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To not get the problem with fireworks and pets

375 replies

SoldTheMovieRights · 01/01/2026 00:30

There's fireworks going off next door but one and I can hear them, but just some small popping noises really and barely audible when we had the telly on earlier.

It's never been loud enough to wake or disturb DC.

However, local Facebook group for my village is full of posts complaining about fireworks and how they are traumatising pets. AIBU to not get it? If they are too quiet to disturb people why are they so bad for dogs (who would all be inside in the evening anyway?)?

Lots of people wanting them banned because of their dogs but I just don't get it, at worst it's a few mins of noise, a few nights a year, is it really that awful?

I have zero skin in the game as could never be bothered to do fireworks myself, but if my neighbours fancy it, crack on, I'll enjoy the show.

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Iocanepowder · 01/01/2026 07:39

They did wake up both my kids though. Diwali also went on for DAYS.

Hundslappadrifa · 01/01/2026 07:44

PragmaticIsh · 01/01/2026 00:37

If you own a pet you have a duty of care to train them to tolerate fireworks/sudden loud noises. It's negligent not to, for their sake.

However rescue pets may not be able to be trained. That's the tough part.

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Oh that it were so easy! Your comment is absolute bollocks, sorry.

Hundslappadrifa · 01/01/2026 07:45

Mahadevs · 01/01/2026 07:23

As a Hindu living in an urban area (so nothing to do with farms) I still do all my fireworks for Diwali. I finish at the legal time.

If a few pets get scared, it doesn't bother me.

You sound delightful

CurtsyFriends · 01/01/2026 07:49

It seems insane to me that when silent fireworks exist the noisy ones aren’t banned. And I say this as someone with pets that will
happily sit outside with fireworks going off and not worry - I have no skin the the game as such but no amount training will desensitise wild animals. They must be utterly petrified. Why should humans be able to scare them like this when there is an alternative?

Capital cities should lead the way with big silent displays.

Gingertam · 01/01/2026 07:50

X123x321X · 01/01/2026 05:19

This year it sounds like the place is being shelled. I've never heard fireworks this loud.

This is a good description. My neighbour had some and it's the first time I've felt like the house was being shelled. More fireworks here than bonfire night and going off at all times not just midnight. Poor cat spent the whole night under the bed. Loud fireworks should be banned. Selfish selfish people who do this.

TreeDudette · 01/01/2026 07:51

PragmaticIsh · 01/01/2026 00:37

If you own a pet you have a duty of care to train them to tolerate fireworks/sudden loud noises. It's negligent not to, for their sake.

However rescue pets may not be able to be trained. That's the tough part.

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How do I do that? I have had my dog his full 8 years of life. He is great with other dogs and people, walks well off lead, can stay home for half a day without wrecking the joint, rides in the car, sits silently
under tables at cafes… he’s well trained. He is terrified of loud percussive noises: fireworks, thunder and shooting. We’ve worked with the vet and tried all sorts of things (jackets, diffusers, desensitising, hidey-holes, etc.) Nothing works. My daughter has dental phobia and I can’t train her out of that either!

Would genuinely like any advice on how to help DDog as he is clearly distressed for many hours following even one loud percussive noise, even from a long distance.

PurpleCoo · 01/01/2026 07:51

I am a pet owner and I make sure my dogs aren't scared of fireworks. You can take steps so that they don't take any notice of them, or any other feared object. You make it part of their socialisation training as puppies. You make sure you buy your puppy from a reputable breeder who exposed them to different sounds/noises/triggers as young puppies. As a result, my dog is absolutely bomb proof, same as my last dog from the same breeder. It sounded like a war zone where I live, people were letting them off in the street outside my house and in multiple gardens. We were all in the garden, feet from the fireworks and he didn't bat an eyelid. Indeed he was mooching around sniffing at things as though nothing was going on.

That being said, if people have rescue dogs, they are far less likely to have had the proper socialisation and training and are less likely to be emotionally robust. Fireworks will cause distress to these dogs.

UniquePinkSwan · 01/01/2026 07:56

My dog has never been bothered by fireworks but I understand that some are

Iwishicouldflyhigh · 01/01/2026 07:57

Barnbrack · 01/01/2026 00:32

Ours go on for over half an hour and our dog is terrified, cowers. Whines. Barks awful for him but also wakes our kids and annoys our neighbours

I’m not an experienced doggy personality n. But we have a year old puppy and I anlways exposed her to fireworks and she comes with us to displays.

SleafordSods · 01/01/2026 07:58

I think there is a middle ground where fireworks can be sold to the public but only silent ones and only for very limited times during the year.

Missohnoyoubetterdont · 01/01/2026 07:58

I love a loud fire work. Part of the excitement is the noise. I also have pets. I keep them in and play loud music. They don’t seem to notice. As it’s only twice a year I’m not going to demand it stops for everyone even if my animals did find it difficult.

Blueuggboots · 01/01/2026 07:59

Dogs have much more sensitive hearing than humans.
the small pops aren’t the problem, it’s the massive bangs.

Hundslappadrifa · 01/01/2026 08:01

RitaFromThePitCanteen · 01/01/2026 02:02

Some people just don't like fireworks in any format and will use pets as an excuse. If we as a country eventually switch to drone shows, they will find something to complain about it relation to those, too. I think it's the concept of people celebrating that's the problem.

Oh don’t be so bloody stupid.

Barnbrack · 01/01/2026 08:02

Iwishicouldflyhigh · 01/01/2026 07:57

I’m not an experienced doggy personality n. But we have a year old puppy and I anlways exposed her to fireworks and she comes with us to displays.

We did the same with both our dogs, one was fine the other has this inate terror and you can't get past it. Massive unexpected bangs absolutely terroriser our now 10 yr old dog and it's gotten worse every year. It won't affect all animals, our last dog we could have taken to a bomb zone shed have wagged her tale. Not our current dog.

Sprogonthetyne · 01/01/2026 08:04

My cat may wake up and look around for a few seconds before going back to sleep, but doesn't seem to bother him anymore then other household noise, like kids playing or washing machine spin cycle.

Could the recent increase in nervous dog be due to more living in relatively quiet homes, and not being use to noise?

Mahadevs · 01/01/2026 08:04

Hundslappadrifa · 01/01/2026 07:45

You sound delightful

If people were dieing I'd care. The impact of fireworks on pets are minimal. A few animals getting scared doesn't bother me at all.

Barnbrack · 01/01/2026 08:04

PurpleCoo · 01/01/2026 07:51

I am a pet owner and I make sure my dogs aren't scared of fireworks. You can take steps so that they don't take any notice of them, or any other feared object. You make it part of their socialisation training as puppies. You make sure you buy your puppy from a reputable breeder who exposed them to different sounds/noises/triggers as young puppies. As a result, my dog is absolutely bomb proof, same as my last dog from the same breeder. It sounded like a war zone where I live, people were letting them off in the street outside my house and in multiple gardens. We were all in the garden, feet from the fireworks and he didn't bat an eyelid. Indeed he was mooching around sniffing at things as though nothing was going on.

That being said, if people have rescue dogs, they are far less likely to have had the proper socialisation and training and are less likely to be emotionally robust. Fireworks will cause distress to these dogs.

My last dog was bomb proof, we did all the same things with our current dog but fireworks, thunder storms and a few other things really terroriee him some dogs are more sensitive than others and you can't remove all fear, they're living animals.

101trees · 01/01/2026 08:05

TreeDudette · 01/01/2026 07:51

How do I do that? I have had my dog his full 8 years of life. He is great with other dogs and people, walks well off lead, can stay home for half a day without wrecking the joint, rides in the car, sits silently
under tables at cafes… he’s well trained. He is terrified of loud percussive noises: fireworks, thunder and shooting. We’ve worked with the vet and tried all sorts of things (jackets, diffusers, desensitising, hidey-holes, etc.) Nothing works. My daughter has dental phobia and I can’t train her out of that either!

Would genuinely like any advice on how to help DDog as he is clearly distressed for many hours following even one loud percussive noise, even from a long distance.

My dog is similar, but about thunder, not fireworks.

I've not fixed it so I'd also like to know a way which works.

But here's what I've tried. My vet gave me some drugs to mildly sedate him - these do work and he sleeps on them.

I find thunder really hard to manage because fireworks come at night when it is dark, so at least you are at home. Its hard to leave work because your dog is afraid of thunder ! So if I can't be home then I use the drugs and he just sleeps, but if I'm at home then I put his bed in the hallway which has no windows and turn music up loud. It seems to be more manageable that way. I also try not to 'baby' him (he's a giant labrador and literally pushes me over to sit in my lap with his nose under my arm) because that also seems to make him worse - it's like I'm saying it's scary too.

Also I tried playing the noise of thunder on my phone in the background, really quietly at first then gradually building it up, stopping before he got agitated. This didn't really work for thunder because he knows it's not real due to the lack of any atmospheric changes, but I can see it might work to desensitise firework noises.

Our dog isn't afraid of fireworks because we live near a rifle range and there is a lot of 'popping' sounds quite frequently, so unless it's super loud and next to our house (has happened and he was afraid), then fireworks don't bother him. This makes me think desensitisation might work if it was a careful intentional programme?

The fear of thunder only seems to be increasing... so if anyone has tips for that...

Barnbrack · 01/01/2026 08:06

Sprogonthetyne · 01/01/2026 08:04

My cat may wake up and look around for a few seconds before going back to sleep, but doesn't seem to bother him anymore then other household noise, like kids playing or washing machine spin cycle.

Could the recent increase in nervous dog be due to more living in relatively quiet homes, and not being use to noise?

Not in our house, I've 2 kids and one is sen and does a fair bit of unexpected shouting, whooping and jumping off furniture. Dog loves him. Fireworks are a specific type of lius and unexpected noise, as are thunderstorms which also come with atmospheric changes.

That said my super sensitive dog also alerts when elders is heading for a seizure and when I'm getting a migraine, also goes a bit nuts when my period is about to start. He's a sensitive chap.

Hundslappadrifa · 01/01/2026 08:09

Mahadevs · 01/01/2026 08:04

If people were dieing I'd care. The impact of fireworks on pets are minimal. A few animals getting scared doesn't bother me at all.

That says a lot about you.

Jackiepumpkinhead · 01/01/2026 08:09

What a weird post, something doesn’t bother you so others must be lying? Or you just had a boring Christmas and want some attention.

Nimbus3000 · 01/01/2026 08:11

SoldTheMovieRights · 01/01/2026 00:43

They'd be more frequent maybe, but surely you don't get louder fireworks in built up areas? So if it's the same distance away how would it be louder? Or do you mean that people on every side of you will be letting them off?

I did used to live city centre and still never experienced any volume that would disturb me at all.

Take on board that animals have different hearing but even so, I remember loads of home displays as a child but it seems only in the last decade or so that there's been an outcry about pets, which is what I don't get. Have the fireworks got louder?

I live in east London. Fireworks started at 9pm - smaller garden displays - at midnight they were going off for 30mins 360 degrees around us. There are some, which I think must be in the local park, that go off right over head - the windows were rattling! Not to mention the other displays - at least 4 within 1/2 mile radius. It's similar on bonfire night.

Our dog used to be fine in our old place (which was in a less residential area) but since we moved here and he is older, he's become terrified. He follows us around, paces constantly, can't relax, startles easily, doesn't want to use the garden.

It's not really an issue for NYE as we know to be in, but as pp said around diwali and bonfire night there are displays that go on for weeks and that makes it harder to plan.

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Bigminnie1 · 01/01/2026 08:12

PlutarchHeavensbee · 01/01/2026 00:35

It’s like a war zone where I am… it’s been going on for an hour and it’s fucking awful. OP - you obviously don’t have pets otherwise you’d understand. My cats are all cowering under the bed utterly terrified.

Exactly this- and it’s been going on since Diwali with a short break after 5th November and now. My poor dog is terrified.

OnlyReplyToIdiots · 01/01/2026 08:13

Lots of people saying “it’s like a war zone” who have clearly never been in an actual war zone.