Honestly you don’t need to rush in, elbows out trying to monitor the thread, this is aibu, the op has asked a question, people are allowed to respond honestly.
The fact is she is consuming more than she thinks. No matter how much she doesn’t wish to accept that fact. And pretending otherwise is not going to help her on her journey, telling her this isn’t goading her. It’s trying to help her.
we all fully understand she doesn’t wish to accept it. And we all fully understand it is annoying her. She claims to be a doctor. So she knows full well she is not gaining weight in a deficit. She knows it. We know it. And she also knows the only way she is maintaining or gaining over such a long period is because she’s eating and drinking way more than she thinks. Again she knows this. We know this. She also knows eating one tuna sandwich in 24 hours is deeply unhealthy.
many doctors do have a very poor understanding of nutrition and weight loss, anecdotally we see examples of this on social media a lot. So instead of hurling insults at people who are trying to tell her she’s consuming too much to lose weight, it would be way better for the op, if she wishes to lose more weight, to really look closely at her diet.
cooking, what does she cook with, ie oils,fats etc.
snacks, if she eats things like nuts or nut butters, how much.
spreads ie butter and mayo etc, could she be underestimating how much
drinks, how many is she consuming, milk etc in them,
little things she consumes throughout the day
alcohol if she drinks
meals out.
and she needs to take seven days in total and then divide by seven to get her average cal intake.
righf now she is effectively eating to maintenance. Her maintenance cals are probably in the 1900 a day range, hard for us to know. So if she’s not losing weight and maintaining, then she is consuming about this much on average.