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To keep spreadable butter in the cupboard

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willywallaby · 08/01/2026 21:05

Every time MIL comes round she moves the spreadable butter from the cupboard to the fridge and explains that it spreads straight from the fridge, so it needs to be kept in the fridge. Spreadable butter does not spread straight from the fridge though. None of the own brand ones do and Anchor doesn't. I don't know about Lurpak. MIL bakes all her own sourdough so maybe it spreads better on there. And it spreads okay on toast. But making a regular sandwich on supermarket sliced bread is a ridiculous experience with spreadable butter unless it's at room temp. I only keep spreadable butter in the fridge if the weather is hot enough to liquify the butter. Or if MIL has been round and I haven't put things right again.

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Arran2024 · 09/01/2026 21:40

I use president non salted spread and never put it in the fridge and nothing bad has happened, even though it isn't even salted. We also use proper non salted butter, which also sits out. We use it on toast but the spread on unsalted bread.

geminicancerean · 09/01/2026 21:47

I only have butter that is hand churned by nomads from yaks’ milk in the Himalayas, I serve it in a solid gold butter dish that I keep at a constant 6c temperature via the use of sophisticated cooling technology. Do I win the butter game?

soupyspoon · 09/01/2026 21:54

geminicancerean · 09/01/2026 21:47

I only have butter that is hand churned by nomads from yaks’ milk in the Himalayas, I serve it in a solid gold butter dish that I keep at a constant 6c temperature via the use of sophisticated cooling technology. Do I win the butter game?

No, you sound cheap.

RampantIvy · 09/01/2026 22:00

Isthisfunyet · 09/01/2026 21:26

Rapeseed oil and lactic culture are additives. An additive means it is added to the original product. Butter is usually just pasteurized/unpasteurized cream and salt or just pasteurized/unpasteurized cream for unsalted butter. That is it's pure form. When they add in other ingredients like water, rapeseed oil, lactic culture they become additives as they are "added" to the original product. I have no agenda, it is just how food additive science works.

When I said nasty additives I meant loads of chemicals and e numbers, not oil, water and salt. And Country Life doesn't contain lactic cultures.

I must admit the butter snobbery on this thread has taken me by surprise.

SouthernNights59 · 10/01/2026 01:28

willywallaby · 09/01/2026 09:16

I don't think the fact that it says "keep refrigerated" is a win really. Block butter also says to keep refrigerated and nobody on this thread does. Stuff like ketchup also says it, and people have opinions either way on that one.

I always keep my block butter in the fridge, as I keep all dairy products.

SouthernNights59 · 10/01/2026 01:33

FerrisWheelsandLilacs · 09/01/2026 10:18

Buttersoft don’t do a butter with no added ingredients, do they?

Aren’t they a spreadable butter brand (so butter + oil)?

There are three types of butteresque spreads:

Butter
Spreadable butter (butter + oil)
Margarine

We keep both butter and lurpak spreadable butter in the fridge and it’s fine - but I only butter toast and not bread.

I think it’s supposed to be kept in the fridge because it goes off quicker than butter, particularly if it has crumbs, and it’s designed to be optimally spreadable at fridge temperature. The oils and the butter will melt at different temperatures and so it may become sub optimal or less spreadable over time when kept out of the fridge. If you prefer it that way though OP, that’s fine!

I'm not in the UK, buttersoft is not the brand name, just the type of butter - and yes, it is 100% spreadable butter, no oil added.

SouthernNights59 · 10/01/2026 01:35

JudyMoncada · 09/01/2026 12:01

You are looking at the Sainsbury's one. There is one in NZ with the same name that looks to be butter only.

www.mainland.co.nz/products/butter/mainland-buttersoft.html

Yes, that's the one!!!

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 10/01/2026 01:37

She shouldn’t be interfering! It’s not her house so not up to her.

But as it goes I think spreadable butter should go in the fridge. It’s not purely butter, I don’t think? Not sure it keeps well in the cupboard.

Snowdropsfalling · 10/01/2026 08:58

Thought everyone kept butter in the fridge? I’ve never known anyone to not keep it in the fridge.

Also never had issues spreading spreadable butter straight from the fridge - only proper butter I have to allow to warm before using.

SatsumaDog · 10/01/2026 09:10

What she does is irrelevant. This is not her house, so she should put it back where she found it.

ClaudiaCasswell · 10/01/2026 09:13

Life is too short not to have real butter. It’s one of life’s pleasures.

TheGrinchWasHere · 10/01/2026 09:23

I live in South Africa and spreadable butter has to stay in the fridge. But I guess if the ambient temperature is ok then it could stay in the cupboard. If the consistency stays ok then there shouldn’t be a problem.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 10/01/2026 09:30

I mostly use spreadable, usually Country Life, and unless you want it spread very thick (I don’t) it generally stays out of the fridge, so it spreads fairly thinly, easily. Dh never uses it so it’s just me.

According to the pack, it contains butter (50%), rapeseed oil (25%) water, salt.

Nothing else.

RampantIvy · 10/01/2026 09:47

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 10/01/2026 09:30

I mostly use spreadable, usually Country Life, and unless you want it spread very thick (I don’t) it generally stays out of the fridge, so it spreads fairly thinly, easily. Dh never uses it so it’s just me.

According to the pack, it contains butter (50%), rapeseed oil (25%) water, salt.

Nothing else.

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The butter purists count those as nasty additives. I don't.

TheKateColumbo · 10/01/2026 09:50

Keep your spreadable where you like.
Your spread, your rules.

I can’t imagine why you’d need to though. When spreadable goes too soft the oil takes over the butteriness and it’s not very pleasant.
I can only assume one or maybe more of the following apply,
your fridge is actually a freezer,
your buttering technique is poor- maybe your a gouger,
you use shit bread.

RampantIvy · 10/01/2026 11:37

TheKateColumbo · 10/01/2026 09:50

Keep your spreadable where you like.
Your spread, your rules.

I can’t imagine why you’d need to though. When spreadable goes too soft the oil takes over the butteriness and it’s not very pleasant.
I can only assume one or maybe more of the following apply,
your fridge is actually a freezer,
your buttering technique is poor- maybe your a gouger,
you use shit bread.

Or the OP has a very cold kitchen.

Miyagi99 · 10/01/2026 12:48

Your fridge is too cold, spreadable butter in fridge, normal butter in butter dish on the side.

Davros · 10/01/2026 22:35

Here is the ingredients and info on the M&S Softer Butter. NO OIL! Never mind 50%!

To keep spreadable butter in the cupboard
To keep spreadable butter in the cupboard
RampantIvy · 10/01/2026 22:52

I need to get myself to M and S.

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