I'm not resentful of higher earners, but I don't understand how they cannot see how privileged and comfortable they are and how many choices their position opens up to them.
I don't understand the notion that earning more money leaves you with less, either. Maths is not my strong point, but last time I checked, 60% of £150k is more than 60% of £140k.
I have the life you seem to aspire to, earning £30k p/a. I don't get UC, but if my children were younger, maybe I would? And I have LA property.
I'll gladly swap. My job is decent, I enjoy my job, and there are a lot of training opportunities and room for growth.
My house, otoh, the thing that seems to cause the most envy...
It is not free. It is not even nearly free; it is only a few £ a month cheaper than a similar private letting would be, as I don't live in the SE, so our private rents, while still expensive, are more reasonable. On top of the rent, there is the expense of actually living here.
It is freezing. The heating is either on full blast and burning through money, or it is off. The thermostat, which has been replaced twice, just does not work. To get one that does work, I would need a new boiler, which I am not allowed to replace myself, even if I wanted to, and the LA won't replace it because they say the thermostat works as intended.
Ditto the radiators, they are tiny and inefficient, but even if I wanted to replace them myself, I am not allowed.
We have to be careful when we shower because the wetroom is pissing water into the kitchen. The kitchen light is broken, and the ceiling needs replacing, but it cannot be done until the bathroom is fixed. The bathroom repairs need approval from a manager. I've been waiting a month now for approval. This is something I would gladly pay for myself if I were allowed, but I'm not.
There is black mould all over DD's room, and they cannot seem to figure out who needs to fix it, so they just keep sending different specialists around to look at it. In the meantime, her room is colder than the rest of the freezing cold house because she has no wallpaper, and we cannot put wallpaper on until the mould is fixed.
The wallpaper in the hall needs replacing, but we daren't do it because that is all that is holding the plaster on the wall, and we know that once we remove the wallpaper and the wall will fall down, and it will take months to be repaired. Again, structural, so even if we wanted to repair it ourselves, we couldn't.
But yeah, my life is a piece of piss compared to someone who owns their home...