Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To ask which historical crossroads you wonder about?

423 replies

HoneyParsnipSoup · 13/12/2025 19:33

For me it’s wondering what would’ve happened had Catherine of Aragon had a son and Henry hadn’t divorced her. Country may well be totally different.

OP posts:
RosesAndHellebores · 14/12/2025 07:49

LeftieRightsHoarder · 14/12/2025 01:39

My other wish is that Argentina had won the Falklands War.

Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher was already unpopular and would have soon been turfed out of office instead of strutting around as if she'd been on the front line. We wouldn't have had the wave of privatisations that have crippled our infrastructure and taken our essential utilities even our water supply out of our control. We still live with the damaging results now.

And we would still have the monopolies of British Gas, British Telecom, etc. Zero choice for consumers - I bet you don't remember ever having to have a telephine connected or a meter moved. Water, I agree, was a step too far.

Do you wish Germany had won WW1 or WW2, or we were influenced more by Iraq - actually the latter might have stopped Bliar in his tracks!

EmpressaurusKitty · 14/12/2025 08:01

KnickerlessParsons · 14/12/2025 07:46

What if either Adam or Eve had been gay? Or trans? They would not have had children. O

Given how many trans-identifying males father children, I don’t think that would have been a problem.

Inspired by one of Jodi Taylor’s St Mary’s books, what if Mary hadn’t married Bothwell after Darnley’s murder?

FriNightBlues · 14/12/2025 08:18

Continuing with the Maggie theme - how about if Denis’ first marriage had gone the distance and he hadn’t married her?

Northbynorthbest · 14/12/2025 08:21

If the Iranian coup of 1953 (Operation Ajax, orcestrated by the CIA and MI6) hadn't happened, Iran might have developed into a stable democracy.
The US and British coup overthrew Iran's democratically elected prime minister, Mossadegh, and reinstated the Shah, Pahlavi.
Without the Shah's restored dictatorship, the Islamic Revolution of 1979 might never have happened, and Iran might have emerged as a stable influential democratic power in the Middle East, altering the political direction of the region and its relationship with the wider world.

LakieLady · 14/12/2025 08:25

CaspersMum24 · 13/12/2025 20:13

If Jim Callaghan had called an election in 1978 when it was likely he would have won, how different things might have been. No privatised utilities; would that have meant cheaper fuel bills for all of us now? No selling off of council houses meaning much more social housing for people now, so they wouldn't have to be paying extortionate rents to private landlords.No selling off of the railways, or other public transport. No Falklands War.The list goes on....................

I think all that probably would have come later, tbh, under the next Tory government. I don't think Labour would have won another term in the early 80s.

Although Thatcher wouldn't have been leader, I still think the Tories would have done all that stuff then.

luckylavender · 14/12/2025 08:25

SingingSands · 13/12/2025 20:25

If only Trump's parents had used a condom...

And Johnson’s

luckylavender · 14/12/2025 08:27

If Brown had called an early election Brexit may never have happened

LakieLady · 14/12/2025 08:33

Millytante · 13/12/2025 20:27

This was in my head last evening.
I think 1979 was the very worst year of my entire life (I’m 70 now), and it’s a million times worse beyond my person because it brought in such changes as would destroy many of the aspects of life in GB which made things endurable even when times were very difficult.
To me, things changed so much after 1979 it is as though That Woman had been secretly tweaking a genetic alteration for all citizens, ensuring that there could be no turning back, only lurching forward ever more greedy for acquisition and entertainment.
I still mourn what was lost thanks to that election result. 😩

I'm 70 too, and feel very much the same.

It makes me feel sad for young people now. We got grants to go to uni, they get debt. You could get into a decent career without a degree, rents were cheap and so were houses if you wanted to buy.

LakieLady · 14/12/2025 08:38

FjordCortina · 13/12/2025 20:42

If David bloody Cameron had thought through his referendum properly and made a 2/3 majority necessary for Brexit to be embarked upon.
And also if BoJo had succumbed to COVID.

I'm not convinced that that would have satisfied the Europhobes, but he could have made it a two-stage process: a referendum on the principle and a second one when the terms for leaving were agreed to see if they were acceptable.

It would still be going on now!

38thparallel · 14/12/2025 08:53

My Sliding doors moment is about that generation of the Labour Party that idolised Stalin. They gave USSR 3 jet engines and drawings that enabled the Russians and allies to build enough aircraft to attack Korea.

i didn’t know that about the Labour Party giving USSR that information. That’s truly shocking given the appalling suffering of the Korean people in the Korean War.

RosesAndHellebores · 14/12/2025 09:01

LakieLady · 14/12/2025 08:33

I'm 70 too, and feel very much the same.

It makes me feel sad for young people now. We got grants to go to uni, they get debt. You could get into a decent career without a degree, rents were cheap and so were houses if you wanted to buy.

I don't understand this perspective. I voted for the first time in 1979. The country was an utter mess. The unions were in charge, coalmining was unsustainable, many nationalised industries were entirely shambolic, primary education, particularly ilea was being run for political mantra, and children were being taught without rigour.

Taxes were eyewatering and people were leaving in droves, Denis Healey had to go to the IMF to beg for money, interest rates and inflation were too high.

In London, Pimlico, I recall rats running through the street, due to striking bin men.

Yes, there were no student loans but only a minority went into higher education, probably 5/6%. I agree the growth has been excessive and often at the expense of basic foundation skills.

MissFancyDay · 14/12/2025 09:18

For all the 1066 fans on this thread, the Bayeux tapestry is coming to the British Museum next year. I'm so excited to see it!

Rocknrollstar · 14/12/2025 09:24

EmpressaurusKitty · 13/12/2025 19:57

If Edward VIII had married someone else instead of Wallis Simpson, remained king & had kids.

He supported the Nazis so a lot would have been different.

Leavmealone · 14/12/2025 09:25

What if the lookouts on the Titanic had been given binoculars that night.

HoneyParsnipSoup · 14/12/2025 09:26

Rocknrollstar · 14/12/2025 09:24

He supported the Nazis so a lot would have been different.

I don’t think it would’ve been, even at that point Monarch powers were ceremonial and military decisions were in the hands of the PM. He would’ve been forced to keep his opinions to himself, or abdicate.

OP posts:
Peregrina · 14/12/2025 09:34

I don't agree that the country was in a mess in the 1970s.

Higher education had expanded giving many more people the chance of it, but with decent grants still available.
It's the subject of another thread but much equalities legislation was passed improving life for women - like outlawing blatantly different wage rates £xx for men, £xx/2 for women.

It was possible to buy a house on 1.5 times your salary, certainly outside London.

Just some things which had improved.

everdine · 14/12/2025 09:37

Peregrina · 14/12/2025 09:34

I don't agree that the country was in a mess in the 1970s.

Higher education had expanded giving many more people the chance of it, but with decent grants still available.
It's the subject of another thread but much equalities legislation was passed improving life for women - like outlawing blatantly different wage rates £xx for men, £xx/2 for women.

It was possible to buy a house on 1.5 times your salary, certainly outside London.

Just some things which had improved.

Under Margaret Thatcher house prices rose significantly!

Peregrina · 14/12/2025 09:40

Under Margaret Thatcher house prices rose significantly!
Since she didn't become PM until part way through 1979, that can't apply to more than a few months of the 1970s. I agree that house prices rose significantly in the 1980s.

Muffsies · 14/12/2025 09:44

KnickerlessParsons · 14/12/2025 07:46

What if either Adam or Eve had been gay? Or trans? They would not have had children. O

Probably wouldn't have made any difference. Most gay and trans people have the same urge to procreate, even if it's not their chosen mode of romantic relationship. Many kings and queens of Britain (and indeed any walk of life) have been gay, but still do the procreating thing. The urge to continue your legacy is very strong, even if you don't care for the process.

everdine · 14/12/2025 09:51

everdine · 14/12/2025 09:37

Under Margaret Thatcher house prices rose significantly!

Sorry, I misunderstood! I think some things were better but life economically was still hard. At the beginning of the 70s women could’ve even buy their own house by themselves!

HumbleCaptain · 14/12/2025 09:56

The speculation and comment here about Ireland always stirs me. (BTW I am English). How much better The UK would be if Ireland were a committed member. I think it would have strengthened Scotland and reduced the natural dominance of the English population and economy.
Imagine the universities of Trinity Dublin, Queens Belfast and Glasgow having equal weight with Oxbridge. A powerhouse of learning.
We on the mainland would have benefitted more from the literary traditions of Ireland.
Perhaps stronger negotiations with Angela Merkle would have obtained concessions and avoided Brexit. Or if Brexit had happened we would be so much stronger and we would have benefitted from the strength of the Ireland USA relationship.

[well a chap can dream] Many thanks for the thread and the ideas.

SarahAndQuack · 14/12/2025 10:01

Tellallofthetruth · 14/12/2025 01:13

If Queen Victoria’s eldest child , her clever daughter Victoria , had been able to inherit the throne instead of Edward VII ( as she would under our present day rules ) she wouldn’t have been married off abroad & given birth to the Kaiser -WW1 would have been avoided & without WW1 there wouldn’t have been WW2 …

Ooh, that's a good one!

PortSalutPlease · 14/12/2025 10:01

HoneyParsnipSoup · 13/12/2025 19:33

For me it’s wondering what would’ve happened had Catherine of Aragon had a son and Henry hadn’t divorced her. Country may well be totally different.

They did have one. Henry, Duke of Cornwall. He died at about 6 weeks old :(

Millytante · 14/12/2025 10:02

HoneyParsnipSoup · 14/12/2025 07:03

Yes I knew independence had been achieved in I think 1921(?) for what is now the Republic. I meant more that joining the Allies would’ve I think dissipated many old grudges and after such a contribution it would’ve been impossible for the British government to continue to treat Ireland with the same disdain and suspicion.

That said it would’ve killed far more Irish than the Troubles, Ireland would’ve been levelled in the aerial bombing campaign as a major shipbuilder, and it would’ve altered Ireland’s relationship with the rest of the world in a way that meant its current reputation as neutral and benign would’ve been impossible. And a second (milder) famine would almost certainly have happened, at the very least Ireland would have undergone rationing like the UK.

We’ll never know but it’s interesting to think about!

Good morning!
Yeah, it would have been an impossibly high price to pay (literally so) merely to assuage British anti-Irish animus. Any grudging going on belonged emphatically in the other direction (prior to the 1970s, anyway.)
If GB had the hump in the pre-WW2 years, it wasn’t up to Ireland to provide mood elevators!

Blimey I just realised I dreamed about a Mary Q of S narrative last night. As you say, there is jolly good pondering to be had all round, with historical what ifs 🙂

Purplecatshopaholic · 14/12/2025 10:33

If the Yes vote had won in 2014. No fucking Brexit up here for one thing..