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To think social housing should be means-tested annually like benefits?

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EqualLedgerJay · 07/12/2025 17:25

Situations change, why should lifetime tenancies exist if income rises? AIBU to think fairness cuts both ways?

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HoneyParsnipSoup · 07/12/2025 18:17

AutumnAllTheWay · 07/12/2025 18:13

Obviously not doable is it?

I dont have the answers, but I know attacking social housing tenants is not where the answer lies.

Who said ‘attacking’? Why is means testing a state benefit meant for those in need ‘attacking’ people?

Boudy · 07/12/2025 18:17

Am not sure many jobs will ensure income remains permanent anymore ( or if job is secure). There is also the chance that health changes dramatically and many other variables.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 07/12/2025 18:18
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applegingermint · 07/12/2025 18:18

People would game it to stay in social housing, by reducing their hours or income. It wouldn’t work.

The only way to solve the problem is building more housing of all tenures.

sandflake · 07/12/2025 18:19

Peoplemakemedespair · 07/12/2025 17:37

Why should you be any different to the majority of people who have the insecurity of private renting? Whether you agree with it or not, I don’t get the argument that it’s unfair for people in subsidised housing to not have the insecurity that everyone else has

Your first 3 words show exactly what’s behind this and every other benefit bashing or disability bashing thread ever made.

It’s just sour grapes behind this attitude.

x2boys · 07/12/2025 18:19

HoneyParsnipSoup · 07/12/2025 18:17

Who said ‘attacking’? Why is means testing a state benefit meant for those in need ‘attacking’ people?

It's not a benefit and its not meant for those in need.

BunnyLake · 07/12/2025 18:20

XenoBitch · 07/12/2025 18:13

That would be interesting to know.
My parents are in a council house and have been in some form of council housing since my mum was 19 (she is late 60s now, but still works so pays the rent herself). I remember when she was pregnant with my youngest DB... we went and viewed several houses. You had a choice then (80s).
Now it is bids, or being offered one and not being allowed to turn it down.

I remember when I was about ten they were looking at exchanges. People would post on newsagents windows or in local papers - 3 bed house in Bristol to swap for same in London, type thing. Definitely no bids, whatever they are. We didn’t swap in the end. Neither are here to tell me how they qualified but they were two young, able bodied, working class people. I always got the impression they got a property once married and before kids.

HoneyParsnipSoup · 07/12/2025 18:20

applegingermint · 07/12/2025 18:18

People would game it to stay in social housing, by reducing their hours or income. It wouldn’t work.

The only way to solve the problem is building more housing of all tenures.

Well we can, if we want to end up a wildlife-less, insect-less hellscape with only the odd astroturfed park and horrendous flooding.

This island cannot cope with any more building. We are heavily overpopulated and it’s having a horrific effect already.

XenoBitch · 07/12/2025 18:20

DonicaLewinsky · 07/12/2025 18:16

Have you honestly not realised yet that people will just make sure they stay within whatever criteria you want to impose at your review? This is quite the white elephant you're constructing here. I dread to think what it would cost!

Yes, it would be like people on UC who only work so many hours so their benefits are not affected.

JenniferBooth · 07/12/2025 18:20

AutumnAllTheWay · 07/12/2025 18:13

Obviously not doable is it?

I dont have the answers, but I know attacking social housing tenants is not where the answer lies.

There is more love for prisoners than there is for SH tenants on here A quick search will tell you that.

HoneyParsnipSoup · 07/12/2025 18:21

x2boys · 07/12/2025 18:19

It's not a benefit and its not meant for those in need.

It’s subsidised by the taxpayer and the triage is those in need so… yes.

x2boys · 07/12/2025 18:22

BunnyLake · 07/12/2025 18:20

I remember when I was about ten they were looking at exchanges. People would post on newsagents windows or in local papers - 3 bed house in Bristol to swap for same in London, type thing. Definitely no bids, whatever they are. We didn’t swap in the end. Neither are here to tell me how they qualified but they were two young, able bodied, working class people. I always got the impression they got a property once married and before kids.

There was probably far more availability.

ChampagneLassie · 07/12/2025 18:23

I agree it should be reassessed, perhaps not yearly but if you meet a certain threshold, like becoming a higher rate tax payer or wealth in excess of £100k. I know a handful of people who rent from council and could easily afford to privately rent or buy but choose not to as they have it so cheap. They’re taking that housing away from much needier people. It really doesn’t sit right with me.

LiveLuvLaugh · 07/12/2025 18:24

Why would we want people to have insecure housing? It’s best if people can put roots down and move when they want to. I would end right to buy and discounts though so the stock is available for people who need it let through fair social letting.

AutumnAllTheWay · 07/12/2025 18:24

HoneyParsnipSoup · 07/12/2025 18:21

It’s subsidised by the taxpayer and the triage is those in need so… yes.

Its for those who need housing.

Many, many households cannot afford private rents or tobuy a house, despite working hard.

So its a necessity.

x2boys · 07/12/2025 18:24

HoneyParsnipSoup · 07/12/2025 18:21

It’s subsidised by the taxpayer and the triage is those in need so… yes.

How is it subsidised by the tax payer ?
My house was built in the 60,s so has been paid for over and over again by tenants paying rent ,the repairs come out of rent money .

DonicaLewinsky · 07/12/2025 18:24

HoneyParsnipSoup · 07/12/2025 18:21

It’s subsidised by the taxpayer and the triage is those in need so… yes.

As a point of fact, it's incorrect that social housing is triaged by need.

For example, lots of areas have properties for older people only. There isn't provision to prioritise someone younger for one of these homes over candidates who meet the age requirement, even if their need is greater.

HRTQueen · 07/12/2025 18:26

HoneyParsnipSoup · 07/12/2025 18:13

How does it pay off?

Well you know that sum of money you pay to the mortgage company it will cover the loan you took out to buy your home and the interest, different products mean you pay it off in different ways

it takes a long time to pay it all off, the but when you do the property is yours

i didn’t think I would be explaining in simple terms how mortgages work

AutumnAllTheWay · 07/12/2025 18:27

x2boys · 07/12/2025 18:24

How is it subsidised by the tax payer ?
My house was built in the 60,s so has been paid for over and over again by tenants paying rent ,the repairs come out of rent money .

Great point!

Bambamhoohoo · 07/12/2025 18:27

thats not what social housing is. It’s a great thing. If you don’t want to live in a highly developed socialist market economy don’t, but don’t try and change it.

social housing is rooted in secure safe housing for the long term. You’re talking about upending everything it’s built on.

ADHDdiagnosis · 07/12/2025 18:27

So you’re suggesting that as soon as people earn enough money they should leave their home? And go where? Somewhere that’s more expensive for them?

why is it always the poorest who are targeted? Let’s extrapolate for a moment. What about people who inherited properties for example. Private home owners who have bought properties cheaply- should there ever be some readjustment of wealth? Should they have to give their house to someone else if they don’t need all the space?

someone in social housing should have some security too. Who wants to be put through the stress and hardship of moving out of their home that might mean a lot to them? It’s the fact that we treat this underclass of society, as being unimportant and undeserving.

the poorest people who manage to get social housing should be able to live there without fear of being put out if they manage to earn more money. If they can earn enough to buy a property and have some true security then wonderful for them, but if not why should they be forced to pay a private rent to a wealthy landlord just so that they don’t get too comfortable.

Aliceisagooddog · 07/12/2025 18:27

EqualLedgerJay · 07/12/2025 17:25

Situations change, why should lifetime tenancies exist if income rises? AIBU to think fairness cuts both ways?

Ever lived in social housing op?

Bambamhoohoo · 07/12/2025 18:28

HoneyParsnipSoup · 07/12/2025 18:21

It’s subsidised by the taxpayer and the triage is those in need so… yes.

In what way do you think it’s subsidised by the tax payer?

NewGoldFox · 07/12/2025 18:28

I think it’s a shame when you have single people or a couple in a family size home with gardens and then small children living in flats.

HeBeaverandSheBeaver · 07/12/2025 18:28

It is means tested in the first instance. My dd can't get in list unless I chuck her out as she is safe in a good home with a good income.

But I'm not willing to do that to her.

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