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To think social housing should be means-tested annually like benefits?

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EqualLedgerJay · 07/12/2025 17:25

Situations change, why should lifetime tenancies exist if income rises? AIBU to think fairness cuts both ways?

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MrsSkylerWhite · 08/12/2025 13:11

Egglio · 07/12/2025 17:35

Or, we could just give everyone lifetime tenancies, if you're interested in just leveling the playing field.

This

Bambamhoohoo · 08/12/2025 13:11

HoneyParsnipSoup · 08/12/2025 13:07

They’re not the most disadvantaged in society.

No, you are 🥲

HoneyParsnipSoup · 08/12/2025 13:16

Bambamhoohoo · 08/12/2025 13:11

No, you are 🥲

I’m not.

But apparently everyone is.

People on benefits.
People in social housing.
Trans people.
The LGB community.
Children.
The disabled (1 in 5 adults)
Addicts
Domestic abuse victims

Out of the list above I would say people paying £400 a month in rent with no other significant life factors aren’t ‘disadvantaged’ at all.

Seymour5 · 08/12/2025 13:30

Needingtoanewjob · 08/12/2025 13:09

The Government could be building social housing.
Low cost genuinely affordable housing would benefit everyone. There would be more money into the general economy rather than being trapped in housing.

And they could stop councils selling through Right to Buy. If Wales and Scotland don’t allow it now, why does England?

AutumnAllTheWay · 08/12/2025 13:37

HoneyParsnipSoup · 08/12/2025 13:07

They’re not the most disadvantaged in society.

Some of the most disadvantaged then.

People who cant pay market rate rent or ina million years buy their own house.

Everyone deserves a house to live in securely.

Why are you attacking those who have a relatively safe place to live? Rather than questioning the system that means those in private rent do not have a secure, affordable house? Why?

You just sound really really bitter.

Tarteaucitronmerinquee · 08/12/2025 13:45

ShinyWorthKeeping · 08/12/2025 13:08

I was a preschool teacher for 5 years until a new manager came in and bullied me out, she quit during my notice so I retracted it and carried on working.

I fell unexpectedly pregnant a few weeks later, my work refused to pay me any maternity pay as I hadn't been there long enough yet Hmm

So my partner and I ended up in an upstairs council flat.

An incident during my c section caused me to develop DQD in one arm rendering it pretty much useless from elbow down. It was assumed to be carpal tunnel for the first 6 months as the pain and lack of mobility came on over those 6 months.

I fell pregnant with my youngest about 4 weeks before my DQD diagnosis.

I am not allowed to leave my pushchair downstairs and even if I was i can't safely carry 2 under 2 down/up the concrete stairs so essentially I am trapped unless my partner has a day off work or someone can come and help me.

My youngest was born with Tracheomalacia, she's had covid and bronchiolitis all before a month old (now 3 months old) and because the flat has no extractor fans/ no garden to dry laundry and shitty windows we have a ton of mold.

We've begged and pleaded to move, we've been on the list for ages, we've quoted Awaabs law but the best we get is a man who gives us a "special spray" to help get rid of it. It's ruined 2 pairs of curtains and a double buggy (and probably all of our lungs)

The fairness certainly isn't cutting my way and I know my case isn't isolated, a woman next door can't leave her flat as she now needs a mobility scooter but has been told she needs to carry it up the stairs after each use or she will be fined.

Etc etc etc...

That’s absolutely awful and I am so sorry . I suppose you’ve alrettried shelter and the like for advice.? I hope things get better for you soon.

HoneyParsnipSoup · 08/12/2025 13:56

AutumnAllTheWay · 08/12/2025 13:37

Some of the most disadvantaged then.

People who cant pay market rate rent or ina million years buy their own house.

Everyone deserves a house to live in securely.

Why are you attacking those who have a relatively safe place to live? Rather than questioning the system that means those in private rent do not have a secure, affordable house? Why?

You just sound really really bitter.

Why can’t they pay market rates or buy their own house? If their earnings increased as seems to be not-unheard-of then what’s stopping them?

I think things should be equal.

Nobody should be saving £££ on rent at the expense of the taxpayer when they earn £50k.

I’m sick and tired of being told to ‘question the system’. There is no conspiracy. There are no shady puppeteers conspiring for peak capitalism. What we have is a set of shitty global events and the downfall of the West, alongside uncontrolled mass immigration to a tiny country and one which has sold off most of its housing. ‘Questioning the system’ solves none of that. Either we are all in it together or nobody is.

Letting people hang on to their social housing ‘because it’s their home’ is a nonsense.

Frequency · 08/12/2025 14:01

HoneyParsnipSoup · 08/12/2025 13:56

Why can’t they pay market rates or buy their own house? If their earnings increased as seems to be not-unheard-of then what’s stopping them?

I think things should be equal.

Nobody should be saving £££ on rent at the expense of the taxpayer when they earn £50k.

I’m sick and tired of being told to ‘question the system’. There is no conspiracy. There are no shady puppeteers conspiring for peak capitalism. What we have is a set of shitty global events and the downfall of the West, alongside uncontrolled mass immigration to a tiny country and one which has sold off most of its housing. ‘Questioning the system’ solves none of that. Either we are all in it together or nobody is.

Letting people hang on to their social housing ‘because it’s their home’ is a nonsense.

Please explain, with evidence, how the taxpayer funds social housing?

ShinyWorthKeeping · 08/12/2025 14:03

Tarteaucitronmerinquee · 08/12/2025 13:45

That’s absolutely awful and I am so sorry . I suppose you’ve alrettried shelter and the like for advice.? I hope things get better for you soon.

Thank you for your kind words. Our situation has been minimised time and again so its actually really validating to be understood and not being made to feel dramatic, or like a hypochondriac chancing our luck to abuse the system, thank you. Flowers

Thechaseison71 · 08/12/2025 14:04

NorthXNorthWest · 08/12/2025 11:46

Even if we abolished housing benefit tomorrow, social housing would still need tax payers.

Can social housing be built without contributions from tax payers?

I wait...

And the social housing that was built 60 plus years ago. Long paid off and council gather rent each week which is far more than they pay out on maintenance on these properties. For about 20 years barely no property built at all. .

HoneyParsnipSoup · 08/12/2025 14:05

Frequency · 08/12/2025 14:01

Please explain, with evidence, how the taxpayer funds social housing?

Because if Sue insists on never moving from her 3 bedroom council house, then a family in need of housing must go private which will cost us ££ in housing benefit.

LemaxObsessive · 08/12/2025 14:06

Well I live in social housing and completely agree!
However I don’t think it shouldn’t be at a level that benefits are, more like if you end up having a combined household income of say 80-100k per year THEN you’re given 6/12 months notice. Anything below that income threshold - no problem.

I only say this as I don’t think people realise how many now-very wealthy people live in large social housing homes still, even once their many kids have long since grown up and moved out…
I know of one family on my friend’s street who kept their 5 bed housing association house long after their kids had moved out, got married & had kids of their own. It was a new build when they moved in, with integral garage (she said the house only had the integral garage as that was apparently the only 5 bed the developer did back then) 2 en-suite shower rooms & 1 bathroom and massive garden. They were fully entitled to it when their kids were young and I don’t for a minute suggest they or anyone should lose their home as soon as their kids have moved out but they went on to become quite successful! He became manager of a dealership and she became a headteacher yet they remained in their home (and no, they weren’t permitted to buy it, she told me that herself once). They’re both sadly no longer with us but boy did they live it up during their retirement, paying so little for such a massive house that would undoubtedly be worth over a million now, round here, and taking up a huge home that could’ve been life changing for a large family stuck in temporary accommodation….

Now bear in mind, in my area at least, all Social Housing properties have the same rent charge (currently £551pcm) whether it’s a 1 bed flat or 5/6 bed house! Makes no sense I know but it is what it is.

Psychologymam · 08/12/2025 14:07

Bambamhoohoo · 08/12/2025 09:10

Yes, and imagine yours! Tax’s and benefits are means tested so social housing should be!
I mean it has nothing in common with those things but despite the fact I know nothing about social housing, I’m egotistical enough to blast in with my inexperienced opinion.

Maybe you could try GB news, they love non experts pontificating.

I’m genuinely a bit lost - what point are you trying to make about SH or do you just want to rant at random people online?
GB news not quite my style - not a fan of right wing racists, but you do you.

x2boys · 08/12/2025 14:08

HoneyParsnipSoup · 08/12/2025 14:05

Because if Sue insists on never moving from her 3 bedroom council house, then a family in need of housing must go private which will cost us ££ in housing benefit.

Thats not funding social housing though is it?

Frequency · 08/12/2025 14:10

HoneyParsnipSoup · 08/12/2025 14:05

Because if Sue insists on never moving from her 3 bedroom council house, then a family in need of housing must go private which will cost us ££ in housing benefit.

That's not the taxpayer funding social housing, that is funding private, buy-to-let LL.

You could resolve that by capping rents at a reasonable rate, building more affordable housing, and making being a private landlord unattractive. We do not need to race to the bottom. We can make things better instead.

Kirbert2 · 08/12/2025 14:12

HoneyParsnipSoup · 08/12/2025 14:05

Because if Sue insists on never moving from her 3 bedroom council house, then a family in need of housing must go private which will cost us ££ in housing benefit.

That will be very area dependant though.

I pay the same for my 3 bedroom SH as I did for my 3 bedroom private rental. I live up north where rent is usually cheaper and also not in the greatest area so rent prices etc haven't been driven up due to demand.

So the tax payers are paying the same amount for the housing element of UC as they would've done if I was back in my private rental. Not everyone lives in/near London or other expensive areas where the difference is usually huge.

MrsTerryPratchett · 08/12/2025 14:14

TheLittleMermoo · 08/12/2025 05:59

When in doubt check what they do in other more socialist/progressive countries.

And nowhere else gives lifelong tenancies as its completely batshit 🤣

This isn't true.

Singapore don't just give you a tenancy, they sell you a massively reduced price home.

Canada might not give you subsidised housing forever, but a lot of the below market social housing doesn't require annual (or any) requalification.

I assume you are comparing council housing with subsidised housing and those are two different things.

HoneyParsnipSoup · 08/12/2025 14:17

Frequency · 08/12/2025 14:10

That's not the taxpayer funding social housing, that is funding private, buy-to-let LL.

You could resolve that by capping rents at a reasonable rate, building more affordable housing, and making being a private landlord unattractive. We do not need to race to the bottom. We can make things better instead.

we have no more space to build housing.

Bushmillsbabe · 08/12/2025 14:18

Bambamhoohoo · 07/12/2025 19:11

Why not? As long as landlords are aware what they need to do to comply with the law, it’s then their decision whether or not they want to go ahead and be landlords isn’t it?

it’s not unreasonable at all to suggest a professional landlord shouldn’t be able to “get their house back” when they want it.
even your language drips of entitlement and professionalism

And as long as renters are made aware that a tenancy is a short term assured tenancy, then it's the tenants decision to go ahead and rent from that person. I made it very clear to tenants that I would be selling when able, so they could have chosen to rent elsewhere.

Yes, for corporate landlords then lifetime tenancies could be offered. But not for those renting out their sole home for a set period. That's 2 very different things.

Making it compulsory for individual landlords to grant lifetime tenancies would reduce the number of properties on offer (mine would have just sat empty or been offered as an air bnb if I had had to offer a lifetime tenancy). This will lead to fewer available rentals and push rents even higher. As it is, the number of available properties doesn't meet need in many areas, which is causing inflated rental prices.

verybighouseinthecountry · 08/12/2025 14:21

Kirbert2 · 08/12/2025 11:49

Surely part of the issue then is making sure vulnerable people who don't know how to sort through the SH system are supported to do so?

It isn't the next persons fault who is able to either understand the SH system and gather the evidence required or is capable of seeking support from others.

I'm certainly not going to apologise for learning to understand the SH system, seeking the support I needed and gathering the evidence that was required.

Of course it's a big part of the issue. I brought it up to say that it should be the most vulnerable people who are housed first, but that isn't often the case as those who know the tricks and play them get in first. I'm on the list, I'd willingly let someone more vulnerable go ahead of me.

Biker47 · 08/12/2025 14:22

Wasn't the whole point of social housing to provide housing for a wide range of people and create communities, not create defacto ghettos filled with the low paid only.

BruhWhy · 08/12/2025 14:23

The answer is more social housing, not penalising people who start to do well (and whose stable living situation probably contributed to this!).

The private renting sector is fucking brutal, broken and incredibly stressful to navigate. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy, and I don't begrudge anyone stable housing if they've managed to secure it.

There just needs to be MORE of it.

HoneyParsnipSoup · 08/12/2025 14:25

BruhWhy · 08/12/2025 14:23

The answer is more social housing, not penalising people who start to do well (and whose stable living situation probably contributed to this!).

The private renting sector is fucking brutal, broken and incredibly stressful to navigate. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy, and I don't begrudge anyone stable housing if they've managed to secure it.

There just needs to be MORE of it.

There’s no room for more housing. We are hideously overcrowded. If you mean by converting existing buildings in all for it.

Kirbert2 · 08/12/2025 14:26

verybighouseinthecountry · 08/12/2025 14:21

Of course it's a big part of the issue. I brought it up to say that it should be the most vulnerable people who are housed first, but that isn't often the case as those who know the tricks and play them get in first. I'm on the list, I'd willingly let someone more vulnerable go ahead of me.

Is simply knowing the system and how it works knowing the tricks? Or are you talking about people faking things so that they can get ahead?

The only reason I have SH is because of my child and I think the vast majority of parents would put their child before a stranger.

Bambamhoohoo · 08/12/2025 14:26

Bushmillsbabe · 08/12/2025 14:18

And as long as renters are made aware that a tenancy is a short term assured tenancy, then it's the tenants decision to go ahead and rent from that person. I made it very clear to tenants that I would be selling when able, so they could have chosen to rent elsewhere.

Yes, for corporate landlords then lifetime tenancies could be offered. But not for those renting out their sole home for a set period. That's 2 very different things.

Making it compulsory for individual landlords to grant lifetime tenancies would reduce the number of properties on offer (mine would have just sat empty or been offered as an air bnb if I had had to offer a lifetime tenancy). This will lead to fewer available rentals and push rents even higher. As it is, the number of available properties doesn't meet need in many areas, which is causing inflated rental prices.

I think most people in favour of SH are fine with less BTL landlords. Lots have been pushed out in the last 10years. The market does need to stabilise but long term it’s the best thing IMO.

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