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To be depressed that lockdown would happen again tomorrow if there was another new disease

816 replies

Pavementworrier · 05/01/2026 07:35

We talk about all the things that are worse "since the pandemic"but government prep is based on all the same mad nonsense that caused the worsening

Grim

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HPFA · 05/01/2026 11:12

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 05/01/2026 11:08

When I say not comply, I meant we’d all keep seeing local friends and family if we wanted to.

Perhaps you could all sign a statement that if you end up getting sick you agree not to receive any treatment?

MrsSkylerWhite · 05/01/2026 11:14

Untailored · 05/01/2026 07:45

What would be the alternative? If the hospitals were full and people were queuing up in the car parks to try and get in, like in India when Covid was at its worst there?

No one wants lockdown but I’d love to hear an alternative plan for containing an airborne, highly contagious disease spreading rapidly through the population.

Quite. Many people seem to have forgotten quite how frightening it was at the beginning, when we had no real notion of what we were dealing with.

The majority would comply again, I’m sure, particularly if children were at high risk.

TallulahBetty · 05/01/2026 11:14

Plenty of people would comply. It didn't bother me.

Pikachu150 · 05/01/2026 11:15

We are not going to have exactly the same virus with the same death rate and the same vulnerable groups next time so the question is pretty pointless. If they close schools and restaurants etc down as it did last time how are people going to not comply anyway? A few people would decide to socialize in their houses and catch the virus but they probably did that last time too.

Jokkaii · 05/01/2026 11:15

PersephoneParlormaid · 05/01/2026 07:41

I agree, no one would comply. They could close shops and schools etc, but they couldn’t control the will of the people.

A lot of people didn't comply the first time, we had neighbours throwing parties throughout, in Liverpool basically no one followed the advise, it was quite scary actually...

DoubleShotEspresso · 05/01/2026 11:16

MrsRobinsonsHandprints · 05/01/2026 07:43

Of course people would comply if lots of children/young people were dying.

The reality is we locked down for the wrong illness

I disagree on this.

The reality is we locked down far too late, this then meant we were locked down for far longer and much more damage was done in the longer term. Hindsight is perhaps a great thing, but all the signs were there, our government failed to act, when other governments were playing out live lessons for the rest of the world.

But as others have said, very few I think would comply again in the way in which we all did the first time round if we had another pandemic hit, trust is far too low now, knowing all we do about those in power wo thought they were above everybody else.

snowmichael · 05/01/2026 11:17

Fulmine · 05/01/2026 08:30

I don't see why it's claimed that people wouldn't comply. You only have to look at the graphs for people catching covid and the death rate to see that it was effective in keeping infections and deaths down. If the alternative is to leave the NHS to collapse and put us all in danger, it would be utterly selfish not to comply.

Sadly, as this thread shows, there are far too many selfish morons around

MrsSkylerWhite · 05/01/2026 11:19

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 05/01/2026 11:07

But people complied on the assumption that those making the rules were also complying, which proved not to be the case.

They’d be not trust another time, even though it’s a different government.

Speak for yourself! We complied because we didn’t want my vulnerable husband or our elderly parents - or anyone else’s - to die.

scalt · 05/01/2026 11:19

Clarefromwork · 05/01/2026 10:47

Did anyone else notice when the daily numbers went from those admitted to hospital with covid to then include those who just tested positive (including many asymptomatic cases) to create more fear.

Yep. The government moved the goalposts all the time, to keep the figures high and frightening. Similarly, I'm certain the confusion between "died of Covid" and "died with Covid" was deliberate. Didn't the number of covid deaths suddenly drop as well, when they moved the goalposts to define a covid death?

Because they tweaked things all the time, sometimes quite blatantly, this is why many of us believe that any government simply cannot be trusted with what they tell us. Lies and spin. I don't doubt the virus existed, but conveniently omitting to tell us when it was clear that it was not as bad as first thought... nobody in government had heard the story of the boy who cried wolf.

christmasnamechangeforthelotofthem · 05/01/2026 11:20

Bobiverse · 05/01/2026 07:51

All this “no one would comply” stuff is nonsense. If a new hemorrhagic fever with no cure started spreading around the world, you’d all be inside and isolating.

Well plenty (me included) didn’t comply the first time so why not?

absolutely blows my mind that people still believe all the lies that were told

flatfootedfred · 05/01/2026 11:20

If we had a full re-run of the Covid pandemic but with the benefit of 20-20 hindsight, we wouldn't lockdown in the same way as we'd know more about what was effective, what wasn't and the longer-term social and economic implications.

However, if we were to be dealing with a completely new pandemic of the same magnitude but a different virus and with different impacts, then who knows? We'd have the same knowledge from the last pandemic about social and economic impacts and behavioural insights into what people would/wouldn't comply with based on Covid. And a future virus could be substantially worse than Covid - as others have said if we were dealing with something with higher mortality or predominantly impacted children then behaviours would be hugely different.

EasternStandard · 05/01/2026 11:21

snowmichael · 05/01/2026 11:17

Sadly, as this thread shows, there are far too many selfish morons around

Lockdowns are not damage free. The selfish moron thing just isn’t useful. Most people complied.

Coralinescat · 05/01/2026 11:22

I would happily comply as an agoraphobic with a medically vulnerable child.

We got through the last lockdown. It gave me a break from "people".

Binus · 05/01/2026 11:22

Bold to assume that either a lockdown or social visits would be possible in the event of something like ebola. Both of those things presume the basic building blocks of society would still be functioning, are you quite sure about that?

edit- I keep ballsing up the quote function!

RafaistheKingofClay · 05/01/2026 11:23

Newbutoldfather · 05/01/2026 08:38

All the old ignorant fantasies are being wheeled out over and over again. The ignorance about science and scepticism about people with genuine scientific expertise is scary.

Limiting contact is the only way to control infectious disease until vaccination is available. It was done in one way or another since the time of the Black Death. Eyam famously isolated itself in the Black Death to save others from suffering.

The SIR/SEIR mathematical models are used to model epidemics and, although imperfect, work well. They are what inform the degree and type of lockdowns required.

COVID turned out to be (somewhat) less morbid than scientists first thought based on the Italian cluster, but that was the data available at the time. Nonetheless if large cities like London hadn’t locked down, hospitals would have been overwhelmed and we would have had people dying in pain at home and bodies in the street. There is very little doubt of that.

If a new disease came along, it would be just like COVID at the start, little known and understood and possibly far more lethal.

And, yes, of course people would comply. There are a lot of people on these threads who are very brave retrospectively but were very fearful at the time. If you thought you might die untreated of a nasty new virus, you would do your very best not to!

We have entered a new superstitious age where science and scientists are not respected. It is sad.

I also think that people are forgetting that the U.K. trebled its ICU capacity (not including the unused nightingales) and filled all of it in the winter of 2020/2021. We didn’t choose the second lockdown, Boris was forced into it by circumstances.

It’s very much in everyone’s interests for that not to happen because if you have an accident then you don’t really want the response to be ‘we don’t have capacity to treat you, and the contingency plan of using icu capacity in another country isn’t an option either.’

couldthisbe2501 · 05/01/2026 11:23

I think complying all depends on the type of illness. Would I comply with Covid 2.0? Absolutely not. The detrimental impact on my child from lockdown/isolation and children like him were devastating for an illness that wasn’t a massive concern for the vast majority of the public.

Black Death? Children dropping dead? Then of course I would comply as would, I suspect, 99% of the population.

fluffiphlox · 05/01/2026 11:25

Sesma · 05/01/2026 09:33

I bet you didn't have to work outside the house or enjoyed furlough

I am self-employed and didn’t get any work for six months and I wasn’t entitled to any government assistance. So you are incorrect in your assumption.
Eventually I started working online delivering training workshops. Fortunately we were mortgage-free.

snowmichael · 05/01/2026 11:25

MrMucker · 05/01/2026 08:48

During the lockdown I saw, a selfish streak to the human race which I hadn't known could exist., and this thread proves it's not only still there, but greater.

A lockdown is for everybody, for the greater good, and those who resist it are all about themselves. My children, my welfare my fun, my freedom. Me me me.

So sad about this aspect of the human race.

And the saddest part is that even today the morons think they were right, because they 'never got ill'

Binus · 05/01/2026 11:26

EasternStandard · 05/01/2026 11:21

Lockdowns are not damage free. The selfish moron thing just isn’t useful. Most people complied.

Yes, I'm not sure the people coming out with this like a comfort blanket realise how dim they sound.

Most people are some mixture of selfish and selfless, and the ones who are totally at either extreme aren't representative. People who want restrictions to protect them/loved ones are no better or worse than people who don't want restrictions because they/their loved ones were more vulnerable to lockdown. Calling people selfish doesn't work now because too many of us switched off, and we also have more understanding that both lockdown and not locking down mean fucking over some vulnerable people. You aren't morally better, or worse, for wanting to prioritise one group over the other.

AlecTrevelyan006 · 05/01/2026 11:26

We are all still literally paying the price for lockdown and there’s no way the country could afford universal furlough in the current economic climate.

BoredZelda · 05/01/2026 11:27

MrsRobinsonsHandprints · 05/01/2026 07:43

Of course people would comply if lots of children/young people were dying.

The reality is we locked down for the wrong illness

A novel virus that we had no idea how to deal with, that was multiple times more virulent than any other we had seen? That overloaded hospitals and saw bodies being held in makeshift morgues because there were so many? You think that was the wrong illness to lockdown for?

The reality is, it wasn’t lockdown that was the problem, it was a failure to properly plan how to lessen the spread and come out of lockdown. That’s why it went on so long and happened so often.

The testing and tracing regime was far too lax at the beginning, quarantine wasn’t enforced. Borders remained open for too long and even when “closed”still saw thousands of people entering the country.

I would have no issue with complying with any lockdown, but I would want to see a proper mitigation in place for how it was going to help.

snowmichael · 05/01/2026 11:27

EasternStandard · 05/01/2026 08:49

‘Too little’? So do more, such as?

Lockdown more firmly, much earlier

And morons who don't comply get herded into football stadiums with other morons and see how quickly they succumb

It could be the greatest boost to the country's average IQ since the banning of lead in petrol

tipsyraven · 05/01/2026 11:28

mynameiscalypso · 05/01/2026 07:48

It depends totally on the virus - if there was suddenly a highly infectious and deadly strain of Ebola in the UK, for example, I’d have no issue locking down personally.

I agree. I don’t see what the alternative is. There were over 200,000 deaths related to Covid and that was with lockdown. The hospitals wouldn’t have coped without it and we would have seen people literally dying while waiting to be admitted. I hated it. I felt isolated and the impact on those around me was profound but if a life threatening virus were to come around again I would go through it again.

Binus · 05/01/2026 11:29

snowmichael · 05/01/2026 11:27

Lockdown more firmly, much earlier

And morons who don't comply get herded into football stadiums with other morons and see how quickly they succumb

It could be the greatest boost to the country's average IQ since the banning of lead in petrol

Imagine thinking we've got the security infrastructure to pull anything like this off and calling someone else a moron!

BoredZelda · 05/01/2026 11:30

christmasnamechangeforthelotofthem · 05/01/2026 11:20

Well plenty (me included) didn’t comply the first time so why not?

absolutely blows my mind that people still believe all the lies that were told

Which lies?

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