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To think if I’m paying for charging my EV, I shouldn’t pay to park?

124 replies

IronicallyNC · 16/12/2025 09:04

First world problems…

But why in certain car parks that have EV facilities, you still have to pay for parking? I’m already paying to charge. I understand the electricity is provided by someone else and not the car park owners, but most EV chargers have a clause to say you can’t over stay the charging time, so it’s not like people actually use it as a parking space, it’s to use a service.

AIBU to think this should be an exception? Or at least worked in to the charging price.

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SerendipityJane · 16/12/2025 12:22

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 16/12/2025 12:19

'I understand the electricity is provided by someone else and not the car park owners'

I think you have answered your own question.
The car park owners would ask why should they provide free parking spaces for electricity suppliers, who make a profit from charging electric vehicles?

If the government were serious about EVs, they'd have devised a way to incentivise the collaboration between parking and charging.

But they aren't so they don't.

IronicallyNC · 16/12/2025 12:23

KimberleyClark · 16/12/2025 12:21

Many people go to a pump, then go inside and look for snacks for the drive, pick their dinner from the mini supermarket inside, browse magazines or pick up a card and flowers for someone alongside paying for fuel. And they don’t pay for parking.

Leaving your car parked at the pump while they do something more than pay for petrol is not generally considered acceptable behaviour though.

I suppose charging your EV is demonic behaviour.

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Ifailed · 16/12/2025 12:25

Many people go to a pump, then go inside and look for snacks for the drive, pick their dinner from the mini supermarket inside, browse magazines or pick up a card and flowers for someone alongside paying for fuel. And they don’t pay for parking.

But most people don’t. Pay at the pump accounts for the largest portion of fuel sales.

BettysRoasties · 16/12/2025 12:29

If it’s a paid for parking space then you pay to park. You just have the perk you can also fill up your car at your chosen parked space.

You don’t park up your petrol car and go shopping for half an hour. You fill up might grab something from the shop and leave.

Ev you can park up plug in and do your weeks shop, go for a meal or whatever. Big difference.

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 16/12/2025 12:30

IronicallyNC · 16/12/2025 12:21

Because the charging company pay the car park to host their charging spaces. So the landowner gets paid for those spaces being unavailable to their customers, while also profiting from the charger customers.

Fair enough then.

MoonriseKingdom · 16/12/2025 12:30

Are you often in this situation? I’ve only charged at a payable car park when actually needing car parking in the area. Otherwise would be looking to charge somewhere like a Lidl where there’s no parking charge. I know it can be variable from area to area but so much more options these days.
I imagine if you didn’t pay the parking they would take more from the charging companies. You’d end up paying more on the charging costs so they’d get their money anyway.

Elbowpatch · 16/12/2025 12:31

olderbutwiser · 16/12/2025 09:16

Another ev owner here and it was a surprise to me too. Like if a petrol station charged you a parking fee as well as for the petrol. Especially when you know the car park owner is getting paid by the Ev charger company to host their charger, and the charger company are charging you 10x more than you pay to charge your car at home.

The cost of out of home ev charging is a massive brake on the ev market. Plenty of chargers, but at massively inflated pricing.

Petrol stations aren’t car parks and it takes minutes not hours to fill up a petrol tank.

Jijithecat · 16/12/2025 12:35

If you don't like it, avoid using those car parks.

We have loads of on street EV charging points in our area. They're in prime positions taking away much needed on street parking. I've more often seen electric vehicles parking in those spaces than I have seen them being used to charge vehicles.

If you didn't need to pay for parking in these car parks as well, I imagine people would take advantage and leave their vehicles in these spaces whilst they're off shopping. I imagine this would be very frustrating if you're in desperate need of charging your vehicle.

IronicallyNC · 16/12/2025 13:02

MoonriseKingdom · 16/12/2025 12:30

Are you often in this situation? I’ve only charged at a payable car park when actually needing car parking in the area. Otherwise would be looking to charge somewhere like a Lidl where there’s no parking charge. I know it can be variable from area to area but so much more options these days.
I imagine if you didn’t pay the parking they would take more from the charging companies. You’d end up paying more on the charging costs so they’d get their money anyway.

Three times in the last 3 years, so it’s not a massive deal in the grand scheme of things, but it does make me wonder. I did say somewhere upthread that it usually happens in the most inconvenient of times.

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IronicallyNC · 16/12/2025 13:03

Jijithecat · 16/12/2025 12:35

If you don't like it, avoid using those car parks.

We have loads of on street EV charging points in our area. They're in prime positions taking away much needed on street parking. I've more often seen electric vehicles parking in those spaces than I have seen them being used to charge vehicles.

If you didn't need to pay for parking in these car parks as well, I imagine people would take advantage and leave their vehicles in these spaces whilst they're off shopping. I imagine this would be very frustrating if you're in desperate need of charging your vehicle.

That’s where PCNs should be enforced. Not charging? See ya 👋🏻

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IsItSnowing · 16/12/2025 13:20

I'm an ec driver but I don't get it, sorry. Mostly ev charging isn't somewhere we need to pay to park but if it is then we pay. Usually it is inner city car parks where everyone else has to pay so why not?
To be honest, if it was free, you would probably get people overstaying or parking their ev in the charger even though they didn't need to charge.

Bellavida99 · 16/12/2025 18:00

I. Always charge my car at home but if it was free while charging I’d plug my car in and not click charge just to get a free parking space. Would that work? I’ve never charged it anywhere chargeable

CautiousLurker2 · 16/12/2025 18:36

Because the parking charge goes to one company (who operate the land/car park), and the money earned from charging your vehicle will go to another company (who also probably pay a charge for operating on that land). Two different transactions.

IronicallyNC · 16/12/2025 18:46

Bellavida99 · 16/12/2025 18:00

I. Always charge my car at home but if it was free while charging I’d plug my car in and not click charge just to get a free parking space. Would that work? I’ve never charged it anywhere chargeable

It wouldn’t, because the charger displays whether the charge is in progress or not. So does your car if you look through the window…

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Bernardo1 · 16/12/2025 18:54

CheeseNPickle3 · 16/12/2025 09:21

But do you pay for a parking space at the garage while you're filling up with diesel? Because that's the comparison here.

OP is making the point that the place where her car is is not a parking space that is open to anyone, but only someone using the charging service at the time. If she was parked in a different spot in the carpark then paying for that would be logical.

I think the problem with making the spot free while you're charging would be the length of time it takes to charge a car. It's comparable with the length of time someone needs an actual parking space, rather than a couple of minutes to fill an ICE car. I don't see that changing really. Also, it's kind of an advantage that these spaces are often available (because only EVs are allowed there) even if the rest of the car park is full.

I've never driven an ev, maybe when I replace in future. So I'm interested in the procedure and etiquette.

So, if I can park for free on an ev charger space, and I already have 92% charge, then I'm just paying pennies, and feeling pretty smug.
I also understood, that sometimes ev drivers have to wait for a charging point to be available

Biskieboo · 16/12/2025 18:54

Leaving your car parked at the pump while they do something more than pay for petrol is not generally considered acceptable behaviour though.

Indeed, if you asked a petrol station manager how much they would charge people if they wanted to park at the pump for half an hour I bet the answer would be considerably more than a typical car park would charge. As the vast majority of people aren't blithering idiots who do their weekly shop in the petrol station it's thankfully not a real concern though.

Biskieboo · 16/12/2025 18:55

Leaving your car parked at the pump while they do something more than pay for petrol is not generally considered acceptable behaviour though.

Indeed, if you asked a petrol station manager how much they would charge people if they wanted to park at the pump for half an hour I bet the answer would be considerably more than a typical car park would charge. As the vast majority of people aren't blithering idiots who do their weekly shop in the petrol station it's thankfully not a real concern though.

soupyspoon · 16/12/2025 18:57

KimberleyClark · 16/12/2025 09:20

Petrol stations aren’t car parks though. You don’t leave your car there while you go off shopping or whatever.

Well you say that but I got a terrible surprise once when I 'parked' my car in the fueling bay, I went shopping, the traffic was terrible and I had to get the bus from the petrol station to the shops so I was longer than anticipated.

They only went and bloody fined me, even though I had filled up with their petrol.

Cheek of it.

sidebirds · 16/12/2025 18:59

At the very least you should pay for both for owning one of these ridiculous fire-hazards. The day when there is a disastrous fire caused by the self-combusting battery of a so-called 'EV' parked underneath a hotel or block of flats is an inevitability.

IronicallyNC · 16/12/2025 19:02

sidebirds · 16/12/2025 18:59

At the very least you should pay for both for owning one of these ridiculous fire-hazards. The day when there is a disastrous fire caused by the self-combusting battery of a so-called 'EV' parked underneath a hotel or block of flats is an inevitability.

Oh for gods sake 🤣🤣🤣

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Dawnb19 · 16/12/2025 19:09

It depends. If you were just charging for 5 minutes while you go in the shop to pay then no you shouldn't have to pay but if your using their carpark to keep your car there for hours while it charges then yes you should have to pay.

Kerrie1973 · 16/12/2025 19:16

IronicallyNC · 16/12/2025 09:20

I knew an EV owner would understand!

And I bet the car park are being paid rental or a fee by the charging companies too to have their chargers there...so making double on that space.

Kerrie1973 · 16/12/2025 19:19

Bernardo1 · 16/12/2025 18:54

I've never driven an ev, maybe when I replace in future. So I'm interested in the procedure and etiquette.

So, if I can park for free on an ev charger space, and I already have 92% charge, then I'm just paying pennies, and feeling pretty smug.
I also understood, that sometimes ev drivers have to wait for a charging point to be available

It's unusual to have to queue to charge except on busy motorway services at peak times and even then that has stopped over last couple of years as more chargers come online.

PluckyChancer · 16/12/2025 19:24

Presumably that’s only in multi story car parks in city centres?
I’ve never seen a supermarket car park that you have to pay to park in, regardless of charging up your car. 🤔
(Coastal Ireland)

ShiftingSand · 16/12/2025 19:31

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 16/12/2025 09:15

Surely fuelling your car and parking are two different things? I'm not sure why you would think you shouldn't have to pay for one simply because, for your convenience, they have enabled you to do both simultaneously?

I mean, I guess they could combine the two charges together and charge you just the once, but if they're operated by separate entities, then that's probably just too complicated.

This. OP has a strange way of thinking 🤔

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