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Did you wear a full dress with train for your second wedding or go for something different? Are there rules on this??

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weddingsbluesandhues · 15/01/2026 10:21

Should you go for a different colour scheme to your or your fiancés first wedding? Should it be totally different or are similarities ok? Would you be worried that guests on his side might compare your wedding to his first? Would you go all out or keep it simpler?
What’s the done thing?

I’m not getting married btw. It just came up in conversation the other day and got me wondering. If I were to get married a second time I’d probably go for totally different. I wouldn’t feel right in a dress similar to my first.

OP posts:
Bassetyate · 15/04/2026 22:41

I wouldn’t personally wear the traditional
white wedding dress for a second marriage. I’d go for something in a different colour and style. Also, as I’ve got older, I’d be concerned about a
white dress giving off Miss Havisham vibes.

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