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To think Jeremy Bamber might be innocent

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KimberleyClark · 07/12/2025 11:37

Or that at the very least his conviction wasn’t safe and there needs to be a retrial? Ihe was convicted in 1985 of murdering his adoptive parents, sister and her twin sons at his parents’ farmhouse. It was at first deemed to be murder-suicide by the sister, Sheila Caffell, who was a diagnosed schizophrenic. Bamber had been on full life tarriff ever since and still protesting his innocence. I always assumed he was guilty until I listened to a podcast called Blood Family. There was a lot of evidence the jury didn’t hear, it seems the police mucked up the crime scene, his cousins had a financial motive for framing him and a police officer in the control room apparently took a 999 nonspeaking call from the farmhouse while Bamber was outside with the police, which would indicate someone was still alive at that point.

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TryMee · 07/12/2025 22:45

I think he’s guilty. How did his sister kill herself with a rifle that had a silencer on it (they know she was killed whilst it was on as it had her blood inside it) the silencer would have made the gun too long for her to hold and shoot herself. The silencer was in a cupboard ?

HangryBrickShark · 07/12/2025 22:50

OnarealhorseIride · 07/12/2025 12:08

Well I don’t think it was Sheila Caffel. She would not have been strong enough to fight with her father.

She also could not have shot herself because if I remember correctly the shotgun was too long to have been held by her with the fateful shot entering her body at the angle it did.

GoodQueenWenceslaus · 07/12/2025 22:52

berlinbaby2025 · 07/12/2025 21:19

Yes, I know this. I was referring to the paucity of evidence in this case, there’s hardly any. And what little there is is circumstantial.

I don't think that's true. This is not a case where there was a multitude of suspects. Basically it had to be him or Sheila Caffell, and there are good reasons for saying that it would be physically impossible for it to be her. In particular, there was strong evidence that he told his girlfriend all about what he was planning to do and how. There was plenty of evidence which the jury plainly and correctly accepted.

Allisnotlost1 · 07/12/2025 23:12

Arlanymor · 07/12/2025 22:36

We can go into everyone’s evidence if you like, but this ‘new stuff’ is Milbank which is what this post is based on, hence we are all taking about it.

Here’s what I mean by mentioning Julie and Helen - quoting my original post: “I am all for reopening cases with adequate new evidence. I really am. I supported Helen’s Law and Julie’s Law.” So, reopening cases with new and adequate evidence, I mean that was clear? And if the law has changed post-conviction then those laws should be applied. I honestly don’t know how I can make that more evident. It’s about being open to new application of evidence and equally new evidence being applied. Surely clear?

DNA is also circumstantial evidence and always has been. I don’t know why people think circumstantial = flimsy. Everything is flimsy unless you recorded someone doing something!

You would disallow majority verdicts? In favour of what - minority verdicts?

Yes, and there are other pieces of evidence that were rejected by the CCRC, wrongly in my view, hence I mentioned them as never having been before a jury.

I understand that you think you’re being clear re Helen/Julie’s law but Helen’s law is nothing to do with new evidence, it’s about no body cases and parole decision making. Unless there’s another Helen’s Law?

Circumstantial isn’t always flimsy, and DNA isn’t always indirect. I think we’re agreed on that.

In preference for unanimous verdicts, obviously.

AppleDumplingWithCustard · 07/12/2025 23:18

elevenpiperspiping · 07/12/2025 20:15

I’m not totally convinced he’s guilty, there was very little evidence, and the police made many mistakes.

The whole family are very odd though. I’m pretty sure the cousin that found the silencer after the police had already searched the house is the one that inherited the farm. Some of the family still live there.

When the family found the silencer they took it back to Ann Eaton’s (one of the cousins) house and proceeded to dismantle it on the kitchen table. They supposedly saw blood on the baffle plates, reassembled it and informed the police. There is no way that the silencer should have been admitted into evidence as it had been interfered with and possibly contaminated. The family members were very persistent in their efforts to influence the police action and it is quite bizarre that they were allowed to interfere to the extent they did.

berlinbaby2025 · 07/12/2025 23:25

GoodQueenWenceslaus · 07/12/2025 22:52

I don't think that's true. This is not a case where there was a multitude of suspects. Basically it had to be him or Sheila Caffell, and there are good reasons for saying that it would be physically impossible for it to be her. In particular, there was strong evidence that he told his girlfriend all about what he was planning to do and how. There was plenty of evidence which the jury plainly and correctly accepted.

There are other people it could have been - a hitman or another family member.

Theresa’s no strong evidence that he told her that - just that she testified this was the case. This was after changing her story (she originally told police Bamber told her he’d hired a hitman). She was dumped by Bamber after the murders and as Simon Hattenstone asks in the Guardian article, why would he dump Julie after confessing to her, therefore making himself vulnerable?

AppleDumplingWithCustard · 07/12/2025 23:32

berlinbaby2025 · 07/12/2025 22:33

I'm amazed to read in this excellent article that the blood found on the rifle also matched Bamber's uncle. Also that Bamber's ex-girlfriend changed her story and that it's possible she only testified to get herself out of charges related to something else:

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/ng-interactive/2025/apr/17/the-murders-at-white-house-farm-should-jeremy-bamber-still-be-in-prison

It’s also worth pointing out that Julie Mugford stood to receive £25,000 from the News of the World for her story should Bamber be found guilty. It was claimed in court nobody would benefit financially from the case. Evidence from a ‘woman scorned’ should never be relied upon especially one who was in line for a hefty payout which 25K was in 1987.

Menopausalsourpuss · 07/12/2025 23:41

Haven't read whole thread so sorry if already covered. I've read two books on this including the one by Sheila's ex husband - he is sure Bamber is guilty. I think Bamber has convinced himself he is innocent, maybe to cope with the terrible things he did. The way it is framed in the other book is that either he did it or Sheila did because of the call he said he'd received from his father.

AppleDumplingWithCustard · 07/12/2025 23:44

I think it stands to reason that Colin Caffell is convinced of Bamber’s guilt. After all, his two children were murdered.

PodMom · 08/12/2025 06:18

TryMee · 07/12/2025 22:45

I think he’s guilty. How did his sister kill herself with a rifle that had a silencer on it (they know she was killed whilst it was on as it had her blood inside it) the silencer would have made the gun too long for her to hold and shoot herself. The silencer was in a cupboard ?

I think this is what it boils down to isn’t it, whether the silencer was used or not?

I think JB’s case is that it wasn’t used. That Sheila went on a rampage with the gun without the silencer. That the silencer being in the cupboard points to it not being used. That the wider family (who stood to gain not only the farm but I think a wider caravan business) contaminated the silencer on purpose to make him look guilty. How likely that scenario is I have no idea.

Squishedpassenger · 08/12/2025 06:21

I think one of the most interesting things about Bamber are his biological parents.

TootsMaHoots · 08/12/2025 06:51

KimberleyClark · 07/12/2025 12:16

How about the silencer with blood on it? If he really was a cunning master criminal as he was portrayed, surely he would have got rid of it somehow rather than leave it in a shoebox in a cupboard under the stairs?

Men who commit crimes like this don’t that there will be a thorough investigation. They assume that everyone will believe what they say.
Oh no, my sister Sheila has murdered everyone’.

‘That’s terrible Jeremy, what a bad egg she was. Here’s some tea. Then we will be off’

They don’t think that people won’t believe them. Like Chris Watts. He thought the police would just think his wife had left because he said so so he loaded up her body in to his car right in front of a camera because he didn’t think they would investigate.

TootsMaHoots · 08/12/2025 06:54

Squishedpassenger · 08/12/2025 06:21

I think one of the most interesting things about Bamber are his biological parents.

Why? They had him adopted and they haven’t now seen him since and they are just ordinary people. They aren’t murderers or anything.

Squishedpassenger · 08/12/2025 06:56

TootsMaHoots · 08/12/2025 06:54

Why? They had him adopted and they haven’t now seen him since and they are just ordinary people. They aren’t murderers or anything.

Just who they are. I didnt say they are to blame.

beccahamlet · 08/12/2025 06:57

KimberleyClark · 07/12/2025 11:37

Or that at the very least his conviction wasn’t safe and there needs to be a retrial? Ihe was convicted in 1985 of murdering his adoptive parents, sister and her twin sons at his parents’ farmhouse. It was at first deemed to be murder-suicide by the sister, Sheila Caffell, who was a diagnosed schizophrenic. Bamber had been on full life tarriff ever since and still protesting his innocence. I always assumed he was guilty until I listened to a podcast called Blood Family. There was a lot of evidence the jury didn’t hear, it seems the police mucked up the crime scene, his cousins had a financial motive for framing him and a police officer in the control room apparently took a 999 nonspeaking call from the farmhouse while Bamber was outside with the police, which would indicate someone was still alive at that point.

Was the podcast called Blood Family or Blood Ties?

TheGrimSmile · 08/12/2025 07:07

GoodBrew · 07/12/2025 12:28

I wouldn't trust Louis Theroux. He couldn't see through Saville at all. He has no ability to read people, he fell for his charms completely.

He absolutely saw through Saville. I know nothing about this current case. But Louis Theroux was very clever with Saville. He knew exactly who he was.

TheGrimSmile · 08/12/2025 07:18

Most sociopaths/psychopaths have problematic childhoods age 0-2. The fact that he was adopted at 6 months old means that for the first 6 months of his life, at least, he would not have had a secure attachment to anyone. A mother who is attached to her child does not just give it up for adoption at 6 months. People aren't born psychopaths. Some people have a predisposed genetic make-up that can make them more likely, in the wrong circumstances, to become psychopaths. This is why those first few years of childhood are absolutely crucial.

TheGrimSmile · 08/12/2025 07:21

TheGrimSmile · 08/12/2025 07:07

He absolutely saw through Saville. I know nothing about this current case. But Louis Theroux was very clever with Saville. He knew exactly who he was.

Louis Theroux's modus operandi is to be calm and make people feel comfortable with him so they reveal their true colours to the audience. And he does it really well.

MrsToothyBitch · 08/12/2025 07:24

I've always found the case a bit bizarre- before my time but I read up on it - and I'm never entirely sure whether he did or didn't do it. A lot of the story is murky. I lean towards did but things nag at your conscience.

There seems to be quite a strange vibe about the family. I remember being rather rattled by one of the cousins when he was interviewed / filmed for some crime show in the early 00s and remarking to my mum that he made me uncomfortable. I think it was his attitude about Sheila. My mum agreed. I still think JB is the most likely offender but something generally seems off about them as a family group and that's what people pick up on. No one deserved to die though; the outcome is simply tragic, no matter what surrounds it.

CharlotteLightandDark · 08/12/2025 08:24

TryMee · 07/12/2025 22:45

I think he’s guilty. How did his sister kill herself with a rifle that had a silencer on it (they know she was killed whilst it was on as it had her blood inside it) the silencer would have made the gun too long for her to hold and shoot herself. The silencer was in a cupboard ?

There’s no proof a silencer was used, and she could have used the gun without it.

it’s an unsafe conviction imo.

KimberleyClark · 08/12/2025 08:36

beccahamlet · 08/12/2025 06:57

Was the podcast called Blood Family or Blood Ties?

Blood Family.

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Americano75 · 08/12/2025 08:44

TheGrimSmile · 08/12/2025 07:21

Louis Theroux's modus operandi is to be calm and make people feel comfortable with him so they reveal their true colours to the audience. And he does it really well.

Left the camera running after he went to bed.

PodMom · 08/12/2025 16:23

If it wasn’t for Sheila’s mental illness I’d be more inclined to be convinced of his guilt. But she was a known schizophrenic on a cocktail of anti psychotic drugs. She’d talked about suicide. She’d told a nurse she was worried she’d kill her sons. She was convinced that the boys were evil and would grow up to be killers. She skipped her meds, was deteriorating quickly hence why she’d moved back to the farm.

AppleDumplingWithCustard · 08/12/2025 17:36

PodMom · 08/12/2025 16:23

If it wasn’t for Sheila’s mental illness I’d be more inclined to be convinced of his guilt. But she was a known schizophrenic on a cocktail of anti psychotic drugs. She’d talked about suicide. She’d told a nurse she was worried she’d kill her sons. She was convinced that the boys were evil and would grow up to be killers. She skipped her meds, was deteriorating quickly hence why she’d moved back to the farm.

Quite. And for those saying that Sheila couldn’t have fought or overpowered her big strapping father, she could if she’d already shot him several times.