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To want to experience a general anaesthetic again?

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slightlyovertiredalways · 04/12/2025 22:53

Or something like it?!

I had a general anaesthetic for the first time a few months ago, and as someone who struggles with sleeping the feeling was unreal. One second I felt a bit drunk, the next I was waking up from the deepest sleep of my life with a warm blanket on me and someone bringing me tea and toast 😂 some nights when I’m extra tired and struggling to sleep I think about that feeling and crave it in a weird way.

Is there anything I can do to help me sleep in that way?!

OP posts:
breezyyy · 05/12/2025 02:28

In fact @VoltaireMittyDream I think I love you.

Whatsthatsheila · 05/12/2025 02:29

Umm my last experience of waking up from
anaesthetic-

disoriented for a hot minute - then the pain hit me and I burst into tears, nurse pumped some morphine into my cannula

dozed for a short while - woke back up and realised I’d wet myself. Awesome!

Timeforanewgame · 05/12/2025 02:52

In get it, I was heavily sedated a few months back and woke up feeling calm and refreshed. I often wish I could do it again. The feeling that washed over me when they administered it was good as well. I guess this is why they are controlled drugs and people get addicted to them

breezyyy · 05/12/2025 02:54

Timeforanewgame · 05/12/2025 02:52

In get it, I was heavily sedated a few months back and woke up feeling calm and refreshed. I often wish I could do it again. The feeling that washed over me when they administered it was good as well. I guess this is why they are controlled drugs and people get addicted to them

There is a very calm, peaceful way for people to die. There always has been. That drug is available but not to the public. And it should be.

Millytante · 05/12/2025 03:06

Shinyandnew1 · 04/12/2025 23:08

Definitely-there's nothing quite like it.

I read a lot of Jilly Cooper when I was younger and her characters used to often take one mogodon tablet and sleep like the dead-I presume you can't get those prescribed so easily now!?

Moggies were the Prosecco to Mandrax’s Champagne, and these great hypnotics were replaced by Rohypnol, itself replaced, tragically for insomniacs, with the modern bloody Z-drugs (Zolpidem and Zopiclone), which are both useless against chronic sleeplessness, and are very dangerous.

Given the fantasy choice of old school barbiturates (Tuinal, Quaaludes etc), Mandrax, heroin, Tramadol, dihydrocodeine, or morphine, I’d take a lifetime supply of morphine every time.
The most mellow, serene, comforting and somehow ‘clean’ narcotic of all, for me. Every time I’ve taken it, it’s been like the missing piece from my psychological and physical jigsaw has been put back into its place, and all is as the universe intended.
I wish to God I could be given it as a combined sleep aid (chronic, intractable insomnia here) and general mood/life sorter-outer!

I remember reading something Keith Richards described, eons ago, about narcotics or ‘downers’ (ie barbiturates, hypnotics, and the opium family) as opposed to uppers such as amphetamines and cocaine.
He said some people thrive, feel restored and alive taking downers, while most others will succumb to slumber and aren’t temperamentally all that keen on the effects.
Those who feel ‘improved’ though have some mild kind of neurological dysfunction which is rectified with opiates. (Receptors? Something like that)
A few lines of speed will make anyone feel jazzed up and confident, but the same of morphine makes certain among us feel re-tuned, in the zone.

Anyway…I think he talked sense, and it’s a damn shame this sterling remedy isn't more easily available!
At my advanced age I wouldn't give a damn about dependence on any drug which made everything work properly, any more than I’d resist insulin were I diabetic.

(I manage insomnia now with pregabalin and codeine, prescribed for a pain condition, and it’s very much a third rate solution compared with what one would prefer!)

MrsFrumble · 05/12/2025 03:08

Ha! I thought I was the only weirdo who felt like this! I’ve only ever had one GA; for a minor gynae procedure about 15 years ago. I’m a worrier and an over thinker, and for me the feeling of empty-headed abandon was amazing. I woke up in recovery and I just didn’t care about anything! DH took me home in a taxi, still in a vacant daze, and we went back to bed and napped all afternoon. By the evening I was back to fretting about work, housework and the state of the world, but the few hours of utter peace was a high I’ve wished to replicate ever since.

breezyyy · 05/12/2025 03:12

Millytante · 05/12/2025 03:06

Moggies were the Prosecco to Mandrax’s Champagne, and these great hypnotics were replaced by Rohypnol, itself replaced, tragically for insomniacs, with the modern bloody Z-drugs (Zolpidem and Zopiclone), which are both useless against chronic sleeplessness, and are very dangerous.

Given the fantasy choice of old school barbiturates (Tuinal, Quaaludes etc), Mandrax, heroin, Tramadol, dihydrocodeine, or morphine, I’d take a lifetime supply of morphine every time.
The most mellow, serene, comforting and somehow ‘clean’ narcotic of all, for me. Every time I’ve taken it, it’s been like the missing piece from my psychological and physical jigsaw has been put back into its place, and all is as the universe intended.
I wish to God I could be given it as a combined sleep aid (chronic, intractable insomnia here) and general mood/life sorter-outer!

I remember reading something Keith Richards described, eons ago, about narcotics or ‘downers’ (ie barbiturates, hypnotics, and the opium family) as opposed to uppers such as amphetamines and cocaine.
He said some people thrive, feel restored and alive taking downers, while most others will succumb to slumber and aren’t temperamentally all that keen on the effects.
Those who feel ‘improved’ though have some mild kind of neurological dysfunction which is rectified with opiates. (Receptors? Something like that)
A few lines of speed will make anyone feel jazzed up and confident, but the same of morphine makes certain among us feel re-tuned, in the zone.

Anyway…I think he talked sense, and it’s a damn shame this sterling remedy isn't more easily available!
At my advanced age I wouldn't give a damn about dependence on any drug which made everything work properly, any more than I’d resist insulin were I diabetic.

(I manage insomnia now with pregabalin and codeine, prescribed for a pain condition, and it’s very much a third rate solution compared with what one would prefer!)

Thank you for this superb information!

Forty years on I am addicted to zopiclone. NOW, certain doctors want me off it. I can’t fucking wait for that!

LunaTheCat · 05/12/2025 03:16

A GA is a fascinating thing.. I think an anaesthetist did a thread some months ago.
Its a very skilful thing indeed and I agree the best sleep ever!

breezyyy · 05/12/2025 03:18

LunaTheCat · 05/12/2025 03:16

A GA is a fascinating thing.. I think an anaesthetist did a thread some months ago.
Its a very skilful thing indeed and I agree the best sleep ever!

Can you link to the thread please?

k1233 · 05/12/2025 03:27

Phenergan can help. It's an antihistamine that makes you sleep. I find it's a deep sleep. If I take one about an hour before bed it's a restful sleep. Two make it harder ro wake up.

I read a breathing technique recently and ever since have been crashing. Very easy to do. In bed, do some calm regular breaths. Exhale and hold for 15 seconds. A couple more deep regular breaths and exhale and hold for 15 seconds. Do a third time and then I'm out like a light and have a deep sleep for the night, which is usually difficult due to high pain levels.

hazelnutvanillalatte · 05/12/2025 03:32

I hate GA! Wake up emotional and vomiting. Also hate sedatives and pain relief like morphine - just makes me feel sick and dizzy. Interesting how we're all different

HeyThereDelila · 05/12/2025 03:42

I’ve not had GA but I’ve had deep sedation. It was great.

Best thing for sleep at home is do some exercise in the day - just a walk is fine, no caffeine after 3pm, no phone or iPad after 9pm, make sure your room is really dark, and have a very thick heavy duvet on the bed as well as wearing warm pyjamas and/or a vest underneath.

Not ideal if you’re peri menopausal, but if you’re not it’s what I’d recommend!

Millytante · 05/12/2025 03:43

k1233 · 05/12/2025 03:27

Phenergan can help. It's an antihistamine that makes you sleep. I find it's a deep sleep. If I take one about an hour before bed it's a restful sleep. Two make it harder ro wake up.

I read a breathing technique recently and ever since have been crashing. Very easy to do. In bed, do some calm regular breaths. Exhale and hold for 15 seconds. A couple more deep regular breaths and exhale and hold for 15 seconds. Do a third time and then I'm out like a light and have a deep sleep for the night, which is usually difficult due to high pain levels.

The only problem with Phenergan, as with other old school antihistamines, is their strong tendency to exacerbate Restless Legs Syndrome. (Same with a lot of SSRIs)
RLS is a quite common adjunct to/even a cause of chronic insomnia, so antihistamines can be counterproductive.
But it’s a surprisingly decent mild sedative, if RLS isn’t a likelihood.

Millytante · 05/12/2025 03:56

breezyyy · 05/12/2025 03:12

Thank you for this superb information!

Forty years on I am addicted to zopiclone. NOW, certain doctors want me off it. I can’t fucking wait for that!

What I found with those Z-drugs was that neither one was sufficient to sustain sleep at all. I’d usually manage to drift off ok, but would wake up again only a couple of hours later (even if I took double the dose).
That’s when it’d get dicey: I’d then be scrabbling around groggily for more, desperate to get back to sleep and it never mattered where I’d have stashed the damn things. I’d often wake up in the morning having taken multiple doses through a fractured night.
It’d be even more alarming if I actually got up after that first dose wore off. I’d think I was just mildly stoned and pretty much compos mentis, but in fact I was on the far side of Barking, and it was a mercy I didn’t drive. (Gawd only knows what that stuff might cause a person with guns in the house to get up to! Ambien is a very popular drug in America by all accounts)

Anyway, best wishes to you; it’s a damn shame being dependent on a really crappy substitute for something altogether better for you.

Vodkamartini3olives · 05/12/2025 04:23

I get this feeling from hot yin or hatha yoga. I go to a 9pm class and I walk out of there in 'bliss'. Straight home shower and jammies then sleep like the dead.

Nsky62 · 05/12/2025 04:28

staceyflack · 04/12/2025 22:59

I like it too👌.

There are sedatives you can knock yourself out with. Unfortunately... they are highly addictive. The withdrawal symptoms from which can be life threatening. 😬

Meditation is the best we can hope for, I think (safely). 🙏

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Warm cat is good, addictive, if willing cat

Tormundsbeard · 05/12/2025 04:31

i have a weighted blanket which when I have it on top of the covers gives me an echo of the GA feeling that you can’t move your limbs.

teletubs · 05/12/2025 04:52

Yeah I woke up from my GA feeling very cosy and content, that toast was absolutely amazing 🤩

EINSEINSNULL · 05/12/2025 04:56

I've had a GA twice, with very different experiences both times. General Anaesthesia is a well studied process, but it's not risk free, and so have no desire to repeat it unless necessary. I have had Midazolam sedation and did have a nice sleep each timre after that. I'm not sure there's much that's non-addictive and legal which would give the same effect tbh.

Buttcraic · 05/12/2025 05:04

Oooh, agree OP, I thought it was just me as most people dont seem to like waking up from GA but I feel like I've been in a beautiful place for decades, like narnia or something, very blissful.

I was sedated and given tramadol once too, didnt get the bliss but it was nice to be so calm and quiet for an afternoon 😅

OttersMayHaveShifted · 05/12/2025 05:13

Christ no. I feel awful when I come around after a GA.

Justputsomeyoghurtonit · 05/12/2025 05:39

Yab so so so U.

GA is the most horrible thing ever. I have had four and each one I go under fighting - squirming, saying no, please make it stop, I hate it, it's like pethidine, I feel sick and dizzy.

Propfol is revolting stuff.

On one of mine, the anaesthetist had to tell me shut my eyes in the end as I was writhing around staring at him!

I usually wake up writhing around too, or crying my eyes out.

I bloody hate them. I had nausea for two weeks after a long op last year. God only knows how you can all eat afterwards!

Mine have all been in a private hospital and so I always have a debrief afterwards and the anaethetists are always a bit 🤷🏼‍♀️ at me!

On the other hand, I nap after lunch every day, if I'm at home always under my duvet. Three breaths and I'm out like a light.

blackberryhill · 05/12/2025 05:39

I'm with you, OP, having never had a GA before I've recently had two in a month. I love the woozy, drunk feeling as the anaesthetic hits and then the warm sleepiness when I come round after. No joke, the first one seems to have fixed my insomnia - after 5 years of waking in the middle of the night for several hours most nights, I'm now sleeping through to my alarm pretty much every day.

Justputsomeyoghurtonit · 05/12/2025 05:52

hazelnutvanillalatte · 05/12/2025 03:32

I hate GA! Wake up emotional and vomiting. Also hate sedatives and pain relief like morphine - just makes me feel sick and dizzy. Interesting how we're all different

Yep. Codeine is horrific. I'd have to hang onto the sofa I'd feel so dizzy.

Justputsomeyoghurtonit · 05/12/2025 05:55

ThatsRoughBuddy · 05/12/2025 00:59

I’ve had 7 GAs and 6 times I threw up the tea and toast I was given!

They can't get me to even try any food after. I was in overnight last year and refused any food other than water for 24hrs until I could go home. I was dreaming about mouldy avocadoes each time I fell asleep!

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