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To ask how common is cannabis smoking?

167 replies

Netcurtainnelly · 08/12/2025 13:43

Brothers son smokes it. Holds down a job and his financial commitments.
Hasn't progressed to any other drugs.
Been doing it for some years.
Its never spoken about. I just know he does.
I dont really have anyone to ask but i just thought I'd ask you mumsnetters.
It is common. He's mid thirties.

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AstoriaQueen · 17/12/2025 13:17

HRTQueen · 08/12/2025 15:46

Weed may not make people aggressive but it can make people very paranoid that can lead to aggressive. The sheer high numbers of young people with serious mh issues connected to their weed smoking is tragic#

The ignorance of the cannabis isn't that bad brigade is astounding considering that often know so much about cannabis 🙄

Where are these people? I have 2 teenagers, ive been a teenager and I work with lots of younger people and I don't know anyone of any age who has this elusive psychosis that gets trotted out every time we talk about cannabis.

AstoriaQueen · 17/12/2025 13:18

THisbackwithavengeance · 08/12/2025 19:01

Luckily for your 3 DCs, they haven’t been trafficked to the UK locked in large warehouses by some very nasty criminal gangs under threat and made to grow the stuff.

Google modern day slavery.

Our mutual friend grows it in his outhouse. So try again 😘

AstoriaQueen · 17/12/2025 13:19

NormasArse · 08/12/2025 20:50

Do you drive?

Yes. Unsure of the relevance but I wouldn't drive under the influence, just like anyone having a glass of wine.

HRTQueen · 17/12/2025 14:23

AstoriaQueen · 17/12/2025 13:17

Where are these people? I have 2 teenagers, ive been a teenager and I work with lots of younger people and I don't know anyone of any age who has this elusive psychosis that gets trotted out every time we talk about cannabis.

On mh wards and teams who are working with them in mh community teams

I am guessing you do not work in a mh health team that is working with young people

NoKidsSendDogs · 18/12/2025 20:11

AstoriaQueen · 17/12/2025 13:17

Where are these people? I have 2 teenagers, ive been a teenager and I work with lots of younger people and I don't know anyone of any age who has this elusive psychosis that gets trotted out every time we talk about cannabis.

It is very very rare and usually only happens to people who already struggle with schizophrenia. For the rest of society, the worst thing you're going to do while high is eat too much pizza. Alcohol on the other hand ...

Netcurtainnelly · 19/12/2025 22:02

NoKidsSendDogs · 09/12/2025 15:26

It's calming, relaxing, reduces anxiety, reduces stress, makes the world a bit easier to tolerate, take your pick.

Try some deep breathing and exercising instead.

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JLou08 · 19/12/2025 22:27

I think it's pretty common, I usually smell it somewhere at least once a day. I don't have any close friends who smoke it but I do know a few people who do and a couple of family members on both my side and DHs side. Some of them function normally, some have mental health problems and don't function well.

swingingbytheseat · 19/12/2025 22:31

I eat it occasionally and love the buzz

Mama2many73 · 19/12/2025 22:41

I never have, even when at uni. I know 2 people who did but now dont...However by the smells around a rather exclusive housing estate as well as 2 up 2 down terraces near us, its pretty rife!

Megifer · 19/12/2025 22:42

Pretty much everyone i know, from the cleaner at work (vapes it 😂) to i suspect my CEO based on comments made at the Christmas party smoke it or do edibles.

I used to love a joint, was great for stress but I started throwing whiteys for some bizarre reason, not fun at all, so stopped a couple of years ago. I get edibles now, dont do them a lot, maybe once every few months or do. A friend does his own syrup too thats nice in a hot chocolate or coffee 😬

JasmineTea11 · 19/12/2025 23:25

It's very common and mild compared to alcohol.
I grew up in a household where both were consumed a lot. The parent who was into getting stoned as opposed to pissed, was a lot more productive. Marijuana affects people differently I guess, but some people like my DM and I, are very active, busy types, with good jobs, who consume regularly.

I get that some people don't respond well to it, it makes them paranoid or insular. Again it's like alcohol, some people get really arsey when pissed, or can't stop, others are fine.

TeaAndTattoos · 20/12/2025 02:09

My DH and I both smoke weed we have done for the last 8 years we are both in our early 30’s we don’t have any kids so we have the money to spend on it none of our family know we do it. We would like kids one day and we will stop when we are ready for kids.

Toogoodtowaste · 10/02/2026 23:21

CharlotteLightandDark · 09/12/2025 10:26

I buy it from someone who grows it fairly large ish scale as a (very successful) business. No youths on scooters shotting being controlled by county lines involved - just straight from manufacturer to consumer.

It's still grown illegally though? Unless I've misunderstood?

GaIadriel · 11/02/2026 00:49

It's extremely common. It's also seems to be really bad for the heart according to a lot of studies over the past few years - 42% higher chance of a stroke in one I read the other day. I believe it was thought previously that this was more likely to be because until recent years people mainly smoked it, or had done so in the past. However, studies are now showing that even edibles alone can result in arterial narrowing to a similar extent as a smoker.

I used to smoke it a lot and would have a pretty elevated heartbeat just sitting on the sofa.

GaIadriel · 11/02/2026 00:52

Moderate alcohol consumption (1-2 drinks a night) actually has a host of benefits. Less chance of alzheimers, kidney stones, stroke, heart attack, etc.

XenoBitch · 11/02/2026 00:52

I only knew one person who was a regular weed smoker who actually worked, and he was a chef. Apparently a profession known for addiction issues anyway.

The rest either used it as a coping mechanism, and denied it was one and that they were addicted, or it was a "lifestyle" and they were boring as fuck. I met far too many people in psychiatric wards who were there due to weed.

suburberphobe · 11/02/2026 00:56

Smoked my first joint at 16. Still doing it at 70. It relaxes me. Very pure organic weed.

Have always worked, supported myself, brought up my son as a solo mum.

Never taken an aspirin in my life or barely a paracetamol. I know I'm lucky.

suburberphobe · 11/02/2026 00:59

I met far too many people in psychiatric wards who were there due to weed.

Was that in a professional capacity?

Well, that's not pure weed then but some shit mixed with it.

Brightsky210 · 11/02/2026 01:00

I dont smoke it but I know alot of people that do. In their 20s/30s and even 40s an they can do all the same things hold down a job etc

suburberphobe · 11/02/2026 01:02

Moderate alcohol consumption (1-2 drinks a night) actually has a host of benefits. Less chance of alzheimers

My mum never drank at all, maybe a glass of wine while out for dinner in a restaurant. Had Alzheimers.

I think genetics is much more to do it.

XenoBitch · 11/02/2026 01:03

suburberphobe · 11/02/2026 00:59

I met far too many people in psychiatric wards who were there due to weed.

Was that in a professional capacity?

Well, that's not pure weed then but some shit mixed with it.

No, as a patient.
It kinda of annoyed me as I could see they could actually help themselves by stopping smoking... but they don't and won't.

suburberphobe · 11/02/2026 01:04

to do with it

typo.

suburberphobe · 11/02/2026 01:06

Personally, I think cars are more dangerous than smoking a joint.

Much more deadly.

suburberphobe · 11/02/2026 01:10

I could see they could actually help themselves by stopping smoking... but they don't and won't.

And who made you be be-all and end-all of medical knowledge?

Let people do what they want. If it helps them, surely that's a good thing?...

My grandad smoked till in his 90's. Didn't kill him.

Pollution and car exhausts nowadays would have finished him by now I think....

Emori · 11/02/2026 01:14

Prevalent in houses with "soft as shit" rotties, ladies with terrible lip fillers and frustrated gentlemen with anger issues.

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