I’m a single mum on benefits.
currently I’m just sitting here in my 15 bedroom mansion, eating my plate of foie gras, caviar and oysters as a little snackie-poos while I choose my 5 star holidays - skiing in Val D’Isere in February, the Maldives for Easter - I haven’t decided where to go in the summer yet - any ideas??
Alternatively, in THE REAL WORLD, I’m trying to work out if I’ll actually be able to pay off any of my debts in 2026, or will I just have to add to them again to make sure my kids have food, a roof over their head etc.
I work full time - despite having a chronic medical condition that is life threatening, I am “not disabled enough” for PIP or any other disability benefits, my 2 neurodiverse kids are also “not disabled enough “ for additional support, my ex hasn’t worked since 2018 so hasn’t paid any child support in the 5 years we’ve been separated (I can’t actually afford to divorce him), my car is 17 years old and a wreck (but I need it because of my kids).
I have worked since I was 17 and am now 55 - that’s nearly 40 years of paying taxes and national insurance, so do I feel bad about being on benefits? Fuck off, I am entitled to them and am proud I am providing a decent home for my kids - the amount I get pays for only 3/4 of the rent by the way (oh, and my last holiday was 3 years ago - a week in Northumberland that my ex had actually paid for before we split, but kept getting delayed due to COVID)
£140k a year - don’t be daft!!