AIBU to report neighbour

[Neighbouradviceneeded]

I’ve just heard the neighbour shout at her husband she also swore. (open window). We don’t speak

I’ve heard her shout before a while back, should I be concerned?

There are two older children in the household - one is school age but must be in their mid teens.

Are you a man and this is reverse situation thread?

Don't be ridiculous!

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But there's nothing to be concerned about - it's normal for adults to sometimes snap and shout at each other.

and Not everyone goes to posh schools to learn how jog to sound rough - I do a good fishwife myself on the right circs

If you are seriously concerned that the kids are being abused report to nspcc and to their school if you know which one they go to

if you are concerned she is rough and uncouth sadly that isnt a crime

if you are worried he is abused , speak to him and ask how he is snd maybe give him a number if a charity he can contact ( you risk them never talking to you again )

God I had a neighbour like you once, curtain twitching busybody. The number of times I had to open the door to some poor resigned looking PC and deal with "no he's not murdering me we're playing countdown too enthusiastically for her liking, we're not running a drug ring I ordered pizza at 2am because I'm on nights, and our wild "party" is two other people sitting here playing Monopoly". Absolute menace she was.

Well, if shouting and swearing is a crime you can prepare my cell.

Is it half term?

I know it's only January but maybe my long week was several long weeks and now it's February and the crazy half term posts are happening.

Are you saying you think she's abusing her family? Other than shouting is there any other evidence of anything criminal?

You could report it to the police I suppose but I doubt they'd do much. It seems a bit intrusive of you though. You say she's awful but you do not speak to her and don't really know anything about her life. Anything you overhear is not in context and really not your business.

Not creepy, just a busybody with nothing to do in life.

You're being weird, not creepy.

You're asking if you should report and yet you don't even know who to.

It's not illegal to shout.

You're not concerned you're spiteful.

Wtf OP. People have rows. People have arguments. Keep your nose out!

You could be best friends with our neighbour.

Wouldn't be surprised if they would report you first.

Ok I’ve got the message

But don’t MNetters take notice of who you living next door to?

Maybe I’m being harsh then? I just wasn’t brought up to be like that.

My former neighbours used to have full- on rows every few months. If I'd heard anything that suggested their children were in danger at any point, I'd have phoned the police.
It never did come to that but they were so vile to each other (thin walls, not difficult to hear) I did wonder how and why they stayed together.
They've moved now and it's bliss.

Wind your neck in, seriously!

I'd just mind your own business. People are allowed to have an argument!

You're spending too much time on MN. I know on here people say that someone is abusive if they raise their voice or swear and they tell the OP they need to leave but in the real world most people do shout and swear during arguments. Don't waste police time reporting this, leave them free to attend people who actually are at risk of harm.

Report her to who, for heavens sake? Are you quite mad?

To whom? For what?? People argue or get cross. This seems like extreme over reacting by you.

You must have led an unbelievably sheltered life and also live somewhere thats usually incredibly quiet to overreact like this. Yes we take notice of our neighbours but not to this ridiculous extent.

Let me guess. You think it's a safeguarding issue and your neighbour is gaslighting her husband?

Ok my arse has been handed to me, as they say on here

I won’t be reporting anything to anyone.