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To be shocked by this government dietary advice for babies and children?

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fourfoxsakes · 09/01/2026 08:50

from the government in Northern Ireland that is published online? Surely we don’t do these things any more such as mixing baby rice with milk and advising people to feed their very young children rice crispies and cornflakes for breakfast and advising people to give juice with meals! Surely this is bad advice, I am honestly surprised that the government have been allowed to publish this crap. I have no doubt people still do these things which is an individual parenting choice but surely the government shouldn’t be advocating for this?

To be shocked by this government dietary advice for babies and children?
To be shocked by this government dietary advice for babies and children?
To be shocked by this government dietary advice for babies and children?
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vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 12:06

QuinqueremeofNiveneh · 09/01/2026 12:00

Educate me then!

Why is it that NI/UK kids are obese with mouths full of rotting teeth?

They’re not all like that though, are they? 🙄

But if you want to be educated - fine. There are children in this country who never see a dentist. There are children raised in families where dental hygiene is ignored. There are children who are raised on bottles of full fat Coke, bars of chocolate and beige oven food covered in ketchup and salt.

A bowl of low sugar, fortified cereal and a cup of diluted apple juice is not the reason there is an obesity crisis, and the fact that you think it is shows how bloody privileged you are.

vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 12:07

wishingonastar101 · 09/01/2026 12:06

True, I do have more time now. But I've only wfh for the last few years... before that I was office based 5 days a week and still didn't feed my kids cereal and juice.

Good for you - you clearly deserve a medal for being so much better than everyone else 🙄

wishingonastar101 · 09/01/2026 12:08

I don't get the cost argument... surely juice costs more than tap water?

BeanQuisine · 09/01/2026 12:08

QuinqueremeofNiveneh · 09/01/2026 12:00

Educate me then!

Why is it that NI/UK kids are obese with mouths full of rotting teeth?

Quantity has a lot to do with it, but unlikely to be quantity of breakfast cereal as such. More likely a combination of what they have for main meals, plus between-meal snacks.

Childhood obesity was a lot more rare in the 1960s/70s etc. but if anything, sugary breakfast cereals were even more popular in those days.

Nutmuncher · 09/01/2026 12:08

Fernsrus · 09/01/2026 11:11

@NutmuncherThose people aren’t reading the guidelines anyway. The rest of us deserve better nutritional guidance.

True, maybe it’s better to send them a TikTok instead

PfizerFan · 09/01/2026 12:09

Huh? My toddler often has fortified cereal for breakfast.

QuinqueremeofNiveneh · 09/01/2026 12:10

vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 12:00

Honesty, your posts reek of privilege. I know you’re probably only speaking from your own experience but many kids don’t even get breakfast before school, or they have something in the car or from the corner shop. A bowl of fortified cereal and a glass of diluted juice is way, way above the bare minimum for many families.

Privilege? Or just a reasonable sense of how to live a healthy life?

Nutritious food is not expensive. It's just that people in the UK are too lazy and ignorant to want it, buy it and make it. (And have a bizarre willingness to spend their meagre funds on vapes and alcohol and streaming and fillers and nails and you name it...)

Cornershop doesn't have healthy options? Get off the couch, switch off the tv and take a walk to a bigger supermarket. Plenty available there.

The fact is that obesity and other life style driven issues are off the charts in this country. The NHS pandering to people's feckless attitudes is a massive part of the problem.

vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 12:10

Happytap · 09/01/2026 12:01

Yes that's literally what I've just said I've realised

Fair enough - hopefully now you can understand the reality for many people and realise how fortunate you and your family are to be able to afford and eat the things you do.

vanillalattes · 09/01/2026 12:12

QuinqueremeofNiveneh · 09/01/2026 12:10

Privilege? Or just a reasonable sense of how to live a healthy life?

Nutritious food is not expensive. It's just that people in the UK are too lazy and ignorant to want it, buy it and make it. (And have a bizarre willingness to spend their meagre funds on vapes and alcohol and streaming and fillers and nails and you name it...)

Cornershop doesn't have healthy options? Get off the couch, switch off the tv and take a walk to a bigger supermarket. Plenty available there.

The fact is that obesity and other life style driven issues are off the charts in this country. The NHS pandering to people's feckless attitudes is a massive part of the problem.

Yes, privilege. But seeing as your post is filled with lazy stereotypes about vapes and fake nails, I won’t waste my time engaging with you about it.

Kirbert2 · 09/01/2026 12:12

normanagfriends · 09/01/2026 12:05

My DC was in hospital once and the boy in the next bed had had major surgery the previous day. When he woke up, he wasn't even 12 hours post op and his mum had brought him in a sausage roll, large mars bar and a bottle of iron bru. She was going on at him about eating and he kept saying he felt too sick to eat anything. She was shouting at him saying it was because the anaesthetic had curdled in his stomach and if he ate "a good breakfast" he'd feel better. The nurse had to intervene and say there was no need for him to eat anything as he was still on post op fluids, and that when he was feeling up to it toast would be much more appropriate.

I had the opposite when my son was in hospital. They told me as long as he had something, it didn't matter as long as he fancied it because it was better than him not eating.

Jellycatspyjamas · 09/01/2026 12:12

Natsku · 09/01/2026 09:31

Agree. They ought to be advising not to introduce juice at all, its not healthy and it can lead to children refusing to drink water which will cause issues when they start school. In my country the advice is water or milk only for drinks and for breakfast porridge or bread/toast with ham or cheese or similar and some lettuce/slice of tomato/bit of cucumber. Same food they serve at breakfast in nursery and breakfast clubs.

I have never seen ham, cheese, tomato or cucumber in a schools breakfast club. I assume you’re on the continent where that’s more common.

I don’t think the advice is terrible when you look across the day/week - better that kids are fed and the advice is accessible for most parents.

Womaninhouse17 · 09/01/2026 12:13

wishingonastar101 · 09/01/2026 12:08

I don't get the cost argument... surely juice costs more than tap water?

True. And Rice Krispies are more expensive than porridge or toast. Packaged (usually sugary) cereals with child-attracting cartoons and bright colours on the boxes are a prime example of how companies can make huge profits by selling a lie. If we didn't introduce added sugar to our kids, we'd do them a big favour.

Binus · 09/01/2026 12:14

MoreDangerousThanAWomanScorned · 09/01/2026 11:18

I don't understand what people mean when they say rice crispies have 'no nutrition'. A standard serving of Rice Krispies (about 30g) with 125ml of semi-skimmed milk offers around 174 calories, 6g protein, 32g carbs (with some sugar), and 2.5g fat. Is it the best mix you could find? No. Is it the equivalent of eating polystyrene? Also no. As noted, they are fortified and so have 4.2mg of iron per 30g portion, which is about half of a toddler's daily requirement. A very low proportion of toddlers actually get enough iron, so this isn't insignificant.

Yes, that's actually a rather big deal. I'm surprised more hasn't been made of it in the thread, especially as multiple people have posted lower iron meals as allegedly health alternatives. The response to that will probably be that there are other ways to get iron in.. but we're not!

Suzjspik · 09/01/2026 12:14

I'm sure it means dilute pop which is fine and I dont see anything wrong with the advice tbh ! My kids are 15 and 11 and eat cereal with milk

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 09/01/2026 12:15

nevernotmaybe · 09/01/2026 11:23

Sugar has no impact on teeth, it's the bacteria which feeds of it which can cause issues, and isnt an issue if you are competent.

This may help you to understand the pathological process:

https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/sugars-and-dental-caries

Sugars and dental caries

WHO fact sheet on sugars and dental caries, including information on risk factors, prevention and control, challenges and WHO's work in this area.

https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/sugars-and-dental-caries

ImFineItsAllFine · 09/01/2026 12:17

Binus · 09/01/2026 11:20

Yes, the current UPF obsession can be unhelpful.

Dietary advice is a very difficult balance to strike. It's not easy to combine good practice and the need to meet people where they are. If advice isn't considered realistic, it will be ignored and may even alienate the people it's meant to help.

Agree with this.

I used to work in a role writing public health guidance (not dietary). In the UK, for most topics any national guidance for the public has to be suitable for an average reading/comprehension age of 8. That's going to make a proper explanation of macros etc and maximising nutrition pretty difficult.

Grammarnut · 09/01/2026 12:18

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 09/01/2026 09:02

It's really high in sugar and therefore bad for teeth. Yes, drinking it with a meal is better than in isolation, but eating whole fruit and drinking water is much better for both gut and dental health.

Advice says heavily diluted, which is fine. And eating fruit has the same effect on teeth (fructose turns to acid in the mouth), which means one should not clean teeth within an hour of eating any (that includes stuff like tomatoes).
Eating a cereal e.g. rice crispies is a way of getting a child to drink milk, which is necessary for bone development etc since it contains calcium and Vit D (at least it will as long as it is whole milk - skimmed milk does not contain enough fat for the body to utilise the Vit D in the milk, which is why tins of dried skimmed milk are labelled as not suitable for babies).
The other foods listed are fine. Nothing wrong with Irish stew, tuna fish, sweetcorn etc. We don't all live on sundried tomatoes and Mediterranean diets esp. in cold weather!

MoreDangerousThanAWomanScorned · 09/01/2026 12:20

Jellycatspyjamas · 09/01/2026 12:12

I have never seen ham, cheese, tomato or cucumber in a schools breakfast club. I assume you’re on the continent where that’s more common.

I don’t think the advice is terrible when you look across the day/week - better that kids are fed and the advice is accessible for most parents.

Also, ham is a Group 1 Carcinogen - I actually think it's still ok to give to a child in moderation, but presumably people who wouldn't give Rice Crispies because of the alleged lack of nutrition wouldn't.

Grammarnut · 09/01/2026 12:20

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 09/01/2026 12:15

This may help you to understand the pathological process:

https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/sugars-and-dental-caries

Useful fact sheet. It's the sugar that does the damage since it becomes acidic in the mouth (all sugars do this, so eating fruit is no better than drinking orange squash). Before the arrival of the spice sugar in Europe dental caries were a rarity.

anotherside · 09/01/2026 12:21

People aren’t getting obese due to having Rice Krispies for breakfast and the odd glass of orange juice.

MoreDangerousThanAWomanScorned · 09/01/2026 12:22

Happytap · 09/01/2026 11:57

Yes, I think you're probably right. Im finding it hard to believe that rice Krispies and orange juice aren't the bare minimum but yes, I can see if you're used to giving them a chocolate bar on the walk to school then that would be a huge improvement. Thanks for the thought challenge

And thank you for taking it on board - that's really rare on a chat thread like this so (I genuinely mean this, I know it sounds patronising/sarcastic!) I think you should be given credit for recognising your own bias and re-examining your thought processes.

Pinkieandthebraintakeovertheworld · 09/01/2026 12:24

Natsku · 09/01/2026 10:59

That's why the advice should be honest and clear, so at least they know its not the best thing to feed their child. More in person advice and information in childhood would help too - we have regular health checkups throughout childhood here, where you are asked what your child is eating (amongst other things) and that makes you think about their diet and how ideal or not it is (and screen time and how much sleep they get and if they're eating their lunch at school and things like that)

This leaflet is giving honest and clear advice. It’s just aiming for a good and achievable diet for young children rather than an ideal but likely unachievable diet or seemingly unrealistic one.

Grammarnut · 09/01/2026 12:25

MoreDangerousThanAWomanScorned · 09/01/2026 12:20

Also, ham is a Group 1 Carcinogen - I actually think it's still ok to give to a child in moderation, but presumably people who wouldn't give Rice Crispies because of the alleged lack of nutrition wouldn't.

The point of the cereal is the milk, I think, which (as long as it is whole milk or at least only semi-skimmed) contains calcium and Vit D which the body can access. What cereal is irrelevant (but better not to have ones with sugar all over them!).

Fiftyandme · 09/01/2026 12:26

This feels very much like a stealth boast

Grammarnut · 09/01/2026 12:28

1apenny2apenny · 09/01/2026 09:06

I agree OP, juice is crap, I didn’t give mine juice as in my view it gets them used to sweet drinks and is bad for their teeth, much better that water is the norm. A whole piece of fruit is way better so Weetabix with banana, berries etc. Government nutritional advice is one of the reasons we have an obesity problem.

Fruit is no better than fruit juice - because the sugars contained in both (and all sugars) turn to acid in the mouth and weaken enamel. Advice my dentist gave is not to clean the teeth within an hour of eating any fruit or drinking fruit juice.

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