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I had no idea I was this petty

89 replies

RidiculousCar · 21/12/2025 12:06

Yesterday I was pulling into a parking space next to a huge Range Rover when the driver opens his door, gets out, leaves the door open and just stands there. I wait patiently for him to move on but he doesn’t. Then a teen child gets out the back and does the same thing, both can see I’m halfway into the space. Then a woman gets out from the other side and moves round towards her companions, I’m thinking, thank goodness, she’s going to ask them to close their doors and move so I can park. She comes and stands in the space, looks at me like I’m something unpleasant she’s just stepped in, and starts looking at her phone. I will add, this was not a disabled space and all three of them had excellent mobility.
I was picking someone up and there was another space a bit further down, so I moved along to that one. If one of them had something to me—“Sorry, do you mind moving along as we need extra space for our massive car.”—rather than acting like they own the place, I wouldn’t have minded, but the sheer disdain got to me (and the fact that they were teaching this to their child).
AIBU to wish I’d had the time to just wait there and see how long it took them to give up and move, then pettily park as close as possible to their car? Or to wish I’d had the minerals to just lean on my car horn until their ears bled?

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2026YearOfTheNo · 21/12/2025 12:09

I’m disappointed. I thought you’d parked up and let your car door open aggressively and put a chip in theirs or you’d got your handbag with the metal studs on it, and let it drag down the side of their car.

That would be petty and it’s not something I’d ever do, honest 😂

PrincessArora · 21/12/2025 12:10

I’m also disappointed. I would absolutely have gone back to that space, reversed in so I could get out and gone into the shops

OvernightBloats · 21/12/2025 12:11

Pity them! They obviously get their kicks out of doing petty things like this. Saddos.

FeralWoman · 21/12/2025 12:12

Entitled wankers.

CeffylCoch · 21/12/2025 12:12

Why did you move? I would have let them stand there

TheAutumnCrow · 21/12/2025 12:13

CeffylCoch · 21/12/2025 12:12

Why did you move? I would have let them stand there

I don’t understand?

TheTowerAtMidnight · 21/12/2025 12:16

You should have just kept moving forward into the space, they would soon have closed the doors and moved out the way then!

RidiculousCar · 21/12/2025 12:16

2026YearOfTheNo · 21/12/2025 12:09

I’m disappointed. I thought you’d parked up and let your car door open aggressively and put a chip in theirs or you’d got your handbag with the metal studs on it, and let it drag down the side of their car.

That would be petty and it’s not something I’d ever do, honest 😂

Edited

😂love this and wish I had done it!

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Greenqueen40 · 21/12/2025 12:16

Yabu for moving

Livelovelaughfuckoff · 21/12/2025 12:17

I would have beeped them out the way not found another space

CeffylCoch · 21/12/2025 12:17

TheAutumnCrow · 21/12/2025 12:13

I don’t understand?

I would have sat in the car until they moved

whatdoyourdoggoswant · 21/12/2025 12:17

I read you title as ‘I had no idea I was this pretty’ - took me ages of trying to work out what in the story made you suddenly aware of your good looks before I realised 😂

Cigarette · 21/12/2025 12:17

Oh, I thought you hadn’t realised you were ‘this pretty’!

RidiculousCar · 21/12/2025 12:17

CeffylCoch · 21/12/2025 12:12

Why did you move? I would have let them stand there

I had to be somewhere to pick up a family member

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KissMyArt · 21/12/2025 12:18

It's weird that winding your window down and asking them to close the car doors doesn't feature as an option?

ChristmasHug · 21/12/2025 12:18

Friend told me similar. He was reversed halfway into a space when driver got out and left his door open and went to the other side of the car.

Similar stand off for awhile then friend finishes pulling his tiny car into space right up to car door, gets out and leaves.

He said it must have taken the driver a while to realise he couldn't shut his door, he was nearly in the shop when he caught up.

Played dumb but did go back.

RidiculousCar · 21/12/2025 12:19

Cigarette · 21/12/2025 12:17

Oh, I thought you hadn’t realised you were ‘this pretty’!

Sadly, no. I am no oil painting. Just small minded 😂

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Owly11 · 21/12/2025 12:20

What? How were you petty?! You didn't even ask them to move!!

Coconutter24 · 21/12/2025 12:21

I don’t understand your title?

JudgeBread · 21/12/2025 12:21

I'd have sat there leaning on the horn, I'm a petty so and so and I have absolutely no shame when it comes to stuff like this. To my husband's constant chagrin 😁

RidiculousCar · 21/12/2025 12:26

KissMyArt · 21/12/2025 12:18

It's weird that winding your window down and asking them to close the car doors doesn't feature as an option?

It was obvious to me that they would likely tell me to fuck off. If they can’t take the hint of me driving into their car space, I don’t think they’d care if I asked.

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RidiculousCar · 21/12/2025 12:28

Coconutter24 · 21/12/2025 12:21

I don’t understand your title?

Yeah, sorry, it should have said “I WISH I was this petty!”

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Cigarette · 21/12/2025 12:30

RidiculousCar · 21/12/2025 12:19

Sadly, no. I am no oil painting. Just small minded 😂

Oh, I thought maybe you’d caught sight of yourself in the wing mirror and suddenly realised you were gorgeous, and the Range Rover driver said ‘You look like a goddess when you’re angry!’ Or something.😀

RidiculousCar · 21/12/2025 12:31

Owly11 · 21/12/2025 12:20

What? How were you petty?! You didn't even ask them to move!!

You are right. I was fantasising about being petty.
In reality I was very meek and just let them intimidate me.

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SummerInSun · 21/12/2025 12:31

RidiculousCar · 21/12/2025 12:26

It was obvious to me that they would likely tell me to fuck off. If they can’t take the hint of me driving into their car space, I don’t think they’d care if I asked.

But you don’t know. That was the obvious thing to do. I would have oozed politeness. And if they were genuinely just clues idiots, they would have moved. But if not, it takes a lot of balls to say to your face that they won’t.