Im worried my partner is going to come in from a works night out and think he’s entitled to sex

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He is going to come in and think he is entitled to sex, is this normal? I read the question back and it’s a no

He’s never entitled to sex, doesn’t matter where he’s been.

It's normal for him to want to have sex and hope it might happen, but to expect it or take it as a given -no. He's not making you is he OP? That's not ok.

No man is entitled to sex, ever.

Absolutely not at all. This is a huge alarm bell OP. I hope you are ok. Please speak about this to somebody you trust.

Wanting sex may be normal, but feeling entitled? No of course that's not normal. Why did you ask? Has he raped you before?

It was 'normal' for my ex which the reason he's an ex but no, it's not normal and it is abusive.

It would be normal for him to want it. Not for him to be "entitled" to it. The way you've phrased the question is bizarre. Do you feel pressured into giving him sex when you don't want to?

What? What is the connection between the works night out and sex? Does he take you with him? I mean sitting at home alone all evening and then having your partner arriving home gone midnight pissed out of his mind wanting sex is hardly appealing is it? It would be a no from me.

No person is entitled to sex, ever.

Fixed it for you.

Whilst I agree no one is entitled ”fixed it for you” is such a knobbish thing to write.

No, as you’ve realised yourself it isn’t normal. No man is entitled to sex.

Are you on your own at home?

Why have you "fixed" a sentence that wasn't incorrect?

The poster was right as no man is entitled to sex.

He isn't entitled to sex ever
Does he make you feel like you have to agree to it? Are you safe?

No, he's not entitled to help himself to your body whenever he feels like it, and particularly not if you don't want to.

The OP is referring to a man so no need for the ‘gotcha’ really is there? 🙄

Sweetie, of course he’s not.

Are you safe? Do you feel you need to leave? Do you have anywhere to go?

Who is at home with you? Do you have DC there?
Talk to us on here. There's support for you

Are you safe?

Ugh nothing worse than being slobbered over by a drunk. Tell him hes sleeping on the couch

There’s always one 🙄

hope you’re ok OP

Is this a standard thing for him, OP? Does he go on nights out, and then come home expecting you to be “ready” for him?

This conversation is about a man expecting sex, so you “fixed” absolutely nothing.

Entitled? To your body however he wants it? Ugh, no, of course not

Anyone may feel in the mood but sex is consensual and nobody is entitled to get it. Pressure isn’t willing consent.

No one is ever entitled to sex.

If you are worried about this, that’s a problem.