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To want to experience a general anaesthetic again?

202 replies

slightlyovertiredalways · 04/12/2025 22:53

Or something like it?!

I had a general anaesthetic for the first time a few months ago, and as someone who struggles with sleeping the feeling was unreal. One second I felt a bit drunk, the next I was waking up from the deepest sleep of my life with a warm blanket on me and someone bringing me tea and toast 😂 some nights when I’m extra tired and struggling to sleep I think about that feeling and crave it in a weird way.

Is there anything I can do to help me sleep in that way?!

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Grammarninja · 05/12/2025 10:37

Going through IVF, I had 6 different egg retrieval procedures which involves heavy sedation. I used to look forward to it so much! I felt like I was in a cosy, warm bubble all day after and would just lie on the couch slipping in and out of sleep. HEAVEN! When people talk about how hard IVF is, I never understand it. Kinda sad those days are over!

Sleepinglioness · 05/12/2025 10:38

Oh no, I have always felt absolutely awful after, firstly my body is so stiff, the pain in my jaw from the equipment, then the sick feeling and headache, and the absolute disorientation. I’ve had a lot of GA’s probably an average of 2 a year since the age of 5. One lasted 12 hours which was the weirdest feeling waking up and realising I’d missed out on a whole day. Another where they’d given me a strong pre med I have absolutely no recollection of at all of any of it. I hate that too.

breezyyy · 05/12/2025 10:40

redannie18 · 05/12/2025 10:36

I once got travel sick tablets in Holland and we all took them on the ferry home and were SO HIGH, it was lovely, we all just stared at the wall and listened to the terrible on board radio station. No idea what it was, not the standard Kwells thats for sure!

If only we knew what they were!

mydogisanidiott · 05/12/2025 10:41

this is such a great threat. I also loved the GA unfortunately after a missed miscarriage and remember waking up and asking for paracetamol and being told it was ok as I’d had some fentanyl.

I have chronic sleep and will pain issues and a have tried tramadol, diazepam zopiclone amyteillyline and desperately want to be drug free.

I wish it was a simple a a walk and a hot bath!

although the best is night nurse! Which I think is the antihistamine what it in Kirkland sleep aid but I don’t know how to buy it in the UK

slightlyovertiredalways · 05/12/2025 10:41

breezyyy · 05/12/2025 10:34

I heard something similar on a show I watched where they were ill in a foreign country and wanted help with it. They got some unknown pills and got really high on them.

It’d be great if it was that easy in the UK, (I half jest).

Sometimes I do consider it when I’m in Europe, they have a lot more available in a pharmacy than we do!

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breezyyy · 05/12/2025 10:43

slightlyovertiredalways · 05/12/2025 10:41

Sometimes I do consider it when I’m in Europe, they have a lot more available in a pharmacy than we do!

We’re so damned backward here. I mean, we spend most of our time in rain, cold and darkness so it would be really nice to have something to cheer us up.

slightlyovertiredalways · 05/12/2025 10:45

breezyyy · 05/12/2025 10:43

We’re so damned backward here. I mean, we spend most of our time in rain, cold and darkness so it would be really nice to have something to cheer us up.

😂 it is part of the reason it’s so hard to see a GP though. Everything has to go through them

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Tillow4ever · 05/12/2025 10:48

Melatonin works for me to actually be able to fall asleep - after suffering my entire life I wish I’d discovered it sooner!

breezyyy · 05/12/2025 10:52

slightlyovertiredalways · 05/12/2025 10:45

😂 it is part of the reason it’s so hard to see a GP though. Everything has to go through them

You can guarantee those GPs are very happy to sedate/boost themselves. The hypocrites. I think the hippocratic oath got lost in translation.

😊

rubbishking · 05/12/2025 11:05

slightlyovertiredalways · 05/12/2025 10:29

The pharmacy, I worded that really badly! We all caught a cold towards the end of our holiday and asked for the e equivalent of night nurse. But it was actually just sleeping pills.

Sleeping tablets or antihistamine?

slightlyovertiredalways · 05/12/2025 11:07

rubbishking · 05/12/2025 11:05

Sleeping tablets or antihistamine?

I have no idea. I was handed this box of pills, told it was night nurse and that was that. I think part of the issue was that I took two at a time and may have only needed one 😂

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GeorgeMichaelsCat · 05/12/2025 11:11

I've had 2 GA's in the last few years, the last one left me feeling a bit tipsy for a few days after. Wasn't unpleasant 😁

breezyyy · 05/12/2025 11:15

So I’m thinking Brave New World.

A gram is better than a damn.

What’s the worst that could happen.

Better than 1984.

FcukBreastCancer · 05/12/2025 11:18

Low dose amitriptyline and magnesium works well for me (and zopiclone when the GP is feeling very generous)

rubbishking · 05/12/2025 11:20

FcukBreastCancer · 05/12/2025 11:18

Low dose amitriptyline and magnesium works well for me (and zopiclone when the GP is feeling very generous)

zMA tablets are supposed to be good

brunettemic · 05/12/2025 11:23

I know what you mean, although I always wake up cold from them, no idea whether that’s weird or not.

JustHereWithMyPopcorn · 05/12/2025 11:23

I can't relate at all, when I have had them I'm hideously sick after and don't feel relaxed at all. I would love something to make me feel as you describe though as my sleep is absolutely terrible.

BertieBotts · 05/12/2025 11:28

Have you ever had a sleep study done?

slightlyovertiredalways · 05/12/2025 11:40

BertieBotts · 05/12/2025 11:28

Have you ever had a sleep study done?

im not sure I need one? I just struggle with sleep, I always have

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DuchessDandelion · 05/12/2025 11:42

Tigerbalmshark · 04/12/2025 23:18

That warm cosy feeling is the morphine I’m afraid OP. Which is why people abuse it.

Not always morphine, I can't have morphine (allergic not a former user) and still have that cosy feeling after a GA

breezyyy · 05/12/2025 11:45

slightlyovertiredalways · 05/12/2025 11:40

im not sure I need one? I just struggle with sleep, I always have

It’s so awful struggling with sleep, when it should be a completely natural process. You have my empathy OP. I am so sick of it.

AreYouBrandNew · 05/12/2025 11:46

PurpleAxe · 04/12/2025 23:12

Really heavy duty exercise. Like a heavy weightlifting session followed by at least 30 minutes intense cardio.

Then spend time streeeetching everything. THEN properly cool down, a gentle walk for 30 mins, eat something nice and filling but not too heavy. A long warm (not hot) shower and in to bed early, no more than about 3 hours after the walk.

And I mean a heavy workout. The type where you cant do a another repetition.

The sleep I get after really focusing on myself like this beats GA hands down.

This topped off with a couple of nagnesium tablets and a valerian tea (small so you don’t need to get up at night!)

EllaPaella · 05/12/2025 12:03

The first GA I had I remember coming round and feeling all sleepy and happy and cosy - a lovely nurse was talking to me and went off to get me tea and toast, it was great. Like being a kid again when your Mum is looking after you 😁
The second one I had wasn’t so good - I felt so sick and nauseous afterwards and they gave me an anti sickness drug which made me feel dizzy and really weird. Maybe it’s the type of anaesthetic they use or perhaps they give you opioids as well? I don’t want another one if I can help it!

slightlyovertiredalways · 05/12/2025 12:07

breezyyy · 05/12/2025 11:45

It’s so awful struggling with sleep, when it should be a completely natural process. You have my empathy OP. I am so sick of it.

Exactly. Lying in bed unable to drive off, waking up, feeling crap the next day. It’s awful

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breezyyy · 05/12/2025 12:11

slightlyovertiredalways · 05/12/2025 12:07

Exactly. Lying in bed unable to drive off, waking up, feeling crap the next day. It’s awful

I’m on zopiclone and have been for way too long so I get the odd hours of sleep but it’s truly awful. It really depresses me so I do understand.

Life shouldn’t be this bloody hard.

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