DD is just about to turn 19
She is incredibly forthright and we've instilled having well formed opinions and being honest but not rude.
They are a bit thick socially. Funnily enough one runs a business, one is headhunted regularly and the other is high up in her career. But in terms of dealing with outsiders coming into the family it's almost like it offends them.
DD takes the piss about it a lot, she WhatsApped her best mate when we left the party about how she was four years younger and both were laughing. She knows they are ridiculous.
It's not about marrying down, my family weren't amazing. His are far more well to do than mine ever where. And DH has told them about their rudeness on a number of occasions. They just don't listen.
Most of the time we don't have much to do with them, we don't even invite them to things anymore as they always find an excuse or they're just rude. We don't attend things they host either because DD won't go, DS couldn't care if he does or doesn't, our hours are such we can't drop everything and travel round the country.
His BIL has never been this bad, clearly we weren't aware that he has deteriorated more in terms of common sense.
DH has now woken him up because I pointed out the mess and DD told him what he said to her. Apparently he also bitched at DS who shrugged and said "how would you know what me and DD do, you don't live here" . He's very relaxed that one.
DH told him nicking drink is disgusting, he's a lazy prick and it's time to go home today. BIL is packing his stuff up and is off this afternoon.
DD and DS are ordering a "celebratory take away" with their money, apparently and they've popped to the supermarket for stuff we've run out of. DD has been given cash to replace the wine by BIL who looks sorry for himself.
DH told him he has taken the piss, is rude and needs to sort his shit out.
He's assured me if the SILs ring, he will tell them it's not down to me.
He won't be coming again. No chance.