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To think Jeremy Bamber might be innocent

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KimberleyClark · 07/12/2025 11:37

Or that at the very least his conviction wasn’t safe and there needs to be a retrial? Ihe was convicted in 1985 of murdering his adoptive parents, sister and her twin sons at his parents’ farmhouse. It was at first deemed to be murder-suicide by the sister, Sheila Caffell, who was a diagnosed schizophrenic. Bamber had been on full life tarriff ever since and still protesting his innocence. I always assumed he was guilty until I listened to a podcast called Blood Family. There was a lot of evidence the jury didn’t hear, it seems the police mucked up the crime scene, his cousins had a financial motive for framing him and a police officer in the control room apparently took a 999 nonspeaking call from the farmhouse while Bamber was outside with the police, which would indicate someone was still alive at that point.

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Maddyisqueen · 11/12/2025 22:27

KimberleyClark · 07/12/2025 12:06

Not necessarily. This was 1985, pre mobile phones.

They could still see if landlines been used

Maddyisqueen · 11/12/2025 22:28

TidyDancer · 07/12/2025 12:10

I’ve always been on the edge with this one. I can’t make my mind up either way. If I had to call it I would say he’s innocent.

Who did it then?

WigglywagglyWanda · 11/12/2025 22:34

Maddyisqueen · 11/12/2025 22:21

His case has been reviewed multiple times hasn’t it?

It has, and a lot of examination on the phone calls took place. Jeremy said the logs at the police station showed that Neville had phoned. However the police officer who logged the call was able to explain that it could read like that, however he was stating that it was Jeremy he had spoken to.

Other bits ive forgotten, I know there was talk of someone still alive in the house while they were outside, which was explained by reflections on the window.

He has a Ted Bundy type following certainly, who believe him innocent.

For me Id be crap on a jury as to me once the defence starts throwing doubt in Id find it hard to find someone guilty! But I believe in my gut he is.

Maddyisqueen · 11/12/2025 22:38

WigglywagglyWanda · 11/12/2025 22:34

It has, and a lot of examination on the phone calls took place. Jeremy said the logs at the police station showed that Neville had phoned. However the police officer who logged the call was able to explain that it could read like that, however he was stating that it was Jeremy he had spoken to.

Other bits ive forgotten, I know there was talk of someone still alive in the house while they were outside, which was explained by reflections on the window.

He has a Ted Bundy type following certainly, who believe him innocent.

For me Id be crap on a jury as to me once the defence starts throwing doubt in Id find it hard to find someone guilty! But I believe in my gut he is.

Edited

I’m talking about Michael stone

WigglywagglyWanda · 11/12/2025 22:42

Maddyisqueen · 11/12/2025 22:38

I’m talking about Michael stone

Ah ok. Apologies!

I thought we were still on Jeremy.

My argument stands that Jeremy has been appealed in the intervening years and no cause to change the verdict has happened.

But the podcasts are always interesting, its a very high profile case obviously.

berlinbaby2025 · 11/12/2025 22:47

WigglywagglyWanda · 11/12/2025 21:58

Yes this is the nearest to my views. Ive read a couple of books and saw the drama though it was some time ago.

I did vacillate a bit on a few things. Julie Mugford struck me as a woman scorned who didnt come out of the woodwork for a long time in such an emotive multiple family murder, I did wonder why.

As regards the phone calls, he took time to look up the phone book for the local station while his sister was going mental with a gun?

The thing though for me was Shielas condition, Neville was beaten badly, he was a well over 6ft strapping farmer, even if he was in his sixties, Sheila, apart from blood from her wounds was clean, nightie pristine, nails freshly manicured.

I could go over the silencer, her arms weren't long enough, how did she shoot herself twice in the neck, go downstairs and put the silencer in the cupboard, but acknowledge it could have been done without it...

I think it was auch a horrific event that folk are still interested, and part of me thinks hes still protesting his innocence, but when I look logically, hes guilty.

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This is a case that may be beyond logic. At least, my logic. Logically, it doesn’t add up that a sane adult in line for a huge inheritance hopes to get away with the murder of five of his relatives?

Scorchio84 · 11/12/2025 22:50

every so often I fall down this rabbit hole.. going to read the full thread & come back

WigglywagglyWanda · 11/12/2025 22:52

berlinbaby2025 · 11/12/2025 22:47

This is a case that may be beyond logic. At least, my logic. Logically, it doesn’t add up that a sane adult in line for a huge inheritance hopes to get away with the murder of five of his relatives?

His dad was early 60s and fit as a flea

He could have had 30 plus years to wait.

But yeh, I get you

PodMom · 11/12/2025 22:53

There used to be someone on MN who was a key figure in the Free Bamber type campaign and had visited him/wrote to him a lot. She posted about it all years ago. She runs a whole website iirc.

Scorchio84 · 11/12/2025 22:59

Squishedpassenger · 07/12/2025 12:21

BTK got caught because he asked the police if they'd be able to trace him if he sent them a floppy disk and they said no. So he sent it.... he had eluded them for 30 years at this point.

He was really terrifying.. not saying JB isn't

Endofyear · 11/12/2025 23:00

FannyGotobed · 11/12/2025 13:56

I remember this case well from the time, I've read the Whitehouse Farm book and watched the drama based on it. I believe he is guilty.

There is a lot of circumstantial evidence that provides his motive. But two things stand out for me that indicate it wasn't Sheila. One is the fact her fingernails were still perfectly manicured and polished. There is no way she could have reloaded the gun without damaging her nails (this is way before acrylics or gels so the polish would have chipped very easily). And for me, if she did kill everyone and then herself, she would have been found in the room with her boys, not with her mother.

This is without the facts that her father had been beaten up (he was a big strong farmer and she was described as very slight and frail) and that she had never used guns yet managed to reload and shoot very efficiently.

There is no doubt that Essex police completely screwed up the investigation which is why there's now all this scope for debate. But I believe he did it and I feel so sorry for all the victims, especially Sheila, her boys and of course Colin.

Agree with all of this - also Sheila was taking some heavy duty anti-psychotic drugs. I have a close family member who takes these same drugs and there's absolutely no way Sheila would have the physical co-ordination or the capacity to plan and execute these murders. Her autopsy proved that she had taken her medication that night and therefore would have been extremely sleepy and uncoordinated.

Scorchio84 · 11/12/2025 23:47

PodMom · 11/12/2025 15:36

Michael Stone is another troubling one.

Even Shaun Russell isn’t sure he’s guilty

oh my god really?

browneyes77 · 11/12/2025 23:50

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 11/12/2025 10:42

I don’t think there has ever been any suggestion that the whole crime scene was staged to frame him, has there?
His argument is that Sheila carried out the murders as the police originally thought and the framing came later, so the police would have already found the gun by Sheila’s body without the silencer.

Not to my knowledge no.

But his legal team did say the silencer evidence was ‘unreliable’ because it was found in the cupboard around 3 days later by one of his cousins.

So either Jeremy chucked it in there himself knowing it would show she did not kill herself, and the police did a botched search (which we all know is likely given their terrible handling of other evidence), or they’re suggesting that it wasn’t there during the initial search.

The handling of the entire case has left many questions!

Allisnotlost1 · 11/12/2025 23:55

WigglywagglyWanda · 11/12/2025 22:08

I dont disagree with what you say, perhaps she could have somehow shot herself with the silencer attached in spite of the failure to properly test.

But if she did, how did it get in the cupboard downstairs?

Agree, if she’d shot herself with it on then of course it could not have got there. Which makes the logic of testing whether it was too long for her to have done it with the silencer on even more wrong! Given that the blood that was found on the silencer was only matched by type and not DNA I tend to think the silencer is a red herring anyway. What I struggle to understand, whether she shor herself or he shot her, is the position. Would someone stay seated on the floor if someone pointed a gun at them? Wouldn’t they scramble to get up, put their arms out? Nevill and June were found in ways that indicated struggle or attempts to escape. The children were asleep when they were killed. For me it only makes sense for Sheila to be seated that way if she needed to position herself to fire the gun. But, the lack of other forensic evidence on her - blood etc - is hard to understand.

Allisnotlost1 · 11/12/2025 23:58

FanofLeaves · 11/12/2025 20:45

This detail stood out to me too! It reminded me of an aspect in the Joanne Lees/peter Falconio case where they said there was no way she could have escaped the cables tied round her wrists by moving them from behind her back to the front as she claimed, then in court she showed them she could, easily.

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Such a shoddy investigation that the truth is unlikely to ever be known. Terrifying really, you wonder how many miscarriages of justice there really are.

Scorchio84 · 12/12/2025 00:06

I'm not derailing but the police messing up the crime scene etc reminds me of the O.J. trial.. now he was obviously guilty no question but the idiot racist LAPD bungled the scene & planted unnecessary evidence so the prick walked.. you'd hope that stuff doesn't go on anymore

doyoulikeunicorns · 12/12/2025 07:23

@Maddyisqueen a case being reviewed doesn’t mean that that’s the end of it. There have been other cases reviewed and appealed and the same conclusions drawn only for it to emerge (usually through DNA) that it wasn’t that individual at all.

I remember watching a BBC documentary about Stone but I was maybe two weeks postpartum so the finer details escape me! I’d need to watch it again. I do remember thinking it was by no means conclusive he was guilty, though. He was certainly a very troubled individual but not one who had form for attacking women and children in rural areas.

I think what everyone should bear in mind is that with high profile ‘shocking’ crimes the police are under a lot of pressure and scrutiny and that can lead to errors. It’s horrible because it’s awful to think someone could walk amongst us after something as horrific as some of the crimes here and also equally (if not more) horrific to think the wrong person is locked up for it.

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 12/12/2025 07:59

WigglywagglyWanda · 11/12/2025 22:34

It has, and a lot of examination on the phone calls took place. Jeremy said the logs at the police station showed that Neville had phoned. However the police officer who logged the call was able to explain that it could read like that, however he was stating that it was Jeremy he had spoken to.

Other bits ive forgotten, I know there was talk of someone still alive in the house while they were outside, which was explained by reflections on the window.

He has a Ted Bundy type following certainly, who believe him innocent.

For me Id be crap on a jury as to me once the defence starts throwing doubt in Id find it hard to find someone guilty! But I believe in my gut he is.

Edited

Yes, in order to believe Bamber was innocent you have to believe the police lied. Unfortunately that’s the easiest part to believe.

I agree with other people on this thread who have raised the state of Sheila’s nails and the effects of her medication, as being bigger problems with the claim that she did it.

Maddyisqueen · 12/12/2025 12:52

doyoulikeunicorns · 12/12/2025 07:23

@Maddyisqueen a case being reviewed doesn’t mean that that’s the end of it. There have been other cases reviewed and appealed and the same conclusions drawn only for it to emerge (usually through DNA) that it wasn’t that individual at all.

I remember watching a BBC documentary about Stone but I was maybe two weeks postpartum so the finer details escape me! I’d need to watch it again. I do remember thinking it was by no means conclusive he was guilty, though. He was certainly a very troubled individual but not one who had form for attacking women and children in rural areas.

I think what everyone should bear in mind is that with high profile ‘shocking’ crimes the police are under a lot of pressure and scrutiny and that can lead to errors. It’s horrible because it’s awful to think someone could walk amongst us after something as horrific as some of the crimes here and also equally (if not more) horrific to think the wrong person is locked up for it.

I was appointing out that it had had repeated attention

Maddyisqueen · 12/12/2025 12:53

Allisnotlost1 · 11/12/2025 23:55

Agree, if she’d shot herself with it on then of course it could not have got there. Which makes the logic of testing whether it was too long for her to have done it with the silencer on even more wrong! Given that the blood that was found on the silencer was only matched by type and not DNA I tend to think the silencer is a red herring anyway. What I struggle to understand, whether she shor herself or he shot her, is the position. Would someone stay seated on the floor if someone pointed a gun at them? Wouldn’t they scramble to get up, put their arms out? Nevill and June were found in ways that indicated struggle or attempts to escape. The children were asleep when they were killed. For me it only makes sense for Sheila to be seated that way if she needed to position herself to fire the gun. But, the lack of other forensic evidence on her - blood etc - is hard to understand.

Maybe she fell over or backwards or he positioned her? Wouldn’t he if he wanted to make it look like suicide

Allisnotlost1 · 12/12/2025 13:36

Maddyisqueen · 12/12/2025 12:53

Maybe she fell over or backwards or he positioned her? Wouldn’t he if he wanted to make it look like suicide

The pathologist said the wounds were inflicted in a seated position, not that she was found in that position. She was found laying flat on her back.

Maddyisqueen · 12/12/2025 13:37

Allisnotlost1 · 12/12/2025 13:36

The pathologist said the wounds were inflicted in a seated position, not that she was found in that position. She was found laying flat on her back.

Ah

I still don’t find it odd

Allisnotlost1 · 12/12/2025 13:42

Maddyisqueen · 12/12/2025 13:37

Ah

I still don’t find it odd

You don’t find it odd that a person would sit on the floor while someone placed a shotgun against their neck and wouldn’t scrabble around trying to get up or push the gun away?

Maddyisqueen · 12/12/2025 13:49

Allisnotlost1 · 12/12/2025 13:42

You don’t find it odd that a person would sit on the floor while someone placed a shotgun against their neck and wouldn’t scrabble around trying to get up or push the gun away?

No as we don’t know the facts - he could have been telling her to sit down and do what he said and he’d spare her - only he knows what happened

he could have been saying he’d spare her kids if she did what he said 🤷‍♀️

she had no gunshot residue on her hands

WigglywagglyWanda · 12/12/2025 13:52

Was it proven that the boys were murdered first?

She had two shots to her neck which was also nigh on impossible to do from what I remember.