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I got fired today!!

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Amiunemployable · 27/11/2025 17:31

I started a new job on 1st September.

I was given an offer of employment letter when I started but never received a contract.

Today I was fired. Apparently I've had too much time off and failed my probation.

They've said I've had eleven days off. By my tally it's six days. Not eleven. Two were caused by migraines with aura which I've never had before and my GP reckons it was highly likely to have been caused by my office lighting as the migraines only started after I got the job. And since i stopped using the overhead office lights, (i sourced my own alternative) I've been migraine free.

I know it's still a high amount to have had off but I recieved PIP for a disability that does unfortunately mean it's difficult for me sometimes to get to work. But I've done my best.

Have I got a leg to stand on here? I never received a contract. Was never informed of a probation period. To then be told I'd failed a probation period that I didn't know existed? I signed nothing that mentioned probation.

I wasn't offered an extension to the probation period or a improvement plan, etc. Just straight dismissal, with no prior warning, for failing a probation period I didn't know existed. And also told I've had 11 days off and I don't think it's been that many.

OP posts:
Allthecoloursoftherainbow4 · 27/11/2025 18:56

Amiunemployable · 27/11/2025 17:31

I started a new job on 1st September.

I was given an offer of employment letter when I started but never received a contract.

Today I was fired. Apparently I've had too much time off and failed my probation.

They've said I've had eleven days off. By my tally it's six days. Not eleven. Two were caused by migraines with aura which I've never had before and my GP reckons it was highly likely to have been caused by my office lighting as the migraines only started after I got the job. And since i stopped using the overhead office lights, (i sourced my own alternative) I've been migraine free.

I know it's still a high amount to have had off but I recieved PIP for a disability that does unfortunately mean it's difficult for me sometimes to get to work. But I've done my best.

Have I got a leg to stand on here? I never received a contract. Was never informed of a probation period. To then be told I'd failed a probation period that I didn't know existed? I signed nothing that mentioned probation.

I wasn't offered an extension to the probation period or a improvement plan, etc. Just straight dismissal, with no prior warning, for failing a probation period I didn't know existed. And also told I've had 11 days off and I don't think it's been that many.

If you took a Friday off then the Monday following it this is sometimes counted as 4 days as the duration of your illness was 4 days.
Fridays and Mondays are also the most common days for people to be off sick when there is problem /persistent absence.

Rosscameasdoody · 27/11/2025 18:58

IwishIhadcheese · 27/11/2025 18:56

Some of my time off was due to the aura migraines caused by my office lights. Totally new for me.
Some other time was due to my son being poorly and having to look after him.
Another was a sickness bug.

It doesn’t appear that any of the absences were connected to ops disability. Op said that the migraines seem to be due to the lights, her son was unwell and she had a bug.

I agree, but it’s a very grey area in law and OP really needs to speak to ACAS who can clarify whether or not she has a case.

WimbyAce · 27/11/2025 18:58

Did the sick days fall over weekends? If so I imagine the weekends have been counted. EG if I was sick on a Thurs and didn't return until Monday that is counted as 4 days.

AmberRose86 · 27/11/2025 18:58

Rosscameasdoody · 27/11/2025 18:55

No they don’t. If you have a disability as defined by the Equality Act 2010 you have employment rights from day one, including the right to apply to sue for unfair dismissal.

That’s not right? They can sue for discrimination under EqA from day one but not unfair dismissal under the Employment Rights Act?

Rosscameasdoody · 27/11/2025 19:00

Horserider5678 · 27/11/2025 18:51

Sadly you have no rights to go to tribunal for unfair dismissal as you need to currently be in a job for 2 years!

It is your responsibility to chase for your contract and to be honest I’d not have started without one.

Sickness, as a manager 6 days in 3 months would be of concern to me but I’d be having conversations with you before now!

What would be more of a concern to me is that as a manager you are unaware that a disabled employee has rights from day one, not dependent on two years service.

LoudNoiseCantCope · 27/11/2025 19:00

Rosscameasdoody · 27/11/2025 18:55

No they don’t. If you have a disability as defined by the Equality Act 2010 you have employment rights from day one, including the right to apply to sue for unfair dismissal.

That’s only if the dismissal was related to disability. OP hasn’t given any indication that they knew about her disability, let alone dismissed her for it. They claim to have dismissed her due to her absence, none of which was related to her disability. Anyone can try to make a claim for unfair dismissal due to a protected characteristic (everyone has protected characteristics after all), doesn’t mean they’re right.

It’s shit OP, and I hope you find something else soon. Have a look at temping agencies.

Isobel201 · 27/11/2025 19:00

Amiunemployable · 27/11/2025 18:16

Look, I'm not actually looking to take this further or go to a tribunal or anything. I don't have that kind of fight in me.

I'm just worried about what I'm going to do going forward.

And yeah, I'm a bit annoyed that there was no contract, no mention of probation, no warnings. No back to work meetings after absences to discuss, etc. They were very happy with my work, and my time off hasn't been mentioned before today. As I said, there were no warnings, no discussions. It just feels shitty. No opportunities to improve and keep my job, etc.

You'll just have to continue looking for another job - next time declare your disability and migraines due to office lights. I agree it is a little shitty, but next time one of your kids is off, maybe ask if you can take it as unpaid leave or annual leave instead?

NeverDropYourMooncup · 27/11/2025 19:01

Rosscameasdoody · 27/11/2025 18:34

OP there’s some shit advice on here from posters who have clearly no experience of or empathy for disability, and how hard it can make finding and retaining employment. There is even less grasp of the law surrounding disability in the workplace.

Even if you didn’t declare your disability to your employer, so much time off within a short space of time could be considered to have been enough of a red flag for them to enquire as to whether you needed support. Instead of intervening in a timely manner, they appear to have waited it out until they could fire you. If there are grounds to think that the employer could reasonably have suspected a disability or health condition then it doesn’t matter whether you declared it or not. You need to ditch this thread and contact ACAS for proper, balanced advice as to your next step and whether or not you have a case for unfair dismissal.

Edited

As somebody with all the experience anybody could ever wish for of maintaining employment with disabilities (and also getting fired at times), this employer had - as a new starter - somebody taking time off almost immediately with headaches, a sick child and a tummy bug. None of those flag up an undeclared disability, they flag up a flaky employee who has only been there for a few days at most before calling in sick, then calling in 'my kid's sick' and then 'I'm sick' again.

Rosscameasdoody · 27/11/2025 19:02

AmberRose86 · 27/11/2025 18:58

That’s not right? They can sue for discrimination under EqA from day one but not unfair dismissal under the Employment Rights Act?

Edited

Yes, they can. The Equality Act confers right to apply for tribunal for unfair or constructive dismissal from day one if the employee is disabled, their disability meets the definition of disability under the Act, and the reason for the dismissal is thought to be connected to that disability. They apply to the tribunal service, who make the decision as to whether they have a case in law and approve or decline the application as appropriate.

AmberRose86 · 27/11/2025 19:03

IwishIhadcheese · 27/11/2025 18:52

Don’t be that person.

It’s a fair observation is it not?

My managers have always expected childcare responsibilities to be split and will always ask if the dad( and it’s always the dad) is doing his bit if the mum is starting to miss a disproportionate amount of work due to childcare issues. I’m a manager now and I’d do the same if it came up.

JKLolling · 27/11/2025 19:03

Rosscameasdoody · 27/11/2025 19:00

What would be more of a concern to me is that as a manager you are unaware that a disabled employee has rights from day one, not dependent on two years service.

I genuinely am not trying to be disablist.

But are you saying disable people should be unfirable from day 1 of any job regardless of what their disability is (my mild asthma counts as a disability for example) while people who don't consider themselves disabled should be held ti a much higher standard? How is this fair at all? If this would the case I would do everything I could not to hire a disabled person as an employer as you are then stuck paying for their multiple episodes of time off with no redress

YourLoyalPlumOP · 27/11/2025 19:04

No

thwy can fire you for any reason that isn’t protected before 2 years.

6 days is a extremely high amount. I started a job and have a disability and haven’t had a day off in any of the time. It’s been over 6 months now

there isn’t much you can do. I do have a disability but I’m lucky because I explained about mine which is stupidly rare. But it’s well managed. I get migraines with aura but I just push through.

it’s rubbish. I’m sorry. But sadly you’ve got no leg to stand on.

heatherberry · 27/11/2025 19:05

If you haven't declared your disability you can't sue them for discriminating against a protected characteristic.
You could have also requested or highlighted that you hadn't received a contract after starting with them (personally I would never start a job without a contract, that is a huge red flag). I don't think you've got much to stand on really. Without a contract and no declaration of any disability it's your word against theirs. 6 days or 11 days is neither here nor there in this case.

If this is a first job for you (which the impression of the post leads me to assume that it is?) take this as a big learning curve. Dust yourself off and get another job.

AmberRose86 · 27/11/2025 19:05

Rosscameasdoody · 27/11/2025 19:02

Yes, they can. The Equality Act confers right to apply for tribunal for unfair or constructive dismissal from day one if the employee is disabled, their disability meets the definition of disability under the Act, and the reason for the dismissal is thought to be connected to that disability. They apply to the tribunal service, who make the decision as to whether they have a case in law and approve or decline the application as appropriate.

Edited

That’s discrimination it’s not unfair dismissal. It’s legally not the same thing.

LoudNoiseCantCope · 27/11/2025 19:06

JKLolling · 27/11/2025 19:03

I genuinely am not trying to be disablist.

But are you saying disable people should be unfirable from day 1 of any job regardless of what their disability is (my mild asthma counts as a disability for example) while people who don't consider themselves disabled should be held ti a much higher standard? How is this fair at all? If this would the case I would do everything I could not to hire a disabled person as an employer as you are then stuck paying for their multiple episodes of time off with no redress

Edited

You can still dismiss someone if they are disabled, you just can’t dismiss them because of their disability, and you must make reasonable adjustments.

That doesn’t mean someone can just take endless sick leave, although a reasonable adjustment may be to allow them more absence if related to their disability before moving to formal capability. But no one would try to claim unlimited sickness absence is a reasonable adjustment.

Zov · 27/11/2025 19:07

Ah, that's a bit shit @Amiunemployable I am sorry to hear that. Did they know when you started that you have certain issues/conditions? If so, they should have been much more tolerant with you with the time off you have had. I hope you find something else soon, and you are NOT unemployable. However, as many posters have said, I don't think you have a leg to stand on here (sorry...)

Maybe best to wait til after Christmas now, and apply for something else, and be very upfront about your health issues.

All the best. Flowers Life sounds a bit shite for you just now. I wish you well. And yes, do apply for universal credit tomorrow!

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Rosscameasdoody · 27/11/2025 19:07

NeverDropYourMooncup · 27/11/2025 19:01

As somebody with all the experience anybody could ever wish for of maintaining employment with disabilities (and also getting fired at times), this employer had - as a new starter - somebody taking time off almost immediately with headaches, a sick child and a tummy bug. None of those flag up an undeclared disability, they flag up a flaky employee who has only been there for a few days at most before calling in sick, then calling in 'my kid's sick' and then 'I'm sick' again.

I agree, but what matters here is that the employer hasn’t bothered to ascertain any of that and has not intervened despite there being a probation period, to which sickness absence is linked. They have simply waited until the OP has crossed the line at which she can be dismissed. At the very least there should have been intervention, at which point OP could have declared her disability, and then it could have been determined whether or not the absences were due to that disability. If not, then there is likely no case to answer and any application to the tribunal service would be dismissed on those grounds.

ChristmasTimeChristmasJoy · 27/11/2025 19:07

Put in a claim for universal credit now.

JKLolling · 27/11/2025 19:08

LoudNoiseCantCope · 27/11/2025 19:06

You can still dismiss someone if they are disabled, you just can’t dismiss them because of their disability, and you must make reasonable adjustments.

That doesn’t mean someone can just take endless sick leave, although a reasonable adjustment may be to allow them more absence if related to their disability before moving to formal capability. But no one would try to claim unlimited sickness absence is a reasonable adjustment.

Well if unlimited sickness absence isn't a reasonable adjustment then OP being disabled is nothing to do with anything then is it?

Twinkylightsg · 27/11/2025 19:08

Amiunemployable · 27/11/2025 17:43

I understand the time off is high. I've acknowledged that. I also understand that it's perfectly reasonable as grounds for dismissal.

What I'm disputing is, firstly, the number of days. I believe it's 6, not 11. Secondly, I never received a contract of employment, nor was I made aware, either written or verbally, that there was a probation period or what length it was. So, the first I've heard of the probation is when I'm being told I'd failed it.

It was an office based admin role.

I don't know of any jobs that dont have a probation period. Do you?

poppy2024 · 27/11/2025 19:08

Did you get paid full while off ?

AmberRose86 · 27/11/2025 19:08

Twinkylightsg · 27/11/2025 19:08

I don't know of any jobs that dont have a probation period. Do you?

It’s not a thinggggg it means nothinggggg

Laura95167 · 27/11/2025 19:08

Amiunemployable · 27/11/2025 17:56

Look, i don't even know what I want here, but I've just lost my job right before Christmas. We're in a cost of living crisis, I've got a disability and a seven year old to support, and the job market is dire at the moment.

Hence my username - it took me months to get this job!

Some of my time off was due to the aura migraines caused by my office lights. Totally new for me.

Some other time was due to my son being poorly and having to look after him.

Another was a sickness bug.

All totally unfortunate but happened in quick succession.

Most office jobs do have probation periods, and that is 3 separate sickness incidents and one special leave to care for your child.

Your sickness period in days may also count weekends i.e. Friday and Monday, is 4 days of sickness not 2.

Youre clearly capable of securing a job, so next time I would disclose your disability. You may have recieved more leniency if they knew about a protected condition

YourLoyalPlumOP · 27/11/2025 19:09

Amiunemployable · 27/11/2025 18:16

Look, I'm not actually looking to take this further or go to a tribunal or anything. I don't have that kind of fight in me.

I'm just worried about what I'm going to do going forward.

And yeah, I'm a bit annoyed that there was no contract, no mention of probation, no warnings. No back to work meetings after absences to discuss, etc. They were very happy with my work, and my time off hasn't been mentioned before today. As I said, there were no warnings, no discussions. It just feels shitty. No opportunities to improve and keep my job, etc.

They dont have to though

its shit. But they’ve done everything they needed too

Doteycat · 27/11/2025 19:10

Rosscameasdoody · 27/11/2025 19:07

I agree, but what matters here is that the employer hasn’t bothered to ascertain any of that and has not intervened despite there being a probation period, to which sickness absence is linked. They have simply waited until the OP has crossed the line at which she can be dismissed. At the very least there should have been intervention, at which point OP could have declared her disability, and then it could have been determined whether or not the absences were due to that disability. If not, then there is likely no case to answer and any application to the tribunal service would be dismissed on those grounds.

Theres nothing to ascertain.
Call 1. Ive a migraine cos of the lights, I wont be in.
Call 2. My son is sick i wont be in.
Call 3. Im sick with a bug i wont be in.

There is nothing to ascertain. Its v clear it has nothing to do with any disability.
You can try push the narrative that the employer didnt give a shit, but you are wrong. The employer looked at the facts and acted on that. End of.