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Mattel have made an autistic Barbie

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IwishIwasacaterpillar · 12/01/2026 08:54

I find this quite odd. Autism doesn’t have a look.
my child is autistic and I would not have bought them one when they were young

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TrickyD · 12/01/2026 13:12

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JoannaTheYodelingCowgirl · 12/01/2026 13:13

Soontobe60 · 12/01/2026 12:09

I completely agree with you here. I’m quite horrified that someone claims to be able to see ‘it’ in their eyes. That’s absolute nonsense that likely stems from the misguided claim that the first signs of autism are lack of eye contact and lining up cars.

I think as well it depends

Because a lot of the time the 'severely autistic' people associated with autism often have something else that causes profound learning disability

Ponoka7 · 12/01/2026 13:13

Unhappyitis · 12/01/2026 10:12

I'll wait for the ADHD one then 🤣🤣🤣🤣 3 chaos piles around her, 5 started then forgotten hobbie stuff that she comes with and 5 fidget spinners plus loops.

You can promise it for Christmas, but buy it in the January sales, because that doll isn't turning up on time.
My Granddaughter wanted the wheelchair dolls, she has to use a disability buggy because of dyspraxia. She was made up getting the hearing aid doll, she has moderate hearing loss. If she still played with barbies, she'd want this one. I don't see the issue tbh. Children wear their labels with pride these days. They are used to inclusiveness etc. They know what autism can look like.

pigmygoatsinjumpers · 12/01/2026 13:14

Floatlikeafeather2 · 12/01/2026 11:19

I had a Sindy doll (early 60s). She was presented as a tomboy and anything but demure, very much like me. My parents had no expectation of me being "demure" or "self effacing" and they were just ordinary parents, not seen as unusual in any way. My mother didn't give me a Barbie because all the pink and frills wouldn't have appealed to me and she never encouraged me just to be "a pretty little thing" anyway. (I think she also viewed Barbie as too American, but that's by the by.) I had no friends who had a Barbie either, for the same reasons, though one did have a Tressie.
I can't work out if you're being ironic in your last paragraph or if you really think a pilot with a pink plane or a president with a pink limo is in any way ground breaking.

There is already a pilot Barbie (and a flight attendant Barbie):

https://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/187841253841

There is a plane that is pink:

https://www.smythstoys.com/uk/en-gb/toys/fashion-and-dolls/barbie/barbie-dream-plane-with-pilot-doll-playset/p/177651?

Pilot Barbie Doll Special Edition 1999 Mattel 24017 | eBay UK

Pilot Barbie Doll Special Edition 1999 Mattel 24017 Brand new, NRFB. Boxes have minor wear. Notice - The box for this item will have some shelf wear or creasing. If the quantity for this listing is more than one, the listing photos are representative o...

https://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/187841253841

Whatafustercluck · 12/01/2026 13:17

Cheeeesedoff · 12/01/2026 12:31

But it's just labelling people as different. I don't get it. We are all different with different issues..

Is your point about autism broadly or autistic Barbie specifically? Different with different needs is one thing. Different to the point of no longer functioning due to burnout is quite another.

redboxer321 · 12/01/2026 13:21

How about a trans Barbie? Or would that just be an Action Man in a dress?

ruethewhirl · 12/01/2026 13:22

Boolabus · 12/01/2026 09:03

A barbie can be whatever the child playing with it wants it to be. Why do Mattel need to direct a child's play like that, surely encouraging imaginative play is far more beneficial to the child

I suspect it has more to do with the company wanting to look inclusive, than it necessarily being needed. If it helps some children feel represented, that's good obviously, but the stereotyping is potentially problematic.

ZoeCM · 12/01/2026 13:22

Chiseltip · 12/01/2026 09:12

What about

"wheelchair user Barbie"

Or

"Amputee Barbie"

Or

"Crohn's Barbie"
(Comes with realistic diarrhoea function)

Not to mention

"Mental Health Barbie"

🙄

Why are you rolling your eyes at "Wheelchair Barbie" and "Amputee Barbie"? Isn't it good for kids to see dolls who are like them?

amibeingaknob · 12/01/2026 13:25

Comefromaway · 12/01/2026 12:02

Forgive me if my families experience with autism assessors & other health/education professionals (not all but certainly some we came across) does not inspire me with the greatest confidence in your abilities.

Our 'Tism radar has never failed us yet. There is a distinct look in the eyes.

So the years and years of training, the hours and hours of time I spend with each service user and their families, and the time discussing it with the expert multi-disciplinary team is all wasted. Along with all the continued professional development, courses, workshops, and advocacy Im involved with. All pointless. We just need you and your daughter to take a quick squizz at them and all sorted. I'll just quit now.

Its bad enough you think this way, but to support this view around your child - that she as well can 'diagnose' autism, is just so offensive and arrogant on so many levels I just can't even.

Comefromaway · 12/01/2026 13:25

Springstarling · 12/01/2026 12:41

Oh my lord
Give me strength
I am diagnosed autistic
This incredibly offensive
Another reported post

Report me for what, speaking the truth?

Springstarling · 12/01/2026 13:27

Comefromaway · 12/01/2026 13:25

Report me for what, speaking the truth?

No ,for being incredibly offensive

amibeingaknob · 12/01/2026 13:27

Comefromaway · 12/01/2026 13:25

Report me for what, speaking the truth?

Stop.

You are incredibly offensive.

I say this as a professional working with people with autism, a person with autism, and a mother of autistic children.

Just stop.

Comefromaway · 12/01/2026 13:28

I have excellent eye contact by the way. It's the years and years of drama training. Dd fakes it by focusing on a certain area of the face.

Comefromaway · 12/01/2026 13:29

amibeingaknob · 12/01/2026 13:27

Stop.

You are incredibly offensive.

I say this as a professional working with people with autism, a person with autism, and a mother of autistic children.

Just stop.

No, I will not stop. You may have a different view and I will not disparage your lived experience, but do not disparage my lived experience. It's not offensive to say that we can usually spot a fellow autistic person a mile off.

amibeingaknob · 12/01/2026 13:31

Comefromaway · 12/01/2026 13:29

No, I will not stop. You may have a different view and I will not disparage your lived experience, but do not disparage my lived experience. It's not offensive to say that we can usually spot a fellow autistic person a mile off.

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'Our 'Tism radar has never failed us yet. There is a distinct look in the eyes'.

This is an undeniably offensive ablest thing to say.

MN need to remove all your posts immediately.

LetMeGoogleThat · 12/01/2026 13:32

I agree! A pair of ear defenders and a fidget spinner, don't constitute ASD.

Comefromaway · 12/01/2026 13:33

If I was being abelist I would be being abelist to myself. It's a common thing amongst many autistics, we can spot it a mile off.

DustyMaiden · 12/01/2026 13:36

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saltandvinegarchipsticks · 12/01/2026 13:37

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Stop generalising. Honestly, this thread…

Locutus2000 · 12/01/2026 13:37

Another article from the Guardian.

A bit torn - representation always good but this feels like Tiktok Autism and ignores the real struggles by suggesting they can be resolved with ear defenders and a fucking fidget spinner.

Of course Mattel are cynical bastards who always jump on the latest bandwagon to make even more money.

Mattel launches its first autistic Barbie

Company says doll is the latest expansion of its commitment to representation and inclusion

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2026/jan/12/mattel-launches-its-first-autistic-barbie

x2boys · 12/01/2026 13:39

LetMeGoogleThat · 12/01/2026 13:32

I agree! A pair of ear defenders and a fidget spinner, don't constitute ASD.

No but these are common aids that some autistic people
The spectrum is huge though so its never going to accurately portray everyone with a diagnosis

DustyMaiden · 12/01/2026 13:39

saltandvinegarchipsticks · 12/01/2026 13:37

Stop generalising. Honestly, this thread…

I’m autistic I do that

YankSplaining · 12/01/2026 13:39

I think it might have been a better idea to make this doll without giving it a precise diagnosis. My daughter has ADHD and she wears noise-cancelling headphones at times; I hope this doll isn’t going to contribute to a mindset that noise-cancelling headphones automatically equal autistic.

PipeOfPringles · 12/01/2026 13:40

Comefromaway · 12/01/2026 13:29

No, I will not stop. You may have a different view and I will not disparage your lived experience, but do not disparage my lived experience. It's not offensive to say that we can usually spot a fellow autistic person a mile off.

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Go on then, how have you gone about checking that the people you deem autistic are, and that the ones you don't deem autistic aren't?

Because if you haven't verified your disgnoses then they're just guesses that you've decided are right.

Springstarling · 12/01/2026 13:42

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Absolute rubbish
Very offensive
Have reported