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To go to the concert alone

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daugtherwantsashop · 03/01/2026 14:52

I like a particular kind of music that isn’t to everyone’s taste. When I was younger, I went to lots of local gigs in my home country, but I couldn’t afford to travel far or buy tickets for big bands. Then life got in the way.
I’ve been living in the UK for nearly 18 years, and during that time I didn’t think much about concerts, or even about music, compared to before. Then, about three years ago, a friend asked me to go to a huge concert — think of a very popular band. I had the time of my life.
Since then, I’ve been to four more big concerts. My husband has patiently come along with me, even though it’s not really his thing. Most concerts are in London, and the journey is long: it takes us about 3.5 hours to get to Cockfosters station, then about another hour to reach whichever venue we are goingto. We also have older electric cars that need charging twice on the way, which makes the trip even longer.
Now I want to see two bands performing together in London in a coupleofmonths. My husband has said he’s had enough, he doesn’t like the music and doesn’t really want to keep taking two days off work for this. That’s fair enough.
So my question is… would you go alone? I’m terrified of driving back on my own and also worried about getting from the venue to a hotel. I’m in my late 40s, if that makes any difference. Thank you for giving me some perspective 😊

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BlondeFool · 04/01/2026 11:47

Why don’t you get the train in rather than drive?

daugtherwantsashop · 04/01/2026 15:13

BlondeFool · 04/01/2026 11:47

Why don’t you get the train in rather than drive?

Super expensive from where I am unfortunately

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purplecorkheart · 07/01/2026 12:52

Does London have Park and Ride or similar. Then you could drive to the edge of the city, park up and get the train/tube/bus to where you want to go.

ladyamy · 07/01/2026 13:18

Absolutely go on your own!

daugtherwantsashop · 07/01/2026 15:55

purplecorkheart · 07/01/2026 12:52

Does London have Park and Ride or similar. Then you could drive to the edge of the city, park up and get the train/tube/bus to where you want to go.

That's exactly what I will do 😀

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