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Things you hate.

509 replies

divorcinganabsolutewanker · 05/12/2025 12:16

We've had 2 birthdays in work today and I didn't join in with the singing of happy birthday. I hate it. Have a great day and all that but I don't feel the need to go and join in.

I also hate Christmas, it's a waste of money. Love the time with family but the rest of it can fuck off.

I also hate going for a wee and stopping for diesel.

What do you hate?

OP posts:
joeninetey · 03/01/2026 22:53

Without a doubt, not being able to find things that you want/need, but when you don't want/need them, there they are ?!

janj52301 · 04/01/2026 07:59

Elaine Paige's laugh is far worse than Jimmy Carr's, I love the music on her show but can no longer listen to it because of her laugh

pictoosh · 04/01/2026 09:02

BadLad · 03/01/2026 22:52

I’ve never heard Elaine Paige’s laugh, but is it really worse than Jimmy Carr’s?

I can confirm that it is. Poor woman, not her fault...but yes, it raises the heckles.

Gloriia · 04/01/2026 09:05

JudgeBread · 05/12/2025 12:17

People who congregate in shop doorways or the middle of shop aisles to have a chat.

Fuck off out the way you weapons, go to a cafe or something to have a catch up, not the middle of the fecking veg aisle.

I hate this. So many people have no spatial awareness at all. If you want to chat fine, just move to the side and let others get past Angry

Gloriia · 04/01/2026 09:06

janj52301 · 04/01/2026 07:59

Elaine Paige's laugh is far worse than Jimmy Carr's, I love the music on her show but can no longer listen to it because of her laugh

Why does he do that whooping thing, it can't be genuine surely?

janj52301 · 04/01/2026 14:46

He says it's because he laughs on the in breathe not the out or the other way round.....

Crispychillifriedbeef · 04/01/2026 14:59

Inverted snobbery and jealously towards people who are perceived to have more.

MellowNewt · 04/01/2026 15:03

Women putting up with colossal amounts of shit for completely unremarkable men. I just don’t get it. It’s just a MAN. I was single for 5+ years in my 20s until I met dh. Being single is really not THAT bad. Get a vibrator. The lives some women have and for what?? I can’t stand to witness it. I have a cousin who has a an actual lump of shot for a husband. He talks down to her. No idea why she puts up with it. The woman has a phd!

Gloriia · 04/01/2026 15:58

MellowNewt · 04/01/2026 15:03

Women putting up with colossal amounts of shit for completely unremarkable men. I just don’t get it. It’s just a MAN. I was single for 5+ years in my 20s until I met dh. Being single is really not THAT bad. Get a vibrator. The lives some women have and for what?? I can’t stand to witness it. I have a cousin who has a an actual lump of shot for a husband. He talks down to her. No idea why she puts up with it. The woman has a phd!

Sadly, many people are financially reliant on another. So shared mortgage bills etc. I think if those in bad relationships had a lump sum to leave and live separately they would jump at the chance.

Festivespirit85 · 04/01/2026 22:33

theyregonnaknow · 03/01/2026 21:18

Baby showers! WTAF.

I once was invited to one, but declined.

Also having to wash my face/remove makeup on my work days (I don’t wear it on my non working days) is such an effort.

Baby showers are cringe. It also seems to be a socially acceptable way of begging for presents/money.
I was invited to one by an old colleague and on the invite they were requesting money towards a car seat! I politely declined. When did it become ok to request gifts for your unborn baby.

Purplecatshopaholic · 04/01/2026 22:36

The state of the world today!

Playingvideogames · 04/01/2026 22:39

They way in which people who should be anticipating you seem utterly surprised to see you there. Turning up for hairdresser appointments, turning up to maternity ward while in labour, walking into a shop. Every bloody time they look at you like you’ve just strolled into their living room and they have zero clue why you’re there, before asking ‘yes?’ Or ‘everything ok?’. Well, what do you think? I’m here to buy something/get my hair done/give birth.

Annoying men whose life goal is to take up more space than everyone else. Manspreading when sat on public transport, yelling into their mobiles, walking straight at you expecting you to dive out the way.

The fact my clothes only catch on door handles and I only drop things/stub my toe/trip over when I’m already angry.

the80sweregreat · 05/01/2026 05:09

I really don’t like the receptionists in my dentist surgery. I’m lucky to have the NHS dentist and I’m sure I’m treated differently! They are quite surly and miserable and I doubt they get the same treatment doctors ones do either. I can’t move surgeries as NHs dentists are gold dust ! Very much a first world problem though and only twice a year I have to go , but they really are so miserable. lol

FourCatMama · 05/01/2026 05:17

I just got my daughter a towel warmer for this problem and she loves it

NimbleHiker · 05/01/2026 13:08

I have more. I hate cutting the grass. I hate people who persistently phone until i answer just for a chat. I am not one of these people who hates answering the phone. There are times when i cannot answer the phone because i am busy. It annoys me that people are incapable of just leaving a voicemail. I would phone them back. I hate people who get on a bus or train before people have got off. I hate people who just grunt when i ask a simple question.

wornoutjeans · 05/01/2026 13:11

Going to bloody work , I am grateful to have a job , just not 12 hour nightshifts that suck my soul out of me and make me exhausted for days

HeneralClux · 01/06/2026 13:46

JudgeBread · 05/12/2025 12:17

People who congregate in shop doorways or the middle of shop aisles to have a chat.

Fuck off out the way you weapons, go to a cafe or something to have a catch up, not the middle of the fecking veg aisle.

People also do this by zebra crossings!

ChillDanceMusic · 01/06/2026 13:52

Wars

Putting duvet cover on

How women are treated by males in some countries in the world

People with no manners

Rubbish and litter in the countryside

AgentPidge · 01/06/2026 14:18

Re the supermarket queue thing, people who pack all their stuff away and THEN think about getting their purse out and finding their card. They could do that in the queue and save us all having to wait, seething.
I put up with catching myself looking like a discombobulated gnome on the self- checkout camera thingy just so I can avoid being held up by oblivious idiots.

Redpeach · 01/06/2026 14:56

Impatient people in supermarkets and streets and roads

Undecidedcontact · 01/06/2026 15:04

People who assume I want to hold their newborn. It feels so inherently sexist. I've never seen anyone thrust their infant at DH or the men at work but the women are practically expected to crowd round and coo at them. I will absolutely there when they hit the toddler stage, but am not a fan of babies.

Also people who bring their newborn into the office.

Having to repeat myself.

MisunderstoodisanUnderstatment · 01/06/2026 15:05

Redpeach · 01/06/2026 14:56

Impatient people in supermarkets and streets and roads

It is probably me! 😂 I hate people dawdling infront when I need to be somewhere, especially when they stand side by side blocking an entire pathway. I am also a fast walker.
I also hate when somebody is standing for ages looking at tomato soup for example with no regard for others needing to get their shopping in as well, (just pick up the damn tin already)!

Lottapianos · 01/06/2026 15:51

'Also people who bring their newborn into the office'

YES to this. Very painful memories of having to hide in the toilet or invent a meeting just to get myself out of there before I cried in front of everyone

Lurkingandlearning · 01/06/2026 16:07

HalfWayAroundTheLoop · 05/12/2025 12:21

Fucking everyone 😃

😂😂 me too

maddiemookins16mum · 01/06/2026 16:13

People who eat food they haven’t yet paid for in Supermarkets. Nobody needs to tear open a bag of crisps that urgently. That goes for kids too. They won’t collapse with hunger.

oh and influencers, get a proper job fgs.