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Hair cut and colour now exceeds what I earn in a day. Absolutely fed up.

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Burntout01 · 12/12/2025 21:38

Obviously everything is going up and up. Just went to book hairdressers- I don’t go often , maybe every four months since I went grey ( used to box dye it for 30 years before that). Its my one bit of self care.
Cost has jumped from £120 to over £170 since I last had it done in September. For full head highlights for chin length bobbed hair plus wash and rough blow dry.
It’s not that I don’t believe its worth that price and I am not knocking my hairdresser, its not about that. But I am a senior NHS nurse with 30 years experience. My job has taken a lot from me and my family. I take home £150 a day. The hair appt is 2.5 hours.
I just cannot justify the expense for myself any more.

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NewNameforThisPost2025 · 13/12/2025 21:02

Soddingcat · 13/12/2025 20:50

You can have a barber hair cut though ? just get a buzz cut that takes 10 minutes, then go to a barbers?
But that’s not what you want is it ?

You’ve just said you have a bob , so that’s a proper haircut . Can’t you see the difference?
The mind boggles at some of these comments

I think there's quite a lot of technique involved in a bob.

MaddestGranny · 13/12/2025 21:03

I never dyed my hair, then I started greying. I home-rinsed / hennaed for quite a while - till the light shining through my roots showed them up for what they were! Then I started growing out the rinse & opting for salon "low-lights". That worked for a while. But, to maintain the look & have it done well was SO expensive. Then I went to "accent low-lights", aiming for a suave Cruella de Vil look.

My DD said: "Ooh, ma, you look like a badger". So, I gave up and gave in to grey. Which turned out to be white.
And what I now realise is that HAIR CONDITION is much more important than hair colour. I shampoo & (blue)condition, but I now also regularly use hair-masks and other products which manage brittleness/frizziness/fly-away-ness.
So, OP, I'd recommend that you concentrate on good hair condition and the occasional really good cut.

NewNameforThisPost2025 · 13/12/2025 21:10

2025VibeandThrive · 13/12/2025 09:25

I agree re the cost of going to the hairdresser. I booked a wash, cut and blow dry online. I thought it was £75.

During the appointment the hairdresser kept commenting on how thick my hair was. I assumed she was complimenting me for a tip. After the appointment they charged me £95, I queried it and turns out in tiny little letters it said ‘from’ £75 and they could charge what they wanted depending on length and thickness of hair.

I haven’t had my hair cut since because I just felt scammed. I want to know how much it will cost before I get there and I don’t want to spend nearly £100 on a cut.

100 for a cut and blowdry is beyond my comfort level too.

Maybe you could forego the blowdry?

Soddingcat · 13/12/2025 21:12

NewNameforThisPost2025 · 13/12/2025 21:02

I think there's quite a lot of technique involved in a bob.

That’s my point , anyone expecting a perfect precision bob , for barber prices is deluded

all very silly indeed

NewNameforThisPost2025 · 13/12/2025 21:14

HipHopDontYouStop · 13/12/2025 17:23

I’m going back to my natural colour. I was charged £240 six weeks ago. A jump from £170. They’re hairdressers. Not brain surgeons. So I won’t go anymore.

What was it for, though? If I was really happy with the end result, I would be OK paying that for grey root retouch, full-head balayage, toner, cut, and blow-dry. The works, in other words.

Shallana · 13/12/2025 21:14

Shop around. My hairdresser is fantastic and charges £60 for a cut & colour.

Yesimmoaningaboutbenefits · 13/12/2025 21:14

"You're paying for the hairdresser, products, business rates, water rates, electric, premises rent or mortgage, cleaners, etc."

So how come barbers can charge <£20 per cut if most of the cost is premises/rates?

Rosesarere · 13/12/2025 21:20

Soddingcat · 13/12/2025 07:46

Hairdresser here, Im sick to death of people saying our charges are disgusting

I run a small salon in the North ,all employed with 3 stylists and me, and 2 juniors, VAT is taken off before wages which are a huge chunk of the turnover ,

we pay amongst other things

£110 000 wages
£ 40.500 Rent
£ 12.000 rates
£ 5000 light and heatind
£ 2700 accountant fees
£4000 employers national insurance on top of wages
£1800 pension contributions
£1000 disposable towels and laundry
£3000 staff training
£2300 drinks and biscuits including hot chocolate and beer and G and T
£5000 per annumn card charges and bank charges
£ 3500 insurance
£35.00 for a singe roll of foil
£250 each for scissors
£190 for light hairdryers x 6
£1000 for all our GHDS

£ 600 per week on colours and stock take note !

£ 500 to empty 2 sanitary bins
£ 400 per year music licence
£950 cleaning produnts
£3600 IT ans salon software
£ 300 magazines
£repairs and maintenance £2/5 000 ish
£ 1000 advertising
£500 staff xmas gifts
£ 1000 general expenses such as loo roll ect
£ 2000 phones and internet
£100 monthly for business coach groups and training subscriptions
£15 ish for spotify
£ 1200 per annum for new CCTV as someone walked inn and stole my GHD stock
£ 700 per month paying back COVID BOUNCE BACK LOAN (finished in June hurah)
oh , and the £25 000 for the fancy massage chairs
£ 2000 each for the styling chairs

there are many other costs as well, the list is endless …. I cant remember them all

My profit last year was £ 49.000 of which the corporation tax bill was just over £13 000 , my wages come out of this.

we charge £140/ £180 for regurlar highlights, and up to £ 270 for balyage packages .
No doubt you will all think this is exorbitant,

Im fully booked 3 months ahead, and we have a waiting list for the balyage packages ,
I absolutely love my clients ,and will go out my way for them , but i raise my prices every year and feel no guilt .

Hair is expensive , but it is a luxury, not a necessity , and we do not owe anyone cheap hair, the inference that as a senior nurse you deserve more than us is frankly insulting, as our the comments about our prices being “disgusting”

The training courses we go on are up to £500 per stylist along with the train to london and hotel x 6 people
at least once a year.
We do training to be very good at what we do so we can charge properly to pay us what we need

You can always find cheap stylists who don't invest , this results in the posts on here you see by incompetent stylists turning out shoddy work .

We may not be as clever as some of you all seem to think , but im on my feet 10 hours a day , running a business and training up the juniors,
I have been brought in presents from clients al week , my staff get brought drinks and cakes in often by grateful clients
Im able to pay my stylists £17 /£20 per hour , well above the living wage, i could pay them less to keep more myself but that would not be right .

Historically hairdresser have been paid terribly, things are changing thankfully
The colours clients are asking for now are much more technical and take hours sometimes and use a lot of colour. Why would that cost only £50 ?

Why do some of you think we don't deserve paying properly ?

Those of you paying £ 60/70 for colours, i assure you that the stylist will be left with very little especially self employed with no holiday or sick pay

When you all talk about the cost of living being so high and hair is now unaffordable, do you consider that hairdressers have to pay more for things too?
Or does that not matter as long as you get cheap hair …

Why do you happily pay tradesmen £180 for a couple of hours work but complain about us ?

We charged way less before covid, the costs have risen hugely and many salons are closing, the national insurance hike has not helped.

We really do need to charge these prices
There are many options if you don't want to pay our prices
But thankfully for me many of my clients are !

Rant over

Edited

Well said x

take10yearsofmylife · 13/12/2025 21:22

I stopped going to the hair dresser years ago. I cut and dye my own hair, people can't even tell the difference, I can even do it much quicker than at the salons these days. I feel so happy I could save my money for something else 😌

OhDear111 · 13/12/2025 21:22

@Tiedyeegg High streets will be bookmakers and pound shops then. Most women can afford a haircut occasionally but maybe hairdressers will be the latest unemployed stats. They can always go and work for the nhs with a bit of training!

angela1952 · 13/12/2025 21:23

I have a good hairdresser who comes to our home and does my hair every seven or eight weeks. Colour (usually just roots), cut and good blow dry for £50 or £60. She leaves me a tube of colour and I have a bottle of developer so I can do the roots that show between visits. She’s a relative of a friend and does four of us when she comes.
Personally I find salon costs quite unjustifiable, it had reached £120 before I moved five years ago, and I paid £80 for my roots to be done between cuts. The last time I went, just before lockdown, my colour was done by an experienced stylist at the salon, it was the wrong tone and very patchy. I never went back.

NewNameforThisPost2025 · 13/12/2025 21:27

MichelleGoldenHairstylist · 13/12/2025 17:41

I’m a hairstylist in Iowa, USA

I wanted to comment because many clients just don’t understand the background of what we have to just open our doors and run the business.

Product cost, rents, insurance, everything has tripled since 2020 & we are all just trying to stay afloat in today’s world.

There is a price point for every client just like there is a stylist at every price point!

To just open my doors every day I need to make $1000/day
^ that only covers rent, utilities, payroll for the day, products needed for clients

We are only asking that clients understand that we are just trying to make a living wage just like you!!!

We don’t get retirement, sick days, vacation pay! Unless that stylists works for a corporation or a company that can do it most stylists are independent.

Do you pay to just go to work??
Besides gas and food for lunch…
Nope most don’t.

There’s 3 ways you can look at this
If given an option which 2 would you choose.

Cheap, Fast, Good

Cheap & Fast = won’t be good
Cheap & Good = won’t be fast
Fast & Good = won’t be cheap

It’s all about perceived value
What does the stylists do to make what you pay valuable??!!

For me my client experience is no.1 priority because I know I’m NOT the cheapest but I’m NOT the most expensive either.

We hate that we have to adjust our pricing because everything is so damn expensive!!! But we are just trying to survive! If you find someone who still charges 1990-2000’s pricing you’re are lucky & that’s stylist is probably not even able to pay a living wage to herself.

Our beauty industry has changed a lot many are leaving the industry again because it’s to hard and then clients like in this thread just don’t understand and then make comments like these that when many leave in the next year or 2 most will either pay the ones who are left or like some have stated start doing their own hair in a DIY fashion.

Just be honest with everyone that you don’t see value and you don’t have the funds and that’s ok but let’s treat people who make you look amazing for 6, 8, 10, 12+ weeks with a little more respect. Can we ??!!

Now if your stylists isn’t giving you the best experience find someone who will that you can see the value of what it $$ to go to someone who their no.1 priority is the client experience behind the hair goals.

💛💛💛

This is a very interesting post!

I'm curious - does the 1k per day to cover all the costs include your own salary in the payroll?

Prices have indeed shot up since 2020, and I can well imagine that it's put a huge dent in hairdressers' take-home pay. I'm not surprised that they have to raise prices.

Like many, I did my own hair during Covid. I wanted a lighter base colour (around a Level 8) plus highlights on my Level 6 hair, so it wasn't easy, and pulling orange was a big problem. I bleached it all over and then added highlights. It used to take me all day by the time I'd toned it wrong and had to retone. And sometimes I had to do a fix the next day too. And then the toner would just wash out. The entire experience made me realise how skilled hairdressers really are!

I think with the availability of cheap box dye, people do undervalue hairdressers' skills. I did get some results that I was happy with when I did my own hair, but it took me SO long, and also there's no way I could add really good-looking dimension with highlights or balayage the way a hairdresser can.

My hairdresser calls box dye "job security." 😂

MintDog · 13/12/2025 21:29

Yep. It's becoming a joke. Just paid £70 yesterday for my daughter to have a colour and a blow dry - that wasn't even a cut. Last time I went it was £130 for my ombre/cut/blow dry. I genuinely cannot afford it anymore and currently sporting shite hair waiting for the grey to grow out.

hazelnutvanillalatte · 13/12/2025 21:29

lifeonmars100 · 12/12/2025 23:44

Things I can no longer afford to do:

go to the hairdressers
Go to the cinema
Eat out
Go on holiday
Have the heating on for more than four hours a day

I don't usually think about it but this thread has pullled me up short and made me think. I never used to have to live like this, the cost of living crisis hit shortly after I retired and it has wrecked me.

Same with me. Things we did five years ago are now unthinkable. Basic things like getting a takeaway coffee or buying new clothes as opposed to secondhand. I haven't set foot in a hairdresser for years, do it all myself. We used to be completely comfortable and are now constantly struggling and it seems everyone around us is in the same boat.

NewNameforThisPost2025 · 13/12/2025 21:30

I wonder if hairdressers would ever consider letting clients pay by Klarna and similar? I bet lots more people would go if they could spread the payments!

Jimpson · 13/12/2025 21:35

I get my hair cut twice a year and use box dye 6 times a year. So that £80 on cuts and £45 on colour per year.

NewNameforThisPost2025 · 13/12/2025 21:36

Or maybe setting up an annual membership, to let people spread the costs monthly. i.e. you pay X amount and you can have say, two blowdries a month and a fuller service every other month, and you could choose your monthly payment to reflect what level you wanted that bi-monthly service to be. Lower payments for a haircut and blowdry, all the way up to full head roots, balayage, and cut and finish. The hairdresser could charge less than for one-offs, as they'd have more regular money coming in, and with more clients coming through the door, word is more likely to spread if they're good.

Hairdressers need to think of ways to get clients through the door and soften the sticker shock.

@MichelleGoldenHairstylist @Soddingcat Would this kind of thing work?

paddleboardingmum · 13/12/2025 21:37

Everything is going up. I wonder if some cinemas will have to close down, that seems such an extravagance now. Also things like bowling. I'm amazed if people can afford to eat out much. Supermarket weekly shop has doubled in price and food shopping has started to feel stressful.

UndoRedo · 13/12/2025 21:37

I've been going grey since my 20s, and have fast growing hair. I've rarely had it coloured professionally, as I couldn't bear the time or money involved. I use professional dyes and developer, £10 ish each. Last a couple of root touch ups and cover better than box dye. Just paid for a pixie cut but can and do cut my hair nicely into a bob.

NewNameforThisPost2025 · 13/12/2025 21:39

hazelnutvanillalatte · 13/12/2025 21:29

Same with me. Things we did five years ago are now unthinkable. Basic things like getting a takeaway coffee or buying new clothes as opposed to secondhand. I haven't set foot in a hairdresser for years, do it all myself. We used to be completely comfortable and are now constantly struggling and it seems everyone around us is in the same boat.

It's awful, isn't it.

Bowies · 13/12/2025 21:40

I did a few highlights (1/4 head) to blend every other visit while I was growing out the colour and now only ever have a cut, which obviously is a big saving.

Your appointment time is really long. Hair especially a full head of colour has always been expensive.

Rents are really high, especially in London pushing up overheads, which unfortunately reflects in increased prices.

HildegardP · 13/12/2025 21:41

You have my sympathy, I can only justify going twice a year & get a tight crop that will grow out well. I realise that you don't have much spare time BUT if you can give it about 2.5x the time your hair usually takes, it's worth ringing round the high-end hairdressers for a model slot.

I used to live near a salon with a school that trained both beginners & qualified hairdressers who were learning new styles & techniques, I got great cuts & colours for buttons. You won't find anything until after NY but maybe it's worth a go next time you need an appointment?

Tiedyeegg · 13/12/2025 21:42

OhDear111 · 13/12/2025 21:22

@Tiedyeegg High streets will be bookmakers and pound shops then. Most women can afford a haircut occasionally but maybe hairdressers will be the latest unemployed stats. They can always go and work for the nhs with a bit of training!

They’re a luxury and generally people can afford very few luxuries these days.

It’s shit if that’s how you make a living but it’s no one else’s priority to pay your wages

MintDog · 13/12/2025 21:43

Slinkyy · 13/12/2025 06:59

Yet people on here think dentists and vets charge far too much and should pretty much work for free in some cases?

If someone comes on here claiming a private dentist charges £70 for a half hour check up everyone rants about the cost. Yet the dentist needs to pay the same tax and also pay his staff and the rent and bills as well as materials etc. I’ve had people say private dentists should see children for free because it’s morally the right thing to do. And people say vets should see sick animals for free because they are meant to be animal lovers after all so how dare they charge someone who can’t afford it.

But it's not though is it. £20+ an hour actual wages PLUS TIPS on top - all in cash. My hairdresser is freaking loaded. Do not believe that they're skint. They're the ones all going on foreign holidays. I would imagine a lot of them are getting £50-80 a day in tips on top of their wages. That's a lot of money.

In fact, reading through this thread just makes me think, most of them are overpriced and will end up going bust through their greediness. Who was the poster who broke down her costs and said £500 christmas presents for her and her staff - i mean, come on!

NewNameforThisPost2025 · 13/12/2025 21:44

NewNameforThisPost2025 · 13/12/2025 21:27

This is a very interesting post!

I'm curious - does the 1k per day to cover all the costs include your own salary in the payroll?

Prices have indeed shot up since 2020, and I can well imagine that it's put a huge dent in hairdressers' take-home pay. I'm not surprised that they have to raise prices.

Like many, I did my own hair during Covid. I wanted a lighter base colour (around a Level 8) plus highlights on my Level 6 hair, so it wasn't easy, and pulling orange was a big problem. I bleached it all over and then added highlights. It used to take me all day by the time I'd toned it wrong and had to retone. And sometimes I had to do a fix the next day too. And then the toner would just wash out. The entire experience made me realise how skilled hairdressers really are!

I think with the availability of cheap box dye, people do undervalue hairdressers' skills. I did get some results that I was happy with when I did my own hair, but it took me SO long, and also there's no way I could add really good-looking dimension with highlights or balayage the way a hairdresser can.

My hairdresser calls box dye "job security." 😂

Edited

@Soddingcat I wasn't able to edit my post to @ you in it, so am repeating it for you here. I value your skills! I was happy doing it myself, but now that I go to the salon, I realise that I cannot possibly replicate the beautiful dimension of professional highlights or balayage myself. Or tone it reliably. (You probably know the insane amount of brass a Level 6 pulls when lightened.)