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Husband is insistent on joining trail hunt tomorrow

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FairViewRosie25 · 22/12/2025 22:30

Not happy. I know they trail hunt but they still take dogs and have their fair share of the sabs.

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BundleBoogie · 28/12/2025 23:57

flumpsfortea · 28/12/2025 23:10

Of course I know what it is. Do you? Do you acknowledge that foxes and other wildlife get caught up in it?

I do have an issue with negligent dog owners. A big pet peeve of mine actually and a big problem in society. But not comparable to people doing this for sport.

While I realise it’s trail hunting that’s been discussed, would you be ok with the sight of a fox being ripped apart should it ‘accidentally’ get caught up in one?

Do you acknowledge that foxes and other wildlife get caught up in it?

This happens occasionally. It is often inadvertent and most hunts operate entirely within the law.

I agree that the issue of out of control dogs is nit comparable though - the vast scale of killings through utter ignorance and incompetence far outstrips the few foxes unlawfully killed each year.

I’m not ok with the sight of any animals getting ripped apart, be that our cat that was killed by a fox or my friends ducks that were picked off one by one by a fox or a fox itself. Trail hunting is not fox hunting though. If you accept a million+ ‘accidents’ by dog owners, why won’t you accept a few accidents by hunts?

GoodQueenWenceslaus · 28/12/2025 23:58

1dayatatime · 28/12/2025 23:52

But what about if you kill a rat for hygiene and are pleased or even happy once it's finally been done because say it's been a problem for a while?

These stupid "what about" questions are so feeble. The issue is actually enjoying and making a sport out of the process of watching an animal get hunted down and going through the process of being killed. It has nothing to do with being satisfied that a necessary job has been done in killing pests. It's not as if anyone is there encouraging the pest controller to get dressed up, go through a long drawn-out process of hunting, terrorising and chasing the rat and then cheering them on whilst they tear the rat apart, is it?

IWantToSneeze · 28/12/2025 23:58

GoodQueenWenceslaus · 28/12/2025 23:54

Killing animals for fun is generally regarded as a potential sign of psychopathy.

But it's alright if you outsource it, right? Then you don't have to think about it. You just decide you want fried chicken that night.

KittyEckersley · 29/12/2025 00:00

I read the report and am shocked at the high numbers of ‘hunt havoc’. There aren’t that many hunts and they’re not every weekend, so aside from the cruelty of foxes/hares being killed, it isn’t a sport I would support. If other sports were so antisocial, they would be banned.

You don’t get running clubs taking runners onto railway tracks or regularly trespassing on private land. If there are cycle races they have to work with the council to produce risk assessments on open/closed roads. Do hunts have to go through those loopholes, considering the number of people and horses, and the impact on the public?

Erin1975 · 29/12/2025 00:00

Tattiana · 28/12/2025 22:25

To be fair no one needs to be hunting for food in the UK 🫤

Actually the opposite is true. Deer numbers are increasing because human wiped out all the predators and so we could do with more people going deer stalking.

IWantToSneeze · 29/12/2025 00:01

GoodQueenWenceslaus · 28/12/2025 23:58

These stupid "what about" questions are so feeble. The issue is actually enjoying and making a sport out of the process of watching an animal get hunted down and going through the process of being killed. It has nothing to do with being satisfied that a necessary job has been done in killing pests. It's not as if anyone is there encouraging the pest controller to get dressed up, go through a long drawn-out process of hunting, terrorising and chasing the rat and then cheering them on whilst they tear the rat apart, is it?

Rats are killed by making them bleed to death from inside. Because humans don't like sharing space with rats. So that is fine, is it?

BundleBoogie · 29/12/2025 00:01

GoodQueenWenceslaus · 28/12/2025 23:11

Where do you get the 2.4 million figure from? Google puts it at more like 20K. Still too many, but hardly comparable. Plus it's very firmly illegal, to the extent that it's a full defence to any charge resulting from killing a dog that a farmer had reasonable cause to believe that the dog was attacking or about to attack their animals - so the law doesn't condone killing by dogs whether through hunting or in other contexts.

Yes, thanks for noticing. I should have interrogated the numbers more closely. The NFU says it’s a value if £2.4 million worth of animals. At approx £100 per sheep (quite a common prey for pet dogs) that’s about 24,000 animals. Plus the 64,000 other dogs and some humans. Utterly horrific.

DoIdriveaVauxhallZafira · 29/12/2025 00:01

IWantToSneeze · 28/12/2025 23:47

I do not find this hypothetical being "torn to shreds" of foxes entertaining. Because luckily, that is not what a trail hunt does.

What I am keen to try and find out is the difference between cats killing literally millions of birds each year for sport, the concept of hounds being animals of human use (like cows or sheep), and killing rats. Because apparently how you feel about it makes all the difference.

I'd be really careful of the "how you feel about it" line if I were you.

Cats are not solely responsible for the decline of our native bird species. Nor do they have a human concept of "sport" however much we may causally choose to assign them anthropomorphic characteristics.

Hounds are not farm animals like cattle are, either. If you really do consider them no different from beasts bred for the food industry then sadly, yes, they are likely to be culled due to a drop in demand.

Do I think that's right? Not particularly, no, but then for a start I recognise them as being a distinctly different group to cows & sheep.

Rats are vermin in the most widely recognised sense the world over, a notorious public health risk. Yes this means there are companies such as Renokil in existence.

Having been raised in the country and lived in urban centres I recognise foxes for what they are, and what they do, and they are not rats.

GoodQueenWenceslaus · 29/12/2025 00:03

IWantToSneeze · 28/12/2025 23:56

Exactly. You have expressed it more eloquently that I have been.

The most horrific animal killing I have seen recently was a local pet cat running into and up a bush outside our kitchen, grabbing a baby bird, and running off with it. The adult birds went nuts. But the baby was gone, dragged away by somebody's Tiddles. Who would no doubt produce it for his human owners as some sort of offering.

More horrific than watching an exhausted fox or hare get hunted down and torn apart by a pack of hounds?

How many cat owners actively encourage them to hunt birds? In my experience, most seem to discourage it by neutering cats, putting bells round their necks etc.

BundleBoogie · 29/12/2025 00:04

flumpsfortea · 28/12/2025 23:12

I agree but dog ownership is not the issue being discussed here. Trail hunting is a blatant ruse for fox hunting in many cases. It astonishes me that people who do this for fun still exist, it’s medieval. A bit like how everyone used to turn out to witness a public hanging or flogging. Deriving entertainment from another’s suffering, except in this case it’s an innocent animal not a criminal. Just mind boggling to me.

You are making quite serious accusations of unlawful behaviour against a lot of people you have never met here. Are you sure you can back that up with evidence? The hunt monitors can’t seem to dredge up any more.

GoodQueenWenceslaus · 29/12/2025 00:05

BundleBoogie · 29/12/2025 00:01

Yes, thanks for noticing. I should have interrogated the numbers more closely. The NFU says it’s a value if £2.4 million worth of animals. At approx £100 per sheep (quite a common prey for pet dogs) that’s about 24,000 animals. Plus the 64,000 other dogs and some humans. Utterly horrific.

The actual figure given was 18-20,000. Agreed, it is still too many, but no-one condones any of it as legal, let alone encourages it as a sport.

IWantToSneeze · 29/12/2025 00:06

DoIdriveaVauxhallZafira · 29/12/2025 00:01

I'd be really careful of the "how you feel about it" line if I were you.

Cats are not solely responsible for the decline of our native bird species. Nor do they have a human concept of "sport" however much we may causally choose to assign them anthropomorphic characteristics.

Hounds are not farm animals like cattle are, either. If you really do consider them no different from beasts bred for the food industry then sadly, yes, they are likely to be culled due to a drop in demand.

Do I think that's right? Not particularly, no, but then for a start I recognise them as being a distinctly different group to cows & sheep.

Rats are vermin in the most widely recognised sense the world over, a notorious public health risk. Yes this means there are companies such as Renokil in existence.

Having been raised in the country and lived in urban centres I recognise foxes for what they are, and what they do, and they are not rats.

I'd be really careful of the "how you feel about it" line if I were you.

On the contrary. That is the most important line. Because how you feel about killing an animal is what this is all about.

Hounds are not farm animals like cattle are, either. If you really do consider them no different from beasts bred for the food industry then sadly, yes, they are likely to be culled due to a drop in demand.

Hounds are totally like cattle. They are there for a reason. They are not pets. But because people have dogs as pets, they get a bit emotionally confused about hounds.

Rats are vermin in the most widely recognised sense the world over, a notorious public health risk. Yes this means there are companies such as Renokil in existence.

Because it suits humans to kill the rats.

Having been raised in the country and lived in urban centres I recognise foxes for what they are, and what they do, and they are not rats.

They pretty much are, in urban areas. Just bigger ones.

DoIdriveaVauxhallZafira · 29/12/2025 00:06

IWantToSneeze · 29/12/2025 00:01

Rats are killed by making them bleed to death from inside. Because humans don't like sharing space with rats. So that is fine, is it?

Rats are killed by making them bleed to death from inside

No, this is not "fine"

Because humans don't like sharing space with rats
Respectfully, I suggest you do some reading if you think the need to manage the wild rat population is because we "don't like sharing space" with them.

BundleBoogie · 29/12/2025 00:06

PickleSarnie · 28/12/2025 23:13

Literally no one eats foxes (or hares, cats, people's pet dogs etc) that have been ripped to bits by a pack of hounds (that had to be trained to rip animals to bits. It's not their natural instinct)

It's not in anyway hypocritical to be okay with eating meat that has been bred and kept and killed in as a humane a way as possible but not be okay with having a fox chased across fields, terrified, then ripped to bits by hounds all as part of a jolly day out.

If trail hunting genuinely wasn't chasing foxes. Then why do I see the hired heavies with masks, quad bikes and terrier boxes drive past everytime a hunt gathers in my village?

If trail hunting genuinely wasn't chasing foxes. Then why do I see the hired heavies with masks, quad bikes and terrier boxes drive past everytime a hunt gathers in my village?

What have the guys on quad bikes got to do with foxes? Do you have evidence that all hunts are acting unlawfully?

flumpsfortea · 29/12/2025 00:07

BundleBoogie · 28/12/2025 23:57

Do you acknowledge that foxes and other wildlife get caught up in it?

This happens occasionally. It is often inadvertent and most hunts operate entirely within the law.

I agree that the issue of out of control dogs is nit comparable though - the vast scale of killings through utter ignorance and incompetence far outstrips the few foxes unlawfully killed each year.

I’m not ok with the sight of any animals getting ripped apart, be that our cat that was killed by a fox or my friends ducks that were picked off one by one by a fox or a fox itself. Trail hunting is not fox hunting though. If you accept a million+ ‘accidents’ by dog owners, why won’t you accept a few accidents by hunts?

Hunts aren’t necessary. They are outdated and cause numerous other anti social issues aside from the horrific killing of foxes which does happen, probably much more often than you’d be happy to admit.

And yes before you say it, dog ownership isn’t necessary either and I believe there should be stricter sanctions around dog ownership in this country. Every day there is a thread on here about some drama involving an off lead or out of control dog. It is a far bigger problem in terms of scale and is therefore much harder to tackle.

I would welcome a ban on trail hunting and I’d welcome stricter laws on dog ownership.

DoIdriveaVauxhallZafira · 29/12/2025 00:07

IWantToSneeze · 29/12/2025 00:06

I'd be really careful of the "how you feel about it" line if I were you.

On the contrary. That is the most important line. Because how you feel about killing an animal is what this is all about.

Hounds are not farm animals like cattle are, either. If you really do consider them no different from beasts bred for the food industry then sadly, yes, they are likely to be culled due to a drop in demand.

Hounds are totally like cattle. They are there for a reason. They are not pets. But because people have dogs as pets, they get a bit emotionally confused about hounds.

Rats are vermin in the most widely recognised sense the world over, a notorious public health risk. Yes this means there are companies such as Renokil in existence.

Because it suits humans to kill the rats.

Having been raised in the country and lived in urban centres I recognise foxes for what they are, and what they do, and they are not rats.

They pretty much are, in urban areas. Just bigger ones.

You really should educate yourself more widely.

flumpsfortea · 29/12/2025 00:08

IWantToSneeze · 29/12/2025 00:06

I'd be really careful of the "how you feel about it" line if I were you.

On the contrary. That is the most important line. Because how you feel about killing an animal is what this is all about.

Hounds are not farm animals like cattle are, either. If you really do consider them no different from beasts bred for the food industry then sadly, yes, they are likely to be culled due to a drop in demand.

Hounds are totally like cattle. They are there for a reason. They are not pets. But because people have dogs as pets, they get a bit emotionally confused about hounds.

Rats are vermin in the most widely recognised sense the world over, a notorious public health risk. Yes this means there are companies such as Renokil in existence.

Because it suits humans to kill the rats.

Having been raised in the country and lived in urban centres I recognise foxes for what they are, and what they do, and they are not rats.

They pretty much are, in urban areas. Just bigger ones.

So can you please tell us how you feel about foxes being killed in a horrible way for sport? None of this whataboutery or comparisons to rats or cats.

Why are you finding it so difficult to answer?

GoodQueenWenceslaus · 29/12/2025 00:12

IWantToSneeze · 29/12/2025 00:01

Rats are killed by making them bleed to death from inside. Because humans don't like sharing space with rats. So that is fine, is it?

Large-scale rat infestations are dealt with that way, via single use quick acting poisons. It's the most human way of dealing with that issue. And, yet again, no-one is making a sport out of it or having fun watching them get torn apart. We have to deal with rat infestations as they spread dangerous diseases. Hunters don't have to exterminate the foxes, deer and hares that get killed by so-called trail hunts.

Teacaketravesty · 29/12/2025 00:12

It’s ok to have different views to your husband. You can disagree vehemently and still find enough in common to have a good relationship. I’m a privileged townie who doesn’t get close to animals beyond petting dogs and feeding birds but I understand other people live differently.

IWantToSneeze · 29/12/2025 00:13

flumpsfortea · 29/12/2025 00:08

So can you please tell us how you feel about foxes being killed in a horrible way for sport? None of this whataboutery or comparisons to rats or cats.

Why are you finding it so difficult to answer?

This thread is about trail hunting.

However, my interest is in how people have decided that how we feel about killing animals is the important thing. I kill a rat by making it bleed internally? That's OK. I shoot a pheasant for fun? That's bad!!!

What we are talking about here, is hypocrisy. If I kill, or subcontract the killing of, an animal because I want a KFC or a steak, that's fine. Even though the eating is fun. But if somebody else kills an animal for fun, that is BAD!! But if they kill the same type of animal for hygiene, that is GOOD!!

IWantToSneeze · 29/12/2025 00:14

GoodQueenWenceslaus · 29/12/2025 00:12

Large-scale rat infestations are dealt with that way, via single use quick acting poisons. It's the most human way of dealing with that issue. And, yet again, no-one is making a sport out of it or having fun watching them get torn apart. We have to deal with rat infestations as they spread dangerous diseases. Hunters don't have to exterminate the foxes, deer and hares that get killed by so-called trail hunts.

Oh, you're going to have to read up on deer. There is an infestation.

FuzzyFelt85 · 29/12/2025 00:14

BundleBoogie · 28/12/2025 23:57

Do you acknowledge that foxes and other wildlife get caught up in it?

This happens occasionally. It is often inadvertent and most hunts operate entirely within the law.

I agree that the issue of out of control dogs is nit comparable though - the vast scale of killings through utter ignorance and incompetence far outstrips the few foxes unlawfully killed each year.

I’m not ok with the sight of any animals getting ripped apart, be that our cat that was killed by a fox or my friends ducks that were picked off one by one by a fox or a fox itself. Trail hunting is not fox hunting though. If you accept a million+ ‘accidents’ by dog owners, why won’t you accept a few accidents by hunts?

It happens frequently. Because the humans have specifically trained the hounds to chase the scent of foxes and kill them.

AlastheDaffodils · 29/12/2025 00:16

What this thread shows is that the debate about hunting isn’t actually about animals at all. It’s about people. Most of the vehement anti-hunters on the thread have accepted that humans do many uncontroversial things (pet ownership, rat killing, meat eating) that result in equal or greater animal suffering to fox hunting (even the illegal fox-killing kind). But the difference is whether they’re done for direct pleasure or not.

Obviously a dying animal doesn’t care whether it’s being killed for the pleasure of the hunt or the pleasure of fried chicken or the convenience of a rat-free home. But people care passionately about fox hunting in a way they don’t about those other forms of animal suffering. Because it’s not about the animals at all. It’s about the humans, and which activities we believe to be edifying or degrading for humans to enjoy.

IWantToSneeze · 29/12/2025 00:18

AlastheDaffodils · 29/12/2025 00:16

What this thread shows is that the debate about hunting isn’t actually about animals at all. It’s about people. Most of the vehement anti-hunters on the thread have accepted that humans do many uncontroversial things (pet ownership, rat killing, meat eating) that result in equal or greater animal suffering to fox hunting (even the illegal fox-killing kind). But the difference is whether they’re done for direct pleasure or not.

Obviously a dying animal doesn’t care whether it’s being killed for the pleasure of the hunt or the pleasure of fried chicken or the convenience of a rat-free home. But people care passionately about fox hunting in a way they don’t about those other forms of animal suffering. Because it’s not about the animals at all. It’s about the humans, and which activities we believe to be edifying or degrading for humans to enjoy.

Very nicely put.

MrsCreek · 29/12/2025 00:21

AlastheDaffodils · 28/12/2025 23:51

This is an interesting debate. Pet cats kill millions of birds in the UK every year - often baby ones who can’t fly yet. Pet cats are mostly owned for pleasure. If they weren’t wanted, they wouldn’t be bred and so wouldn’t exist, and the wild bird population would be much healthier.

So as an owner of a cat (which is allowed outside) you do have to accept that baby birds are being killed for your pleasure, albeit indirectly You don’t see it (mostly) and I’m sure most pet owners would rather their cats didn’t kill. But they’ve still made a decision that will (probably) result in multiple wild creatures being pointlessly killed.

It’s similar to the meat eating debate. Most of us, by our choices, show ourselves to be perfectly happy for animals to suffer for our pleasure. We’d just rather not see it. We make ourselves feel better by judging people who do choose to see it.

Spot on

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