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Mattel have made an autistic Barbie

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IwishIwasacaterpillar · 12/01/2026 08:54

I find this quite odd. Autism doesn’t have a look.
my child is autistic and I would not have bought them one when they were young

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Springstarling · 12/01/2026 13:43

Comefromaway · 12/01/2026 13:29

No, I will not stop. You may have a different view and I will not disparage your lived experience, but do not disparage my lived experience. It's not offensive to say that we can usually spot a fellow autistic person a mile off.

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Incredibly offensive
Reported

Locutus2000 · 12/01/2026 13:43

YankSplaining · 12/01/2026 13:39

I think it might have been a better idea to make this doll without giving it a precise diagnosis. My daughter has ADHD and she wears noise-cancelling headphones at times; I hope this doll isn’t going to contribute to a mindset that noise-cancelling headphones automatically equal autistic.

I mean 'neurodiverse Barbie' sounds even more ridiculous.

Springstarling · 12/01/2026 13:43

This thread needs taking down
It's one offensive comment after another

saltandvinegarchipsticks · 12/01/2026 13:44

DustyMaiden · 12/01/2026 13:39

I’m autistic I do that

You do. Many don’t. Autistic people are not a homogenous group.

Locutus2000 · 12/01/2026 13:44

Springstarling · 12/01/2026 13:43

This thread needs taking down
It's one offensive comment after another

Mostly from just one poster though, doesn't justify nuking the whole thread.

MiniFig · 12/01/2026 13:44

have only read page 1.

AFAIK it was produced in coordination with organisations who have expertise in Autism?

I know that some of my (mostly adult male) friends of fb are having an absolute hissy fit about this because it isn't like them, presumably. And anyone who doesn't want one, because it doesn't match their experience of autism don't have to buy one.

My friends daughter is already keen to get one because "she flaps, mum, like me" but i'm not sure she'll be getting one because she's also a tip-toe walker which this doll doesn't do. Swings and roundabouts, surely?

I have enjoyed getting Lego minifigs with prosthetic limbs, in wheelchairs, or with cochlear implants, even though none of those things applies to me.

If it is a good business proposition, it will "have legs" otherwise not.

Comefromaway · 12/01/2026 13:48

Well, I have never, ever been called offensive in my life before. Totally the opposite in fact. All the fellow autistics I know in real life agree that a 'Tism radar is a real thing.

LetMeGoogleThat · 12/01/2026 13:48

x2boys · 12/01/2026 13:39

No but these are common aids that some autistic people
The spectrum is huge though so its never going to accurately portray everyone with a diagnosis

I'm fully aware of that, but this is counter productive. Its no different to all the years with my son of 'he gives eye contact' ' he has a sense of humour' Therfore doesn't fit the stereotype and can't possibly be Autistic. Go back a bit further back and you've got all the Rainman comparisons.....

It's just Mattel trying to sell more dolls and attempting to look inclusive.

Gahr · 12/01/2026 13:48

wishingonastar101 · 12/01/2026 09:31

Those are physical differences. Autism is not a physical difference so cannot be accurately represented by a doll.

It's not a 'physical difference' per se, but it can have visible manifestations, as others on the thread have said.

DustyMaiden · 12/01/2026 13:49

MN Barbie hoisting up her judgy pants.

Comefromaway · 12/01/2026 13:50

I've got mixed feelings about the Rainman thing. Savants do exist but for years it seemed to be the only form of autism that people recognised. We too had years of she does this she can't be autistic and he does that he can't be autistic.

Unicorn34 · 12/01/2026 13:50

Chiseltip · 12/01/2026 09:12

What about

"wheelchair user Barbie"

Or

"Amputee Barbie"

Or

"Crohn's Barbie"
(Comes with realistic diarrhoea function)

Not to mention

"Mental Health Barbie"

🙄

There's already been one in a wheelchair!

Springstarling · 12/01/2026 13:52

Comefromaway · 12/01/2026 13:48

Well, I have never, ever been called offensive in my life before. Totally the opposite in fact. All the fellow autistics I know in real life agree that a 'Tism radar is a real thing.

Well ,as a fellow diagnosed autistic
You have massively offended me today ,and I feel very very upset by some of the comments on this thread .
I have reported every one ,and Mumsnet seem to be doing nothing about it .

Gahr · 12/01/2026 13:52

KimberleyClark · 12/01/2026 10:12

I’m just glad there isn’t a Kardashian Barbie with a huge arse, massive boobs and puffed up lips.

There is a Kylie Jenner Bratz doll!

Comefromaway · 12/01/2026 13:55

I'm sorry I have offended you. I did not intend to. But I simply told the truth. I cannot lie to you. This may be my rigidity of thought, but I know what I know.

LetMeGoogleThat · 12/01/2026 13:57

Comefromaway · 12/01/2026 13:50

I've got mixed feelings about the Rainman thing. Savants do exist but for years it seemed to be the only form of autism that people recognised. We too had years of she does this she can't be autistic and he does that he can't be autistic.

I certainly don't have mixed feelings about Rainman, that film was vile and really imprinted itself into public consciousness, and had a negative impact on so many people. Even the title was used as an insult and to mock.

Dontlletmedownbruce · 12/01/2026 14:00

Boolabus · 12/01/2026 09:03

A barbie can be whatever the child playing with it wants it to be. Why do Mattel need to direct a child's play like that, surely encouraging imaginative play is far more beneficial to the child

Because I suspect they don't give a shit about children's needs. The more specific the doll is the more people will feel the need to buy them. They have only one goal and that's profit.

Comefromaway · 12/01/2026 14:01

LetMeGoogleThat · 12/01/2026 13:57

I certainly don't have mixed feelings about Rainman, that film was vile and really imprinted itself into public consciousness, and had a negative impact on so many people. Even the title was used as an insult and to mock.

I've never actually watched it, only seen excerpts.

MeouwKing · 12/01/2026 14:03

When are they doing a trans - barbie?

ChoccieCornflake · 12/01/2026 14:04

Comefromaway · 12/01/2026 13:55

I'm sorry I have offended you. I did not intend to. But I simply told the truth. I cannot lie to you. This may be my rigidity of thought, but I know what I know.

Edited

You've told what you think is the truth, but we don't have to agree with you. I don't doubt you THINK you can spot autistic people - I just think you are wrong and have no idea you are wrong.

Your comments, whether you believe them or not, are very offensive.

amibeingaknob · 12/01/2026 14:04

Springstarling · 12/01/2026 13:52

Well ,as a fellow diagnosed autistic
You have massively offended me today ,and I feel very very upset by some of the comments on this thread .
I have reported every one ,and Mumsnet seem to be doing nothing about it .

Same. It actually brought me to tears.

I have reported them all and MN are doing nothing.

If this was race, or homophobia they would have been right on it, but ableism doesn't matter apparently.

Im actually so so upset someone could see things this way, let alone spout these views over and over with no consequence. Its all very depressing actually.

IDontHateRainbows · 12/01/2026 14:06

Sleepasaurus · 12/01/2026 08:59

https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/autistic-barbie-doll-buy-name-b2898599.html

While I agree that it could be stigmatising it sounds like they have done their research.

wouldn’t have got it for my Asd dd but her sister would have loved a doll that had a communication aid and loose clothing like her dsis.

I'm ND and this is the most patronising thing I've ever seen. The wokesters have gone too far this time I'm afraid. I'm sure a ND child doesn't want a special 'ND' doll so they can be even more different to their NT friends with their NT dolls.

Comefromaway · 12/01/2026 14:06

No, you don't have to agree with me. People are very diverse and we don't always agree with each other. One example is I prefer person with autism, dd prefers autistic, we respect each others preference and in general I think the current thinking is person first.

But this thread is about Barbie dolls and I think it shoudl return to that. Which I think is a great idea for representation. Yes of course Mattel are wanting to make a profit but it won't be that great, these things are quite niche.

MeouwKing · 12/01/2026 14:07

An FTM Barbie would have to be called something like "Barry"

PipeOfPringles · 12/01/2026 14:09

Comefromaway · 12/01/2026 13:55

I'm sorry I have offended you. I did not intend to. But I simply told the truth. I cannot lie to you. This may be my rigidity of thought, but I know what I know.

Edited

Your claim is that you have accurately been able to say whether everyone you see either does have autism (you've 'spotted' them) or doesn't (you've not spotted any signifiers so have concluded they aren't autistic) - is that correct?

I.e. no false negatives and no false positives.

And that you know your judgments are always accurate because you have access to infomation that confirms this?

That's quite a claim.