’s awful. Makes the stomach look like it’s carrying twins. Nothing wrong with that but if you’re not pregnant then it’s an issue.

Northernladdette · 16/01/2026 19:19

No, it will look like you’re trying to outshine the bride 😣

walkingaroundsostrenegrene · 16/01/2026 19:20

A hideous dress in my opinion and definitely not suitable for a wedding guest.

Theslummymummy · 16/01/2026 19:23

It's stunning and fine for a wedding. Not sure what all the nos are about 🙄 what's his reason?

OrangeisthenewBrown · 16/01/2026 19:27

Oh dear! It's a definite "no" from me, I'm afraid. To me, it looks too much like underwear - and far too revealing for a wedding guest.

MatronPomfrey · 16/01/2026 19:33

It used to be common for women to get changed between wedding ceremony and evening reception. I remember my Mum doing this. Could you wear something else in the afternoon and change for the evening. Too much white for the ceremony but it’ll likely be darker in the evening and less noticeable. Gives you a chance to wear it this year.

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