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Things now, that 90's kid would have mocked?

398 replies

H202too · 10/01/2026 09:35

This is light hearted. Working in a school it is interesting to see how trends change. Sure some of this is regional, but what things do kids do now that just wasn't the done thing in the nineties?
I have noticed

  1. Double strappers. This was so uncool at the time. I am sure I still get shoulder pain now from carrying mountains of books on one shoulder. Single strap now is a bad thing. ( Good!)

  2. The star spot patches. Some kids wear about 6. Not seen any adults do this yet.

  3. Boys with massive brushes in their pockets which they whip out and swish their fringe. They even borrow each others and swish each others fringe. It is actually quite cute. My mind chuckles when I think of the 90s boys spiking their hair with pointy hair gel. But absolutely no to carrying a brush about.

  4. Water bottles. I once got in trouble for taking a drink from my water in 1998 in a lecture. In 1991 it just wouldn't have been a thing to have a watsr bottle.

I am sure there is more. AIBU to think most new trends are probably better but to miss the 90s nostalgia.

Kids of today would rip us for backing our books in wrapping paper.

OP posts:
PattiPatty · 10/01/2026 11:02

pre-internet... how we dealt with those situations where you (for instance) can't think of the name of a song or actor etc

It was a social thing, at work or out when a conversation halted because no-one could remember the word or name they needed and everyone spent ages talking it through and delving into their memories to find it. Someone might shout the name hours later because it came to them. I do wonder what the effect is now of never exercising that particular brain function.

Moonnstarz · 10/01/2026 11:04

Did anyone else have the two strands hanging down at the side of their head with the rest of their hair tied up in a ponytail or was that just where I lived?
I cringe every time I see my secondary photos where I thought that was the in look at the time.

Jane norman was definitely top notch PE bags.

Wearing two straps on your school bag meant you were a square.

usedtobeaylis · 10/01/2026 11:04

BogRollBOGOF · 10/01/2026 09:46

I've had a teacher incredulous that I was 6th form before we had a computer with internet access. She thought that my school must be behind, but it was quite forwards and better resourced than many schools I trained/ worked in in the early 2000s.
I'm not sure how I have colleagues born in the 21st century...

What amuses me is the revival of the 1990s Nike/ Air Jordan bags that my classmates used to have.

I like the way there is more freedom for the "alternatives" (as we would once have called ourselves) to express ourselves more individually. The 90s was more conformist and fixed in its tribal subcultures, but that comes from being pre-social media and relying more on sources like magazines for youth culture.

Oh I see the opposite! When I look at photos from my primary and early high school we all look very different, most markedly in hair. All the girls my daughter's age have long hair, only a very, very few have hair shorter than their shoulders and I've not seen a single one at her school with actual short hair. They all have the same styles and brands and even things like dye which wasn't typical in the 90s is incredibly 'conformist' now. I was once mocked in the idle of my classroom when I dyed my hair red because it just wasn't seen much.

H202too · 10/01/2026 11:06

Moonnstarz · 10/01/2026 11:04

Did anyone else have the two strands hanging down at the side of their head with the rest of their hair tied up in a ponytail or was that just where I lived?
I cringe every time I see my secondary photos where I thought that was the in look at the time.

Jane norman was definitely top notch PE bags.

Wearing two straps on your school bag meant you were a square.

We had that. Two carefully selected bits of hair just hanging there or the front bit that was puffed up on one side.

OP posts:
MJstarterbefore40 · 10/01/2026 11:07

God everything. Kids are cringe nowadays! I say that as a Mum of 2 😂

MargaretThursday · 10/01/2026 11:09

We laughed at mobile phones in the 90s.

Who needed a phone with them all the time?
Only Yuppies...

usedtobeaylis · 10/01/2026 11:10

MargaretThursday · 10/01/2026 11:09

We laughed at mobile phones in the 90s.

Who needed a phone with them all the time?
Only Yuppies...

"I'M IN THE LIBRARY!!!!"

Nocookiesforme · 10/01/2026 11:10

We have the same issue @KnickerlessFlannel
Back in the 90's & early 2000's DP & I used to do a Sunday paper prize crossword so we'd have to finish it by Tuesday morning to get it posted off in time. We had a huge library of general knowledge books at home which we used to work out answers that we didn't know but if we still had unanswered clues left on Monday morning then we had to go to the library to use the computer there and had a regular slot booked just for that purpose. We didn't win until 2011 when we won £1500 - which we used for a laptop, internet set up and a summer holiday.

Youngest DC still doesn't believe that we never had the internet at home until 2011 because it's been around like forever hasn't it????

KimberleyClark · 10/01/2026 11:10

I went to school n the 70s and there was a trend of wearing your wristwatch with the face on the inside of your wrist. Also very wide watch straps in bright colours. Today you would be mocked for wearing any kind of wristwatch at all.

minipie · 10/01/2026 11:12

Just thought of another one!

Longchamp bags. They’re really fashionable among DD’s friends. I associate them with my granny … definitely would have been uncool in the 90s

Hdbnfnbrjebfb · 10/01/2026 11:15

I remember the two bits of hair thing but it was strictly reserved for the top charva girl and the girls in the second tier of the charva group. Anyone else attempting it would have been bullied into submission.

I have to double strap my work bag or it slips off my shoulders and I bully myself walking in and out of the office every time. It’s just not right. I don’t mind double strapping a small leather backpack, that seems right. But a functional, heavy bag? That has an absolute reason to be worn correctly? Torture.

Nocookiesforme · 10/01/2026 11:15

Oh and our DC look at us with pity at having only 3 tv channels too and laugh piteously at having to read, play games or....shock horror....go outside, like, just for fun 😮

wertgyhjk · 10/01/2026 11:15

HawthornFairy · 10/01/2026 09:59

I had absolutely no idea what OP and others meant by star spot patches, had to Google. Are these actually used outside the house??? In what regions? They’ve not caught on at all in rural Highland Scotland.

I'm down in the central belt of Scotland and had never heard of them or seen them before, either!

catching · 10/01/2026 11:15

Hdbnfnbrjebfb · 10/01/2026 11:15

I remember the two bits of hair thing but it was strictly reserved for the top charva girl and the girls in the second tier of the charva group. Anyone else attempting it would have been bullied into submission.

I have to double strap my work bag or it slips off my shoulders and I bully myself walking in and out of the office every time. It’s just not right. I don’t mind double strapping a small leather backpack, that seems right. But a functional, heavy bag? That has an absolute reason to be worn correctly? Torture.

Charva? That’s definitely not the word we used

LavenderBlue19 · 10/01/2026 11:16

Double straps, jack ups, big gold-rimmed glasses, moustaches, mullets, trainers for going out, white socks, tracksuits, crocs, dungarees, fleece jackets. And so much brown! And puffa jackets!

The younger people at work basically look like 90s nerds and would have been roundly bullied. I find it bizarre and can't bring myself to partake in (or like) any of the things that were deeply uncool when I was young 😂

StrawberrySquash · 10/01/2026 11:21

Navybluecoat · 10/01/2026 09:55

We had this a few years ago

I mentioned that when I was young,if you wanted to know something you asked my dad/teacher/your bestie or a trip to the library

My dd was agog-she didnt believe me at all

Im stood there insisting that I was telling to truth

'Im going to phone grandad' (my dad who is very intelligent/just says the facts/doesn't pull her leg like i do)

She couldn't wrap her head around the fact I was telling the truth as he backed me up (I think she thought he was in on some joke so googled it)

😂 Have her Google 'irony' next!

IWishItWasAutumnEveryday · 10/01/2026 11:22

GrumpySparkler · 10/01/2026 09:41

Yes to double strappers. And on the backpack theme, actually wearing them so they sit on your back properly. They had to be a low slung as possible at my school.

Also (and admittedly I see more Mum's doing this) the white socks over the leggings. That would've been ripped the piss out of (but maybe the kids are ripping the piss out of their Mum's for this? 🤷‍♀️)

Wearing white socks back then would have.

Hdbnfnbrjebfb · 10/01/2026 11:23

catching · 10/01/2026 11:15

Charva? That’s definitely not the word we used

I think it’s quite a regional thing to the north east. It was never derogatory the way chav is now either. Well it was derogatory if you were a goth calling someone a charva, but it wasn’t about income or intelligence like chav is used now.

LaddersAndLadders · 10/01/2026 11:23

Bigbus · 10/01/2026 09:44

Putting your hands down the front of your pants! We would have absolutely laughed at a boy doing that in the 90s!

Oh I absolutely hate this. I find it so offensive or like they have crabs or are playing with themselves.

usedtobeaylis · 10/01/2026 11:24

Jeans that were too short. Anything that was too short and you were mocked and asked if your cat/budgie had died. Now people wear jeans of all lengths and I never know if it's deliberate. The 90s was very firmly long bootcut jeans that trailed behind you.

AhBiscuits · 10/01/2026 11:26

Thick eyebrows. They were the thinnest line in the 90s.

My neice wears those star patches.

KatieKat88 · 10/01/2026 11:30

A section of my year 10 girls are obsessed with the stars patches. Haven't seen them in any of the other year groups which is weird! (West Midlands here)

LaddersAndLadders · 10/01/2026 11:33

Leggings with no long top to cover your bum and v. Unless you were an adult at the gym. Or leggings that might be even better a tiny bit see through on the bum.

You'd be considered half dressed and people would be even mortified looking at you.

Bulky runners/trainers or bum bags. They'd be seen as very American senior citizen things.

Clychaugog · 10/01/2026 11:34

"Fee-lings" 🙄

Ell099 · 10/01/2026 11:42

EarlofShrewsbury · 10/01/2026 09:50

If I wore new balance trainers in the 90s, I would have been mocked so much they would have been unwearable.

My sister is 6 years younger than me and has a row of New Balance and Asics dad style trainers on her shoe rack… I’d have been mortified if my mum bought me them back in the 90’s 😂

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