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To be shocked that not even one y4 child knew the meaning of the word velvet?

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Utterlybananas333 · 01/01/2026 17:09

My sister is a teacher in a South London primary school, she is a year four teacher of around 30 8 to 9-year-olds. She was recently describing her disbelief over the fact that not a single child knew what velvet meant? There were some crazy guesses, and lots of children who thought it was cake (probably relating to red velvet). Is it just the fact that children and adults don't talk anymore? That nobody reads anymore? Or even watches educational TV programs? Would your child know?

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TheKeatingFive · 01/01/2026 20:39

imabitjealousandembarassed · 01/01/2026 20:37

Everyone on here missing the point spectacularly which is only adding to the evidence that reading and comprehension of ideas and concepts are more necessary than ever

It's one word. It's not useful to draw conclusions based on one word.

beAsensible1 · 01/01/2026 20:40

The only time anyone wears velvet would most likely be Christmas & new years. So yes it’s understandable. Language moves on and evolves. There are many words we use that people 50 years ago wouldn’t know.

it’s evolution not stupidity

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 01/01/2026 20:40

SoftBalletShoes · 01/01/2026 20:39

51 and don't know any of those three. I do know what twill is, but is cavalry twill something different?

Cavalry twill has a ribbed effect.

xAwaywiththefairiesx · 01/01/2026 20:40

My Y3 8yo is in bed but I'm going to ask her in the morning.

I asked my 12yo who happened to be on headset with another 12yo and they very much know what velvet is and were surprised by the question.

imabitjealousandembarassed · 01/01/2026 20:41

TheKeatingFive · 01/01/2026 20:39

It's one word. It's not useful to draw conclusions based on one word.

That's not what I'm talking about

Switcher · 01/01/2026 20:41

Gosh. My DS has a red velvet Christmas dress. I got rid of my velvet dress but most people I know wear it at Christmas.

TheKeatingFive · 01/01/2026 20:41

imabitjealousandembarassed · 01/01/2026 20:41

That's not what I'm talking about

Well what are you talking about?

Didimum · 01/01/2026 20:41

katepilar · 01/01/2026 20:01

I find this shocking.

I asked my 8yr olds and one knew what it was, but maybe it is shocking. Still think it’s an increasingly niche word though.

AgnesMcDoo · 01/01/2026 20:41

Didimum · 01/01/2026 20:29

Swede and turnips are two different vegetables.

Agreed. Different colours and different flavours. I don’t like swedes but love turnip.

imabitjealousandembarassed · 01/01/2026 20:42

beAsensible1 · 01/01/2026 20:40

The only time anyone wears velvet would most likely be Christmas & new years. So yes it’s understandable. Language moves on and evolves. There are many words we use that people 50 years ago wouldn’t know.

it’s evolution not stupidity

Edited

It is used widely in a descriptive sense ..
I am LITERALLY looking at a book now about animals that says moles have a velvety feel

HoppityBun · 01/01/2026 20:42

What shocks me is velvet made from artificial fibres. That will never be velvet to me.

And I see your different textiles and raise you Barathea

imabitjealousandembarassed · 01/01/2026 20:43

TheKeatingFive · 01/01/2026 20:41

Well what are you talking about?

The fact that people are making the point that if a child hasn't got a velvet item, they will not know the word
This makes no logical sense at all in the context of conversation and reading

Scorchio84 · 01/01/2026 20:45

imabitjealousandembarassed · 01/01/2026 19:39

Does your kid know what a shark is ? Presumably you haven't got one of them either

😂😂

TheKeatingFive · 01/01/2026 20:47

imabitjealousandembarassed · 01/01/2026 20:43

The fact that people are making the point that if a child hasn't got a velvet item, they will not know the word
This makes no logical sense at all in the context of conversation and reading

But the point is about how broadly the word is used in general conversation and how useful it is in expressing ideas that the child finds valuable.

For a child who has little interest in describing fabric and has not come across velvet in real life, it's not of huge relevance. Even if they do see it in a book, it's less likely to stick.

Moveoverdarlin · 01/01/2026 20:48

My 6 year old has several velvet dresses she wears - especially this time of year. She would know exactly what it was.

xAwaywiththefairiesx · 01/01/2026 20:48

imabitjealousandembarassed · 01/01/2026 19:39

Does your kid know what a shark is ? Presumably you haven't got one of them either

I agree 😂😂😂

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 01/01/2026 20:48

Barathea. 100 years ago l was a designer. The factory l worked in used to make traffic warden coats out of barathea. It always made me sneeze.

Barathea is a nice fabric. No one knows what wynciette is anymore.

Love fabrics and names. Moufflant, moleskin, tissue taffeta, dupion, dobby, swiss, organdie.

imabitjealousandembarassed · 01/01/2026 20:48

TheKeatingFive · 01/01/2026 20:47

But the point is about how broadly the word is used in general conversation and how useful it is in expressing ideas that the child finds valuable.

For a child who has little interest in describing fabric and has not come across velvet in real life, it's not of huge relevance. Even if they do see it in a book, it's less likely to stick.

Good lord

It is widely used as a sensory descriptor. There's patches of it in those fucking that's not my cat it's too fluffy books
It's not bloody unicorn skin

Bepo77 · 01/01/2026 20:49

Differentforgirls · 01/01/2026 20:36

Velvet sofas? Beds? Doesn’t need to be clothing.

Who has a velvet bed? Austin Powers?!

ALittleDropOfRain · 01/01/2026 20:50

My 9yr old son knows and English isn’t his first or school language.

But he devours audio books and knows quite a lot about history.

DeepBlueDeer · 01/01/2026 20:50

I'm not shocked.

"Velvet" is a less common day to day word than it was but it's also true that children are exposed to less language than in generations past.

It isn't just that reading for pleasure is becoming a thing of a past, but people speak less.

Studies are only starting to emerge on the extent of the decline, but we do have one from the Uni or Arizona which suggests around a 20% drop in the number of words spoken by adults, per day, between 2005 and 2025 (I bet it would be an even bigger drop if you reached further back than 2005).

Children from "chattier" homes have always had wider vocabularies, and technology is increasingly replacing direct human interaction.

TheKeatingFive · 01/01/2026 20:51

imabitjealousandembarassed · 01/01/2026 20:48

Good lord

It is widely used as a sensory descriptor. There's patches of it in those fucking that's not my cat it's too fluffy books
It's not bloody unicorn skin

My children weren't particularly into those kind of books, tbf

Didimum · 01/01/2026 20:52

I don’t think it’s particularly fair for a generation to judge the known vocab range of the generation below it. The English language grows far more rapidly than it shrinks. English gains several thousand new words per year, and only a small fraction become truly obsolete in the same time frame.

The generation below you is literally exposed to far many more words than you are, and will likely know many words that you will not.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 01/01/2026 20:53

That’s stuff in baby books is micro fleece not velvet ( textile nerd here😁)

TheKeatingFive · 01/01/2026 20:54

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 01/01/2026 20:53

That’s stuff in baby books is micro fleece not velvet ( textile nerd here😁)

😂

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